
Virgorean
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Posted by dolluxeThat's is correct. These are the healthy and happy type marriages also. The kind that you believe to be "perfect" in everything where honesty and trust runs deep and rampant, but this is their dark secret.
Typically occurs in happy marriages? Wow that's new to me. Then again I've never been married so what do I know?
Anyway, no I don't and would never participate in it.

Posted by andstillPosted by dolluxehangout with enough kinky foreigners and you might get invited to threesomes 😐
Typically occurs in happy marriages? Wow that's new to me. Then again I've never been married so what do I know?
Anyway, no I don't and would never participate in it.click to expand

Posted by AliensusedourbogrollInteresting. Please elaborate.
I can see the appeal.

Posted by andstillHe can. Sometimes. Different experiences. But when I mean sexually involved. He never porks her.Posted by Virgoreandoesn't he lick the wife's pussy after she gets a creampie?Posted by andstillPosted by dolluxehangout with enough kinky foreigners and you might get invited to threesomes 😐
Typically occurs in happy marriages? Wow that's new to me. Then again I've never been married so what do I know?
Anyway, no I don't and would never participate in it.
This is a different type of threesome. The other partner is in no way involved physically during the sexual act.
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Posted by dolluxeBe open minded. It's not crazy, more as it is considered psychological. It's similar to a woman who can orgasm off of thoughts alone. Yes, it happens.Posted by andstillWhen I was on OKC I got a message from a Filipino chic saying she and her American hubby are looking for open-minded girls who can have a little bit of " fun" with them.Posted by dolluxehangout with enough kinky foreigners and you might get invited to threesomes 😐
Typically occurs in happy marriages? Wow that's new to me. Then again I've never been married so what do I know?
Anyway, no I don't and would never participate in it.
Just when I thought filipinos on OKC were creepy, I got that message. I'm kinky but I won't fucking share my man let alone have a threesome with strangers. Jayzus.click to expand

Posted by confusingconfusedDoes he pay him? Does it happen frequently or is it one and done?
A Polish guy told me a Vietnamese guy friend of his likes to watch him fuck his wife.

Posted by andstillTypically, the partners only want to watch. They jerk off after.Posted by Virgoreanok i thought sometimes he'd have her afterPosted by andstillHe can. Sometimes. Different experiences. But when I mean sexually involved. He never parks her.Posted by Virgoreandoesn't he lick the wife's pussy after she gets a creampie?Posted by andstillPosted by dolluxehangout with enough kinky foreigners and you might get invited to threesomes 😐
Typically occurs in happy marriages? Wow that's new to me. Then again I've never been married so what do I know?
Anyway, no I don't and would never participate in it.
This is a different type of threesome. The other partner is in no way involved physically during the sexual act.
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Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by VirgoreanFor me it would about the partners pleasure. I would get off on them getting off. Them having pleasure makes me happy.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollInteresting. Please elaborate.
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Posted by dolluxeI respect that. It isn't the norm and not many people know of its existence.Posted by VirgoreanI'm not judging people who are into threesomes. It's just not my cup of tea.Posted by dolluxeBe open minded. It's not crazy, more as it is considered psychological. It's similar to a woman who can orgasm off of thoughts alone. Yes, it happens.Posted by andstillWhen I was on OKC I got a message from a Filipino chic saying she and her American hubby are looking for open-minded girls who can have a little bit of " fun" with them.Posted by dolluxehangout with enough kinky foreigners and you might get invited to threesomes 😐
Typically occurs in happy marriages? Wow that's new to me. Then again I've never been married so what do I know?
Anyway, no I don't and would never participate in it.
Just when I thought filipinos on OKC were creepy, I got that message. I'm kinky but I won't fucking share my man let alone have a threesome with strangers. Jayzus.click to expand

Posted by yupvirgooIf your wife were to come to you and tell you she'd like to explore this, how would you react?
Nope.


Posted by yupvirgooYou would be very surprised the amount of depravity that lies in someone's mind.Posted by VirgoreanShe totally doesn't.Posted by yupvirgooIf your wife were to come to you and tell you she'd like to explore this, how would you react?
Nope.
Not even a possibility.
Not even in another dimension.
She's a Taurus sun with lots of Leo and Pisces in her.click to expand

Posted by BuffaloBills28
Lol. Is this a serious question? Go off on seeing your partner be with someone else.... What is this world coming to.. Tragic.

Posted by confusingconfusedAnd not a treat for himself? Does he jerk off to it?Posted by VirgoreanPosted by confusingconfusedDoes he pay him? Does it happen frequently or is it one and done?
A Polish guy told me a Vietnamese guy friend of his likes to watch him fuck his wife.
I think the Vietnamese guy sees it as a treat for his wife (you know Asians have small penis). It's like once a month or once every couple of months. I think it went on for a few years now.
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Posted by yupvirgooInteresting. I haven't heard that type. Although, not so sure it can be categorized as cuckold since it is apparent she disapproves of it. But thanks for sharing.Posted by VirgoreanWell then since you are a Virgo and a very curious one too...Posted by yupvirgooYou would be very surprised the amount of depravity that lies in someone's mind.Posted by VirgoreanShe totally doesn't.Posted by yupvirgooIf your wife were to come to you and tell you she'd like to explore this, how would you react?
Nope.
Not even a possibility.
Not even in another dimension.
She's a Taurus sun with lots of Leo and Pisces in her.
I had an SO whom I was with for 5 years. I didn't know about this fetish of his until the 4th year. Believe me when I say it was very difficult for him to come clean with it. Ironically, he acted extreme jealous. But cuckolding manages to separate the two realities. Which is why it intrigues me.
I do know a couple who are.... kinda odd.
Once a year the woman hires 5 women to have sex with her husband for a whole day.
Then she comes to me crying about it (we are distantly related).
She tells me it's her way of preventing him from cheating.
To let him get it out of his system.
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Posted by dolluxeCuckolding. It started with hypothetical thoughts. He wanted me to envision being with other men during foreplay and speak out loud those thoughts. Then he wanted me to envision myself with his close friends and call him their names. From there it lead to going to the club and dancing with random men and pretending he wasn't there. He wanted us to act as two complete strangers and he was comfortable with the men touching me, but I most certainly was not. It ended there. But there were so many things he talked about wanting me to do if I would have become more comfortable.Posted by VirgoreanCuckolding or threesome?
@dolluxe
Not to the extreme, but I had an ex who was very serious about it.
Mine was more of thoughts than actions.
I can't do cuckolding but I guess threesomes are hot. Maybe I can do with fantasies? I'm territorial when in a relationship. I'd be crayyyyyzy jealous if I see my man fucking another chick in front of me.click to expand

Posted by yupvirgooThat isn't cuckolding. That is emotional abuse by manipulating her with threats of cheating. I am very sorry for your friend.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollShe's a water sign too- I don't want to say which one tho. 😢Posted by yupvirgooThat really sux. For me that's not a healthy reason to do it. Both parties should genuinely be ok with it. I would understand a little jealousy but not to the point you cry about it.Posted by VirgoreanWell then since you are a Virgo and a very curious one too...Posted by yupvirgooYou would be very surprised the amount of depravity that lies in someone's mind.Posted by VirgoreanShe totally doesn't.Posted by yupvirgooIf your wife were to come to you and tell you she'd like to explore this, how would you react?
Nope.
Not even a possibility.
Not even in another dimension.
She's a Taurus sun with lots of Leo and Pisces in her.
I had an SO whom I was with for 5 years. I didn't know about this fetish of his until the 4th year. Believe me when I say it was very difficult for him to come clean with it. Ironically, he acted extreme jealous. But cuckolding manages to separate the two realities. Which is why it intrigues me.
I do know a couple who are.... kinda odd.
Once a year the woman hires 5 women to have sex with her husband for a whole day.
Then she comes to me crying about it (we are distantly related).
She tells me it's her way of preventing him from cheating.
To let him get it out of his system.
*smfh
He's an air sign.
I will always see him as a doucheazz.
I don't care about progressive bullshyte when you're making a woman cry.
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Posted by VirgoreanOh I don't think it's similar to that at all.Posted by dolluxeBe open minded. It's not crazy, more as it is considered psychological. It's similar to a woman who can orgasm off of thoughts alone. Yes, it happens.Posted by andstillWhen I was on OKC I got a message from a Filipino chic saying she and her American hubby are looking for open-minded girls who can have a little bit of " fun" with them.Posted by dolluxehangout with enough kinky foreigners and you might get invited to threesomes 😐
Typically occurs in happy marriages? Wow that's new to me. Then again I've never been married so what do I know?
Anyway, no I don't and would never participate in it.
Just when I thought filipinos on OKC were creepy, I got that message. I'm kinky but I won't fucking share my man let alone have a threesome with strangers. Jayzus.click to expand

Posted by MontgomeryPosted by VirgoreanOh I don't think it's similar to that at all.Posted by dolluxeBe open minded. It's not crazy, more as it is considered psychological. It's similar to a woman who can orgasm off of thoughts alone. Yes, it happens.Posted by andstillWhen I was on OKC I got a message from a Filipino chic saying she and her American hubby are looking for open-minded girls who can have a little bit of " fun" with them.Posted by dolluxehangout with enough kinky foreigners and you might get invited to threesomes 😐
Typically occurs in happy marriages? Wow that's new to me. Then again I've never been married so what do I know?
Anyway, no I don't and would never participate in it.
Just when I thought filipinos on OKC were creepy, I got that message. I'm kinky but I won't fucking share my man let alone have a threesome with strangers. Jayzus.
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Posted by SofiaV87Believe me, I was in denial mode when it was first proposed to me. I think I had a mental shutdown.
Yes this is pretty popular .. If your're both down to bang other ppl , watch & not get upset in the least bit , more power to u .. Cuz I'm not the one hahaha I would freak the fk out

Posted by BuffaloBills28its been around for ages.
Lol. Is this a serious question? Go off on seeing your partner be with someone else.... What is this world coming to.. Tragic.

Posted by justagirlThank you. But this is an extreme form of that. An evolved form.Posted by BuffaloBills28its been around for ages.
Lol. Is this a serious question? Go off on seeing your partner be with someone else.... What is this world coming to.. Tragic.
vo·yeur
voiˈyər,vwäˈyər/Submit
noun
a person who gains sexual pleasure from watching others when they are naked or engaged in sexual activity.click to expand

Posted by VirgoreanI am aware.. i just felt his response was a bit judgemental and to act like shit like this hasn't been around forever is a bit extreme.Posted by justagirlThank you. But this is an extreme form of that. An evolved form.Posted by BuffaloBills28its been around for ages.
Lol. Is this a serious question? Go off on seeing your partner be with someone else.... What is this world coming to.. Tragic.
vo·yeur
voiˈyər,vwäˈyər/Submit
noun
a person who gains sexual pleasure from watching others when they are naked or engaged in sexual activity.click to expand

Posted by octobersveryown
I know cuckolding requires a lot of trust and respect for your partner, this sense of equality, to describe it in the least amount of words possible, but I think the only reason that the majority of these "happy" couples are described as happy is because they're bored with their marriage or just want to try something new. Many are also afraid of losing their partners. I now know that that's what it was with her, as she told me herself she had deep insecurity issues... Maybe they were too young, maybe they never really connected with anyone on a deeper level, and perhaps the connection isn't as mutual as one would think it is, and so it's alright with them to see their significant other with someone else.

Posted by justagirlPosted by VirgoreanI am aware.. i just felt his response was a bit judgemental and to act like shit like this hasn't been around forever is a bit extreme.Posted by justagirlThank you. But this is an extreme form of that. An evolved form.Posted by BuffaloBills28its been around for ages.
Lol. Is this a serious question? Go off on seeing your partner be with someone else.... What is this world coming to.. Tragic.
vo·yeur
voiˈyər,vwäˈyər/Submit
noun
a person who gains sexual pleasure from watching others when they are naked or engaged in sexual activity.
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Posted by Virgorean
Inspired by another post.
Cuckolding: A fetish that incorporates a partner receiving sexual gratification watching his/her partner having sex with other men/women.
Definition is broad, but there are a variety of types. Typically occurs in happy marriages.
Let's explore. Do you participate in it or know of others who have? Thoughts? Experiences?






Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Maybe it's my Virgo Venus, but I'm so not into that shit. Reading the word 'cuckold', let alone the thought of it, makes me wanna
Air,


Posted by ChoXtsyLike it's bad enough a guy shoving the tongue down your throat and now this wth. —
All I know is when I came across a cuck hold video on xnxx, and saw the husband lick up the other mans nut, like a little bitch. I was grossed out. Blegh


Posted by VirgoreanI will never ever stop her in pursuing her dream or passion or whatever it is but I'll be out from her life.Posted by yupvirgooIf your wife were to come to you and tell you she'd like to explore this, how would you react?
Nope.click to expand



Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Alot of God's and Goddesses had alot wives/males or I one woman then a side chick was near or vise versa with the opposite sex. So when did it change back in the era to now.

Posted by tizianiWhat?? Really?? Common fetish? To see our partner receiving it from someone else?? I think I'm too old school for this era 😐
Also, last I read it was the 1st or 2nd most common fetish today. I really don't think it could qualify as being "taboo" in all honesty.

Posted by Infinite8?
I would become a nightmare if I were subjected to this.
I don't share my partner.

Posted by tizianiYeah. Definitely not common worldwide.Posted by TeenaWell you never know, I think the place I read that was an American social science site or it may have even just been a newspaper article but I think it was American.Posted by tizianiWhat?? Really?? Common fetish? To see our partner receiving it from someone else?? I think I'm too old school for this era 😐
Also, last I read it was the 1st or 2nd most common fetish today. I really don't think it could qualify as being "taboo" in all honesty.
So it might not be common worldwide.
Either way what is old school really? These things go in circles IMO.
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Posted by Infinite8Cheating is one thing...seeing your partner cheat(this feels like it) is a whole different level thing !!
I would become a nightmare if I were subjected to this.
I don't share my partner.

Posted by TeenaI mean. . your partner cheating on you is one thing n seeing that is another... damn the editing thing. I still didn't figure that out 😛Posted by Infinite8Cheating is one thing...seeing your partner cheat(this feels like it) is a whole different level thing !!
I would become a nightmare if I were subjected to this.
I don't share my partner.click to expand

Posted by Infinite8There's no way I'll get any sorta pleasure seeing my SO doing that with some other woman.Eff that! I don't even watch porn. I just find the whole concept disgusting.... To watch someone having an intercourse on tv or whatever let alone my SO. That has got nothing to do with the place I come from or any other religious or cultural reasons. I just respect the act of physical intimacy so much n I expect it to be just between two people. I feel it's called "love-making" for a reason. I don't have anything against anyone who thinks otherwise though.Posted by TeenaIt is a whole other level that I am just not open to subject myself to. I cannot pretend to be ok with something I clearly know would bring out the worst in me.Posted by Infinite8Cheating is one thing...seeing your partner cheat(this feels like it) is a whole different level thing !!
I would become a nightmare if I were subjected to this.
I don't share my partner.
When I have a partner... I merge with him. It is a closeness that doesn't really allow you to be too cool with such freeing experiences.
It is less of a nightmare if you do not love the person.
I guess I would take the matter too deeply and too personal to find it fun.
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Posted by yupvirgoo
I don't know why women always do this shyte to me.
They're always confessing dark things.
Do I look like a priest?
That cringey night was only one of many cringey nights when women say and do things that sends my brain to another dimension.
*cringe

Posted by Tirano24Most occasions swingers are rich old people who having nothing better to do the sex parties. This new gen form swingers are mostly middle age middle class people who have a weird fantasy to watch their lover fuck someone. I've trying to figure out what happens to them mentally.Posted by VirgoreanI don't quite understand why someone would let someone else have sex with their partner IN FRONT OF them. Absurd. This must be some sort of taboo. I don't fancy it.
Inspired by another post.
Cuckolding: A fetish that incorporates a partner receiving sexual gratification watching his/her partner having sex with other men/women.
Definition is broad, but there are a variety of types. Typically occurs in happy marriages.
Let's explore. Do you participate in it or know of others who have? Thoughts? Experiences?
So is there a gray area? The term 'swingers' comes to mind.click to expand

Posted by octobersveryownGood point. All those fears are brought to the forefront if a partnership chooses to initiate in cuckolding. Communication is essential to prevent insecurity issues. Agreements on what is permitted and not permitted are especially important. There are terms set in place before, during, and after to prevent a rise of emotions. I've read couples who only allow the partner to have sex with a stranger once and only once. Some do not allow kissing because it evokes emotion. Another where there is absolutely no contact with the participant before or after sex except from the cuckold who needs to relay information. Each motive cuts off a connection from developing, which may potentially lead to emotional cheating. Thus, if a marriage has a strong foundation then their relationship will persevere following the aftermath.Posted by Virgoreanyea I see how cuckolding and S&M relate, one is more emotional while the other more physical, respectively.Posted by octobersveryown
I know cuckolding requires a lot of trust and respect for your partner, this sense of equality, to describe it in the least amount of words possible, but I think the only reason that the majority of these "happy" couples are described as happy is because they're bored with their marriage or just want to try something new. Many are also afraid of losing their partners. I now know that that's what it was with her, as she told me herself she had deep insecurity issues... Maybe they were too young, maybe they never really connected with anyone on a deeper level, and perhaps the connection isn't as mutual as one would think it is, and so it's alright with them to see their significant other with someone else.
I agree, it isn't for everyone. Hence, why it's taboo, but becoming more brought out into the open because of exposure and society becoming more adaptable to different perspectives.
Yes, it is an exploration for exploring new fantasies. But it goes deeper than happiness. It's purely sexual which is why it only works on partnerships where the two are committed as one emotionally and can separate fantasy from reality.
As for the fears, it is brought up, but I wouldnt say that is the underlying factor of cuckolding. Cuckolding is a form of S&M. While no physical pain is present, it encompasses emotional pain instead. And this type of pain is masochistic in nature because it demoralizes the partner who is experiencing it. But that is what makes it sadistic because these are the people who get off on those types of experiences. Although, who is one to judge what another person's pleasures are and should be? Some people prefer physical pain itself and yet, that is seen at a higher regard.
This very type of judgement is why cuckolding isn't well known and why partners keep it out of the public. Because the norm has dictated what is acceptable and not acceptable sexually.
As for levels of respect that goes to each, I've never measured it statistically so I can't make a comment on that.
The statement in bold is what I'm focusing on here.
Although the intention of cuckolding is to be a purely sexual act, people involved can and probably do start to gain more of an intimate state with one another. Again, nothing wrong with that because different things work for different people, but if there's any reason for it being taboo I think it's more so due to the fact that people who aren't aware of what it's all about have this fear of losing their partner to what's called "emotionally cheating". That's what the woman I'm talking about referred to it as. And, if people have a problem with cuckolding, then that is what it is: their fear of there being to some degree or another emotional cheating.
Otherwise, I doubt it would be so taboo.
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Cuckolding: A fetish that incorporates a partner receiving sexual gratification watching his/her partner having sex with other men/women.
Definition is broad, but there are a variety of types. Typically occurs in happy marriages.
Let's explore. Do you participate in it or know of others who have? Thoughts? Experiences?