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Posted by tizianiIn today's society part in due that people are becoming increasingly more acceptable of different views. But cuckolding has been around for years and the first of my hearing was a few years ago. Take a look at this thread, there are many here who have still never heard of it until now. Not as common as you would think.
Also, last I read it was the 1st or 2nd most common fetish today. I really don't think it could qualify as being "taboo" in all honesty.
Posted by pinkbird03Any particular aspect that drives you to this realm? How did you break it down to them? Did you use hints or go full out? How did your boyfriends react?
I have fantasies about this sort of stuff and two different boyfriends were aware of it, but I've never actually gone through with it. Maybe someday
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Not a single sign. He was very territorial and the jealous Alpha male.
Omg 4 years and you find out a secret of a fetish you just can't over look. There had to be actions to see this in person before. But we over look alot of things just to make peace and love.
Posted by Infinite8This is merging. You are accepting all of your partner including his/her depravities. The ones that are successful have built a foundation of love AND trust. This is about as vulnerable as one can get.Posted by TeenaIt is a whole other level that I am just not open to subject myself to. I cannot pretend to be ok with something I clearly know would bring out the worst in me.Posted by Infinite8Cheating is one thing...seeing your partner cheat(this feels like it) is a whole different level thing !!
I would become a nightmare if I were subjected to this.
I don't share my partner.
When I have a partner... I merge with him. It is a closeness that doesn't really allow you to be too cool with such freeing experiences.
It is less of a nightmare if you do not love the person.
I guess I would take the matter too deeply and too personal to find it fun.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428That is polygamy. Completely different concept.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Alot of God's and Goddesses had alot wives/males or I one woman then a side chick was near or vise versa with the opposite sex. So when did it change back in the era to now.click to expand
Posted by Tirano24It's digs into the mind.Posted by VirgoreanI don't quite understand why someone would let someone else have sex with their partner IN FRONT OF them. Absurd. This must be some sort of taboo. I don't fancy it.
Inspired by another post.
Cuckolding: A fetish that incorporates a partner receiving sexual gratification watching his/her partner having sex with other men/women.
Definition is broad, but there are a variety of types. Typically occurs in happy marriages.
Let's explore. Do you participate in it or know of others who have? Thoughts? Experiences?
So is there a gray area? The term 'swingers' comes to mind.click to expand
This is completely different from couples who swing. Swingers participate in the physical pleasure of sex.
In cuckolding, it’s all about his mentality:
1). The 'beta' male (the one who receives gratification from watching his wife shag) is experiencing emotional pain via S&M. He feels shame, degraded, disrespect and sometimes treated as such by having his wife calling him names, worthless, making comparisons during the act. Yet, the Beta relishes this mental pain.
2). The Beta sees it as a feeling of power and dominance. He is envisioning himself in the position of the 'bull' aka Alpha male (the guy who is plowing the wife). The Beta’s mindset is he finds pure power in screwing another man’s wife in front of him.
Although for it to be successful, it incorporates many key elements: Love, commitment, communication, honesty, and trust.
Let me bring it down a notch since there are many riled by the very idea of you or your SO with another man/woman.
If a person who is very close, be it a friend or family member, someone that you have known for years, and not simply an acquaintance were to approach you about their interest in this sexual adventure, how would you react to such a revelation?
If a person who is very close, be it a friend or family member, someone that you have known for years, and not simply an acquaintance were to approach you about their interest in this sexual adventure, how would you react to such a revelation?
Posted by Gem_from_VenusIt is a bitter tea indeed not many can handle, myself included. 😉
I'm not sure what would be the worst torture...watching my SO do it with someone else or watching my SO watch me do it with someone else. Definitely not my cup of tea. o_O
Posted by Infinite8⚘Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428??Posted by Infinite8?
I would become a nightmare if I were subjected to this.
I don't share my partner.
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Posted by VirgoreanGood luck trying to get people here to understand this concept, OP.
Let me bring it down a notch since there are many riled by the very idea of you or your SO with another man/woman.
If a person who is very close, be it a friend or family member, someone that you have known for years, and not simply an acquaintance were to approach you about their interest in this sexual adventure, how would you react to such a revelation?
A lot of people here don't or won't understand it, mostly for their own personal reasons.
And most of the ones who do, won't say anything or add in positive input, for fear of angry villagers with pitchforks and torches raised.
Personally for me, I've done this a couple of times before.
I'm a voyeur so I'm usually the one watching. It is as big a turn on for me to watch my partner being pleasured as it is for her to be pleasured.
The only issue is I am a stickler for boundaries.
I'm a voyeur so I'm usually the one watching. It is as big a turn on for me to watch my partner being pleasured as it is for her to be pleasured.
The only issue is I am a stickler for boundaries.
Posted by Infinite8I actually agree with the OP that this is also a form of merging.
No, to merge with another is for two to become one. It is to be so enveloped into the other person that you two become indistinguishable as individuals.
What you are talking about is something else. It is the level of acceptance you have on another being. And for that, I admire your ability to accept that level of another's depravities. But it goes beyond my limit. I am not so accepting of another's philandering, cheating or deep need to be with more other than me.
Everyone has different needs and I just made sure I picked a partner that was similar to me in that department.
The only difference that you both are coming from different directions and both have very different value systems and approaches. But the result is the same (two become one).
What if he likes seeing how other people desire her sexually and gets a kick out of that. He wants to see other guys droolin over his woman literally lol. He wants to see how she can arouse another man and pleasure another man and how she'd be willing to do all this because she loves her husband. Or maybe he gets off knowing others find her sexually attractive, want to have sex with her and she's his, she belongs to him. So he can relish the fact that these other dudes are sexually into her, that she can satisfy others yet she's his at the end of the day. It's knowing others get off to her but that she's his and he take her back from them whenever he wants. It could basically be the ultimate power trip, which would explain why alpha types would like it. Because he's in control of the whole thing. If he's jealous by nature he'd get mad because he wasn't controlling the situation if someone happened to flirt with her without his consent and if he thought she wanted that. It's kinda like he's giving her something but he still has her on a leash because he's approving the situation. Which makes it seem very dominant, sadist maybe? I dunno the terms.
Also I just wanna add that a friend of mine found out his gf had a 3sum previously and he flipped out. He was insanely jealous even though it was in the past. All those scenarios were running through his head, his imagination went wild but that made him want her even more. As if he had to reclaim her as his. It's almost like he was more sexually attracted to her knowing others had wanted her such a way.
Posted by Infinite8Yes, that is a given that you won't understand. Your value system and approach to relationships in general are different from those of the OP's.Posted by Ram416Two merge into one with the help of the third?Posted by Infinite8I actually agree with the OP that this is also a form of merging.
No, to merge with another is for two to become one. It is to be so enveloped into the other person that you two become indistinguishable as individuals.
What you are talking about is something else. It is the level of acceptance you have on another being. And for that, I admire your ability to accept that level of another's depravities. But it goes beyond my limit. I am not so accepting of another's philandering, cheating or deep need to be with more other than me.
Everyone has different needs and I just made sure I picked a partner that was similar to me in that department.
The only difference that you both are coming from different directions and both have very different value systems and approaches. But the result is the same (two become one).
I'm sorry... I really don't understand the concept.
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But that doesn't change the fact that the end result is pretty much the same.
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollWhat's the other part of your mindset out of curiosity?Posted by PancakeFaceThat would be part of my mindset if I were to do it.
What if he likes seeing how other people desire her sexually and gets a kick out of that. He wants to see other guys droolin over his woman literally lol. He wants to see how she can arouse another man and pleasure another man and how she'd be willing to do all this because she loves her husband. Or maybe he gets off knowing others find her sexually attractive, want to have sex with her and she's his, she belongs to him. So he can relish the fact that these other dudes are sexually into her, that she can satisfy others yet she's his at the end of the day. It's knowing others get off to her but that she's his and he take her back from them whenever he wants. It could basically be the ultimate power trip, which would explain why alpha types would like it. Because he's in control of the whole thing. If he's jealous by nature he'd get mad because he wasn't controlling the situation if someone happened to flirt with her without his consent and if he thought she wanted that. It's kinda like he's giving her something but he still has her on a leash because he's approving the situation. Which makes it seem very dominant, sadist maybe? I dunno the terms.click to expand
Posted by Infinite8Maybe that's why it just stays a fantasy for most people?Posted by PancakeFacePower trips, alpha mentality of getting the hottest girl, getting of on the idea of others wanting her. I can see that happening on a superficial level - but I by no means equate that to love.
What if he likes seeing how other people desire her sexually and gets a kick out of that. He wants to see other guys droolin over his woman literally lol. He wants to see how she can arouse another man and pleasure another man and how she'd be willing to do all this because she loves her husband. Or maybe he gets off knowing others find her sexually attractive, want to have sex with her and she's his, she belongs to him. So he can relish the fact that these other dudes are sexually into her, that she can satisfy others yet she's his at the end of the day. It's knowing others get off to her but that she's his and he take her back from them whenever he wants. It could basically be the ultimate power trip, which would explain why alpha types would like it. Because he's in control of the whole thing. If he's jealous by nature he'd get mad because he wasn't controlling the situation if someone happened to flirt with her without his consent and if he thought she wanted that. It's kinda like he's giving her something but he still has her on a leash because he's approving the situation. Which makes it seem very dominant, sadist maybe? I dunno the terms.
Just sounds like fun and games to me...
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Posted by Infinite8I didn't assume anything. You admitted that you don't understand the concept. I said nothing nor questioned your ability to understand the concept. What I did say was that you have different values and approaches which may give you the idea that you have a different answer, when in actual fact the answer is the same.Posted by Ram416Well that's unfortunate that you assume I don't have the ability to understand when that is the very thing I am trying to figure out. If you've managed to understand both forms... it's possible for others to come to a point to understand it as well. Given a proper explaination. It's just that at this point, I still haven't gotten one.Posted by Infinite8Yes, that is a given that you won't understand. Your value system and approach to relationships in general are different from those of the OP's.Posted by Ram416Two merge into one with the help of the third?Posted by Infinite8I actually agree with the OP that this is also a form of merging.
No, to merge with another is for two to become one. It is to be so enveloped into the other person that you two become indistinguishable as individuals.
What you are talking about is something else. It is the level of acceptance you have on another being. And for that, I admire your ability to accept that level of another's depravities. But it goes beyond my limit. I am not so accepting of another's philandering, cheating or deep need to be with more other than me.
Everyone has different needs and I just made sure I picked a partner that was similar to me in that department.
The only difference that you both are coming from different directions and both have very different value systems and approaches. But the result is the same (two become one).
I'm sorry... I really don't understand the concept.
But that doesn't change the fact that the end result is pretty much the same.
According to Tiz, he said it was a form of mental connection. My question is if that is what you mean by it being another form of merging? If so, how does that work with a third party?
As for the 2nd part, Tiz already answered.
Posted by tiziani
When I'm into a woman, I'm into watching her in all senses yes. Alone or not. Even if you're watching someone you love with other people, you never really see the other people. It sounds cold but they're basically just walking sex toys. Your entire focus is on her. So is theirs. And that can be a heightened experience for someone who gets "emotionally stoned" from drawing the full focus around them onto them.... It's feel like a privilege when she opens herself up to being vulnerable and actually letting you see that happen.
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Posted by Infinite8If a man chooses to expose his darkness then he will take the highest risk-the fear of losing his beloved. It in itself is vulnerability. Even if she were to reject the idea and he apologizes profusely and they move on from the discussion self doubt of his love will be imposed upon the woman because a seed has already been planted. Once the idea has been incepted, it cannot be forgotten.
I also do not agree with you in that to cuckold is to be vulnerable. I don't find it vulnerable, I find it humiliating. I would not subject myself or anyone that I love to do something like that.
@Ram416, @tiziani, @Infinite8
I'm was well aware of the criticism, but appreciate each of your insights thus far.
I was aiming for a neutral approach since these are topics I cannot discuss with my close ones. Even if I attempted to approach them from an unbiased view the outcome will not come out on a positive note.
I'm was well aware of the criticism, but appreciate each of your insights thus far.
I was aiming for a neutral approach since these are topics I cannot discuss with my close ones. Even if I attempted to approach them from an unbiased view the outcome will not come out on a positive note.
e> Posted by Infinite8It can be approached either way. The former will allow you to empathize since you are removed from the situation. The latter is more relevant since you will be looked upon as a confidant outlining the reason for disclosure.Posted by VirgoreanAs in them telling me they are interested in doing it
Let me bring it down a notch since there are many riled by the very idea of you or your SO with another man/woman.
If a person who is very close, be it a friend or family member, someone that you have known for years, and not simply an acquaintance were to approach you about their interest in this sexual adventure, how would you react to such a revelation?
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As in they are interested in doing it with me?
Posted by Ram416I am curious...How did you break it down to her? Did you gradually introduce it? Or were you referring strictly to voyeurism?
Personally for me, I've done this a couple of times before.
I'm a voyeur so I'm usually the one watching. It is as big a turn on for me to watch my partner being pleasured as it is for her to be pleasured.
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Posted by PancakeFace
What if he likes seeing how other people desire her sexually and gets a kick out of that. He wants to see other guys droolin over his woman literally lol. He wants to see how she can arouse another man and pleasure another man and how she'd be willing to do all this because she loves her husband. Or maybe he gets off knowing others find her sexually attractive, want to have sex with her and she's his, she belongs to him. So he can relish the fact that these other dudes are sexually into her, that she can satisfy others yet she's his at the end of the day. It's knowing others get off to her but that she's his and he take her back from them whenever he wants. It could basically be the ultimate power trip, which would explain why alpha types would like it. Because he's in control of the whole thing. If he's jealous by nature he'd get mad because he wasn't controlling the situation if someone happened to flirt with her without his consent and if he thought she wanted that. It's kinda like he's giving her something but he still has her on a leash because he's approving the situation. Which makes it seem very dominant, sadist maybe? I dunno the terms.
Yes. Dominance/Power is another aspect of cuckolding. The belief that he has control over the situation-Other men want what they can't have, but he has, implied power over men. View it like he is dangling a carrot in front of a horse and his woman is the carrot. Those who fall for the bait of the carrot loses their power. He controls who is/who is not worthy of her sexual desires. And to bend the will of an Alpha male who was manipulated to believe he stole his woman from another man is sexual gratification to him.
Posted by tiziani
So yeah, she told me she's gotten herself off that way. When I'm into a woman, I'm into watching her in all senses yes. Alone or not. Even if you're watching someone you love with other people, you never really see the other people. It sounds cold but they're basically just walking sex toys. Your entire focus is on her. So is theirs. And that can be a heightened experience for someone who gets "emotionally stoned" from drawing the full focus around them onto them. She was ok with it after she had a better understanding of my interest in her, but initially she didn't know exactly how to take it and thought it was just a casual interest. Plus it can be mistaken for a lack of protective instinct and that's understandably a turn off, but that's not what it really is and we understood each other better after taking it slow and talking through it, exploring places together.
Emotionally stoned - I've been told it's a feeling independent of other people, and I don't understand it nor do I need to but I'm just curious to see it in action. It's feel like a privelege when she opens herself up to being vulnerable and actually letting you see that happen. And yes some of those most vulnerable times have been when she's performing alone in front of me.
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The way I am viewing it is your respect for her increased, but it's an evolved form of respect mixed with admiration on a higher level. She is unleashing this side of her and allowing you to see it. Seeing all of her in this intimate moment where she doesn’t feel the need to hide because her vulnerability is out there and she wants you to see it. And to you and her the third person is but a being, an object. While her body is with him, her mind is with you. The both of you can separate the physical from the mental and to me that is extraordinary.
This is a level that one day I'd like to explore. I've always heard of it, but the experience is beyond words.
Posted by VirgoreanI was thinking about this actually and it kinda reminds me of Kanye west. He's very much under the impression he beat out all Kim's exes to wife her up. He seems to take pleasure in the fact that other men have been with her and desired her, especially high status men. He's extremely territorial and jealous over her and controlling. Yet he posts naked pictures of her on his twitter account for people to AWE at her. It seems like a similar mind set to me. He takes pleasure in throwing her in the faces of other people. I think he definitely gets off on the thought that others want her. He's always commenting on her beauty I don't even think I've personally heard him say anything else.Posted by PancakeFace
What if he likes seeing how other people desire her sexually and gets a kick out of that. He wants to see other guys droolin over his woman literally lol. He wants to see how she can arouse another man and pleasure another man and how she'd be willing to do all this because she loves her husband. Or maybe he gets off knowing others find her sexually attractive, want to have sex with her and she's his, she belongs to him. So he can relish the fact that these other dudes are sexually into her, that she can satisfy others yet she's his at the end of the day. It's knowing others get off to her but that she's his and he take her back from them whenever he wants. It could basically be the ultimate power trip, which would explain why alpha types would like it. Because he's in control of the whole thing. If he's jealous by nature he'd get mad because he wasn't controlling the situation if someone happened to flirt with her without his consent and if he thought she wanted that. It's kinda like he's giving her something but he still has her on a leash because he's approving the situation. Which makes it seem very dominant, sadist maybe? I dunno the terms.
Yes. Dominance/Power is another aspect of cuckolding. The belief that he has control over the situation-Other men want what they can't have, but he has, implied power over men. View it like he is dangling a carrot in front of a horse and his woman is the carrot. Those who fall for the bait of the carrot loses their power. He controls who is/who is not worthy of her sexual desires. And to bend the will of an Alpha male who was manipulated to believe he stole his woman from another man is sexual gratification to him.
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Posted by tizianiPosted by VirgoreanWell I like this version you put down. I never thought about it in these terms before. Very similar, but not exactly like this.Posted by tiziani
So yeah, she told me she's gotten herself off that way. When I'm into a woman, I'm into watching her in all senses yes. Alone or not. Even if you're watching someone you love with other people, you never really see the other people. It sounds cold but they're basically just walking sex toys. Your entire focus is on her. So is theirs. And that can be a heightened experience for someone who gets "emotionally stoned" from drawing the full focus around them onto them. She was ok with it after she had a better understanding of my interest in her, but initially she didn't know exactly how to take it and thought it was just a casual interest. Plus it can be mistaken for a lack of protective instinct and that's understandably a turn off, but that's not what it really is and we understood each other better after taking it slow and talking through it, exploring places together.
Emotionally stoned - I've been told it's a feeling independent of other people, and I don't understand it nor do I need to but I'm just curious to see it in action. It's feel like a privelege when she opens herself up to being vulnerable and actually letting you see that happen. And yes some of those most vulnerable times have been when she's performing alone in front of me.
The way I am viewing it is your respect for her increased, but it's an evolved form of respect mixed with admiration on a higher level. She is unleashing this side of her and allowing you to see it. Seeing all of her in this intimate moment where she doesn’t feel the need to hide because her vulnerability is out there and she wants you to see it. And to you and her the third person is but a being, an object. While her body is with him, her mind is with you. The both of you can separate the physical from the mental and to me that is extraordinary.
This is a level that one day I'd like to explore. I've always heard of it, but the experience is beyond words.
If you could elaborate on "evolved form of respect mixed with adoration a higher level" I'd like to hear about it.
Definitely I have a respect for her, and women in general actually, who can show this 'I really don't care what society thinks or what's expected of me' side, where she's in it to enjoy herself for herself. Her body is her own, with her and her mind is open to both of us, yes.
I'm pre-disposed to live inside my own head at the worst of times, so to be face to face with a woman who has that presence to live from a place of her own physical sensation is an education to me and I do find an appreciation for it. I also adore her for trusting me and us, in a way very few people I'v met have found trust.
I hope you find what you're looking for. Some of these things can be found without even involving sex at all, but everyone has a way to go about it and this is the way I chose to go about exploring with the partners I trusted because I've always been a little messed up like that lol I feel a certain sense of shame sometimes (not every time) with the physical act of sex and I enjoy wading through that or having it paraded in front of me as a visual, until I can drown in it and come out the other end free of all thoughts. And I met someone who feels no shame whatsoever, in the most elegant sense. It's like being partners in crime. It's not all plain sailing either, but anytime I've slowed the pace down and we talk through it, keeping expectations minimal or next-to-zero then works it nicely.click to expand
Hm...How to explain it in the best of terms? There's the common type of respect where a person acknowledges one's achievements/obstacles. A man who grew up from a bare minimum income family who is able to graduate from college receives respect from his family, as an example. Whereas a man who grew up from the homeless, no money, no shelter, and relied on daily survival manages to graduate from college. Between the two, the latter will receive a higher degree of respect due to the main distinction of socioeconomic factors, income being the driving force. And is more likely to draw in a sense of awe and amazement from people who hear of his story. Now let's apply it to your relationship. Respect already exists for your woman because of the love you both share. When I say an evolved form is your respect for her expanded because you were able to view her in a different light. A light that exposed her in her natural state where you were able to look past her shame, her fears, her guilt. And in the moment you adored her for revealing that unknown side to you. It's as you have stated, it was a privilege. I hope this makes sense.
Thank you. And yes, I do believe that level can be obtained through other means, my desire is just to seek that level. In what Avenue to get there? Well, I'll find out down the road 🙂
I, too, feel a degree of shame with sex, but that is associated with my religious beliefs.
Posted by yupvirgooI believe to an extent she stays with him for her child 😢. A mother's love for her child is an unbreakable bond and that includes sacrificing her happiness for her child's happiness. She may not want her child to grow up from a broken family...Posted by sagsagsagyes and she just cries the whole timePosted by yupvirgooPosted by sagsagsagHe's always cheating on her- like Zeus on Hera.Posted by yupvirgooPosted by VirgoreanWell then since you are a Virgo and a very curious one too...Posted by yupvirgooYou would be very surprised the amount of depravity that lies in someone's mind.Posted by VirgoreanShe totally doesn't.Posted by yupvirgooIf your wife were to come to you and tell you she'd like to explore this, how would you react?
Nope.
Not even a possibility.
Not even in another dimension.
She's a Taurus sun with lots of Leo and Pisces in her.
I had an SO whom I was with for 5 years. I didn't know about this fetish of his until the 4th year. Believe me when I say it was very difficult for him to come clean with it. Ironically, he acted extreme jealous. But cuckolding manages to separate the two realities. Which is why it intrigues me.
I do know a couple who are.... kinda odd.
Once a year the woman hires 5 women to have sex with her husband for a whole day.
Then she comes to me crying about it (we are distantly related).
She tells me it's her way of preventing him from cheating.
To let him get it out of his system.
*smfh
Oh my this story is heartbreaking on so many levels..
But why though? Did her husband forced her to? Or it was her own decision?
When I asked her why (it's like the Twilight Zone), she told me that it was because he is always having sex with other women, sneaking around on her. And she thought that the only way to satiate his appetite for other women was for her to provide lots of women for his birthday every year. And did you know? He even bragged to me (me being a man he probably thought I would high five the fck out of him) that he's cheating on her every week during his spa/massage bullshyte lying tactics. Like I would fckn congratulate him for letting his wife flee into my arms while he's fckng 5 women on his birthday night. She even told me once that she sent him 20 women wtf for 1 week.
I'm sorry but all the Earth in me thinks it's disgusting.
I don't care if I'm seen as anti-progressive, backwards or not open-minded.
Fck that coz I'm a Virgo sun-Taurus moon.
Fck anyone who disguises cheating in any way shape or form. Or boredom in a marriage. Or just being a plain, fckn inconsiderate azzhoe.
She is manipulated into this sort of arrangement.
She's described how she felt and how he remained callous.
Until she offered this as a joke and how he actually wanted her to do it.
That's crazy and totally unaceptable!
And she never think about leaving? His hub could be a narcist? What's his placement, I'm curious?
I can't imagine the feeling of her walking out of her home on her hub's birthday where they're supposed to be having quality time, knowing that he is at home having sex with women she paid to have sex with her own husband!
Geez I'd be walking in with divorce paper if that happens, I'm sorry but my mars in scorpio ain't having it! ? That D is mine, you share it with someone else you're dead in my eyes and all the memories we ever had are wiped out clean like it never happened.. bye ✋
Do they have kids? *I'm nosy as hell ??
Good for you.. Virgo sun and taurus moon, you make me only want to look for earth signs from now on ? What's your venus and mars?
still together with a kid and he is still cheating
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I always wanted my exs to watch me tbh
Posted by libralotusWhy have you never asked them?
I always wanted my exs to watch me tbh
Posted by VirgoreanI didPosted by libralotusWhy have you never asked them?
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Why do you think my cancer left me
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollThe Aquarius was like "yeah....ok."Posted by libralotusShame on him lolPosted by VirgoreanI didPosted by libralotusWhy have you never asked them?
I always wanted my exs to watch me tbh
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The cancer literally brought it up in every fight.
Figures
Posted by libralotusPosted by VirgoreanI didPosted by libralotusWhy have you never asked them?
I always wanted my exs to watch me tbh
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I actually do not know about that. Sorry to hear. What were the reasons you gave him? Have you tried a gradual approach? I know it isn't easy to disclose these types of requests.
Posted by VirgoreanPosted by libralotusPosted by VirgoreanI didPosted by libralotusWhy have you never asked them?
I always wanted my exs to watch me tbh
Why do you think my cancer left me
I actually do not know about that. Sorry to hear. What were the reasons you gave him? Have you tried a gradual approach? I know it isn't easy to disclose these types of requests.
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Eh was never a serious conversation. I brought it up lightheartedly and he freaked.
Posted by libralotusMy ex is an Aquarius and he was the one who requested it of me.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollThe Aquarius was like "yeah....ok."Posted by libralotusShame on him lolPosted by VirgoreanI didPosted by libralotusWhy have you never asked them?
I always wanted my exs to watch me tbh
Why do you think my cancer left me
The cancer literally brought it up in every fight.
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Posted by VirgoreanI've been talking to this Aquarius from tinder and I forgot how much they (—) me.....Posted by libralotusMy ex is an Aquarius and he was the one who requested it of me.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollThe Aquarius was like "yeah....ok."Posted by libralotusShame on him lolPosted by VirgoreanI didPosted by libralotusWhy have you never asked them?
I always wanted my exs to watch me tbh
Why do you think my cancer left me
The cancer literally brought it up in every fight.
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Posted by libralotusSorry I do not know what the question marks mean.Posted by VirgoreanI've been talking to this Aquarius from tinder and I forgot how much they (—) me.....Posted by libralotusMy ex is an Aquarius and he was the one who requested it of me.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollThe Aquarius was like "yeah....ok."Posted by libralotusShame on him lolPosted by VirgoreanI didPosted by libralotusWhy have you never asked them?
I always wanted my exs to watch me tbh
Why do you think my cancer left me
The cancer literally brought it up in every fight.
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Posted by VirgoreanPosted by libralotusSorry I do not know what the question marks mean.Posted by VirgoreanI've been talking to this Aquarius from tinder and I forgot how much they (—) me.....Posted by libralotusMy ex is an Aquarius and he was the one who requested it of me.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollThe Aquarius was like "yeah....ok."Posted by libralotusShame on him lolPosted by VirgoreanI didPosted by libralotusWhy have you never asked them?
I always wanted my exs to watch me tbh
Why do you think my cancer left me
The cancer literally brought it up in every fight.
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How much they confuse me lol
Oh lol. Did you jokingly bring it up with this one also?
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