Posted by JuliietteIt’s awful. I’m thinking “this is a logical good decision. Be content.” And then my soul gets all restless... makes me really annoyed.
tell me about it.
Posted by JuliietteNot sure what my placements are? I used to have a website I used but I’ve long since lost it. The worst part is I think I have Scorpio in Venus. Wtffffff.... haha. Other than that, I can’t remember.
post your placements. i'm the same way. always finding and trying for excitements, only to bore me after. i'm always bored! gemini moon and venus in my case i think.
Posted by ImpulsvSame for me - he’s really talkative and I’m just kinda blah on it. Sometimes I want to ask him if he ever even cusses.
ugh i'm glad to hear your dating 6 years younger.
right now the guy I'm attracted too is 33!!
I'm not making moves but he's been chatty.
Posted by JuliietteMay I! Trying To get more than 1!dick I’m one hole...🤣
tell me about it.
Posted by JuliietteI refuse your accusations at this point...wait...what was I saying!Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteMay I! Trying To get more than 1!dick I’m one hole...🤣
tell me about it.
you are so fucking drunk! i suggest to try smoking some pot. i think it would benefit you.
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Posted by wagtailWe’ve only done dinner a few times. I should just suggest something completely unrealistic and wild and see what his reaction is. Haha!
Maybe he needs more time to open up and show you his 'exciting' side.
What are you doing to keep things exciting beteeen you as well?
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeLoool WTF 😭Posted by ConsiderableMythI have found that the safe clean cut guys are the weirdestPosted by JuliietteIt’s awful. I’m thinking “this is a logical good decision. Be content.” And then my soul gets all restless... makes me really annoyed.
tell me about it.
He might have a poop fetish
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Posted by HaruukaThere in lies the problem! 😒
Since you are venus scorpio,you need dangerous relationship, a very dramatic one 😆💔
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeLmfaoooooo... unfortunately this is probably true.Posted by ConsiderableMythI have found that the safe clean cut guys are the weirdestPosted by JuliietteIt’s awful. I’m thinking “this is a logical good decision. Be content.” And then my soul gets all restless... makes me really annoyed.
tell me about it.
He might have a poop fetish
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Posted by JuliietteDxp orgy? I am all for it except we don’t have real men here who can perform!Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteI refuse your accusations at this point...wait...what was I saying!Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteMay I! Trying To get more than 1!dick I’m one hole...🤣
tell me about it.
you are so fucking drunk! i suggest to try smoking some pot. i think it would benefit you.
Pot? Nooooo...where is it?
Will hung men deliver? Call now...I’ll suck on something...if there is discount...go ON! 1-800-wannapot!?
one day.... all the dxpnet will come to my place.... and we will all smoke pot...
AND HAVE SEX!!
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Posted by KoniuchaaI’m very spontaneous, outgoing, bubbly. I’m the type that’s sitting at home on a Sunday morning, bored, with a full tank of gas and end up at a casino 5 hours away with an extra $ 300 in my pocket. Just to be clear - I understand responsibilities. But... I feel like I will probably always be “settling” with him in terms of plans. I can also be a major homebody. It all depends on what’s going on.
What do you do that is exciting?
Posted by nanoI feel like I’m probably the same. I’d rather be by myself than be with someone boring. Once I feel like I’m “dragging my bag” behind me, I’m just about out.
My therapist says that I would destroy a boring, nice guy. It sux after tumultuous rships, to think that if I needed to give the love thing a chance again, that I couldn't find me a nice boring dude.
Posted by JuliietteWait! I am open to liking but I don’t want to be fly on the wall! How about 69? Favor on favor until everyone just watch and clapping?Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteDxp orgy? I am all for it except we don’t have real men here who can perform!Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteI refuse your accusations at this point...wait...what was I saying!Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteMay I! Trying To get more than 1!dick I’m one hole...🤣
tell me about it.
you are so fucking drunk! i suggest to try smoking some pot. i think it would benefit you.
Pot? Nooooo...where is it?
Will hung men deliver? Call now...I’ll suck on something...if there is discount...go ON! 1-800-wannapot!?
one day.... all the dxpnet will come to my place.... and we will all smoke pot...
AND HAVE SEX!!
Name one except Evo...
Lmao! TheRabbit? Out
Ands and firebunny will fuck each other...
Hydora will coach them stroking himself pretending he is helping out..
All Scorpio men will act like they aren’t here...
You know...orgy disaster! We need more beer and vodka...and some paparatzies...
Do you fuck any saudian sheikhs lately?
i will get you real men. if you want to.
but i would be so excited to meet people? ok we can fuck. and i swear i could lick you better than the scorp or whatever you convinced yourself.
not one orgy of mine went to disaster. or we can simply talk. saudian? wut?
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Posted by ArkansassyLike it’s a big deal! Have you ever had sex bozo?Posted by ConsiderableMythDoes he eat the booty tho?Posted by KoniuchaaI’m very spontaneous, outgoing, bubbly. I’m the type that’s sitting at home on a Sunday morning, bored, with a full tank of gas and end up at a casino 5 hours away with an extra $ 300 in my pocket. Just to be clear - I understand responsibilities. But... I feel like I will probably always be “settling” with him in terms of plans. I can also be a major homebody. It all depends on what’s going on.
What do you do that is exciting?
I was offered tickets to a concert last Saturday when he and I already had plans to do something, but we didn’t know yet. So I asked him around 2 that day if he wanted to go to the concert, at 8, which was about an hour and a half away. He was hesitant. Said he needed to work the next day.
In the past, my most successful relationships were the ones where we did adventurous things. But then again, I guess they weren’t that successful if it didn’t last. 😐
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Posted by Arkansassy🤣 I’m gonna go with no. But... he could be a certified freak. I’m a freak. I don’t get the vibe from him that he could fulfill my desires, though.Posted by ConsiderableMythDoes he eat the booty tho?Posted by KoniuchaaI’m very spontaneous, outgoing, bubbly. I’m the type that’s sitting at home on a Sunday morning, bored, with a full tank of gas and end up at a casino 5 hours away with an extra $ 300 in my pocket. Just to be clear - I understand responsibilities. But... I feel like I will probably always be “settling” with him in terms of plans. I can also be a major homebody. It all depends on what’s going on.
What do you do that is exciting?
I was offered tickets to a concert last Saturday when he and I already had plans to do something, but we didn’t know yet. So I asked him around 2 that day if he wanted to go to the concert, at 8, which was about an hour and a half away. He was hesitant. Said he needed to work the next day.
In the past, my most successful relationships were the ones where we did adventurous things. But then again, I guess they weren’t that successful if it didn’t last. 😐
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Posted by JuliietteAs long as they know their positions and don’t confused and starting to fuck each other...you are the boss! 🤣🤣🤣Posted by Gemitatinot really a fan of 69 but i'm a fan of 3 guys and me. da best. trust me.Posted by JuliietteWait! I am open to liking but I don’t want to be fly on the wall! How about 69? Favor on favor until everyone just watch and clapping?Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteDxp orgy? I am all for it except we don’t have real men here who can perform!Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteI refuse your accusations at this point...wait...what was I saying!Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteMay I! Trying To get more than 1!dick I’m one hole...🤣
tell me about it.
you are so fucking drunk! i suggest to try smoking some pot. i think it would benefit you.
Pot? Nooooo...where is it?
Will hung men deliver? Call now...I’ll suck on something...if there is discount...go ON! 1-800-wannapot!?
one day.... all the dxpnet will come to my place.... and we will all smoke pot...
AND HAVE SEX!!
Name one except Evo...
Lmao! TheRabbit? Out
Ands and firebunny will fuck each other...
Hydora will coach them stroking himself pretending he is helping out..
All Scorpio men will act like they aren’t here...
You know...orgy disaster! We need more beer and vodka...and some paparatzies...
Do you fuck any saudian sheikhs lately?
i will get you real men. if you want to.
but i would be so excited to meet people? ok we can fuck. and i swear i could lick you better than the scorp or whatever you convinced yourself.
not one orgy of mine went to disaster. or we can simply talk. saudian? wut?
And no one allowed to participate!
Lmao
Off limits! Just us! Pour champagne over!
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Posted by nanoPosted by ConsiderableMythI've done it before. Unintentionally.... who would hurt a nice man, otherwise. He treated me like a queen but I felt something huge and essential was missing. Sometimes I think maybe I was too immature, but now I'm almost 30 and nothing's changed.Posted by nanoI feel like I’m probably the same. I’d rather be by myself than be with someone boring. Once I feel like I’m “dragging my bag” behind me, I’m just about out.
My therapist says that I would destroy a boring, nice guy. It sux after tumultuous rships, to think that if I needed to give the love thing a chance again, that I couldn't find me a nice boring dude.
I don’t need to feel like I’m weighed down by someone. I need someone that can keep up.
I'm mutable in every sense of the word lol. Gone like the wind if I grow bored. There is too much world and life to experience to be bored. We live and then we die... What's the point
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Posted by ArkansassyBig shoes, big paychecks. Lol! Nah, I’m going with the old myth of “big shoes, other big things.”Posted by ConsiderableMythI wear a 10-11 size shoe. What's that got to do with anything?Posted by Arkansassy🤣 I’m gonna go with no. But... he could be a certified freak. I’m a freak. I don’t get the vibe from him that he could fulfill my desires, though.Posted by ConsiderableMythDoes he eat the booty tho?Posted by KoniuchaaI’m very spontaneous, outgoing, bubbly. I’m the type that’s sitting at home on a Sunday morning, bored, with a full tank of gas and end up at a casino 5 hours away with an extra $ 300 in my pocket. Just to be clear - I understand responsibilities. But... I feel like I will probably always be “settling” with him in terms of plans. I can also be a major homebody. It all depends on what’s going on.
What do you do that is exciting?
I was offered tickets to a concert last Saturday when he and I already had plans to do something, but we didn’t know yet. So I asked him around 2 that day if he wanted to go to the concert, at 8, which was about an hour and a half away. He was hesitant. Said he needed to work the next day.
In the past, my most successful relationships were the ones where we did adventurous things. But then again, I guess they weren’t that successful if it didn’t last. 😐
Wears a size 13 shoe. So there’s that.
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Posted by AliensusedourbogrollThat’s very true.Posted by ConsiderableMythWhat’s the point, with that attitude? Just give him the flick and move on.
So at this point with all of y’alls feedback... it sounds like I should give the guy a couple more dates? To see if maybe he opens up? Then if not, I let him down easy and go back to square one? Lmfao... SQUARE one. He’s a square one. So square. So. Boring.click to expand
Posted by ArkansassyWell hmph!Posted by ConsiderableMythFalsePosted by ArkansassyBig shoes, big paychecks. Lol! Nah, I’m going with the old myth of “big shoes, other big things.”Posted by ConsiderableMythI wear a 10-11 size shoe. What's that got to do with anything?Posted by Arkansassy🤣 I’m gonna go with no. But... he could be a certified freak. I’m a freak. I don’t get the vibe from him that he could fulfill my desires, though.Posted by ConsiderableMythDoes he eat the booty tho?Posted by KoniuchaaI’m very spontaneous, outgoing, bubbly. I’m the type that’s sitting at home on a Sunday morning, bored, with a full tank of gas and end up at a casino 5 hours away with an extra $ 300 in my pocket. Just to be clear - I understand responsibilities. But... I feel like I will probably always be “settling” with him in terms of plans. I can also be a major homebody. It all depends on what’s going on.
What do you do that is exciting?
I was offered tickets to a concert last Saturday when he and I already had plans to do something, but we didn’t know yet. So I asked him around 2 that day if he wanted to go to the concert, at 8, which was about an hour and a half away. He was hesitant. Said he needed to work the next day.
In the past, my most successful relationships were the ones where we did adventurous things. But then again, I guess they weren’t that successful if it didn’t last. 😐
Wears a size 13 shoe. So there’s that.
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Posted by AfternoonDelights22You can retired from here anytime
Tired of these race threads
Posted by ConsiderableMythYou should of married him and got a side dude like wtf...Lol you have feelings so odd.Posted by nanoPosted by ConsiderableMythI've done it before. Unintentionally.... who would hurt a nice man, otherwise. He treated me like a queen but I felt something huge and essential was missing. Sometimes I think maybe I was too immature, but now I'm almost 30 and nothing's changed.Posted by nanoI feel like I’m probably the same. I’d rather be by myself than be with someone boring. Once I feel like I’m “dragging my bag” behind me, I’m just about out.
My therapist says that I would destroy a boring, nice guy. It sux after tumultuous rships, to think that if I needed to give the love thing a chance again, that I couldn't find me a nice boring dude.
I don’t need to feel like I’m weighed down by someone. I need someone that can keep up.
I'm mutable in every sense of the word lol. Gone like the wind if I grow bored. There is too much world and life to experience to be bored. We live and then we die... What's the point
Sometimes it sucks to be a Gemini... always searching for something more but can't pinpoint what it is
I feel like you just described me to a T! I dated and MOVED IN with the nicest guy, at one point. He bought me an engagement ring, $ 8k... I didn’t have to work or do anything. He would have taken care of me the rest of my life, but like you, something was missing. I moved out and we stay in touch, but I feel bad every time I talk to him.
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Posted by ArkansassyTo do WHAT? Lick the wounds?Posted by ConsiderableMythI'm here for you
I’ve been on a few dates with this guy that’s 6 years younger than me. He’s great, truly. Really mature for his age, good job, sociable, long-term potential... but he’s so vanilla. I’m not saying I want some gang banger with tattoos and a drug problem, but where’s the excitement? What is it about me that needs someone to be exciting? Why can’t I be satisfied with the “safe” choice?
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Posted by fire_underwaterHaha, I love this metaphor.
ahhh, the mashed-potatoes man-- wholesome, homey, and satisfying. Comfort food. Still, just mashed potatoes. You could be their gravy though
Posted by WarAngel1I’ve been on one far side of the spectrum all the way to the other. I’m trying to find one somewhat in the middle. I can’t stand someone who doesn’t stand up to me, or let’s me make all the decisions. I don’t want that.
After a couple of tumultuous relationships, I've learned vanilla can be okay. 🙂
Posted by ConsiderableMythWhat lies?Posted by HaruukaThere in lies the problem! 😒
Since you are venus scorpio,you need dangerous relationship, a very dramatic one 😆💔
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Posted by WarAngel1What sign are you?Posted by ConsiderableMythIt's not easy finding the perfect person, sometimes we focus too hard on trying to tick check boxes instead of growing together.Posted by WarAngel1I’ve been on one far side of the spectrum all the way to the other. I’m trying to find one somewhat in the middle. I can’t stand someone who doesn’t stand up to me, or let’s me make all the decisions. I don’t want that.
After a couple of tumultuous relationships, I've learned vanilla can be okay. 🙂
I want someone I feel is my equal, but challenges me to keep improving, and brings out the best in me.
I’ve found it once, but only once. We were equally as spontaneous, dedicated, hard-working, dreamers, homebodies, social, everything. And I found the best parts of myself with his help.
A little strife is okay every now and then sure, but if I'm the one dealing with a rollercoaster, I simply don't like actual rollercoasters.
Hell, I'm just now getting back to my centered self after a crazy few days, lol!click to expand
Posted by WarAngel1Just wondering.Posted by ConsiderableMythScorpio, why?Posted by WarAngel1What sign are you?Posted by ConsiderableMythIt's not easy finding the perfect person, sometimes we focus too hard on trying to tick check boxes instead of growing together.Posted by WarAngel1I’ve been on one far side of the spectrum all the way to the other. I’m trying to find one somewhat in the middle. I can’t stand someone who doesn’t stand up to me, or let’s me make all the decisions. I don’t want that.
After a couple of tumultuous relationships, I've learned vanilla can be okay. 🙂
I want someone I feel is my equal, but challenges me to keep improving, and brings out the best in me.
I’ve found it once, but only once. We were equally as spontaneous, dedicated, hard-working, dreamers, homebodies, social, everything. And I found the best parts of myself with his help.
A little strife is okay every now and then sure, but if I'm the one dealing with a rollercoaster, I simply don't like actual rollercoasters.
Hell, I'm just now getting back to my centered self after a crazy few days, lol!
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Posted by fire_underwaterA libra friend used to compare people to foods all the time lol
ahhh, the mashed-potatoes man-- wholesome, homey, and satisfying. Comfort food. Still, just mashed potatoes. You could be their gravy though
Posted by GC04Venus is Scorpio.
He sounds sweet(:
What’s your venus?
Have you tried creating some drama/excitement/tension?
Posted by WarAngel1Lol, nothings ever vanilla with Scorpio. The energy y’all radiate could power the entire New York City grid for a year, without even one rolling blackout.Posted by ConsiderableMythI'm not vanilla, I'm chocolate. Take that as you will, lol!Posted by WarAngel1Just wondering.Posted by ConsiderableMythScorpio, why?Posted by WarAngel1What sign are you?Posted by ConsiderableMythIt's not easy finding the perfect person, sometimes we focus too hard on trying to tick check boxes instead of growing together.Posted by WarAngel1I’ve been on one far side of the spectrum all the way to the other. I’m trying to find one somewhat in the middle. I can’t stand someone who doesn’t stand up to me, or let’s me make all the decisions. I don’t want that.
After a couple of tumultuous relationships, I've learned vanilla can be okay. 🙂
I want someone I feel is my equal, but challenges me to keep improving, and brings out the best in me.
I’ve found it once, but only once. We were equally as spontaneous, dedicated, hard-working, dreamers, homebodies, social, everything. And I found the best parts of myself with his help.
A little strife is okay every now and then sure, but if I'm the one dealing with a rollercoaster, I simply don't like actual rollercoasters.
Hell, I'm just now getting back to my centered self after a crazy few days, lol!
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Posted by ChocolateHazelnutThat’s what I like to hear!
You don't have to be satisfied with the safe choice especially if you know you can have whatever you want. If you don't like vanilla let them to find other vanillas and go for the crazy ones. No need to settle.
Posted by ConsiderableMythAbsolutely!!!!! Life is too short to eat vanilla when you love chocolate or whatever. Go out and gets the ones you like. 😉Posted by ChocolateHazelnutThat’s what I like to hear!
You don't have to be satisfied with the safe choice especially if you know you can have whatever you want. If you don't like vanilla let them to find other vanillas and go for the crazy ones. No need to settle.click to expand
Posted by crazysiouxLmfaoooooooo🤣Posted by ConsiderableMythBefore I go Gordon Ramsey, let's take a moment to observe the fact that this guy is not here to defend himself and the fact that everything in this thread has simply revealed more about YOU than this nice vanilla basic guy your castigating and throwing shade at ...
So at this point with all of y’alls feedback... it sounds like I should give the guy a couple more dates? To see if maybe he opens up? Then if not, I let him down easy and go back to square one? Lmfao... SQUARE one. He’s a square one. So square. So. Boring.
With all that said ... You're the bloody fuckin' bore in the equation! >😢
Boring the entire universe with your negativity and sense of entitlement when it comes to relationships. You're falsely projecting your boredom onto him only to turn around and blame him for not being the tumultuous walking and talking episode of Jerry Springer / Fear Factor every waking moment of every common mundane day. As opposed to looking dead into the nearest mirror, owning the fuck up, and saying that famous line from the movie "White Man Can't Jump" that Gloria had to lay on her self-defeating Billy: "YOU HAPPENED AGAIN! THERE IS NO 'IT'!
He's a human fucking being. Not a blunt. Not a joint. Not a line of coke. Not a rock of crack. Not a needle full of H. Human. Fucking. Being. He's not your entertainment. Love and entertainment are two different things, and you've already demonstrated your capacity to make you own fun at the damn casino. And yet you treat this basic vanilla human being like a casino coin or cigarette -- i.e. and object. An object you first idealize, devalue, and then discard after having hotboxed his punk ass down to the butt. All because of the busted and broken shit, expectations, and fantasies you've heaped on him instead of looking at yourself. Because too many people have a really bad habit of putting conditions on their happiness and couching them as "red flags" and "deal breakers" as a coping mechanism. They sit around on their sorry wretched homebody hermit asses all mopey and pissy and say to themselves, "I'll never be happy until ..." and that ellipses -- those three friggin dots -- are all the vain, shallow, arbitrary, self-sabotaging, and self-defeating conditions people often put on their happiness only to turn around bitching that it's somebody or something else's fault for their station and lot in life ...
Bullshit.
The biggest irony of all is such people have no shortage of friends who help reinforce these destructive behaviors by saying, "Move on. Life's too short to settle!" when the truth is they've already settled for what they deserve: four fucking walls. Like the infamous lyrics to a popular Rush song: "If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice!" Having free will and freedom of choice does not mean freedom from consequences. As a result, you have actively chosen to settle for four fucking walls because your expectations are divorced from reality. Plus, what comes around goes around. If you're gonna treat other human beings as disposable, you have no right to bitch, piss, moan, whine, and complain when -- not if , when -- you yourself become the abandoned and the disposed of ...
You should stop seeing this guy.
Not because "he's so basic /vanilla / boring"
Because your inner monster already chewed him up and spat him back out.
He deserves a hell of a lot better ... even if it's ... no, especially ... if it's four fucking walls, too.click to expand
Posted by DreamyboyButthole is still bleeding, man! Haha!Posted by ConsiderableMythYou got ripped a new one 😂Posted by crazysiouxLmfaoooooooo🤣Posted by ConsiderableMythBefore I go Gordon Ramsey, let's take a moment to observe the fact that this guy is not here to defend himself and the fact that everything in this thread has simply revealed more about YOU than this nice vanilla basic guy your castigating and throwing shade at ...
So at this point with all of y’alls feedback... it sounds like I should give the guy a couple more dates? To see if maybe he opens up? Then if not, I let him down easy and go back to square one? Lmfao... SQUARE one. He’s a square one. So square. So. Boring.
With all that said ... You're the bloody fuckin' bore in the equation! >😢
Boring the entire universe with your negativity and sense of entitlement when it comes to relationships. You're falsely projecting your boredom onto him only to turn around and blame him for not being the tumultuous walking and talking episode of Jerry Springer / Fear Factor every waking moment of every common mundane day. As opposed to looking dead into the nearest mirror, owning the fuck up, and saying that famous line from the movie "White Man Can't Jump" that Gloria had to lay on her self-defeating Billy: "YOU HAPPENED AGAIN! THERE IS NO 'IT'!
He's a human fucking being. Not a blunt. Not a joint. Not a line of coke. Not a rock of crack. Not a needle full of H. Human. Fucking. Being. He's not your entertainment. Love and entertainment are two different things, and you've already demonstrated your capacity to make you own fun at the damn casino. And yet you treat this basic vanilla human being like a casino coin or cigarette -- i.e. and object. An object you first idealize, devalue, and then discard after having hotboxed his punk ass down to the butt. All because of the busted and broken shit, expectations, and fantasies you've heaped on him instead of looking at yourself. Because too many people have a really bad habit of putting conditions on their happiness and couching them as "red flags" and "deal breakers" as a coping mechanism. They sit around on their sorry wretched homebody hermit asses all mopey and pissy and say to themselves, "I'll never be happy until ..." and that ellipses -- those three friggin dots -- are all the vain, shallow, arbitrary, self-sabotaging, and self-defeating conditions people often put on their happiness only to turn around bitching that it's somebody or something else's fault for their station and lot in life ...
Bullshit.
The biggest irony of all is such people have no shortage of friends who help reinforce these destructive behaviors by saying, "Move on. Life's too short to settle!" when the truth is they've already settled for what they deserve: four fucking walls. Like the infamous lyrics to a popular Rush song: "If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice!" Having free will and freedom of choice does not mean freedom from consequences. As a result, you have actively chosen to settle for four fucking walls because your expectations are divorced from reality. Plus, what comes around goes around. If you're gonna treat other human beings as disposable, you have no right to bitch, piss, moan, whine, and complain when -- not if , when -- you yourself become the abandoned and the disposed of ...
You should stop seeing this guy.
Not because "he's so basic /vanilla / boring"
Because your inner monster already chewed him up and spat him back out.
He deserves a hell of a lot better ... even if it's ... no, especially ... if it's four fucking walls, too.
Well that escalated quickly.
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Posted by FantumI used to be able to. I feel like that’s not the case for me anymore. But I do need someone I feel I can grow with. But yes, looking back on the other people I decided to try to form a lasting relationship with did need fixing. And you hit the nail on the head - I didn’t want to focus on myself at all. The more I type, the more I feel like maybe you’re right. I might subconsciously know I’m not quite ready for another relationship yet because there are some minor things I’d like to focus on.
I noticed a pattern in my 20s. I kept dating guys who were so messy I could focus on their issues instead of my own. Can you relate?
Posted by ConsiderableMythDon’t go for the safe then. I am sure you can find a nice mixture.Posted by ChocolateHazelnutThat’s what I like to hear!
You don't have to be satisfied with the safe choice especially if you know you can have whatever you want. If you don't like vanilla let them to find other vanillas and go for the crazy ones. No need to settle.click to expand
Posted by FantumThat's what Dr. Sag has discovered as well through his scientific findings. I think most women go through 3 phases in ther lives:
I noticed a pattern in my 20s. I kept dating guys who were so messy I could focus on their issues instead of my own. Can you relate?
Posted by FantumPosted by TheSagI guess it's a good thing you're sooooo good-looking. 😉Posted by FantumThat's what Dr. Sag has discovered as well through his scientific findings. I think most women go through 3 phases in ther lives:
I noticed a pattern in my 20s. I kept dating guys who were so messy I could focus on their issues instead of my own. Can you relate?
1. the prince charming cute boy Justin Bieber phase - usually girls between 14 and 18 who go crazy for mommy's darling before they realize Disney isn't real and he is boring anyway
2. the I want to get fucked the hell out by this sexy braindead tattoed bad boy ex-prisoner because he's so intellectual and nice phase - those are usually women betweeen 19 and Gemitati's age
3. the matured prince charming but with money and still boring phase - usually women who are forced to settle down for family and live a vanilla life because their families and friends are too influential on them but who can't afford living Gemitati's life because they don't have the looks anymore - unlike sexy Gemitati ofc
And always remember ladies, I am not saying that to hurt you, I am saying that because I love you. 😢
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