Gemitati
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Does anyone has a lazy partner?
Lazy in what way?
Posted by Gemitatilol what's wrong with being on top? RCT cg ?Posted by Stinger408scorpEvery one of them!
Lazy in what way?
Every one!!!click to expand
Posted by Stinger408scorpNo it's a partner! Not me or you!Posted by Gemitatilol what's wrong with being on top? RCT cg ?Posted by Stinger408scorpEvery one of them!
Lazy in what way?
Every one!!!click to expand
To be on top is making them dizzy!
Driving make them tiring.
Snow makes them have rights to stay inside until snow melts when all neighbors cleaning their cars!
etc.
Posted by Gem_from_VenusTeach me guru!Posted by GemitatiDevelop a pot habit before you start stabbing.
How do you deal with it?
How do you co-exist with lazy one?
Sorry, I have nothing useful to add to this. 😆click to expand
Posted by Gem_from_VenusThe keyword here 'DOES.Posted by GemitatiAt first, the chill thing can be a relief. No pressure! And then you realize you'll be doing all the heavy lifting for eternity. /reaches for bongPosted by Gem_from_VenusTeach me guru!Posted by GemitatiDevelop a pot habit before you start stabbing.
How do you deal with it?
How do you co-exist with lazy one?
Sorry, I have nothing useful to add to this. 😆
The only actual advice I have is to compliment and praise him when he does something good. If that works on him, he might do it more. The praise doesn't work on everyone, though. Nagging is sure to backfire.
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He doesn't DO anything. Good or bad!
With great difficulty, been there done that. It's unattractive as hell!
Posted by Se7enAre you new here?
Is English your first language?
You better start keeping tabs on people like others here do.
Everyone knows its my 3rd language! Get with the program bozo!
Go cry about something...
Posted by everlynnWho said I am telling? Keep peeling your eyes for the answer. Unless you have something better to do.Posted by GemitatiWhat's your native language? I'm sure there's a reason he asked you that and I can honestly see why.Posted by Se7enAre you new here?
Is English your first language?
You better start keeping tabs on people like others here do.
Everyone knows its my 3rd language! Get with the program bozo!
Go cry about something...
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Posted by Gem_from_VenusNope! Pretty happy when no one asks him to do anything!Posted by GemitatiOh boy. Is it depression or just a lazy personality? Just don't call him "lazy" unless you want to add passive resentment to the not getting anything done. People who seem lazy probably have issues from childhood with being called lazy too. Don't turn into his parent. Been there. Done that. Could write the book but hate this topic. Grrrr. 😉Posted by Gem_from_VenusThe keyword here 'DOES.Posted by GemitatiAt first, the chill thing can be a relief. No pressure! And then you realize you'll be doing all the heavy lifting for eternity. /reaches for bongPosted by Gem_from_VenusTeach me guru!Posted by GemitatiDevelop a pot habit before you start stabbing.
How do you deal with it?
How do you co-exist with lazy one?
Sorry, I have nothing useful to add to this. 😆
The only actual advice I have is to compliment and praise him when he does something good. If that works on him, he might do it more. The praise doesn't work on everyone, though. Nagging is sure to backfire.
He doesn't DO anything. Good or bad!
If it IS depression, there will be no dealing with the laziness until he's started dealing with that.
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I had turned into a Mommy 23 years ago. This is why I think Ive got a proposal of marriage.
When I was younger I didn't mind.
NOW I DO! I DO mind DOING everything!!!
Its depressing for ME.
But thanks
Posted by Gem_from_VenusIts too late. What am I supposed to say? Take trash out or...what?Posted by GemitatiIf it's definitely not depression, an ultimatum may work. The thing about ultimatums is you have to be ready to do whatever it is you threaten! The only other thing you can do is adjust your expectations of how often and well things get done.Posted by Gem_from_VenusNope! Pretty happy when no one asks him to do anything!Posted by GemitatiOh boy. Is it depression or just a lazy personality? Just don't call him "lazy" unless you want to add passive resentment to the not getting anything done. People who seem lazy probably have issues from childhood with being called lazy too. Don't turn into his parent. Been there. Done that. Could write the book but hate this topic. Grrrr. 😉Posted by Gem_from_VenusThe keyword here 'DOES.Posted by GemitatiAt first, the chill thing can be a relief. No pressure! And then you realize you'll be doing all the heavy lifting for eternity. /reaches for bongPosted by Gem_from_VenusTeach me guru!Posted by GemitatiDevelop a pot habit before you start stabbing.
How do you deal with it?
How do you co-exist with lazy one?
Sorry, I have nothing useful to add to this. 😆
The only actual advice I have is to compliment and praise him when he does something good. If that works on him, he might do it more. The praise doesn't work on everyone, though. Nagging is sure to backfire.
He doesn't DO anything. Good or bad!
If it IS depression, there will be no dealing with the laziness until he's started dealing with that.
I had turned into a Mommy 23 years ago. This is why I think Ive got a proposal of marriage.
When I was younger I didn't mind.
NOW I DO! I DO mind DOING everything!!!
Its depressing for ME.
But thanks
You're welcome. Being some grown dude's mama is shit. And I'm pretty damned domestic.click to expand
Stop complaining about things you must do anyway or what?
Shave or what? IDK
Posted by Gem_from_VenusAt 60 he is only going to become worse.Posted by GemitatiOh wow. So, he really does nothing!?!Posted by Gem_from_VenusIts too late. What am I supposed to say? Take trash out or...what?Posted by GemitatiIf it's definitely not depression, an ultimatum may work. The thing about ultimatums is you have to be ready to do whatever it is you threaten! The only other thing you can do is adjust your expectations of how often and well things get done.Posted by Gem_from_VenusNope! Pretty happy when no one asks him to do anything!Posted by GemitatiOh boy. Is it depression or just a lazy personality? Just don't call him "lazy" unless you want to add passive resentment to the not getting anything done. People who seem lazy probably have issues from childhood with being called lazy too. Don't turn into his parent. Been there. Done that. Could write the book but hate this topic. Grrrr. 😉Posted by Gem_from_VenusThe keyword here 'DOES.Posted by GemitatiAt first, the chill thing can be a relief. No pressure! And then you realize you'll be doing all the heavy lifting for eternity. /reaches for bongPosted by Gem_from_VenusTeach me guru!Posted by GemitatiDevelop a pot habit before you start stabbing.
How do you deal with it?
How do you co-exist with lazy one?
Sorry, I have nothing useful to add to this. 😆
The only actual advice I have is to compliment and praise him when he does something good. If that works on him, he might do it more. The praise doesn't work on everyone, though. Nagging is sure to backfire.
He doesn't DO anything. Good or bad!
If it IS depression, there will be no dealing with the laziness until he's started dealing with that.
I had turned into a Mommy 23 years ago. This is why I think Ive got a proposal of marriage.
When I was younger I didn't mind.
NOW I DO! I DO mind DOING everything!!!
Its depressing for ME.
But thanks
You're welcome. Being some grown dude's mama is shit. And I'm pretty damned domestic.
Stop complaining about things you must do anyway or what?
Shave or what? IDK
If an ultimatum is to work you have to be specific, and it has to be doable for him. He's not going to become a completely different person all the sudden. I guess you need to figure out which things are nonnegotiable for you.click to expand
However it seems really bad. And it will be bad if I die or leave...
Otherwise he knows I will not let anything happen to anybody.
That's the thing...I AM DA MAN!
My gf is lazy, but I love her. @rockroadicecream
Posted by Se7enThis is not the place.Posted by GemitatiIs it really? That was a serious questionPosted by Se7enAre you new here?
Is English your first language?
You better start keeping tabs on people like others here do.
Everyone knows its my 3rd language! Get with the program bozo!
Go cry about something...
click to expand
Want to meet for a drink or something?
Posted by Gem_from_VenusIt worked😉Posted by GemitatiIf that works for you guys, more power to you! I guess I'm too "beta" for that.Posted by Gem_from_VenusAt 60 he is only going to become worse.Posted by GemitatiOh wow. So, he really does nothing!?!Posted by Gem_from_VenusIts too late. What am I supposed to say? Take trash out or...what?Posted by GemitatiIf it's definitely not depression, an ultimatum may work. The thing about ultimatums is you have to be ready to do whatever it is you threaten! The only other thing you can do is adjust your expectations of how often and well things get done.Posted by Gem_from_VenusNope! Pretty happy when no one asks him to do anything!Posted by GemitatiOh boy. Is it depression or just a lazy personality? Just don't call him "lazy" unless you want to add passive resentment to the not getting anything done. People who seem lazy probably have issues from childhood with being called lazy too. Don't turn into his parent. Been there. Done that. Could write the book but hate this topic. Grrrr. 😉Posted by Gem_from_VenusThe keyword here 'DOES.Posted by GemitatiAt first, the chill thing can be a relief. No pressure! And then you realize you'll be doing all the heavy lifting for eternity. /reaches for bongPosted by Gem_from_VenusTeach me guru!Posted by GemitatiDevelop a pot habit before you start stabbing.
How do you deal with it?
How do you co-exist with lazy one?
Sorry, I have nothing useful to add to this. 😆
The only actual advice I have is to compliment and praise him when he does something good. If that works on him, he might do it more. The praise doesn't work on everyone, though. Nagging is sure to backfire.
He doesn't DO anything. Good or bad!
If it IS depression, there will be no dealing with the laziness until he's started dealing with that.
I had turned into a Mommy 23 years ago. This is why I think Ive got a proposal of marriage.
When I was younger I didn't mind.
NOW I DO! I DO mind DOING everything!!!
Its depressing for ME.
But thanks
You're welcome. Being some grown dude's mama is shit. And I'm pretty damned domestic.
Stop complaining about things you must do anyway or what?
Shave or what? IDK
If an ultimatum is to work you have to be specific, and it has to be doable for him. He's not going to become a completely different person all the sudden. I guess you need to figure out which things are nonnegotiable for you.
However it seems really bad. And it will be bad if I die or leave...
Otherwise he knows I will not let anything happen to anybody.
That's the thing...I AM DA MAN!click to expand
Posted by Se7enShow me the money! I am not paying for no bums!Posted by GemitatiSure. Where and when?Posted by Se7enThis is not the place.Posted by GemitatiIs it really? That was a serious questionPosted by Se7enAre you new here?
Is English your first language?
You better start keeping tabs on people like others here do.
Everyone knows its my 3rd language! Get with the program bozo!
Go cry about something...
Want to meet for a drink or something?click to expand
Dump him?
He's lazy. Your a cheater.
Which is the bigger sin...?
Which is the bigger sin...?
Posted by juliettePosted by LadyNeptune
He's lazy. Your a cheater.
Which is the bigger sin...?
whaaaat—
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The op's favorite topic is talking about her scorpio lover she's been fucking behind her 'lazy' husbands back.
Posted by juliettePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by juliettePosted by LadyNeptune
He's lazy. Your a cheater.
People don't get it if he wasn't lazy I wouldn't be cheating !!!
Is it that hard to understand?
Which is the bigger sin...?
whaaaat—
The op's favorite topic is talking about her scorpio lover she's been fucking behind her 'lazy' husbands back.
had no idea. but maybe he is even lazy to fuck. mine was like that too. it's not easy. if they have attachments in kids, properties or whatever. divorce is ugly. it was clean in my case but it still took a year and a half to make him leave me alone.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneI think it's your favorite topic as well because you live to tell the world about it!Posted by juliettePosted by LadyNeptune
He's lazy. Your a cheater.
Which is the bigger sin...?
whaaaat—
The op's favorite topic is talking about her scorpio lover she's been fucking behind her 'lazy' husbands back.
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God forbidd someone misses this important event! Lol
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