Finally let go of everything.

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I finally deleted the Gems number it took me a while because I was just holding on in hope.

However, I thought what the hell why was I settling for someone who didn't respect me or want anything to do with my kids and is dam right rude.

That's when I told the Gem Im not playing her FWB anymore or friends as she calls it that was a month ago and I hadn't slept with her since Halloween and I was seeing her on and off and that's when I met the Aries around 2 months ago and I am so glad I did she fits right in with my family and they all really like her she told me she's really happy at the moment and it's all because of me and she's not use to being treated well she said I am so nice and kind and caring to her and she's so glad she met me and she's scared as she doesn't want anything to mess it all up.

The best thing I done was to walk away from all that toxic shit and stick up for myself I shouldn't of aloud it to continue the way it did lesson learnt here.

I couldn't see it as my eyes were blinded by love for her I was stupid and weak but I take alot away from it I'm a stronger and more independent person than I have ever been and the Aries says how are you so strong and its because I was shaped into it.

But anyway the Aries is really great its a pleasure getting to know her and I hope we can keep it up.
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Keep us posted on the Aries. Always been curious about Sag & Aries together

Was good for me 😁

Why did it end if don't mind me asking ?
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It’s complicated, but he’s an alcoholic who hadn’t been drinking for 13 years at the time. We ended up in a situation where his parents were enabling him and it changed our marriage, our life etc. in the end, enabling won out. It broke my heart to leave, but I had to take care of me & my kids. We were together 20 years & most of it was a great partnership. If it hadn’t been for what happened in the end, we’d still be married. He still has my back, if I need it & we’ve been able to co-parent well.
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Keep us posted on the Aries. Always been curious about Sag & Aries together

Was good for me 😁

There is a Sag guy that has been asking me to go on a date with him for like 3 years. He’s not annoying or anything but anytime I see him he’ll ask me if I want to go to with him somewhere. Nevermind I just remembered he smokes and that’s why I always decline 😅
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Lol
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Posted by GammaArietis

Keep us posted on the Aries. Always been curious about Sag & Aries together

Was good for me 😁

Why did it end if don't mind me asking ?

It’s complicated, but he’s an alcoholic who hadn’t been drinking for 13 years at the time. We ended up in a situation where his parents were enabling him and it changed our marriage, our life etc. in the end, enabling won out. It broke my heart to leave, but I had to take care of me & my kids. We were together 20 years & most of it was a great partnership. If it hadn’t been for what happened in the end, we’d still be married. He still has my back, if I need it & we’ve been able to co-parent well.
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Awh that's a shame but really good you guys can stay grounded and have eachothers backs 😊
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Posted by GammaArietis
Posted by PuzzlePieces
Posted by GammaArietis

Keep us posted on the Aries. Always been curious about Sag & Aries together

Was good for me 😁

There is a Sag guy that has been asking me to go on a date with him for like 3 years. He’s not annoying or anything but anytime I see him he’ll ask me if I want to go to with him somewhere. Nevermind I just remembered he smokes and that’s why I always decline 😅
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My Aries smokes as well but I do not I just put up with it.

Not gonna lie it bothered me to begin with now I don't take much notice I think she hates the fact she smokes around me though as she tries to pull it away from me lol.
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Posted by GammaArietis

Keep us posted on the Aries. Always been curious about Sag & Aries together

Was good for me 😁

Why did it end if don't mind me asking ?

It’s complicated, but he’s an alcoholic who hadn’t been drinking for 13 years at the time. We ended up in a situation where his parents were enabling him and it changed our marriage, our life etc. in the end, enabling won out. It broke my heart to leave, but I had to take care of me & my kids. We were together 20 years & most of it was a great partnership. If it hadn’t been for what happened in the end, we’d still be married. He still has my back, if I need it & we’ve been able to co-parent well.

Awh that's a shame but really good you guys can stay grounded and have eachothers backs 😊
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Thanks & yes. 🙂
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That's when I told the Gem Im not playing her FWB anymore or friends as she calls it that was a month ago and I hadn't slept with her since Halloween and I was seeing her on and off and that's when I met the Aries around 2 months ago and I am so glad I did she fits right in with my family and they all really like her she told me she's really happy at the moment and it's all because of me and she's not use to being treated well she said I am so nice and kind and caring to her and she's so glad she met me and she's scared as she doesn't want anything to mess it all up....

But anyway the Aries is really great its a pleasure getting to know her and I hope we can keep it up.

Good stuff with the Ram. I hope she can also teach you where/when to put a period 'cause Centaur.....
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As if you don't know her number by heart till now...😄

At least pretend that you think his resolve will hold out ! 😆

😅😆 It literally will

I’ll take that bet because you seem hooked fr fr. But I hope you can turn the page on her.
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I'm done with the gem completely.

She isn't right for me and she doesn't fit into my family it was unfortunate but it is what it is and the Aries has come in like a normal person lol and fits right in she gets on really well with my sisters and we have been out for drinks etc they really like her alot.
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Maybe he is a cap / sag cusper!! I'm a cap...and I literally just came on here...to say the same thing about the gemini. That toxic waste..I had him blocked on everything...except my personal email.. because I didn't know you could actually block emails. Well I just did it. I blocked the email. Gemini has been making my life hell since our break up. Won't let me move..keeps coming back to act like they regret what they did..then turn around and rub new rebounds in my face... then when I flip out on him.. he talks to me like he never contacted me and I'm obsessed...found out he does that..to show my messages to the new flings...Idk if that is a tactic men do?? To pull new woman in..or why he wants me to look obsessed with him... why even tell the new girls about his ex? He was the one always contacting me.
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Maybe he is a cap / sag cusper!! I'm a cap...and I literally just came on here...to say the same thing about the gemini. That toxic waste..I had him blocked on everything...except my personal email.. because I didn't know you could actually block emails. Well I just did it. I blocked the email. Gemini has been making my life hell since our break up. Won't let me move..keeps coming back to act like they regret what they did..then turn around and rub new rebounds in my face... then when I flip out on him.. he talks to me like he never contacted me and I'm obsessed...found out he does that..to show my messages to the new flings...Idk if that is a tactic men do?? To pull new woman in..or why he wants me to look obsessed with him... why even tell the new girls about his ex? He was the one always contacting me.


Sounds like your his little play thing when he's bored evil get the hell away from that toxic bullshit.



Also, my Chart is this -

SUN - Sagittarius

MOON - Aquarius

RISING - Scorpio

Medium Coeli - Virgo

MERCURY - Sagittarius RX

VENUS - Scorpio

MARS - Sagittarius

JUPITER - Virgo

SATURN - Aquarius

URANUS - Capricorn

NEPTUNE - Capricorn
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Posted by Centaur12.

Sounds like your his little play thing when he's bored evil get the hell away from that toxic bullshit.



Also, my Chart is this -

SUN - Sagittarius

MOON - Aquarius

RISING - Scorpio

Medium Coeli - Virgo

MERCURY - Sagittarius RX

VENUS - Scorpio

MARS - Sagittarius

JUPITER - Virgo

SATURN - Aquarius

URANUS - Capricorn

NEPTUNE - Capricorn

Hmm so interesting. I always thought that Sagittarius and Aquarius are the most detached placements.
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Posted by Centaur12.

Sounds like your his little play thing when he's bored evil get the hell away from that toxic bullshit.



Also, my Chart is this -

SUN - Sagittarius

MOON - Aquarius

RISING - Scorpio

Medium Coeli - Virgo

MERCURY - Sagittarius RX

VENUS - Scorpio

MARS - Sagittarius

JUPITER - Virgo

SATURN - Aquarius

URANUS - Capricorn

NEPTUNE - Capricorn

Hmm so interesting. I always thought that Sagittarius and Aquarius are the most detached placements.
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I can be pretty detached on things at times depending on what and who it is lol.
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Posted by Centaur12.

Sounds like your his little play thing when he's bored evil get the hell away from that toxic bullshit.



Also, my Chart is this -

SUN - Sagittarius

MOON - Aquarius

RISING - Scorpio

Medium Coeli - Virgo

MERCURY - Sagittarius RX

VENUS - Scorpio

MARS - Sagittarius

JUPITER - Virgo

SATURN - Aquarius

URANUS - Capricorn

NEPTUNE - Capricorn

Hmm so interesting. I always thought that Sagittarius and Aquarius are the most detached placements.

I can be pretty detached on things at times depending on what and who it is lol.
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I feel like giving a chance to Sagittarius after this. I was avoiding them as plague lol.
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I certainly won't be holding my breath...

I understand why I haven't really stuck to my words the past year lol.

But I'm holding onto the Ram she displays everything I should of been receiving from a partner !! And I really like her alot.
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Find peace and fulfillment in yourself.

Or you’ll be trading one codependent relationship for another
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As if you don't know her number by heart till now...😄

At least pretend that you think his resolve will hold out ! 😆

😅😆 It literally will

I’ll take that bet because you seem hooked fr fr. But I hope you can turn the page on her.

I'm done with the gem completely.

She isn't right for me and she doesn't fit into my family it was unfortunate but it is what it is and the Aries has come in like a normal person lol and fits right in she gets on really well with my sisters and we have been out for drinks etc they really like her alot.

I'm happy for you mate. Are you starting to like her as much as the Gem?
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She treats me right and I'm starting to like her the relationship with the gem was completely different it's hard to tell so early on the relationship with the gem was very exciting and off the hook from the start and with the ram it's little steps but that's because of the way I'm feeling as well.
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Posted by Wizardz_
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by FadedAri
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Wizardz_
Posted by Undine

As if you don't know her number by heart till now...😄

At least pretend that you think his resolve will hold out ! 😆

😅😆 It literally will

I’ll take that bet because you seem hooked fr fr. But I hope you can turn the page on her.

I'm done with the gem completely.

She isn't right for me and she doesn't fit into my family it was unfortunate but it is what it is and the Aries has come in like a normal person lol and fits right in she gets on really well with my sisters and we have been out for drinks etc they really like her alot.

I'm happy for you mate. Are you starting to like her as much as the Gem?
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That said as well the Rams probably wondering why I haven't asked her into a relationship yet but it's because I need time to get to know her first
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Wizardz_
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by FadedAri
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Wizardz_
Posted by Undine

As if you don't know her number by heart till now...😄

At least pretend that you think his resolve will hold out ! 😆

😅😆 It literally will

I’ll take that bet because you seem hooked fr fr. But I hope you can turn the page on her.

I'm done with the gem completely.

She isn't right for me and she doesn't fit into my family it was unfortunate but it is what it is and the Aries has come in like a normal person lol and fits right in she gets on really well with my sisters and we have been out for drinks etc they really like her alot.

I'm happy for you mate. Are you starting to like her as much as the Gem?

She treats me right and I'm starting to like her the relationship with the gem was completely different it's hard to tell so early on the relationship with the gem was very exciting and off the hook from the start and with the ram it's little steps but that's because of the way I'm feeling as well.

Yes but the Gem was a rollercoaster and in the end that would never change. At least with the Ram you have the chance to progress and one day be in a better place than you ever were with the Gem plus not have to face the inevitable crash down that the Gem always brought
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Hell yeah man.

That is exactly why I won't look back even if she tried to come back but I don't see her doing that anyway and I don't care.

She won't end up with a decent guy in the end because of the way she acts and her stubborn behaviour and she wonders why she was in toxic relationships before me she should check herself as well lol not that it's any of my concern.

Something interesting though I looked into the tarots for 2022 for Sag and it says about someone new coming into our lifes that really love us and letting go of a toxic relationship etc but also, saying a person will come back into our lives who really loves us and wasn't ready at the time and they miss treated us and wasn't mature enough I watched a few of them on YouTube it was pretty cool but I take them with a pinch of salt.