hellosaggy
@hellosaggy
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first time sex when drunk?!?
@neno2
Man I'm telling you. its like you gotta get them drinking to get them to loosen the f up.
Man I'm telling you. its like you gotta get them drinking to get them to loosen the f up.
TBh my cap is much more frigid when he's drunk, he's wayyyyyyyyyy more easy going when sober. Caps are strange.
Posted by Neno2You need a hoof to the balls.Posted by ShadowcatIts the truth😂Posted by Neno2Hey now -_-Posted by hellosaggyExactly👍i usually figure people out easy,i knew she must go drunk😂she has ♑ stelium
@neno2
Man I'm telling you. its like you gotta get them drinking to get them to loosen the f up.
The only woman in whole zodiac that when she feels that she likes someone she tries to kill the attraction😂basically u must force them for their own good😂click to expand
You're good for not doing that while she was drunk. You should ask her though, what the hell's up with that. Why is she so on you and open when she's drunk but not sober. Ask her if she wants the D or not!!! 😛
Then tell her she needs to be sober to get it! Drunk hoes is a no no! 😆
Then tell her she needs to be sober to get it! Drunk hoes is a no no! 😆
Posted by Neno2Exactly... everybody else in the world knows a Cap likes you.... but you....its a damn head scratcher....Posted by ShadowcatIts the truth😂Posted by Neno2Hey now -_-Posted by hellosaggyExactly👍i usually figure people out easy,i knew she must go drunk😂she has ♑ stelium
@neno2
Man I'm telling you. its like you gotta get them drinking to get them to loosen the f up.
The only woman in whole zodiac that when she feels that she likes someone she tries to kill the attraction😂basically u must force them for their own good😂click to expand
All her friends were like she talks about you all the time... but when I text her, I get no response for long hours/days .... its like wait you talking about me?
Posted by nanowell aren't you basic.Posted by sierra_So crazy. I would never fuck a guy casually if he was stingy about drinks or buying me dinner or whatever 😂Posted by nano+1
“Knowing I wasn’t going to have to buy her drinks”
What kind of 33 year old guy gets mad about not getting pussy and makes it any kind of ordeal at all to have to buy a woman drinks that he’s trying to bone?
Maybe I got lucky with my cap FWB (I low key had feelings for him 🤫 for a long time) because he was kind and spoiled me.
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You won't hear stingy come out of any girl's mouth I mess with, especially her. the point I'm making is I'm not going to keep spoiling her when I'm not getting the kind of attention I want.
what kind of 33 year old guy shuts down on the niceties when he's turned off?... this one.
She's never given me anything but blue balls.... she's a sweet girl though. like I've always said. I just don't have patience for slowness when I'm not completely into someone. We are cool.
Plus work is slow for her. when I go to her job. I don't get free drinks. she might make them doubles or whatever, and I tip her well (normally at least double my bill) because I know she only makes 50 - 100 bucks sometimes a shift.
because I'm a nice friend/ guy she's dating 😉
right now I'm still on fence about the dating part... we will see what she does for my birthday.
thanks @saggurl88 I was shocked when she said it. I knew she had wanted to earlier in the night, but people started buying her shots and at 115 lbs... yeah it killed the whole thing.
last night her friend got white girl wasted - getting sick and cock blocked.
At least I made it to Friday like I planned, barely. She almost messed it up! I sure would have sexed her last night.
Plus work is slow for her. when I go to her job. I don't get free drinks. she might make them doubles or whatever, and I tip her well (normally at least double my bill) because I know she only makes 50 - 100 bucks sometimes a shift.
because I'm a nice friend/ guy she's dating 😉
right now I'm still on fence about the dating part... we will see what she does for my birthday.
thanks @saggurl88 I was shocked when she said it. I knew she had wanted to earlier in the night, but people started buying her shots and at 115 lbs... yeah it killed the whole thing.
last night her friend got white girl wasted - getting sick and cock blocked.
At least I made it to Friday like I planned, barely. She almost messed it up! I sure would have sexed her last night.
yeah i'm proud of you for not doing anything
also alcohol desensitizes you so they sex wouldn't even have felt as good to her if you had sex with her those previous two evenings in which she was drunk
also alcohol desensitizes you so they sex wouldn't even have felt as good to her if you had sex with her those previous two evenings in which she was drunk
Posted by hellosaggy
She's never given me anything but blue balls.... she's a sweet girl though. like I've always said. I just don't have patience for slowness when I'm not completely into someone. We are cool.
Plus work is slow for her. when I go to her job. I don't get free drinks. she might make them doubles or whatever, and I tip her well (normally at least double my bill) because I know she only makes 50 - 100 bucks sometimes a shift.
because I'm a nice friend/ guy she's dating 😉
right now I'm still on fence about the dating part... we will see what she does for my birthday.
thanks @saggurl88 I was shocked when she said it. I knew she had wanted to earlier in the night, but people started buying her shots and at 115 lbs... yeah it killed the whole thing.
last night her friend got white girl wasted - getting sick and cock blocked.
At least I made it to Friday like I planned, barely. She almost messed it up! I sure would have sexed her last night.
You have plenty of time to get your balls juggled in someones mouth if you can keep them interested. lol Good luck with it all 😆
Posted by RooSagicorn@RooSagicornPosted by hellosaggyLol how ironic. Twice now she’s been drunk like that. And twice you could’ve had sex but didnt due to the drinking..
who has sex the first time drunk and is ok with it?
The CAP has been blowing up my phone for last few days asking to spend time with me. Last night, she got off work early because it was slow and asked me to come and drink with her and her friends.
Knowing I wasn't going to have to buy her drinks and I was curious as to what was going to happen I relented and got there in about 30 min.
She smelled like beer so I smiled at her and said "it looks like you started without me" she shook her head and I told her "order me a drink and you one too. you know what I like." and went and greeted her friends.
Her scorpio girlfriend said "are you going to make a move on her tonight. she wants you."
I laugh and said "maybe"
went back over to CAP and we are laughing and joking and I'm still pissed about her getting drunk a couple weeks ago and us not having sex that night.
she said "I honestly don't remember us making out or even getting home. You should have just f'd me" and she laughed.
I personally didn't find it funny. I wouldn't want to have sex with someone the first time and not be able to remember it.
She said she likes me and wouldn't have been bothered waking up next to me (I'm not a sleep over type person, especially when I've been drinking bc that's really the only time I possibly snore), so she wouldn't have woken up next to me anyway lol.
that feels rapey to me though.
so anyway...we drink and have some fun....make out a lot again, and I asked her if she's going to remember tonight.... then her taurus friend yaks all over herself. so she goes into mommy mode and takes care of her and says shes going to drive her home.
So I go home drunk and alone. so I text her... "hey you should be here with me" and pass out.
I wake up with a hang over...and the Virgo is supposed to be here today
Well my Cap is no different drunk or not. He just tends to let me know his true feelings more when he’s been drinking.click to expand
I'm not saying sober she acts repulsed by me. she hugs me, feeds me food and all that boring stuff, but she hasn't done anything sexual at all sober. I've only been seeing her since November...
Last night she violated me like she was a TSA agent. Opened my shirt up, rubbed a few places. She was going to get it last night....then she snapped out of it at the Taurus barfing. smh...
Posted by saggurl88The virgo is doing some juggling this weekend lol. I'm waiting on her to text me she's leaving so I can go clean my bathroom to woman standards.... right now its just serviceable enough not to catch anything or get a fungus lol...Posted by hellosaggy
She's never given me anything but blue balls.... she's a sweet girl though. like I've always said. I just don't have patience for slowness when I'm not completely into someone. We are cool.
Plus work is slow for her. when I go to her job. I don't get free drinks. she might make them doubles or whatever, and I tip her well (normally at least double my bill) because I know she only makes 50 - 100 bucks sometimes a shift.
because I'm a nice friend/ guy she's dating 😉
right now I'm still on fence about the dating part... we will see what she does for my birthday.
thanks @saggurl88 I was shocked when she said it. I knew she had wanted to earlier in the night, but people started buying her shots and at 115 lbs... yeah it killed the whole thing.
last night her friend got white girl wasted - getting sick and cock blocked.
At least I made it to Friday like I planned, barely. She almost messed it up! I sure would have sexed her last night.
You have plenty of time to get your balls juggled in someones mouth if you can keep them interested. lol Good luck with it all 😆
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then I'll clean up for my birthday next week 😆
Posted by RooSagicornI've banged plenty of bartenders...and have plenty of bartender friends. I've never dated one no.
Have you ever dated a bartender before?
My only relationships have been with a NATO linguistics Analyst (scorpio)and a Loan officer at a bank (Sag)
Oh boy.. how old is she? I'm a 6x cap stellium and I don't fuss around sex like that. Its not that difficult to be classy and emotional mature enough to handle sex without getting drunk
She's a social woman so hanging with her buddies I have zero problem with. She's actually introduced me to every last one of them....
with her working multiple jobs, I've only been alone with her twice. and the one day we were supposed to go out she had an attitude from earlier and I canceled it so she could manage her emotions.
I've not pushed or asked for her to come over. I've not had anyone over my place since I got home in July. I still haven't gotten rid of a lot of my ex's stuff. and didn't want anyone noticing it or asking about it.
That's why the Virgo coming its forced me to clean and get rid of stuff.
I don't like people knowing where I live... I'm private like that.
@AquaNextDoor she's 26. Based on the make out sessions I'm sure she's probably at least decent in bed. Our synastry has us highly compatible. its just only times we've been completely alone has been leaving bar. She works like 6 days a week. Its a tourist area and there aren't many tourist during the fall/winter/half of spring.... so the vampires work multiple jobs. All her friends she work with complain about how slow this time of year is. I think she made 25 dollars in 5 hours on Monday....
with her working multiple jobs, I've only been alone with her twice. and the one day we were supposed to go out she had an attitude from earlier and I canceled it so she could manage her emotions.
I've not pushed or asked for her to come over. I've not had anyone over my place since I got home in July. I still haven't gotten rid of a lot of my ex's stuff. and didn't want anyone noticing it or asking about it.
That's why the Virgo coming its forced me to clean and get rid of stuff.
I don't like people knowing where I live... I'm private like that.
@AquaNextDoor she's 26. Based on the make out sessions I'm sure she's probably at least decent in bed. Our synastry has us highly compatible. its just only times we've been completely alone has been leaving bar. She works like 6 days a week. Its a tourist area and there aren't many tourist during the fall/winter/half of spring.... so the vampires work multiple jobs. All her friends she work with complain about how slow this time of year is. I think she made 25 dollars in 5 hours on Monday....
My Sag friend once told me that he would hate to have sex with a drunk women as self control is an important aspect of behaviour...
As a Cap I am quite sentimental at times especially if it was sex first time with a person and would not want to be drunk or I would realllyyyyy regret it the next day!
As a Cap I am quite sentimental at times especially if it was sex first time with a person and would not want to be drunk or I would realllyyyyy regret it the next day!
Posted by Neno2I am. A decisive one. Granted most of my personal planets are Fixed. Can’t relate to half the shit you fuckers bring in here.Posted by hippiecrite😂are u a cap?Posted by Neno2You need a hoof to the balls.Posted by ShadowcatIts the truth😂Posted by Neno2Hey now -_-Posted by hellosaggyExactly👍i usually figure people out easy,i knew she must go drunk😂she has ♑ stelium
@neno2
Man I'm telling you. its like you gotta get them drinking to get them to loosen the f up.
The only woman in whole zodiac that when she feels that she likes someone she tries to kill the attraction😂basically u must force them for their own good😂click to expand
Either way, your comment was rapey and a half.
@Saggurl88 😂 what do YOU know about juggling? Any recent circus acts?
Posted by Wineaux15Nope! That Aqua escapes my grasp every time!! I'm horrible at knowing what he wants or needs 😆 He doesn't give enough to go on and I suck at guessing. lol
@Saggurl88 😂 what do YOU know about juggling? Any recent circus acts?
Posted by Neno2Posted by hippiecrite😂Posted by Neno2I am. A decisive one. Granted most of my personal planets are Fixed. Can’t relate to half the shit you fuckers bring in here.Posted by hippiecrite😂are u a cap?Posted by Neno2You need a hoof to the balls.Posted by ShadowcatIts the truth😂Posted by Neno2Hey now -_-Posted by hellosaggyExactly👍i usually figure people out easy,i knew she must go drunk😂she has ♑ stelium
@neno2
Man I'm telling you. its like you gotta get them drinking to get them to loosen the f up.
The only woman in whole zodiac that when she feels that she likes someone she tries to kill the attraction😂basically u must force them for their own good😂
What are your placements (sun,moon,mars,venus,asc,pluto..etc)?click to expand
Posted by Neno2Nope. 😛Posted by hippiecriteI cant read all the placements😃do u have the placements table pic to showPosted by Neno2Posted by hippiecrite😂Posted by Neno2I am. A decisive one. Granted most of my personal planets are Fixed. Can’t relate to half the shit you fuckers bring in here.Posted by hippiecrite😂are u a cap?Posted by Neno2You need a hoof to the balls.Posted by ShadowcatIts the truth😂Posted by Neno2Hey now -_-Posted by hellosaggyExactly👍i usually figure people out easy,i knew she must go drunk😂she has ♑ stelium
@neno2
Man I'm telling you. its like you gotta get them drinking to get them to loosen the f up.
The only woman in whole zodiac that when she feels that she likes someone she tries to kill the attraction😂basically u must force them for their own good😂
What are your placements (sun,moon,mars,venus,asc,pluto..etc)?click to expand
Posted by hellosaggyI think that was pure "drunk talk" ... god I remember those days on no inhibitions and well, I have regrets
who has sex the first time drunk and is ok with it?
The CAP has been blowing up my phone for last few days asking to spend time with me. Last night, she got off work early because it was slow and asked me to come and drink with her and her friends.
Knowing I wasn't going to have to buy her drinks and I was curious as to what was going to happen I relented and got there in about 30 min.
She smelled like beer so I smiled at her and said "it looks like you started without me" she shook her head and I told her "order me a drink and you one too. you know what I like." and went and greeted her friends.
Her scorpio girlfriend said "are you going to make a move on her tonight. she wants you."
I laugh and said "maybe"
went back over to CAP and we are laughing and joking and I'm still pissed about her getting drunk a couple weeks ago and us not having sex that night.
she said "I honestly don't remember us making out or even getting home. You should have just f'd me" and she laughed.
I personally didn't find it funny. I wouldn't want to have sex with someone the first time and not be able to remember it.
She said she likes me and wouldn't have been bothered waking up next to me (I'm not a sleep over type person, especially when I've been drinking bc that's really the only time I possibly snore), so she wouldn't have woken up next to me anyway lol.
that feels rapey to me though.
so anyway...we drink and have some fun....make out a lot again, and I asked her if she's going to remember tonight.... then her taurus friend yaks all over herself. so she goes into mommy mode and takes care of her and says shes going to drive her home.
So I go home drunk and alone. so I text her... "hey you should be here with me" and pass out.
I wake up with a hang over...and the Virgo is supposed to be here today
but daym, she took her drunk friend home - and she was drunk herself - ?
I hate people that can't control their vices. I don't know if its a Sag/Aries thing or what. I like a little bit of fun when people loosen up though.
But girls that dance on bars or strip down and make out with random guys is a major turn off. You are embarrassing yourself in public.
Her drunk Taurus friend, who is a cute little blonde, was hugging on me, her other friends, and making out with 2 - 3 guys that night. one guy was trying to take her home so the Taurus became the main attraction of the night keeping her out of trouble.
Cap apologized to me about Taurus and was like "she's too friendly when shes lit" ... yeah but know your limits... Cap wasn't wasted, she was having a good time though.
I would think as bartenders/waitresses you see enough ridiculous drunk things and wouldn't want to go there. Then on top of that Cap had to go play mommy leaving me frustrated... again.
But girls that dance on bars or strip down and make out with random guys is a major turn off. You are embarrassing yourself in public.
Her drunk Taurus friend, who is a cute little blonde, was hugging on me, her other friends, and making out with 2 - 3 guys that night. one guy was trying to take her home so the Taurus became the main attraction of the night keeping her out of trouble.
Cap apologized to me about Taurus and was like "she's too friendly when shes lit" ... yeah but know your limits... Cap wasn't wasted, she was having a good time though.
I would think as bartenders/waitresses you see enough ridiculous drunk things and wouldn't want to go there. Then on top of that Cap had to go play mommy leaving me frustrated... again.
Posted by hellosaggyyeah but you don't want drunk sex anyway so hoping you both catch the wave - is it tomorrow ? Caps can be very outgoing and yet be totally submissive (I am) so maybe she wants you to steer the boat (wink wink) ? I remember when the Libra I'm seeing asked me if I was submissive early on - I think it was that he just needed to confirm what he was feeling about me - cause he is something - I think it's his Scorpio Mars - the perception
I hate people that can't control their vices. I don't know if its a Sag/Aries thing or what. I like a little bit of fun when people loosen up though.
But girls that dance on bars or strip down and make out with random guys is a major turn off. You are embarrassing yourself in public.
Her drunk Taurus friend, who is a cute little blonde, was hugging on me, her other friends, and making out with 2 - 3 guys that night. one guy was trying to take her home so the Taurus became the main attraction of the night keeping her out of trouble.
Cap apologized to me about Taurus and was like "she's too friendly when shes lit" ... yeah but know your limits... Cap wasn't wasted, she was having a good time though.
I would think as bartenders/waitresses you see enough ridiculous drunk things and wouldn't want to go there. Then on top of that Cap had to go play mommy leaving me frustrated... again.
I couldn't even stand the smell of liquor when I worked in a country club and that was over lunch where all the old men would play golf and eat and drink all day lol
it would be interesting to know what other placements she has - or did I miss them if you posted them
yeah, I never got that bad that I didn't remember what I did, or didn't make it home safely and me and gf(s) walked many times just to be safe (of course it was like a mile and half or something to my place) - or we would get breakfast and coffee next door to the bar before we drove home so we did sober up considerably - besides the safety the cops watched the place to catch people when they left
Posted by hellosaggywow a lot of Cap - Gem Moon is interesting but I have no experience with this moon sign - the sun sign I do and they can be sort of like 2 different sides - the sweet and salty - lol - at least the ones I've known
@tctao
Cap Sun
Gem Moon
Merc Cap
Venus Sag
Mars Cap
Nah my birthday is Thursday.
what is her Rising ?
Posted by tctaoCancer risingPosted by hellosaggywow a lot of Cap - Gem Moon is interesting but I have no experience with this moon sign - the sun sign I do and they can be sort of like 2 different sides - the sweet and salty - lol - at least the ones I've known
@tctao
Cap Sun
Gem Moon
Merc Cap
Venus Sag
Mars Cap
Nah my birthday is Thursday.
what is her Rising ?
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Posted by Juliiette
i think she doesn't take you seriously given her placements and behavior. attracted yes, but not really care about your balls.
I care more about my balls being cared for than her taking me seriously lol.
I have never had to work so hard for some action... now that's all I'm focused on. If she just got it out the way a month or so ago, maybe I would actually be thinking about really liking her at this point.
She has to be more invested in our relationship than I am, and its really because of her being prudish.
I don't/won't even start thinking about a serious relationship until after sex.
Posted by hellosaggygood - she needs something to balance out all that Cap - lolPosted by tctaoCancer risingPosted by hellosaggywow a lot of Cap - Gem Moon is interesting but I have no experience with this moon sign - the sun sign I do and they can be sort of like 2 different sides - the sweet and salty - lol - at least the ones I've known
@tctao
Cap Sun
Gem Moon
Merc Cap
Venus Sag
Mars Cap
Nah my birthday is Thursday.
what is her Rising ?
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Posted by JuliietteI don't agree with the above - Caps normally can't be bribed / boughtPosted by hellosaggyPosted by Juliiette
i think she doesn't take you seriously given her placements and behavior. attracted yes, but not really care about your balls.
I care more about my balls being cared for than her taking me seriously lol.
I have never had to work so hard for some action... now that's all I'm focused on. If she just got it out the way a month or so ago, maybe I would actually be thinking about really liking her at this point.
She has to be more invested in our relationship than I am, and its really because of her being prudish.
I don't/won't even start thinking about a serious relationship until after sex.
well that's what i'm telling you, she doesn't seem interested to invest, not to mention more than you. she doesn't sound prudish idk. you could even have sex but not cause she is invested but cause it was convenient, as in her friends were not that drunk, she had time etc. she acts like you are just some guy. idk i have that gemini moon so maybe i'm just projecting. that doesn't mean it can't change. take her to some awesome party then she could be yours. 😄click to expand
Posted by hellosaggylmfaoPosted by Juliiette
i think she doesn't take you seriously given her placements and behavior. attracted yes, but not really care about your balls.
I care more about my balls being cared for than her taking me seriously lol.
I have never had to work so hard for some action... now that's all I'm focused on. If she just got it out the way a month or so ago, maybe I would actually be thinking about really liking her at this point.
She has to be more invested in our relationship than I am, and its really because of her being prudish.
I don't/won't even start thinking about a serious relationship until after sex.click to expand
jfc - well, just think - if ya'll ever do make it to being an actual couple then you won't have to worry about her giving it up to someone else - at least easily
I'm sure it's worth the wait and that you are just in "grumpy balls" mode - lol - didn't get your jets cooled last weekend and well, I guess the DIY method isn't working
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The CAP has been blowing up my phone for last few days asking to spend time with me. Last night, she got off work early because it was slow and asked me to come and drink with her and her friends.
Knowing I wasn't going to have to buy her drinks and I was curious as to what was going to happen I relented and got there in about 30 min.
She smelled like beer so I smiled at her and said "it looks like you started without me" she shook her head and I told her "order me a drink and you one too. you know what I like." and went and greeted her friends.
Her scorpio girlfriend said "are you going to make a move on her tonight. she wants you."
I laugh and said "maybe"
went back over to CAP and we are laughing and joking and I'm still pissed about her getting drunk a couple weeks ago and us not having sex that night.
she said "I honestly don't remember us making out or even getting home. You should have just f'd me" and she laughed.
I personally didn't find it funny. I wouldn't want to have sex with someone the first time and not be able to remember it.
She said she likes me and wouldn't have been bothered waking up next to me (I'm not a sleep over type person, especially when I've been drinking bc that's really the only time I possibly snore), so she wouldn't have woken up next to me anyway lol.
that feels rapey to me though.
so anyway...we drink and have some fun....make out a lot again, and I asked her if she's going to remember tonight.... then her taurus friend yaks all over herself. so she goes into mommy mode and takes care of her and says shes going to drive her home.
So I go home drunk and alone. so I text her... "hey you should be here with me" and pass out.
I wake up with a hang over...and the Virgo is supposed to be here today