Why did you let a dude nut in you and not get plan b?
Found out I’m pregnant. He’s ignoring me.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Why did you let a dude nut in you and not get plan b?
And the reward for the unsympathetic bitch goes to.
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a
and you can't go over to his place directly for some reason?
why not talk to him in person?
How can she get a hold of him to talk in person when he said I’m never going to respond to you? Unless, she sits outside of his house waiting for him..
Posted by tiziani
Well ball's in his court now. Nothing you can do but give it time, unless you have some other way to contact him.
And both of you could help by not getting defensive with one another, now that there are other priorities on the line like your health.
BINGO.....Op please answer me
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by vanballmoosPosted by s_i_e_r_r_a
and you can't go over to his place directly for some reason?
why not talk to him in person?
How can she get a hold of him to talk in person when he said I’m never going to respond to you? Unless, she sits outside of his house waiting for him..
respond in text or calls maybe
but people have no choice
but to react in the fleshclick to expand
I agree with the in flesh part, but he’s ignoring OP via text and calls
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by tiziani
Well ball's in his court now. Nothing you can do but give it time, unless you have some other way to contact him.
And both of you could help by not getting defensive with one another, now that there are other priorities on the line like your health.
BINGO.....Op please answer meclick to expand
Why are you saying bingo?
Posted by LDM90Posted by LibraSupremePosted by tiziani
Well ball's in his court now. Nothing you can do but give it time, unless you have some other way to contact him.
And both of you could help by not getting defensive with one another, now that there are other priorities on the line like your health.
BINGO.....Op please answer me
Why are you saying bingo?click to expand
he's agreeing with the previous poster - now can you answer him ?
Posted by LDM90Posted by LibraSupremePosted by tiziani
Well ball's in his court now. Nothing you can do but give it time, unless you have some other way to contact him.
And both of you could help by not getting defensive with one another, now that there are other priorities on the line like your health.
BINGO.....Op please answer me
Why are you saying bingo?click to expand
Plan B option. Or are you trying to trap him
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by LDM90Posted by LibraSupremePosted by tiziani
Well ball's in his court now. Nothing you can do but give it time, unless you have some other way to contact him.
And both of you could help by not getting defensive with one another, now that there are other priorities on the line like your health.
BINGO.....Op please answer me
Why are you saying bingo?
Plan B option. Or are you trying to trap himclick to expand
...that’s disgusting that you think because a woman is pregnant she’s trying to trap him. We had actually talked about kids and it’s obviously too late for plan B.
Posted by LDM90Posted by LibraSupremePosted by LDM90Posted by LibraSupremePosted by tiziani
Well ball's in his court now. Nothing you can do but give it time, unless you have some other way to contact him.
And both of you could help by not getting defensive with one another, now that there are other priorities on the line like your health.
BINGO.....Op please answer me
Why are you saying bingo?
Plan B option. Or are you trying to trap him
...that’s disgusting that you think because a woman is pregnant she’s trying to trap him. We had actually talked about kids and it’s obviously too late for plan B.click to expand
Okay the scenario doesn't look great with a FWB in limbo. Have you asked the Aries his thoughts.
Does he know that he is up to 18 years of child support? Just curious...
Posted by vanballmoosPosted by LadyNeptune
Why did you let a dude nut in you and not get plan b?
And the reward for the unsympathetic bitch goes to.click to expand
Unsympathetic how?
Common sense. Hello!
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Are you serious? Didn you not read in my post I told him weeks ago that I thought I was pregnant? This isn’t new to him.
Posted by LDM90Posted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Are you serious? Didn you not read in my post I told him weeks ago that I thought I was pregnant? This isn’t new to him.click to expand
Anddd you broke up with him?? girl who on earth wants to be with a wishy washy person like that? get it together.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Your response is horrid. Yes let’s blame the woman.
OP told this chump way before that she thought she was pregnant. She even sent him proof of the pregnancy test.
I don’t get why people are judging OP so harshly like y’alla mammas, sisters, aunts, hell even you haven’t screwed up. None of that is relevant because she’s pregnant. Can’t undo it now.
I swear women always take the heat and the men don’t. Like it doesn’t take two to make a baby. Y’all are over here bashing OP instead of question why this “man” isn’t being a man, instead he’s being an a $ &hole smh.
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by LDM90Posted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Are you serious? Didn you not read in my post I told him weeks ago that I thought I was pregnant? This isn’t new to him.
Anddd you broke up with him?? girl who on earth wants to be with a wishy washy person like that? get it together.click to expand
What does wishy washy have anything to do with a grown man not stepping up to take care of his responsibilities?
It doesn’t matter if he wants to be with OP or not. To completely ignore the woman he took part in getting pregnant is horrible.
Posted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Your response is horrid. Yes let’s blame the woman.
OP told this chump way before that she thought she was pregnant. She even sent him proof of the pregnancy test.
I don’t get why people are judging OP so harshly like y’alla mammas, sisters, aunts, hell even you haven’t screwed up. None of that is relevant because she’s pregnant. Can’t undo it now.
I swear women always take the heat and the men don’t. Like it doesn’t take two to make a baby. Y’all are over here bashing OP instead of question why this “man” isn’t being a man, instead he’s being an a $ &hole smh.click to expand
oh whateverrrrr, i have 5 older brothers and let me tell you, ive seen all kinds of crazy girls and i know how it goes and this girl is immature, sorry if that hurts your feelings...
By plan B I was thinking abortion, not the day after pill.
Posted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by LDM90Posted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Are you serious? Didn you not read in my post I told him weeks ago that I thought I was pregnant? This isn’t new to him.
Anddd you broke up with him?? girl who on earth wants to be with a wishy washy person like that? get it together.
What does wishy washy have anything to do with a grown man not stepping up to take care of his responsibilities?
It doesn’t matter if he wants to be with OP or not. To completely ignore the woman he took part in getting pregnant is horrible.click to expand
maybe he doesnt believe her? i mean would YOU? with her past...yea let keep it real here
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by LDM90Posted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Are you serious? Didn you not read in my post I told him weeks ago that I thought I was pregnant? This isn’t new to him.
Anddd you broke up with him?? girl who on earth wants to be with a wishy washy person like that? get it together.
What does wishy washy have anything to do with a grown man not stepping up to take care of his responsibilities?
It doesn’t matter if he wants to be with OP or not. To completely ignore the woman he took part in getting pregnant is horrible.
maybe he doesnt believe her? i mean would YOU? with her past...yea let keep it real hereclick to expand
YES! He already came in her, she told him weeks ago, and she sent him the pictures of the test.
If they didn't have unprotected sex, didn't already have a conversation about it then I would agree with you. However, none of this happened.
Plus I would think if this guy really thought OP was crazy he would've blocked her but he hasn't. He doesn't think she's crazy. He's just a pathetic excuse for a man.
Posted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Your response is horrid. Yes let’s blame the woman.
OP told this chump way before that she thought she was pregnant. She even sent him proof of the pregnancy test.
I don’t get why people are judging OP so harshly like y’alla mammas, sisters, aunts, hell even you haven’t screwed up. None of that is relevant because she’s pregnant. Can’t undo it now.
I swear women always take the heat and the men don’t. Like it doesn’t take two to make a baby. Y’all are over here bashing OP instead of question why this “man” isn’t being a man, instead he’s being an a $ &hole smh.click to expand
Asking a woman who let a dude nut in her and then broke up with him, why she didn't get plan b...isn't judgement. Try again.
First, it takes two to tango.
You and he should have taken the precautions beforehand, when you were having sex without any preventative measures. But that point is moot now, since you are already pregnant.
Honestly, no matter that you warned him weeks ago or not, of a possibility. All of the drama that may have to do with your hormones being out of wack from the pregnancy, making you a little more "crazy", can be viewed to him as you simply trying to "trap" him. I am not saying you are doing that, but that it can be interrupted as such.
You're only course of action, is to try and continue to contact him. Try not to be over dramatic about it, and try not to cause any sort of scene about it. When he has had time to process the information, he will contact you. Whatever you decide for yourself, you will need to do it soon.
Good luck, and I am sorry you are here.
You and he should have taken the precautions beforehand, when you were having sex without any preventative measures. But that point is moot now, since you are already pregnant.
Honestly, no matter that you warned him weeks ago or not, of a possibility. All of the drama that may have to do with your hormones being out of wack from the pregnancy, making you a little more "crazy", can be viewed to him as you simply trying to "trap" him. I am not saying you are doing that, but that it can be interrupted as such.
You're only course of action, is to try and continue to contact him. Try not to be over dramatic about it, and try not to cause any sort of scene about it. When he has had time to process the information, he will contact you. Whatever you decide for yourself, you will need to do it soon.
Good luck, and I am sorry you are here.
Posted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Your response is horrid. Yes let’s blame the woman.
OP told this chump way before that she thought she was pregnant. She even sent him proof of the pregnancy test.
I don’t get why people are judging OP so harshly like y’alla mammas, sisters, aunts, hell even you haven’t screwed up. None of that is relevant because she’s pregnant. Can’t undo it now.
I swear women always take the heat and the men don’t. Like it doesn’t take two to make a baby. Y’all are over here bashing OP instead of question why this “man” isn’t being a man, instead he’s being an a $ &hole smh.click to expand
I always hold women in high regard. Women are to smart and strong to tether a relationship that is broken and to bring a child for the ride is hurting 2 lives. Cookie monster to a T.
Posted by bizzybee84Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by LDM90Posted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Are you serious? Didn you not read in my post I told him weeks ago that I thought I was pregnant? This isn’t new to him.
Anddd you broke up with him?? girl who on earth wants to be with a wishy washy person like that? get it together.
What does wishy washy have anything to do with a grown man not stepping up to take care of his responsibilities?
It doesn’t matter if he wants to be with OP or not. To completely ignore the woman he took part in getting pregnant is horrible.
maybe he doesnt believe her? i mean would YOU? with her past...yea let keep it real here
YES! He already came in her, she told him weeks ago, and she sent him the pictures of the test.
If they didn't have unprotected sex, didn't already have a conversation about it then I would agree with you. However, none of this happened.
Plus I would think if this guy really thought OP was crazy he would've blocked her but he hasn't. He doesn't think she's crazy. He's just a pathetic excuse for a man.click to expand
its scary that girls like you exist. Ive seen men go though soo much because girls like this come in their lives. Sad.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Your response is horrid. Yes let’s blame the woman.
OP told this chump way before that she thought she was pregnant. She even sent him proof of the pregnancy test.
I don’t get why people are judging OP so harshly like y’alla mammas, sisters, aunts, hell even you haven’t screwed up. None of that is relevant because she’s pregnant. Can’t undo it now.
I swear women always take the heat and the men don’t. Like it doesn’t take two to make a baby. Y’all are over here bashing OP instead of question why this “man” isn’t being a man, instead he’s being an a $ &hole smh.
Asking a woman who let a dude nut in her and then broke up with him, why she didn't get plan b...isn't judgement. Try again.click to expand
When we had sex this was about a month/month and half ago aka when things were good. He lives in a different state so we don't see each other that often. I was on BC and skipped my period. I miscalculated when I need to to take my BC and ended up taking a week and a few days late. I didn't have sex with him only two weeks ago and break up with him. We had sex about a month ago.
Posted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Your response is horrid. Yes let’s blame the woman.
OP told this chump way before that she thought she was pregnant. She even sent him proof of the pregnancy test.
I don’t get why people are judging OP so harshly like y’alla mammas, sisters, aunts, hell even you haven’t screwed up. None of that is relevant because she’s pregnant. Can’t undo it now.
I swear women always take the heat and the men don’t. Like it doesn’t take two to make a baby. Y’all are over here bashing OP instead of question why this “man” isn’t being a man, instead he’s being an a $ &hole smh.click to expand
Hon. I am 50/50 on this. I’ve been there. And I’ve always blamed myself!
Men don’t get pregnant! It’s us! So WE ARE the people who supposed to be more aware of this fact! We are supposed to think what if!
Yes! I hope he will pay out of his nose but if he is a dead beat...a lot she will get from him. Not!!!
So all this is on women and let’s not underestimate stupidity of unprotected sex when you really CANT AFFORD IT!
It’s not a good time to hug her and tell her that ‘bad things happen to good oeople’ NO! It’s things happen to stupid people! And it’s all over the place!
I think best is for her if she is keeping the baby is to find nice couple who are dreaming for a baby! And work with them to make 3 people happy!
Otherwise...it’ll be a mess!
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by bizzybee84Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by LDM90Posted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Are you serious? Didn you not read in my post I told him weeks ago that I thought I was pregnant? This isn’t new to him.
Anddd you broke up with him?? girl who on earth wants to be with a wishy washy person like that? get it together.
What does wishy washy have anything to do with a grown man not stepping up to take care of his responsibilities?
It doesn’t matter if he wants to be with OP or not. To completely ignore the woman he took part in getting pregnant is horrible.
maybe he doesnt believe her? i mean would YOU? with her past...yea let keep it real here
YES! He already came in her, she told him weeks ago, and she sent him the pictures of the test.
If they didn't have unprotected sex, didn't already have a conversation about it then I would agree with you. However, none of this happened.
Plus I would think if this guy really thought OP was crazy he would've blocked her but he hasn't. He doesn't think she's crazy. He's just a pathetic excuse for a man.
its scary that girls like you exist. Ive seen men go though soo much because girls like this come in their lives. Sad.click to expand
Does this look like I’m faking this to you?
https://imgur.com/a/6IXZUjg
https://imgur.com/a/GqKpWTk
And just in case you still don’t believe me, here’s a pic of my nail that I just took and it looks like my nail in the other pics.
https://imgur.com/a/2pSLU9K
So no I’m not faking. Just because your brothers had bad experiences that doesn’t mean other women are crazy smh.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Your response is horrid. Yes let’s blame the woman.
OP told this chump way before that she thought she was pregnant. She even sent him proof of the pregnancy test.
I don’t get why people are judging OP so harshly like y’alla mammas, sisters, aunts, hell even you haven’t screwed up. None of that is relevant because she’s pregnant. Can’t undo it now.
I swear women always take the heat and the men don’t. Like it doesn’t take two to make a baby. Y’all are over here bashing OP instead of question why this “man” isn’t being a man, instead he’s being an a $ &hole smh.
Hon. I am 50/50 on this. I’ve been there. And I’ve always blamed myself!
Men don’t get pregnant! It’s us! So WE ARE the people who supposed to be more aware of this fact! We are supposed to think what if!
Yes! I hope he will pay out of his nose but if he is a dead beat...a lot she will get from him. Not!!!
So all this is on women and let’s not underestimate stupidity of unprotected sex when you really CANT AFFORD IT!
It’s not a good time to hug her and tell her that ‘bad things happen to good oeople’ NO! It’s things happen to stupid people! And it’s all over the place!
I think best is for her if she is keeping the baby is to find nice couple who are dreaming for a baby! And work with them to make 3 people happy!
Otherwise...it’ll be a mess!click to expand
I have a the money. I have an amazing job that pays well. He and I talked about kids and me being pregnant.
I’m not saying I’m going to keep it. I would like to but I know that I shouldn’t.
Posted by LDM90Posted by GemitatiPosted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Your response is horrid. Yes let’s blame the woman.
OP told this chump way before that she thought she was pregnant. She even sent him proof of the pregnancy test.
I don’t get why people are judging OP so harshly like y’alla mammas, sisters, aunts, hell even you haven’t screwed up. None of that is relevant because she’s pregnant. Can’t undo it now.
I swear women always take the heat and the men don’t. Like it doesn’t take two to make a baby. Y’all are over here bashing OP instead of question why this “man” isn’t being a man, instead he’s being an a $ &hole smh.
Hon. I am 50/50 on this. I’ve been there. And I’ve always blamed myself!
Men don’t get pregnant! It’s us! So WE ARE the people who supposed to be more aware of this fact! We are supposed to think what if!
Yes! I hope he will pay out of his nose but if he is a dead beat...a lot she will get from him. Not!!!
So all this is on women and let’s not underestimate stupidity of unprotected sex when you really CANT AFFORD IT!
It’s not a good time to hug her and tell her that ‘bad things happen to good oeople’ NO! It’s things happen to stupid people! And it’s all over the place!
I think best is for her if she is keeping the baby is to find nice couple who are dreaming for a baby! And work with them to make 3 people happy!
Otherwise...it’ll be a mess!
I have a the money. I have an amazing job that pays well. He and I talked about kids and me being pregnant.
I’m not saying I’m going to keep it. I would like to but I know that I shouldn’t.click to expand
I wouldn’t. But when I were at that place I had no option for adoption by anybody. I still don’t think I would go with 9 month of hell for giving it up!
Just make sure bozo thinks you are keeping it and let him sweat his balls thinking of years of child support! Just for the heck of it!
And I hope you’ve learned your lesson!
I never did...but...that’s why I am saying. Good luck! ❤️
Posted by Arkansassy
Need to get your nails fixed..
Haha I know :/ with everything going getting my nails fixed was the last thing on my mind.
Forgot to take your BC. Knowing 2 weeks ago you were Prego and failed to act. Wow this screams Cookie Monster.
Should he covered his part sure. But when a lady says she's on the pill most guys see it as a green light because he believed in you.
Should he covered his part sure. But when a lady says she's on the pill most guys see it as a green light because he believed in you.
Posted by LDM90Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Your response is horrid. Yes let’s blame the woman.
OP told this chump way before that she thought she was pregnant. She even sent him proof of the pregnancy test.
I don’t get why people are judging OP so harshly like y’alla mammas, sisters, aunts, hell even you haven’t screwed up. None of that is relevant because she’s pregnant. Can’t undo it now.
I swear women always take the heat and the men don’t. Like it doesn’t take two to make a baby. Y’all are over here bashing OP instead of question why this “man” isn’t being a man, instead he’s being an a $ &hole smh.
Asking a woman who let a dude nut in her and then broke up with him, why she didn't get plan b...isn't judgement. Try again.
When we had sex this was about a month/month and half ago aka when things were good. He lives in a different state so we don't see each other that often. I was on BC and skipped my period. I miscalculated when I need to to take my BC and ended up taking a week and a few days late. I didn't have sex with him only two weeks ago and break up with him. We had sex about a month ago.click to expand
Yikes.
Was it a fwb or relationshp?
Did you fuck anyone else during this time?
Be prepared for him to get nasty and claim its someone else's.
Go to his place, knock on the door and tell him. He is the father so does have rights. whatever is decided you both should make that decision together. He may tell you to get lost, but at least you know you attempted to tell him.
Waiting to tell him via phone or text isn't the way to play this out when you are talking about a child.
Waiting to tell him via phone or text isn't the way to play this out when you are talking about a child.
Posted by ArkansassyPosted by LDM90Posted by Arkansassy
Need to get your nails fixed..
Haha I know :/ with everything going getting my nails fixed was the last thing on my mind.
What was on your mind that made you forget to take your BC for 2 weeks??click to expand
That's not what happened. I miscalculated when I needed to insert a new ring. If you want your period you stop using BC at 3 weeks, have a period, then resume the BC. I skip my period so I thought I was supposed to keep it in (nuva ring) for an entire month then replace it. So for about a week and a few days I was without BC so everything was out of wack.
That's why I told him weeks ago I was worried that I was pregnant.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by LDM90Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by missmissyPosted by MoonshineLeo
hes right, youre verrrry immature. You sound like a nightmare and he will deff think you're crazy saying you're pregnant now. I feel bad for the dude.
Your response is horrid. Yes let’s blame the woman.
OP told this chump way before that she thought she was pregnant. She even sent him proof of the pregnancy test.
I don’t get why people are judging OP so harshly like y’alla mammas, sisters, aunts, hell even you haven’t screwed up. None of that is relevant because she’s pregnant. Can’t undo it now.
I swear women always take the heat and the men don’t. Like it doesn’t take two to make a baby. Y’all are over here bashing OP instead of question why this “man” isn’t being a man, instead he’s being an a $ &hole smh.
Asking a woman who let a dude nut in her and then broke up with him, why she didn't get plan b...isn't judgement. Try again.
When we had sex this was about a month/month and half ago aka when things were good. He lives in a different state so we don't see each other that often. I was on BC and skipped my period. I miscalculated when I need to to take my BC and ended up taking a week and a few days late. I didn't have sex with him only two weeks ago and break up with him. We had sex about a month ago.
Yikes.
Was it a fwb or relationshp?
Did you fuck anyone else during this time?
Be prepared for him to get nasty and claim its someone else's.click to expand
No, we were together. I'm not sure if you saw in the thread but we had even talked about kids. He would say how he would be a good dad and I would look so cute pregnant. Talked about moving with him.
I haven't had sex with anyone but him.
also many 'new' accounts in the thread and several of her other ones that are jumping to defend lolol oh lord. is this a troll thread?
Posted by justagirl
also many 'new' accounts in the thread and several of her other ones that are jumping to defend lolol oh lord. is this a troll thread?
Yes, I took a pregnancy test. Magically made it positive. Then posted here.
Posted by LDM90Posted by justagirl
also many 'new' accounts in the thread and several of her other ones that are jumping to defend lolol oh lord. is this a troll thread?
Yes, I took a pregnancy test. Magically made it positive. Then posted here.click to expand
lol going to ignore my actual advise post I made?
Posted by justagirl
Go to his place, knock on the door and tell him. He is the father so does have rights. whatever is decided you both should make that decision together. He may tell you to get lost, but at least you know you attempted to tell him.
Waiting to tell him via phone or text isn't the way to play this out when you are talking about a child.
Posted by justagirl
Go to his place, knock on the door and tell him. He is the father so does have rights. whatever is decided you both should make that decision together. He may tell you to get lost, but at least you know you attempted to tell him.
Waiting to tell him via phone or text isn't the way to play this out when you are talking about a child.
He lives in another state which makes this whole thing that much more of a face palm moment.
Posted by justagirlPosted by LDM90Posted by justagirl
also many 'new' accounts in the thread and several of her other ones that are jumping to defend lolol oh lord. is this a troll thread?
Yes, I took a pregnancy test. Magically made it positive. Then posted here.
lol going to ignore my actual advise post I made?click to expand
Not ignoring. Just didn't see it.
He lives in a different state. I can go, but if he's ignoring my calls and messages with evidence that I'm pregnant don't I already have my answer?
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by justagirl
Go to his place, knock on the door and tell him. He is the father so does have rights. whatever is decided you both should make that decision together. He may tell you to get lost, but at least you know you attempted to tell him.
Waiting to tell him via phone or text isn't the way to play this out when you are talking about a child.
He lives in another state which makes this whole thing that much more of a face palm moment.click to expand
Exactly lol. It's just one giant clusterfuck :/
Posted by LDM90Posted by justagirlPosted by LDM90Posted by justagirl
also many 'new' accounts in the thread and several of her other ones that are jumping to defend lolol oh lord. is this a troll thread?
Yes, I took a pregnancy test. Magically made it positive. Then posted here.
lol going to ignore my actual advise post I made?
Not ignoring. Just didn't see it.
He lives in a different state. I can go, but if he's ignoring my calls and messages with evidence that I'm pregnant don't I already have my answer?click to expand
He still has the right to be informed was what I was getting at. when was the last time you attmped to reach him?
Look I understand, trust me I really do.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by justagirl
Go to his place, knock on the door and tell him. He is the father so does have rights. whatever is decided you both should make that decision together. He may tell you to get lost, but at least you know you attempted to tell him.
Waiting to tell him via phone or text isn't the way to play this out when you are talking about a child.
He lives in another state which makes this whole thing that much more of a face palm moment.click to expand
Ya didn't see that until after my suggestion.
Posted by Arkansassy
@LDM90
just read through your other threads.
You're a booty call for when he's in town.
I wasn't. We met each other's families. Talked about moving in with each other. Had a trip planned.
Posted by ArkansassyPosted by LDM90Posted by Arkansassy
@LDM90
just read through your other threads.
You're a booty call for when he's in town.
I wasn't. We met each other's families. Talked about moving in with each other. Had a trip planned.
Go read your own threads..
He's been doing this since you met. Leading you on.. keeping you at a distance.. etc.
This has nothing to do with you being pregnant.
What is sad is that you didn't see this months ago and were more careful with your BC. If I'm being honest.. it really does sound like you're attempting to trap him with a baby.click to expand
Ah so, he repeatedly cums in her, they even talk about kids, told him weeks ago before crap hits the fan that she thought she was pregnant, and she turns out to be pregnant =she's trying to trap. Like someone else said let's blame the woman.
Nope couldn't be a case of two people recklessly having sex and a woman getting pregnant. It just [i]has[/i] to be a woman trapping a man smh.
Posted by Arielle83
Of course you’re pregnant.
I expected she would come up with this after her other threads
"somebody was trying to break in to my apartment" and other delusions
I think whenever @LDM90 is bored, she calls her best friend (or her alter ego @vanballmoos) and they open a bottle and create a thread and say: lets the trolling begin 🙂
and laughing their a***es off
girls, go out and have some real fun 🙂
and laughing their a***es off
girls, go out and have some real fun 🙂
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