Elissar18
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How do you sleep with your partner?
My Cancer and I mostly sleep entwined with arms and legs all tangled up together. I've never slept like that with anyone else and I don't know how it's comfortable, but it is for some reason. Except when he puts his leg weight on mine for too long. Then my legs get squashed. I kind of thought that position means you have abandonment issues and you're afraid the other person will leave so you need to trap them or maybe some codependent thing, because when I move he says "where are you going?" I much prefer the cant get enough of each other reasoning and that makes sense too
Posted by Arielle83
Entwined with legs and arms
On his chest
Both big and little spoon
Butts touching
We move around a lot
Have you been together a long time
Posted by ArachnophobiaPosted by Elissar18Posted by Arachnophobia
Lol. Your pillow is hot.
thnx, she's a Pisces. We met on Amazon.click to expand
She looks like a really lovely person. I hope you treat her well
spooning ;p
and like this...
numbers #1, 2, 3 and the entwined one lol
my husband doens't like to be apart.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Elissar18Posted by Arielle83
Entwined with legs and arms
On his chest
Both big and little spoon
Butts touching
We move around a lot
Have you been together a long time
Since end of January. He’s a Capricorn, I’m a cancerclick to expand
Is he a clingy Capricorn?
Posted by lisabethur8
spooning ;p
and like this...
numbers #1, 2, 3 and the entwined one lol
my husband doens't like to be apart.
I though the sleep hugging was just at the beginning of a relationship. How long have you been married?
Posted by Elissar18Posted by lisabethur8
spooning ;p
and like this...
numbers #1, 2, 3 and the entwined one lol
my husband doens't like to be apart.
I though the sleep hugging was just at the beginning of a relationship. How long have you been married?click to expand
lol to be very honest, he was sleep hugging me the first day we slept.
a long time now ;p
Will report back
Me, myself and I sleep very well...thank you for asking. 😋
This:
YOU SLEEP FACING AWAY FROM EACH OTHER WITH YOUR BUTTS TOUCHING
This position suggests you're a confident couple that appreciates your own space: The facing away from each other hints at the ability and desire to be independent, while the butt touch shows you still want to stay sexually connected,
YOU SLEEP WITH NOTHING TOUCHING BUT YOUR FEET OR LEGS
Being far from the brain and the first part of your body to react in the case or a flight or flight response, the feet are the most honest portion of the body, under the least conscious control. If your partner plays footsie with you in bed, it means he craves an emotional or sexual connection.
YOU SLEEP FACING AWAY FROM EACH OTHER WITH YOUR BUTTS TOUCHING
This position suggests you're a confident couple that appreciates your own space: The facing away from each other hints at the ability and desire to be independent, while the butt touch shows you still want to stay sexually connected,
YOU SLEEP WITH NOTHING TOUCHING BUT YOUR FEET OR LEGS
Being far from the brain and the first part of your body to react in the case or a flight or flight response, the feet are the most honest portion of the body, under the least conscious control. If your partner plays footsie with you in bed, it means he craves an emotional or sexual connection.
Posted by Elissar18Posted by LadyNeptune
Lol that's pretty funny.click to expand
Her face at the end kills me 😂😂😂
Posted by ellllePosted by Ram416
This:
YOU SLEEP FACING AWAY FROM EACH OTHER WITH YOUR BUTTS TOUCHING
This position suggests you're a confident couple that appreciates your own space: The facing away from each other hints at the ability and desire to be independent, while the butt touch shows you still want to stay sexually connected,
YOU SLEEP WITH NOTHING TOUCHING BUT YOUR FEET OR LEGS
Being far from the brain and the first part of your body to react in the case or a flight or flight response, the feet are the most honest portion of the body, under the least conscious control. If your partner plays footsie with you in bed, it means he craves an emotional or sexual connection.
Interesting. Me too.
We could be at total opposites of the bed but our butts or feet have to be touching. He will tangle my feet up in the covers with his so I cant pull them away....lolclick to expand
I like tickling her legs with my toes sometimes...or grappling her by the waist with my legs. hehe
I sleep on my stomach with my ankles draped across his. So I don’t trust him but apparently crave the sexual connection.
Yup! Sounds about right! 🤣🤣😅
Yup! Sounds about right! 🤣🤣😅
Posted by lisabethur8
spooning ;p
and like this...
numbers #1, 2, 3 and the entwined one lol
my husband doens't like to be apart.
Very romantic bullshit for newlyweds and still...it’s how you falling asleep...you can’t possibly do it all night!
Usually start out all tangled, then we move away, then we realise we have moved away and tangle again, then move away with just feet or hands touching... Then moving away, then spooning.... I think it's mostly me causing it, he's a calmer sleeper.
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