Pink Bird
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It always works. 30 days no contact. But you have to do it from the begining...
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
Posted by Boots1313
It always works. 30 days no contact. But you have to do it from the begining...
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
Did you date other guys during no contact?
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313
It always works. 30 days no contact. But you have to do it from the begining...
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
Did you date other guys during no contact?click to expand
Yes, with all of then i was talking to or started seeing another guy or had an interest in another person. Perhaps that why i didnt care after the 30 days. But they do come back.l regardless.
I also wouldn't recommend dating during this period. Looking back its co-dependant and it would have been a lot better for me to be single, reflect and grow.
Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313
It always works. 30 days no contact. But you have to do it from the begining...
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
Did you date other guys during no contact?
Yes, with all of then i was talking to or started seeing another guy or had an interest in another person. Perhaps that why i didnt care after the 30 days. But they do come back.l regardless.
I also wouldn't recommend dating during this period. Looking back its co-dependant and it would have been a lot better for me to be single, reflect and grow.click to expand
I know myself and if I don’t have someone new, I never move on. It’s a curse.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313
It always works. 30 days no contact. But you have to do it from the begining...
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
Did you date other guys during no contact?
Yes, with all of then i was talking to or started seeing another guy or had an interest in another person. Perhaps that why i didnt care after the 30 days. But they do come back.l regardless.
I also wouldn't recommend dating during this period. Looking back its co-dependant and it would have been a lot better for me to be single, reflect and grow.
I know myself and if I don’t have someone new, I never move on. It’s a curse.click to expand
I feel that. I thought the same...but in retrospect, i wish i gave myself time to heal between relationships. Im almost 30 and have never had a moment of being single since i was 17.
Posted by -Soothsayer-
Yeah, it works. The beginning is hard, but eventually it doesn’t really cross your mind as much. My person was an Aries.
Did he want you back?
Posted by Jade_Alexander
Aqua and I have tried this
I suck at NC... he kinda sucks at it too
I took the break to look at myself and what I beeded to be happiet and healthier.
We always go back to one another. Time doesnt change anything, I tyoically want him more.
We suck too. Not even making it a week....
Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313
It always works. 30 days no contact. But you have to do it from the begining...
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
Did you date other guys during no contact?
Yes, with all of then i was talking to or started seeing another guy or had an interest in another person. Perhaps that why i didnt care after the 30 days. But they do come back.l regardless.
I also wouldn't recommend dating during this period. Looking back its co-dependant and it would have been a lot better for me to be single, reflect and grow.
I know myself and if I don’t have someone new, I never move on. It’s a curse.
I feel that. I thought the same...but in retrospect, i wish i gave myself time to heal between relationships. Im almost 30 and have never had a moment of being single since i was 17.click to expand
Understandable. I’ve been single for years. Dating here and there, but nothing serious.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313
It always works. 30 days no contact. But you have to do it from the begining...
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
Did you date other guys during no contact?
Yes, with all of then i was talking to or started seeing another guy or had an interest in another person. Perhaps that why i didnt care after the 30 days. But they do come back.l regardless.
I also wouldn't recommend dating during this period. Looking back its co-dependant and it would have been a lot better for me to be single, reflect and grow.
I know myself and if I don’t have someone new, I never move on. It’s a curse.
I feel that. I thought the same...but in retrospect, i wish i gave myself time to heal between relationships. Im almost 30 and have never had a moment of being single since i was 17.
Understandable. I’ve been single for years. Dating here and there, but nothing serious.click to expand
Ok ao then youre good girl.
"Cant get over someone until your under someone else"...btw this is not my way of thinking, i just find it to be a funny saying :-p
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Jade_Alexander
Aqua and I have tried this
I suck at NC... he kinda sucks at it too
I took the break to look at myself and what I beeded to be happiet and healthier.
We always go back to one another. Time doesnt change anything, I tyoically want him more.
We suck too. Not even making it a week....
So its an addiction in your brain.
You have to give it time.
Also, what is the purpose of the break?click to expand
Totally addicted. Serious problem.
Our relationship confuses me too much. It’s complicated. I don’t know what his truest feelings are for me. And if I get a little emotional, he pulls away. Then I pull away- initiating no contact. Then I fail and we talk again.
Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313
It always works. 30 days no contact. But you have to do it from the begining...
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
Did you date other guys during no contact?
Yes, with all of then i was talking to or started seeing another guy or had an interest in another person. Perhaps that why i didnt care after the 30 days. But they do come back.l regardless.
I also wouldn't recommend dating during this period. Looking back its co-dependant and it would have been a lot better for me to be single, reflect and grow.
I know myself and if I don’t have someone new, I never move on. It’s a curse.
I feel that. I thought the same...but in retrospect, i wish i gave myself time to heal between relationships. Im almost 30 and have never had a moment of being single since i was 17.
Understandable. I’ve been single for years. Dating here and there, but nothing serious.
Ok ao then youre good girl.
"Cant get over someone until your under someone else"...btw this is not my way of thinking, i just find it to be a funny saying :-pclick to expand
A guy friend of mine tells me that a lot.... lol it’s probably true. But I only enjoy sex with someone I have a mental connection with.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313
It always works. 30 days no contact. But you have to do it from the begining...
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
Did you date other guys during no contact?
Yes, with all of then i was talking to or started seeing another guy or had an interest in another person. Perhaps that why i didnt care after the 30 days. But they do come back.l regardless.
I also wouldn't recommend dating during this period. Looking back its co-dependant and it would have been a lot better for me to be single, reflect and grow.
I know myself and if I don’t have someone new, I never move on. It’s a curse.
I feel that. I thought the same...but in retrospect, i wish i gave myself time to heal between relationships. Im almost 30 and have never had a moment of being single since i was 17.
Understandable. I’ve been single for years. Dating here and there, but nothing serious.
Ok ao then youre good girl.
"Cant get over someone until your under someone else"...btw this is not my way of thinking, i just find it to be a funny saying :-p
A guy friend of mine tells me that a lot.... lol it’s probably true. But I only enjoy sex with someone I have a mental connection with.click to expand
Same....just being humorous
Posted by -Soothsayer-Posted by pinkbird03Posted by -Soothsayer-
Yeah, it works. The beginning is hard, but eventually it doesn’t really cross your mind as much. My person was an Aries.
Did he want you back?
Yeah. I gave them both another chance, but with having no contact with them, I sort of realized I didn’t want the relationship any longer. So it really turned into me just breaking up with them again within a couple of weeks. The problems that we had that caused the breakup only came back and I was tired of dealing with them. I wanted to move on.click to expand
Yea. See I want that second chance to really hang out and see what the feelings are. Right now it’s more of a fantasy. We haven’t seen each other in a very long time but this was the first time I actually fully disappeared for 6 days. It’s pretty much been daily social media contact.
Posted by Ellygant
Ive never understood social dating rules all that well so pardon me if I don’t make sense or am misunderstanding.
But I think the point of not speaking is to isolate your energy, to refine yourself and identify your own wants and needs.
It should be the main reason. But it’s more to get an ex back.
Posted by Boots1313
It always works. 30 days no contact. But you have to do it from the begining...
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
What’s provoking needs of no contact? Ethereal love? Noooo!
If you must set this stupid rule you have no place to be with them on the first place. No contact my ass...pffffff
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Jade_Alexander
Aqua and I have tried this
I suck at NC... he kinda sucks at it too
I took the break to look at myself and what I beeded to be happiet and healthier.
We always go back to one another. Time doesnt change anything, I tyoically want him more.
We suck too. Not even making it a week....
So its an addiction in your brain.
You have to give it time.
Also, what is the purpose of the break?
Totally addicted. Serious problem.
Our relationship confuses me too much. It’s complicated. I don’t know what his truest feelings are for me. And if I get a little emotional, he pulls away. Then I pull away- initiating no contact. Then I fail and we talk again.
You need to block him
Delete your apps
Tell yourself that withdraw sucks but you will survive.
Whwn he pulls away it hurts, when he pays attention you get a high
Push/Pull cycle
You have to ve the one to end itclick to expand
Yes. Push pull. He must feel that high too. Im addicted. I wont block and delete. I’ve tried deleting. I failed. We’ve talked about meeting. If we could just meet, it might change everything.
Posted by Mariposa_
As an aqua, I can go through 1mos-6mos. Of no contact, like I said my internal ego allows my will power to be this strong but it doesn’t mean I don’t miss them because I really do..
Unless idgaf, than I will be blowing up their phone regardless lol there’s a Scorpio man in my life that I’ll do 1week no contact and I’m like fck that this man better talk to me! I’m just confident about it. 😤😂
It’s an aqua I’m talking about so your perspective is interesting. Thank you.
Posted by aPiscesPrincess2Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Boots1313
It always works. 30 days no contact. But you have to do it from the begining...
Ive done with with a scorpio, virgo and libra...guess what? I didn't end up taking any of them back either. After 30 days i was over them
Did you date other guys during no contact?
Yes, with all of then i was talking to or started seeing another guy or had an interest in another person. Perhaps that why i didnt care after the 30 days. But they do come back.l regardless.
I also wouldn't recommend dating during this period. Looking back its co-dependant and it would have been a lot better for me to be single, reflect and grow.
I know myself and if I don’t have someone new, I never move on. It’s a curse.
I'm the same way. I move on very quickly from relationship to relationship. 😑 It's easier that way. They say that when you do that it's a rebound and will not work, but I don't necessarily agree with that. I guess it would depend on how serious the last relationship was though. If if was super serious and you loved each other then it might be better to give it some time before moving on.click to expand
It’s definitely been enough time. But something tells me he cares or else he wouldn’t continue to talk. Especially after knowing how I feel.
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Jade_Alexander
Aqua and I have tried this
I suck at NC... he kinda sucks at it too
I took the break to look at myself and what I beeded to be happiet and healthier.
We always go back to one another. Time doesnt change anything, I tyoically want him more.
We suck too. Not even making it a week....
So its an addiction in your brain.
You have to give it time.
Also, what is the purpose of the break?
Totally addicted. Serious problem.
Our relationship confuses me too much. It’s complicated. I don’t know what his truest feelings are for me. And if I get a little emotional, he pulls away. Then I pull away- initiating no contact. Then I fail and we talk again.
You need to block him
Delete your apps
Tell yourself that withdraw sucks but you will survive.
Whwn he pulls away it hurts, when he pays attention you get a high
Push/Pull cycle
You have to ve the one to end it
Yes. Push pull. He must feel that high too. Im addicted. I wont block and delete. I’ve tried deleting. I failed. We’ve talked about meeting. If we could just meet, it might change everything.
Hes playing you with the push/pull
Its not about meeting, because he doesnt actually want to deal woth your feelings. He likes knowing you have them to sttoke his ego. That is manipulation and not fair to you.
A man who is undecided is a man who isnt that into you. Dont take his beed for an ego boost and genuine affection.
You are worthy of more but your brain is addicted to the high.click to expand
I know I know. I think that way too sometimes. I’m soooo back and forth in my head. Which is why I do the partial no contact. Until I cave.
Posted by -Soothsayer-Posted by pinkbird03Posted by -Soothsayer-Posted by pinkbird03Posted by -Soothsayer-
Yeah, it works. The beginning is hard, but eventually it doesn’t really cross your mind as much. My person was an Aries.
Did he want you back?
Yeah. I gave them both another chance, but with having no contact with them, I sort of realized I didn’t want the relationship any longer. So it really turned into me just breaking up with them again within a couple of weeks. The problems that we had that caused the breakup only came back and I was tired of dealing with them. I wanted to move on.
Yea. See I want that second chance to really hang out and see what the feelings are. Right now it’s more of a fantasy. We haven’t seen each other in a very long time but this was the first time I actually fully disappeared for 6 days. It’s pretty much been daily social media contact.
Take a break, focus on you and the things that make you happy. That alone time will bring you further clarity towards the situation. Easier said than done, I understand, but if you feel like contacting him, find something else to do that you enjoy. This process will also force you to recreate a relationship with yourself, which is most important.click to expand
I’ve been doing this. I’m actually happy with my life and all aspects of it. I do feel I’ve grown a ton since my relationship with him. But there are still moments of loneliness that get me. I can’t be surrounded by other people 24/7. I live alone. But I do date occasionally. And try to move on. It’s just I don’t know. He’s special
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Mariposa_
As an aqua, I can go through 1mos-6mos. Of no contact, like I said my internal ego allows my will power to be this strong but it doesn’t mean I don’t miss them because I really do..
Unless idgaf, than I will be blowing up their phone regardless lol there’s a Scorpio man in my life that I’ll do 1week no contact and I’m like fck that this man better talk to me! I’m just confident about it. 😤😂
It’s an aqua I’m talking about so your perspective is interesting. Thank you.
Pink bird, I will be honest aqua men are much more different than the women. Regardless of sign, women will always be more emotional, it doesn’t matter how much space she desires. As for me, I hold a fire/water chart with the rest air. So yes, I do crave attention and I can be quite needy, I even also make it known but aqua guys are sooo much more closed off.
So patience is key! I would also suggest talking to @TrueCap because she’s married to an aqua and has experienced all this already.click to expand
Yes I’ve talked to her. She suggested the no contact. Which is why I was asking for others experiences with it.
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
Yeah it works. Going on 4+ years of no contact (on my end) of the virgo. Still get the occasional sad vm from him. Take a hint man.
Posted by Ellygant
Ive never understood social dating rules all that well so pardon me if I don’t make sense or am misunderstanding.
But I think the point of not speaking is to isolate your energy, to refine yourself and identify your own wants and needs.
Just remove yourself from the fuckery. They ain't gonna change so you gotta change yourself in order to move tf on.
Posted by Onimusha01
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
No contact is super easy for aquas lol
Posted by LadyNeptune
Yeah it works. Going on 4+ years of no contact (on my end) of the virgo. Still get the occasional sad vm from him. Take a hint man.
So you did no contact to get someone out of your life. I’ve done that to one ex who was madly in love with me and I was just bored. I honestly think it’s whats best for them. Being their friend gives them hope for more.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
No contact is super easy for aquas lolclick to expand
Yeah, specially when we purposely do it. to straighten up their butts. 🙂
This shit worked on a fucking Leo... A fucking Leo.
It works most of the time, but if they never contact you, like shit, or throw hints - then they never cared.
It works most of the time, but if they never contact you, like shit, or throw hints - then they never cared.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
No contact is super easy for aquas lol
Yeah, specially when we purposely do it. to straighten up their butts. 🙂click to expand
I think the aqua I’m referring to used it on purpose to straighten me up. But I think I’ve learned how to counteract it lol I just ignore his ignoring. Keep it happy. And give him a few days before I text him again.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
No contact is super easy for aquas lol
Yeah, specially when we purposely do it. to straighten up their butts. 🙂
I think the aqua I’m referring to used it on purpose to straighten me up. But I think I’ve learned how to counteract it lol I just ignore his ignoring. Keep it happy. And give him a few days before I text him again.click to expand
Yeah, my gemini eventualy caught up w me ignoring him on purpose then he started doing it to.... And then It was me, telling him..
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
No contact is super easy for aquas lol
Yeah, specially when we purposely do it. to straighten up their butts. 🙂
I think the aqua I’m referring to used it on purpose to straighten me up. But I think I’ve learned how to counteract it lol I just ignore his ignoring. Keep it happy. And give him a few days before I text him again.
Yeah, my gemini eventualy caught up w me ignoring him on purpose then he started doing it to.... And then It was me, telling him..click to expand
Lol! Yep. And that’s when I initiate no contact. I had planned on going at least a month. But I only went 6 days. I failed today. Talked to him and I’ve been so happy. He wasn’t his aloof self and surprised me a little. But we’re not dating 😢
Posted by Emhendo
This shit worked on a fucking Leo... A fucking Leo.
It works most of the time, but if they never contact you, like shit, or throw hints - then they never cared.
Exactly. My problem is this guy does throw hints. Sometimes I wish he’d just disappear so I’d have no control over it. Because I fail real no contact. I even fail fake no contact.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
No contact is super easy for aquas lol
Yeah, specially when we purposely do it. to straighten up their butts. 🙂
I think the aqua I’m referring to used it on purpose to straighten me up. But I think I’ve learned how to counteract it lol I just ignore his ignoring. Keep it happy. And give him a few days before I text him again.
Yeah, my gemini eventualy caught up w me ignoring him on purpose then he started doing it to.... And then It was me, telling him..
Lol! Yep. And that’s when I initiate no contact. I had planned on going at least a month. But I only went 6 days. I failed today. Talked to him and I’ve been so happy. He wasn’t his aloof self and surprised me a little. But we’re not dating 😢click to expand
Yeah, Its hard tho, when is not purposely ... My ex saggi is completely ignoring me.... And well I guess Im holding my horses not to text him. but maaaan .. its been a week and for me it feels like a year has passed. 😢
I think I do this a lot cause dudes are always coming back after they get upset that I tell them I have sucky communication, they cut me off and then I don't reach out. They are annoying lol
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
No contact is super easy for aquas lol
Yeah, specially when we purposely do it. to straighten up their butts. 🙂
I think the aqua I’m referring to used it on purpose to straighten me up. But I think I’ve learned how to counteract it lol I just ignore his ignoring. Keep it happy. And give him a few days before I text him again.
Yeah, my gemini eventualy caught up w me ignoring him on purpose then he started doing it to.... And then It was me, telling him..
Lol! Yep. And that’s when I initiate no contact. I had planned on going at least a month. But I only went 6 days. I failed today. Talked to him and I’ve been so happy. He wasn’t his aloof self and surprised me a little. But we’re not dating 😢
Yeah, Its hard tho, when is not purposely ... My ex saggi is completely ignoring me.... And well I guess Im holding my horses not to text him. but maaaan .. its been a week and for me it feels like a year has passed. 😢click to expand
I know the feeling and how hard it is. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Do you know why he’s ignoring you?
Posted by saggurl88
I think I do this a lot cause dudes are always coming back after they get upset that I tell them I have sucky communication, they cut me off and then I don't reach out. They are annoying lol
Lol yea sounds super annoying. Guys are pretty lame. Well a lot are.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
No contact is super easy for aquas lol
Yeah, specially when we purposely do it. to straighten up their butts. 🙂
I think the aqua I’m referring to used it on purpose to straighten me up. But I think I’ve learned how to counteract it lol I just ignore his ignoring. Keep it happy. And give him a few days before I text him again.
Yeah, my gemini eventualy caught up w me ignoring him on purpose then he started doing it to.... And then It was me, telling him..
Lol! Yep. And that’s when I initiate no contact. I had planned on going at least a month. But I only went 6 days. I failed today. Talked to him and I’ve been so happy. He wasn’t his aloof self and surprised me a little. But we’re not dating 😢
Yeah, Its hard tho, when is not purposely ... My ex saggi is completely ignoring me.... And well I guess Im holding my horses not to text him. but maaaan .. its been a week and for me it feels like a year has passed. 😢
I know the feeling and how hard it is. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Do you know why he’s ignoring you?click to expand
For some stupid shit I said about his sex performance .... lol. He cut me off !
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88
I think I do this a lot cause dudes are always coming back after they get upset that I tell them I have sucky communication, they cut me off and then I don't reach out. They are annoying lol
Lol yea sounds super annoying. Guys are pretty lame. Well a lot are.click to expand
I wish I cared more about it. I see how it actually does work in healthy relationship to communicate 😛
Posted by nanobot
Work in terms of what? Him always coming back? Maybe not always, its circumstantial on the state of the relationship.
But it will work in the sense that you will emotionally and mentally be in a much better state. I believe that 100%
Yes. I kinda did it once. I mean a very lose version of no contact for 10 weeks. I mean. I didn’t message him. But I still shared my location and posted stories on snap all day every day lol. I felt a lot stronger and improved. Then I messaged him and things have been the best they ever have since the breakup. But no relationship. Talked about meeting but haven’t. So it’s frustrating. I want more. But I’m playing it cool as a friend.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
No contact is super easy for aquas lol
Yeah, specially when we purposely do it. to straighten up their butts. 🙂
I think the aqua I’m referring to used it on purpose to straighten me up. But I think I’ve learned how to counteract it lol I just ignore his ignoring. Keep it happy. And give him a few days before I text him again.
Yeah, my gemini eventualy caught up w me ignoring him on purpose then he started doing it to.... And then It was me, telling him..
Lol! Yep. And that’s when I initiate no contact. I had planned on going at least a month. But I only went 6 days. I failed today. Talked to him and I’ve been so happy. He wasn’t his aloof self and surprised me a little. But we’re not dating 😢
Yeah, Its hard tho, when is not purposely ... My ex saggi is completely ignoring me.... And well I guess Im holding my horses not to text him. but maaaan .. its been a week and for me it feels like a year has passed. 😢
I know the feeling and how hard it is. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Do you know why he’s ignoring you?
For some stupid shit I said about his sex performance .... lol. He cut me off !click to expand
Oh yes. I did read that. Men’s egos are sensitive. I’ve had a few guys get really nasty with me because I didn’t want to have sex with them... Lesson learned. No negative sex talks with guys lol
Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88
I think I do this a lot cause dudes are always coming back after they get upset that I tell them I have sucky communication, they cut me off and then I don't reach out. They are annoying lol
Lol yea sounds super annoying. Guys are pretty lame. Well a lot are.
I wish I cared more about it. I see how it actually does work in healthy relationship to communicate 😛click to expand
Lol yea communication is important. What’s the main reason you have this problem?
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
No contact is super easy for aquas lol
Yeah, specially when we purposely do it. to straighten up their butts. 🙂
I think the aqua I’m referring to used it on purpose to straighten me up. But I think I’ve learned how to counteract it lol I just ignore his ignoring. Keep it happy. And give him a few days before I text him again.
Yeah, my gemini eventualy caught up w me ignoring him on purpose then he started doing it to.... And then It was me, telling him..
Lol! Yep. And that’s when I initiate no contact. I had planned on going at least a month. But I only went 6 days. I failed today. Talked to him and I’ve been so happy. He wasn’t his aloof self and surprised me a little. But we’re not dating 😢
Yeah, Its hard tho, when is not purposely ... My ex saggi is completely ignoring me.... And well I guess Im holding my horses not to text him. but maaaan .. its been a week and for me it feels like a year has passed. 😢
I know the feeling and how hard it is. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Do you know why he’s ignoring you?
For some stupid shit I said about his sex performance .... lol. He cut me off !
Oh yes. I did read that. Men’s egos are sensitive. I’ve had a few guys get really nasty with me because I didn’t want to have sex with them... Lesson learned. No negative sex talks with guys lolclick to expand
Yeah, Next time I go home and do it my way ... hahahahahaha...
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Onimusha01
Yes, no contact rule, works.... Specially with Geminis, they come running back at you... And it was Really easy for me (aqua) 🙂 I even told him he was more lovable after I ignored him for a while. So I was going to do it more often.
No contact is super easy for aquas lol
Yeah, specially when we purposely do it. to straighten up their butts. 🙂
I think the aqua I’m referring to used it on purpose to straighten me up. But I think I’ve learned how to counteract it lol I just ignore his ignoring. Keep it happy. And give him a few days before I text him again.
Yeah, my gemini eventualy caught up w me ignoring him on purpose then he started doing it to.... And then It was me, telling him..
Lol! Yep. And that’s when I initiate no contact. I had planned on going at least a month. But I only went 6 days. I failed today. Talked to him and I’ve been so happy. He wasn’t his aloof self and surprised me a little. But we’re not dating 😢
Yeah, Its hard tho, when is not purposely ... My ex saggi is completely ignoring me.... And well I guess Im holding my horses not to text him. but maaaan .. its been a week and for me it feels like a year has passed. 😢
I know the feeling and how hard it is. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Do you know why he’s ignoring you?
For some stupid shit I said about his sex performance .... lol. He cut me off !
Oh yes. I did read that. Men’s egos are sensitive. I’ve had a few guys get really nasty with me because I didn’t want to have sex with them... Lesson learned. No negative sex talks with guys lol
Yeah, Next time I go home and do it my way ... hahahahahaha...click to expand
😂😂yep!!!
Posted by Lionheart917
It does work with cancers lol
Only if we love you. Which we fall in love easy and fast. So basically as long as we dated you, it works lol
I have a first date Saturday with a different guy...
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88
I think I do this a lot cause dudes are always coming back after they get upset that I tell them I have sucky communication, they cut me off and then I don't reach out. They are annoying lol
Lol yea sounds super annoying. Guys are pretty lame. Well a lot are.
I wish I cared more about it. I see how it actually does work in healthy relationship to communicate 😛
Lol yea communication is important. What’s the main reason you have this problem?click to expand
It's not in my nature to reach out and bug people. I naturally will be lazy and expect a man to chase me and take my rude, non communicative ways 😄 hence why I'm single and only Geminis chase me. 😛
Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88
I think I do this a lot cause dudes are always coming back after they get upset that I tell them I have sucky communication, they cut me off and then I don't reach out. They are annoying lol
Lol yea sounds super annoying. Guys are pretty lame. Well a lot are.
I wish I cared more about it. I see how it actually does work in healthy relationship to communicate 😛
Lol yea communication is important. What’s the main reason you have this problem?
It's not in my nature to reach out and bug people. I naturally will be lazy and expect a man to chase me and take my rude, non communicative ways 😄 hence why I'm single and only Geminis chase me. 😛click to expand
Lol gems are good talkers. I have a date with one on Saturday. See I’m a Leo venus. I have a serious chase in me. I want what I can’t have. And don’t want what i can have. That’s why I’m single.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88
I think I do this a lot cause dudes are always coming back after they get upset that I tell them I have sucky communication, they cut me off and then I don't reach out. They are annoying lol
Lol yea sounds super annoying. Guys are pretty lame. Well a lot are.
I wish I cared more about it. I see how it actually does work in healthy relationship to communicate 😛
Lol yea communication is important. What’s the main reason you have this problem?
It's not in my nature to reach out and bug people. I naturally will be lazy and expect a man to chase me and take my rude, non communicative ways 😄 hence why I'm single and only Geminis chase me. 😛
Lol gems are good talkers. I have a date with one on Saturday. See I’m a Leo venus. I have a serious chase in me. I want what I can’t have. And don’t want what i can have. That’s why I’m single.click to expand
My Leo Mars is the same way! 😆 The chase is fun. I love it when it becomes a challenge, that's when it starts getting good! 😄
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