lisabeth
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why are there (fantasy or real?)
Can men really share their women? Like even if it's "The woman"
Posted by TeenaI've never heard of it.
Can men really share their women? Like even if it's "The woman"
but i'm sure it exists out there.
there are women who want two men out there.
Posted by lisabethur8That I heard of yeah.Posted by TeenaI've never heard of it.
Can men really share their women? Like even if it's "The woman"
but i'm sure it exists out there.
there are women who want two men out there.click to expand
Posted by P6X58DEBut many men I came across have this fantasy to sleep with two women at once. It's like pretty common I dunno why.
I think these people are undeveloped somewhere in their minds and just can't stick to one person.
Posted by P6X58DEI don't even like it in fantasy to be honest.
I think these people are undeveloped somewhere in their minds and just can't stick to one person.
Posted by TeenaPosted by P6X58DEBut many men I came across have this fantasy to sleep with two women at once. It's like pretty common I dunno why.
I think these people are undeveloped somewhere in their minds and just can't stick to one person.
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is it really? or a joke? would they really do it?
that is gross imo. I would never be with that type of man.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by TeenaPosted by P6X58DEBut many men I came across have this fantasy to sleep with two women at once. It's like pretty common I dunno why.
I think these people are undeveloped somewhere in their minds and just can't stick to one person.
is it really? or a joke? would they really do it?
that is gross imo. I would never be with that type of man.click to expand
Me neither...n yes it is really common... I've heard it from many guys!
Posted by P6X58DEEmotional connection is not what these guys are looking for ... One thing I often heard is two is better than one. Also most of these guys are into lesbian porn.Posted by TeenaI don't, it lacks emotional connection.Posted by P6X58DEBut many men I came across have this fantasy to sleep with two women at once. It's like pretty common I dunno why.
I think these people are undeveloped somewhere in their minds and just can't stick to one person.
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Posted by P6X58DEPosted by TeenaIt's all about their dick i guess... i mean i would be lying if i said i don't want sexual pleasure, but mine comes with hopes of a relationship and commitment.Posted by P6X58DEEmotional connection is not what these guys are looking for ... One thing I often heard is two is better than one. Also most of these guys are into lesbian porn.Posted by TeenaI don't, it lacks emotional connection.Posted by P6X58DEBut many men I came across have this fantasy to sleep with two women at once. It's like pretty common I dunno why.
I think these people are undeveloped somewhere in their minds and just can't stick to one person.
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Yeah...all about the pleasure I guess
Posted by P6X58DEyour woman that you choose is gonna be SO LUCKY.Posted by lisabethur8Yeah my fantasy are about the ultimate woman in my mind.. already had the ultimate IRL so i know what i want, that's my fantasy, and will never let go of her once i have her 😛Posted by P6X58DEI don't even like it in fantasy to be honest.
I think these people are undeveloped somewhere in their minds and just can't stick to one person.
Of course that fantasy can be stretched, no one matches a fantasy to a tee.
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Fear of intimacy?
there are a lot of triangles going on in tv series, books too.
With harry potter the Triangle was PLATONIC!! JK rowling didn't like or participate in triangle love, but her fans did.
here is a series that liked the triangle, just like stephenie Meyer's "Twilight"
With harry potter the Triangle was PLATONIC!! JK rowling didn't like or participate in triangle love, but her fans did.
here is a series that liked the triangle, just like stephenie Meyer's "Twilight"
One last note before I leave this thread.
OP asks why.
Because human beings in general are unpredictable.
We are unpredictable because we are sentient beings with free will.
What may not seem like a good idea for you may well work for someone else, and vice versa.
OP asks why.
Because human beings in general are unpredictable.
We are unpredictable because we are sentient beings with free will.
What may not seem like a good idea for you may well work for someone else, and vice versa.
Posted by GetMistedIt's not impossible.Posted by P6X58DEI didn't realize it was impossible to have emotional connections with more than one person?Posted by TeenaI don't, it lacks emotional connection.Posted by P6X58DEBut many men I came across have this fantasy to sleep with two women at once. It's like pretty common I dunno why.
I think these people are undeveloped somewhere in their minds and just can't stick to one person.
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Emotional connections can be singular or plural, depending on the individuals involved.
According to astrology does not the position of lilith and its' relationship to other planets in someone's chart indicate the willingness of an individual to be involved in such activities?
Posted by GetMistedThread is looking at both consensual and non - consensual.Posted by P6X58DEYou're referring to "cheating". Correct me if I'm wrong.. but I don't believe that is what we're discussing here.Posted by GetMistedIf it's what both of you want then no, but if a person wants you to be loyal to them and you are going against that, yes.Posted by P6X58DEWould you say that I'm underdeveloped somewhere in my mind?Posted by GetMistedYou possibly can, i can't 🙂Posted by P6X58DEI'm a fan of "intense stuff" too..Posted by GetMistedNot the intense stuff i crave... i dunno it just goes against my strict morality too :/Posted by P6X58DEI didn't realize it was impossible to have emotional connections with more than one person?Posted by TeenaI don't, it lacks emotional connection.Posted by P6X58DEBut many men I came across have this fantasy to sleep with two women at once. It's like pretty common I dunno why.
I think these people are undeveloped somewhere in their minds and just can't stick to one person.
I'm also not really that big of a fan of physical intimacy.
Can I not have an deep, intense, emotional connection with more than one person?
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We shouldn't expect much of an in depth discussion here with regards to either anyway.
P.S you're gonna LOVE Season 7 of Shameless.
Posted by GetMistedI'm very fixed as well. Fixed dominant.Posted by P6X58DEAs am I.. 50% +Posted by GetMistedI'm very black and white with that stuff... maybe it's just my nature, i'm very fixed.Posted by P6X58DEI understand you. I think it's more that you don't quite grasp the complexity of emotions, sex, and relationships.Posted by GetMistedYou don't understand me, it's ok.Posted by P6X58DEPeople that are okay with sharing their partner, or being shared themselves.. are cheaters?Posted by GetMistedTo me it's cheating, i'm using an inward looking view if that makes sense? it stems from how i would see myself if i did that.Posted by P6X58DEYou're referring to "cheating". Correct me if I'm wrong.. but I don't believe that is what we're discussing here.Posted by GetMistedIf it's what both of you want then no, but if a person wants you to be loyal to them and you are going against that, yes.Posted by P6X58DEWould you say that I'm underdeveloped somewhere in my mind?Posted by GetMistedYou possibly can, i can't 🙂Posted by P6X58DEI'm a fan of "intense stuff" too..Posted by GetMistedNot the intense stuff i crave... i dunno it just goes against my strict morality too :/Posted by P6X58DEI didn't realize it was impossible to have emotional connections with more than one person?Posted by TeenaI don't, it lacks emotional connection.Posted by P6X58DEBut many men I came across have this fantasy to sleep with two women at once. It's like pretty common I dunno why.
I think these people are undeveloped somewhere in their minds and just can't stick to one person.
I'm also not really that big of a fan of physical intimacy.
Can I not have an deep, intense, emotional connection with more than one person?
I'm too tired to even explain it right now either.
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cuz no one is perfect.
Lust, control, submission or jealousy. Maybe even all of them, plus others not mentioned.
From what I've seen and what I know for myself a fetish is developed at a young age. Likely around the time of puberty, then again once exploring sexual activity actually happens. Also I feel some fetishes are deeply rooted into a person's psyche from they day they are born, along with sexual preference. These aspects carry on with a person till the day they first feel a sexual urge, then these aspects merge together with the sexual urges. Now you have a fetish. In theory you can explain any fetish with what the child was surrounded by and mostly liked. Then once the mind is under control of one fetish, it then can easily fall for more of them. Maybe to the point they become addicted to almost anything.
In the case of sharing a love I feel it's mostly for lust, control, submission or jealousy. For lust maybe they are just super horny, and just want everyone to fuck. With control or submission it's just that. It's like the song sweet dreams "Some of them want to use you, some of them want to get used by you." Lastly is jealousy, which is the most complex. Somewhere this person likely felt so much jealousy so deeply they begin to get turned on by it. It can take a weird turn from there. It's like a mixture between wanting control, and wanting to see something you love get used. Likely from a person with issues with themselves and some type of deep self-hatred.
From what I've seen and what I know for myself a fetish is developed at a young age. Likely around the time of puberty, then again once exploring sexual activity actually happens. Also I feel some fetishes are deeply rooted into a person's psyche from they day they are born, along with sexual preference. These aspects carry on with a person till the day they first feel a sexual urge, then these aspects merge together with the sexual urges. Now you have a fetish. In theory you can explain any fetish with what the child was surrounded by and mostly liked. Then once the mind is under control of one fetish, it then can easily fall for more of them. Maybe to the point they become addicted to almost anything.
In the case of sharing a love I feel it's mostly for lust, control, submission or jealousy. For lust maybe they are just super horny, and just want everyone to fuck. With control or submission it's just that. It's like the song sweet dreams "Some of them want to use you, some of them want to get used by you." Lastly is jealousy, which is the most complex. Somewhere this person likely felt so much jealousy so deeply they begin to get turned on by it. It can take a weird turn from there. It's like a mixture between wanting control, and wanting to see something you love get used. Likely from a person with issues with themselves and some type of deep self-hatred.
Posted by rektoh ok....
Soul do you love your mom AND dad? How about siblings? Have more than one? Do you love all of these people at once? 😐
if that's what you all mean about " other" connections such as PLATONIC love, like your parents, children, siblings. other family members you grew up with.. grandparents ect.
then yes there are other emotional connections, that are very deep too.
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