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Sag woman not interested or playing hard to get?
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Lol
You friendzoned her and expected her to stick around— 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She gave it a shot by sending you the sexy pic after the friendzone comment and it led to flirting and got no where.
She made a way to meet up with you and even suggested meeting another time and still got no where.
She’s attracted to you and left you alone when you had a girlfriend.
You’re single and still have told her you don’t even want to date because of your now EX girlfriend.
What exactly do you want from her?
No women wants to talk all day, have deep conversations with a man just for him to say what a great friend she is and nice listening buddy.
She most likely is trying to hang out and enjoy your company.
Edited to add- ask her on a date or to meet in person.
This should get things going again.
You friendzoned her and expected her to stick around— 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She gave it a shot by sending you the sexy pic after the friendzone comment and it led to flirting and got no where.
She made a way to meet up with you and even suggested meeting another time and still got no where.
She’s attracted to you and left you alone when you had a girlfriend.
You’re single and still have told her you don’t even want to date because of your now EX girlfriend.
What exactly do you want from her?
No women wants to talk all day, have deep conversations with a man just for him to say what a great friend she is and nice listening buddy.
She most likely is trying to hang out and enjoy your company.
Edited to add- ask her on a date or to meet in person.
This should get things going again.
You had her attention, you friend zoned her & now she’s probably has a new interest. If you’re interested, you need to act like it!
How is she playing hard to get?
She approaches you repeatedly, flirts, gives you her number, sends you sexy pics, invites you out, reveals personal information to you. She couldn't be more upfront in pursuing you.
Now that she's taking a step back after you friend zoned her, your interest is peaked. Typical.
She approaches you repeatedly, flirts, gives you her number, sends you sexy pics, invites you out, reveals personal information to you. She couldn't be more upfront in pursuing you.
Now that she's taking a step back after you friend zoned her, your interest is peaked. Typical.
You had it your way for quite some time.
Everything on your terms.
Loving her chase even though you friend zoned her because you care more about your ex’s feelings that your own happiness.
Get your running shoes on homeboy. Get ready to chase
Everything on your terms.
Loving her chase even though you friend zoned her because you care more about your ex’s feelings that your own happiness.
Get your running shoes on homeboy. Get ready to chase
"2 weeks ago she went MIA randomly for a whole week - I didn't contact her and she contact me a week later. Gut tells me to leave her alone...help please!"
This says it all really. She didn't go MIA, she just is mirroring your behavior, taking a passive role to see if you reach out. You don't.
And she was the one to re initiate the communication. So no, she's not MIA.
This says it all really. She didn't go MIA, she just is mirroring your behavior, taking a passive role to see if you reach out. You don't.
And she was the one to re initiate the communication. So no, she's not MIA.
Posted by DMV
You had it your way for quite some time.
Everything on your terms.
Loving her chase even though you friend zoned her because you care more about your ex’s feelings that your own happiness.
Get your running shoes on homeboy. Get ready to chase
*like*
Yeah, you're being lazy. Step up.
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
I would ask yourself, are YOU interested or only playing hard to get.
Posted by saggurl88
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
@saggurl88 gets this better than anyone. Not only is she Sag but has had a LTR with a Gem.
Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.click to expand
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.
Posted by geminiflyby
@saggurl88 gets this better than anyone. Not only is she Sag but has had a LTR with a Gem.
It still ended lol wah wah wah.
He probably doesn’t even realize she’s triggered his chasing mechanism. Geminis are always so confused at first. Lol
Let the game begin!! 😅😂🤣
Posted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.click to expand
All the time.
They expect us to keep getting rejected.
For a short time, we will put up with the rejection but then eventually get bored and look for stimulation elsewhere
Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.
All the time.
They expect us to keep getting rejected.
For a short time, we will put up with the rejection but then eventually get bored and look for stimulation elsewhereclick to expand
I love rejection but you are right. It gets old and boring fast. I’m glad we aren’t ones to cling to what could’ve been.
Hopefully he figures out what he wants and puts his running shoes on like you’ve said!
All these people think we're so hard to understand.. we aren't lol.
@saggurl88 - "He probably doesn’t even realize she’s triggered his chasing mechanism. Geminis are always so confused at first."
It is freakin' SCARY how well you get us!
It is freakin' SCARY how well you get us!
Posted by Wizardz_
The problem with this approach by the Sag is that it's putting the Gem on the spot, essentially asking "what do you want?" which is the most difficult question on Earth. We like to get into relationships whilst pretending we're not and that involves us moving closer to you not you pushing towards us
It's like that game "What's the time Mr.Wolf?" 🤣 We like to tiptoe closer and then freeze when the wolf looks round and then run away when the wolf chases us
Which is why I said, he needs to ask himself if he’s interested or playing games
Posted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.
All the time.
They expect us to keep getting rejected.
For a short time, we will put up with the rejection but then eventually get bored and look for stimulation elsewhere
I love rejection but you are right. It gets old and boring fast. I’m glad we aren’t ones to cling to what could’ve been.
Hopefully he figures out what he wants and puts his running shoes on like you’ve said!click to expand
What do you mean by you like rejection? Can you elaborate 🤔
Thanks for the responses guys. Much appreciated! I wouldn't say I've rejected her. If anything I've initiated a lot of the flirting etc and she kind of gets shy or plays it down. I've made it CLEAR I think she's very attractive.
Its been difficult for us to hang out in person because she travels constantly. Literally. She lives about 15mins from me but she's constantly out of town back to her parents in the country which is a 4 hour drive. I have a cancer venus and mars and tend to 2nd guess my moves because I don't want to come off too strong and her communication waning makes me feel like she wants to be left alone. Ugh
She's responding to me now and I told her I called her and to save my # for next time.
I'm really attracted to this girl and our conversations are amazing. She's said so herself also. As a Gemini I need action (in person). I want to see her. Spend time with her. Shes back on Tuesday then leaves again on Thursday. I should definitely try and see her on Tue or Wednesday right? How do I keep the fire burning when shes away? Calling? Texting? I don't want to bother her and her taking forever to reply or leaving me on seen confuses the hell out of me..
Its been difficult for us to hang out in person because she travels constantly. Literally. She lives about 15mins from me but she's constantly out of town back to her parents in the country which is a 4 hour drive. I have a cancer venus and mars and tend to 2nd guess my moves because I don't want to come off too strong and her communication waning makes me feel like she wants to be left alone. Ugh
She's responding to me now and I told her I called her and to save my # for next time.
I'm really attracted to this girl and our conversations are amazing. She's said so herself also. As a Gemini I need action (in person). I want to see her. Spend time with her. Shes back on Tuesday then leaves again on Thursday. I should definitely try and see her on Tue or Wednesday right? How do I keep the fire burning when shes away? Calling? Texting? I don't want to bother her and her taking forever to reply or leaving me on seen confuses the hell out of me..
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by geminiflyby
@saggurl88 gets this better than anyone. Not only is she Sag but has had a LTR with a Gem.
and she's pretty coolclick to expand
Awww thanks. That’s sweet 🥰🥰
Right back atcha!!🪞
Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.
All the time.
They expect us to keep getting rejected.
For a short time, we will put up with the rejection but then eventually get bored and look for stimulation elsewhere
I love rejection but you are right. It gets old and boring fast. I’m glad we aren’t ones to cling to what could’ve been.
Hopefully he figures out what he wants and puts his running shoes on like you’ve said!
What do you mean by you like rejection? Can you elaborate 🤔click to expand
I don’t know what to say about it. I just like things not being easy to get. Rejection doesn’t bother me.
It’s more like a push/pull game.
Posted by nats
Thanks for the responses guys. Much appreciated! I wouldn't say I've rejected her. If anything I've initiated a lot of the flirting etc and she kind of gets shy or plays it down. I've made it CLEAR I think she's very attractive.
Its been difficult for us to hang out in person because she travels constantly. Literally. She lives about 15mins from me but she's constantly out of town back to her parents in the country which is a 4 hour drive. I have a cancer venus and mars and tend to 2nd guess my moves because I don't want to come off too strong and her communication waning makes me feel like she wants to be left alone. Ugh
She's responding to me now and I told her I called her and to save my # for next time.
I'm really attracted to this girl and our conversations are amazing. She's said so herself also. As a Gemini I need action (in person). I want to see her. Spend time with her. Shes back on Tuesday then leaves again on Thursday. I should definitely try and see her on Tue or Wednesday right? How do I keep the fire burning when shes away? Calling? Texting? I don't want to bother her and her taking forever to reply or leaving me on seen confuses the hell out of me..
Yes try to make plans with her.
She seems to have a busy life but she is still making room for you.
Im not sure what action you need if you are saying no left and right.
Now it’s your turn to step up.
Guess what you have a 50% chance she will say yes 😉
Forgot to ask - should I just be myself and chase? I love a good chase and I can handle rejection. Do Sag women like to be chased?
Lol. Here one day and gone tomorrow.
I love being a Sagittarius. Grass don’t grow under my feet.
You should talk about traveling. Things she is interested in. Make yourself attractive. Saggis hate FOMO. We can’t resist missing out on something good.
Soooooo, be something good
Maybe get global entry or talk about all the locations you wanna travel to.
I love being a Sagittarius. Grass don’t grow under my feet.
You should talk about traveling. Things she is interested in. Make yourself attractive. Saggis hate FOMO. We can’t resist missing out on something good.
Soooooo, be something good
Maybe get global entry or talk about all the locations you wanna travel to.
Definitely offer to drive her to the airport and pick her up.
She drives to her parents country house and back so can't pick her up from airport. Stuff it I'm going to treat this like I would anything else and stop overthinking it. Just be me and chase her, try to actually see her and just go from there. Otherwise ill start obsessing and over analyzing and drive myself crazy
@Wizardz_ " We like to get into relationships whilst pretending we're not and that involves us moving closer to you not you pushing towards us."
Haha! Word! The worst thing you can do is say, what are we? Because the answer could be wood nymphs.
Edited to add: and how does this dynamic work when there are TWO Gemini's involved?? 👀
Haha! Word! The worst thing you can do is say, what are we? Because the answer could be wood nymphs.
Edited to add: and how does this dynamic work when there are TWO Gemini's involved?? 👀
You’re either interested or ambivalent. There’s no such thing as “hard to get.” Hard to get is just a comfortable lie we tell ourselves when a person isn’t that into us. Lukewarm interest is not considered interest.
If you settle for /date someone who has shown you lukewarm interest, just know you’re a placeholder or a person who is gonna get cheated on.
If you settle for /date someone who has shown you lukewarm interest, just know you’re a placeholder or a person who is gonna get cheated on.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.
All the time.
They expect us to keep getting rejected.
For a short time, we will put up with the rejection but then eventually get bored and look for stimulation elsewhere
I love rejection but you are right. It gets old and boring fast. I’m glad we aren’t ones to cling to what could’ve been.
Hopefully he figures out what he wants and puts his running shoes on like you’ve said!
What do you mean by you like rejection? Can you elaborate 🤔
I don’t know what to say about it. I just like things not being easy to get. Rejection doesn’t bother me.
It’s more like a push/pull game.click to expand
Do you approach guys first? 👀
If so, if you approached and a guy rejected you, that wouldn’t discourage you from trying again, bc you don’t like it easy? 🤔
If you approach 1st, but a guy seems too eager or gives in to your advances right away, will you get bored and no longer be interested?
It’s just funny bc my Sag guy friend won’t try to talk to someone unless he knows for a fact that they like him 😂, and he won’t chase at all.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.
All the time.
They expect us to keep getting rejected.
For a short time, we will put up with the rejection but then eventually get bored and look for stimulation elsewhere
I love rejection but you are right. It gets old and boring fast. I’m glad we aren’t ones to cling to what could’ve been.
Hopefully he figures out what he wants and puts his running shoes on like you’ve said!click to expand
“I love rejection”, sounds pretty hilarious 🤣 . Maybe it’s your cancer ♋️ moon, since cancer women are known to chase. I wonder if they feel the same.
I'm trying to work thru what that means, also @Sleepyquantro1the
Because Cancer moon people are clingers.
Because Cancer moon people are clingers.
Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by saggurl88Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.
All the time.
They expect us to keep getting rejected.
For a short time, we will put up with the rejection but then eventually get bored and look for stimulation elsewhere
I love rejection but you are right. It gets old and boring fast. I’m glad we aren’t ones to cling to what could’ve been.
Hopefully he figures out what he wants and puts his running shoes on like you’ve said!
What do you mean by you like rejection? Can you elaborate 🤔
I don’t know what to say about it. I just like things not being easy to get. Rejection doesn’t bother me.
It’s more like a push/pull game.
Do you approach guys first? 👀
If so, if you approached and a guy rejected you, that wouldn’t discourage you from trying again, bc you don’t like it easy? 🤔
If you approach 1st, but a guy seems too eager or gives in to your advances right away, will you get bored and no longer be interested?
It’s just funny bc my Sag guy friend won’t try to talk to someone unless he knows for a fact that they like him 😂, and he won’t chase at all.click to expand
I’m a women, I’m not approaching a man, it’s not necessary. I know how to flirt and that’s all I need when men approach. A smile goes a long way 🙃
And a lot of this depends on looks. Most women who look somewhat decent don’t need to approach a man.
I do believe that men should approach women.
Some men are lazy and don’t want a women to chase.
Those type of men never meet me cause I won’t bother. I like men with confidence.
Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.
All the time.
They expect us to keep getting rejected.
For a short time, we will put up with the rejection but then eventually get bored and look for stimulation elsewhere
I love rejection but you are right. It gets old and boring fast. I’m glad we aren’t ones to cling to what could’ve been.
Hopefully he figures out what he wants and puts his running shoes on like you’ve said!
“I love rejection”, sounds pretty hilarious 🤣 . Maybe it’s your cancer ♋️ moon, since cancer women are known to chase. I wonder if they feel the same.click to expand
I’m don’t chase. And me not being bothered by rejection isn’t a big deal probably cause men come easily.
Rejection keeps me humbled, and is a challenge so I like it every now and then.
I think it’s my sun. We can move on and pick up another.
Then people get mad that we’ve moved on and say we do it too quick. 🤷♀️
Just be yourself. Chase if you want, or don't and keep wondering.
The worst you can do is be boring as fuck, overthinking and reading into things that you're making up in your own mind instead of just blatantly asking her. If she gets mad or offended or whatevs then that's on her and you maybe didn't need her vibe in your space.
I was with a Gem for like, 7 years so I may have answers as well
The worst you can do is be boring as fuck, overthinking and reading into things that you're making up in your own mind instead of just blatantly asking her. If she gets mad or offended or whatevs then that's on her and you maybe didn't need her vibe in your space.
I was with a Gem for like, 7 years so I may have answers as well
Also, even if ya'll decide on whatever it is you're doing - then enjoy it for what it is and how long it lasted. Not what could have been or how things 'should have' played out.. we like to be a little impulsive when the feeling strikes so ride the wave lol
Posted by geminiflyby
I'm trying to work thru what that means, also @Sleepyquantro1the
Because Cancer moon people are clingers.
😂😂 I’m trying to find the middle ground between getting a better understanding, without asking too many questions. 🤦🏽♀️
My Virgo ♍️ bestie always says I ask too many questions. 🤭
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by saggurl88Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88Posted by DMVPosted by saggurl88
I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.
All the time.
They expect us to keep getting rejected.
For a short time, we will put up with the rejection but then eventually get bored and look for stimulation elsewhere
I love rejection but you are right. It gets old and boring fast. I’m glad we aren’t ones to cling to what could’ve been.
Hopefully he figures out what he wants and puts his running shoes on like you’ve said!
What do you mean by you like rejection? Can you elaborate 🤔
I don’t know what to say about it. I just like things not being easy to get. Rejection doesn’t bother me.
It’s more like a push/pull game.
Do you approach guys first? 👀
If so, if you approached and a guy rejected you, that wouldn’t discourage you from trying again, bc you don’t like it easy? 🤔
If you approach 1st, but a guy seems too eager or gives in to your advances right away, will you get bored and no longer be interested?
It’s just funny bc my Sag guy friend won’t try to talk to someone unless he knows for a fact that they like him 😂, and he won’t chase at all.
I’m a women, I’m not approaching a man, it’s not necessary. I know how to flirt and that’s all I need when men approach. A smile goes a long way 🙃
And a lot of this depends on looks. Most women who look somewhat decent don’t need to approach a man.
I do believe that men should approach women.
Some men are lazy and don’t want a women to chase.
Those type of men never meet me cause I won’t bother. I like men with confidence.click to expand
Ok, so you don’t approach men and they approach you, so you clearly know they’re interested bc they approach. So what rejection are you possibly experiencing, to know that you love it 😂.
I’m sorry for all the questions 🤦🏽♀️, maybe I’m just riding the little bus 🚌 today lol.
So rejection like when you try to plan a date and they aren’t available? Like what kind of rejection 🌿👀🌿
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I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.
All the time.
They expect us to keep getting rejected.
For a short time, we will put up with the rejection but then eventually get bored and look for stimulation elsewhere
I love rejection but you are right. It gets old and boring fast. I’m glad we aren’t ones to cling to what could’ve been.
Hopefully he figures out what he wants and puts his running shoes on like you’ve said!
What do you mean by you like rejection? Can you elaborate 🤔
I don’t know what to say about it. I just like things not being easy to get. Rejection doesn’t bother me.
It’s more like a push/pull game.
Do you approach guys first? 👀
If so, if you approached and a guy rejected you, that wouldn’t discourage you from trying again, bc you don’t like it easy? 🤔
If you approach 1st, but a guy seems too eager or gives in to your advances right away, will you get bored and no longer be interested?
It’s just funny bc my Sag guy friend won’t try to talk to someone unless he knows for a fact that they like him 😂, and he won’t chase at all.
I’m a women, I’m not approaching a man, it’s not necessary. I know how to flirt and that’s all I need when men approach. A smile goes a long way 🙃
And a lot of this depends on looks. Most women who look somewhat decent don’t need to approach a man.
I do believe that men should approach women.
Some men are lazy and don’t want a women to chase.
Those type of men never meet me cause I won’t bother. I like men with confidence.click to expand
I also believe men should approach👌🏽, although I do know confident, attractive women who has no qualms about approaching a guy that they’re interested in (usually Aries ♈️ women lol).
I once said this to my guy friend, who told me some men are just shy.
She's probably embarrassed that she sent you the scandalous picture and then things didn't exactly take off.
Understandable.
Understandable.
Also
Sagittarius and Gemini.
Not on the same page. Never will be.
Sagittarius and Gemini.
Not on the same page. Never will be.
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The problem with this approach by the Sag is that it's putting the Gem on the spot, essentially asking "what do you want?" which is the most difficult question on Earth. We like to get into relationships whilst pretending we're not and that involves us moving closer to you not you pushing towards us
It's like that game "What's the time Mr.Wolf?" 🤣 We like to tiptoe closer and then freeze when the wolf looks round and then run away when the wolf chases us
Which is why I said, he needs to ask himself if he’s interested or playing games
If he wasn't interested he wouldn't play games 🤔click to expand
Disagree.
Plenty of psychopaths out there playing games with people they don’t even like. People love attention but they don’t have to like the person who is giving it to them. People have motives.
We see it all the time.
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I think her not responding now is because your rejection is boring and not fun.
We like a good chase. But not if nothing happens and it’s a constant no. You as a Gemini should understand this.
Start trying to get her attention in person. Then things should go back on track. She may still be bored of you if you’re not interested in dating though and if the in person time is not fun.
We are a sign that likes intimacy, adventure and fun.
You like that she listens to what you have to say, but nothing that you’re doing is beneficial for her- you won’t even give her the time of day unless it’s you talking and her listening.
It’s a very boring one sided friendship, IMO
He honestly just wants a penpal who listens to all his stories.
There is an app for that.
LMAO I know right?
People seriously sleep on us until we disappear and aren’t attentive anymore lol.click to expand
The same dam shit is happening in some respects to me now 🙄
Posted by Wizardz_
The problem with this approach by the Sag is that it's putting the Gem on the spot, essentially asking "what do you want?" which is the most difficult question on Earth. We like to get into relationships whilst pretending we're not and that involves us moving closer to you not you pushing towards us
It's like that game "What's the time Mr.Wolf?" 🤣 We like to tiptoe closer and then freeze when the wolf looks round and then run away when the wolf chases us
I understand this concept because of the situation I was in with the Gem and saying we are friends but showing me different actions (ie like we are an item )
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by DMVPosted by Wizardz_
The problem with this approach by the Sag is that it's putting the Gem on the spot, essentially asking "what do you want?" which is the most difficult question on Earth. We like to get into relationships whilst pretending we're not and that involves us moving closer to you not you pushing towards us
It's like that game "What's the time Mr.Wolf?" 🤣 We like to tiptoe closer and then freeze when the wolf looks round and then run away when the wolf chases us
Which is why I said, he needs to ask himself if he’s interested or playing games
If he wasn't interested he wouldn't play games 🤔click to expand
I feel when Gems aren't interested theres no games. When we are somehow turns into a game if the person isn't super direct..
Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_
The problem with this approach by the Sag is that it's putting the Gem on the spot, essentially asking "what do you want?" which is the most difficult question on Earth. We like to get into relationships whilst pretending we're not and that involves us moving closer to you not you pushing towards us
It's like that game "What's the time Mr.Wolf?" 🤣 We like to tiptoe closer and then freeze when the wolf looks round and then run away when the wolf chases us
I understand this concept because of the situation I was in with the Gem and saying we are friends but showing me different actions (ie like we are an item )click to expand
And what happened with your situation in the end?
Posted by geminiflyby
@Wizardz_ " We like to get into relationships whilst pretending we're not and that involves us moving closer to you not you pushing towards us."
Haha! Word! The worst thing you can do is say, what are we? Because the answer could be wood nymphs.
Edited to add: and how does this dynamic work when there are TWO Gemini's involved?? 👀
Lol ain't that the truth
Sag seems to be normal again. Responding. She said she's excited for when she gets back in town to show me how to do a wheelie on my motorbike.. lol think we're good for now. She knows I'm interested but yes I'm sure theres been aspects of my behaviour/communication thats not been clear for her either. My ex of 5 years had a moon in aries, mines in libra. Let's see how this one unfolds. Most of my other "flames" or ex's have had leo moons. I'm always attracted to/attract fire moons. Yet to meet a sag moon though
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