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new interest - scorpio 1st decan - any help ?
Sweet friend, just enjoy that coffee and don't worry about his Scorpio bits. Just be yourself, you're a taurus, he'll eat you up!
Posted by Explicitthanks, and it's funny that you said that - some guy just walked up behind me after I left the desk in the clinic and asked me out on a date - wow, you don't get that everyday - he seems nice so I said yes to coffee and to get to know him first which is what I need to feel comfortable in response to yours above - I have to talk enough up front to the point that I can go out and feel comfortable with that person - I could tell he knew I saw right through him as when he approached me he asked me if I was with ... the company he worked for - said he thought he knew me or thought I was a customer lol - right - first I thought it was a sales approach - then he sort of blushed and said well he just thought I looked nice and I'm beautiful and blah blah ... I'm schmarter than that lololol
Damn that's tough. No matter what decan any sign is, throw on a Leo or Gemini Moon and it will drastically change them.
I say be yourself and see where things go.
Btw, I really admire people who can just go and meet a new person and go on some date with them. I would feel so awkward. "So um... What do you do?" lol.
I will always be myself and appear calm on the outside but I seem to swim inside - freaking Pisces Mars - I have to keep things on the down low - he may be a psychopath - one never knows ...
and you are right, not sure what the other placements are - he seems easy to talk to so far but we've only chatted a bit - physically he is not my type but I do need to be open to other types and explore that realm and why I insist sticking to a type when nothing is happening anyway - guess I'll have to find out where and when he was born
one red flag so far is that he's never been married - interesting for someone who is 55 no~ ...
Posted by TaurusinTexaslol not sure I want that yet - he's not my usual type but seemed nice enough so far as long as he's no psycho - 55 and never been married ? red flag ... but I will enjoy whatever has blown my way - see my other post for the "scoop" lol - thanks!!!
Sweet friend, just enjoy that coffee and don't worry about his Scorpio bits. Just be yourself, you're a taurus, he'll eat you up!
Posted by GetMistedyou know, I don't know other than most people go that normal route - at least once - I guess - I hear what you are saying - some people know themselves that well - know they don't want children and family life, etc. guess part of that is because I'm a very homey Taurus - so why would he not have a lifetime companion by now ? he said it was because he was in the military and moved around a lotPosted by tctaWhy?
one red flag so far is that he's never been married - interesting for someone who is 55 no~ ...
I have no plans to ever get married. That doesn't mean I'm not looking for a lifetime companion.
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Posted by dolluxehis is 10/24 lol - hoping for other good placements lol - thank you!
Like I mentioned in previous posts I have a LOT of Scorpios around me be it platonic friendships or romantic interests. One thing I've noticed, those born in November are less crazy compared to those born in October. Then again it could be their other placements..... Or my ex and current scorp are just nutjobs since they're born October 26th and 23rd. 😆
Posted by GetMistedI can tell LOL !Posted by dolluxe
Like I mentioned in previous posts I have a LOT of Scorpios around me be it platonic friendships or romantic interests. One thing I've noticed, those born in November are less crazy compared to those born in October. Then again it could be their other placements..... Or my ex and current scorp are just nutjobs since they're born October 26th and 23rd. 😆
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Thanks!
Posted by dolluxelol
Like I mentioned in previous posts I have a LOT of Scorpios around me be it platonic friendships or romantic interests. One thing I've noticed, those born in November are less crazy compared to those born in October. Then again it could be their other placements..... Or my ex and current scorp are just nutjobs since they're born October 26th and 23rd. 😆
Posted by leowwwthanks I will !
1st decan are the scorpios I like most!!
Astrology is fun but don't let this kind of stuff get to your nerves or influence you!
Have a good time 🙂
Keep us posted!
Posted by Explicitand, well, we have to start somewhere ...
Damn that's tough. No matter what decan any sign is, throw on a Leo or Gemini Moon and it will drastically change them.
I say be yourself and see where things go.
Btw, I really admire people who can just go and meet a new person and go on some date with them. I would feel so awkward. "So um... What do you do?" lol.
55 and never married? Wow, that is interesting. Well, I wish you luck and hope you have a good time. 😛
I know right, that's what I said to him - that was interesting cause I normally do not meet men who have never been married - one topic for convo at least ... thanks!
Posted by dolluxelol ya know he kind of looked like that but I thought he was looking at my boobs lolPosted by GetMistedPosted by dolluxe
Like I mentioned in previous posts I have a LOT of Scorpios around me be it platonic friendships or romantic interests. One thing I've noticed, those born in November are less crazy compared to those born in October. Then again it could be their other placements..... Or my ex and current scorp are just nutjobs since they're born October 26th and 23rd. 😆click to expand
Posted by Impulsvsee how much you learn as you get older - every time I was out there in the dating scene I was always cautious about a man who had never been married - silly me for missing out - now I'm just curious - everybody is truly different !Posted by tctaNot really red flag he could have had long term relationships last 15 years for all we knowPosted by TaurusinTexaslol not sure I want that yet - he's not my usual type but seemed nice enough so far as long as he's no psycho - 55 and never been married ? red flag ... but I will enjoy whatever has blown my way - see my other post for the "scoop" lol - thanks!!!
Sweet friend, just enjoy that coffee and don't worry about his Scorpio bits. Just be yourself, you're a taurus, he'll eat you up!click to expand
Posted by Impulsvsaid he was in the military for 20 years I think he said and couldn't do anything long term ...Posted by tctaNot really red flag he could have had long term relationships last 15 years for all we knowPosted by TaurusinTexaslol not sure I want that yet - he's not my usual type but seemed nice enough so far as long as he's no psycho - 55 and never been married ? red flag ... but I will enjoy whatever has blown my way - see my other post for the "scoop" lol - thanks!!!
Sweet friend, just enjoy that coffee and don't worry about his Scorpio bits. Just be yourself, you're a taurus, he'll eat you up!click to expand
lol ya know he kind of looked like that but I thought he was looking at my boobs lol
Wouldn't be surprised if he was 😆
First decans are fun to be with, as Misted said they're laid back until you witness those moments
lol - omg, no thank you, I don't want to witness those moments - I am getting way too old for that crap - people go off on me now, I pull over and they will get out !
Posted by Impulsvstrange - no it wasn't like that - he seem confident in what he was doing but nervous underneath - he had very very blue eyes which I am not accustomed too with "stares" - normally it's the dark eyes that get me ... so it confused me but when I stared at him he had to look away
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio-stare/most-intense-scorpio-stare-6926049/
Did he give I that stare!!
Posted by GetMistedI don't get it ?
Posted by GetMistedno I didn't call you crazy - I said I don't like crazy - you haven't been crazy to me - you're always nice ...Posted by tctaY'all calling me crazy -_-Posted by GetMistedI don't get it ?click to expand
? Hmmm... Just don't make up your mind so quickly. I don't think single at 55 = red flag. Just go with the flow and see what presents itself. He might be a great guy, you never know! Just don't sell yourself too short too quickly.
Good luck and have fun!
thank you, I am trying to just go with it and see - he seems like a really nice person ...
Posted by Reincarnationthanks - that's good cause I'm very laid back myself - at least until someone pisses me off lolPosted by GetMistedPosted by tctaI personally think they are more laid back in general.
just met someone and found out he's 1st decan scorpio - I know nothing more - any general help on general disposition ? I just don't have the time to read all through this section on scorpio.
My signs listed in my avi ...
we are just meeting for coffee tomorrow ...
Agreed.
First decan Scorps are more relaxed.click to expand
I am a first decan scorpio rising and if this helps:
This Scorpio/PLUTO decan of Scorpio rising is, of course, the most typical. Very much of what was covered above applies fully, but there is more. The fixed nature of Scorpio gives you a tremendous amount of tenacity (staying power). Once you set out to accomplish anything, you will persist regardless of the obstacles until you finally succeed. Aiding this determination is the cardinal sub-influence of this first decan, which can help to supply you with the stamina, energy, and drive to persist very actively.
Of all with Scorpio rising, you are the one who is most private and secretive. You absolutely will not reveal anything about your personal life unless you expressly desire to do so. Actually, you may be too personally "self-contained" for your own good since others with whom you must relate may think you are covering up things which might be a threat to them. Remember that your own suspicions can arouse the suspicions of others. Work on learning to be a bit more open and trusting until you find a real reason not to be.
Your physical appearance typically inclines to darker skin and hair color than those with other decans of Scorpio rising. Eat sensibly or you could develop a weight problem, especially as the years pass. You truly like to maintain the status quo and adjust rather slowly to changes in your everyday life; therefore, you'd do well to strive for "regularity" in as many areas of your life as possible. In career/work/business, you might be especially successful if you become involved with some type of research or investigation. You may be expert at ferreting out anything that's hidden from normal view.
It's probable that you have a very accented libido which makes you (and others) very much aware of how sexy and sensual you appear. It's not uncommon for you to get rather personal, even gross attention from some others which you'd rather not have. If you dress too provocatively, you may be inviting situations which you could do without.
This Scorpio/PLUTO decan of Scorpio rising is, of course, the most typical. Very much of what was covered above applies fully, but there is more. The fixed nature of Scorpio gives you a tremendous amount of tenacity (staying power). Once you set out to accomplish anything, you will persist regardless of the obstacles until you finally succeed. Aiding this determination is the cardinal sub-influence of this first decan, which can help to supply you with the stamina, energy, and drive to persist very actively.
Of all with Scorpio rising, you are the one who is most private and secretive. You absolutely will not reveal anything about your personal life unless you expressly desire to do so. Actually, you may be too personally "self-contained" for your own good since others with whom you must relate may think you are covering up things which might be a threat to them. Remember that your own suspicions can arouse the suspicions of others. Work on learning to be a bit more open and trusting until you find a real reason not to be.
Your physical appearance typically inclines to darker skin and hair color than those with other decans of Scorpio rising. Eat sensibly or you could develop a weight problem, especially as the years pass. You truly like to maintain the status quo and adjust rather slowly to changes in your everyday life; therefore, you'd do well to strive for "regularity" in as many areas of your life as possible. In career/work/business, you might be especially successful if you become involved with some type of research or investigation. You may be expert at ferreting out anything that's hidden from normal view.
It's probable that you have a very accented libido which makes you (and others) very much aware of how sexy and sensual you appear. It's not uncommon for you to get rather personal, even gross attention from some others which you'd rather not have. If you dress too provocatively, you may be inviting situations which you could do without.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairiesthank you - I will post later once I see how coffee goes
I am a first decan scorpio rising and if this helps:
This Scorpio/PLUTO decan of Scorpio rising is, of course, the most typical. Very much of what was covered above applies fully, but there is more. The fixed nature of Scorpio gives you a tremendous amount of tenacity (staying power). Once you set out to accomplish anything, you will persist regardless of the obstacles until you finally succeed. Aiding this determination is the cardinal sub-influence of this first decan, which can help to supply you with the stamina, energy, and drive to persist very actively.
Of all with Scorpio rising, you are the one who is most private and secretive. You absolutely will not reveal anything about your personal life unless you expressly desire to do so. Actually, you may be too personally "self-contained" for your own good since others with whom you must relate may think you are covering up things which might be a threat to them. Remember that your own suspicions can arouse the suspicions of others. Work on learning to be a bit more open and trusting until you find a real reason not to be.
Your physical appearance typically inclines to darker skin and hair color than those with other decans of Scorpio rising. Eat sensibly or you could develop a weight problem, especially as the years pass. You truly like to maintain the status quo and adjust rather slowly to changes in your everyday life; therefore, you'd do well to strive for "regularity" in as many areas of your life as possible. In career/work/business, you might be especially successful if you become involved with some type of research or investigation. You may be expert at ferreting out anything that's hidden from normal view.
It's probable that you have a very accented libido which makes you (and others) very much aware of how sexy and sensual you appear. It's not uncommon for you to get rather personal, even gross attention from some others which you'd rather not have. If you dress too provocatively, you may be inviting situations which you could do without.
Posted by ReincarnationNo way, we are warriors 😄Posted by GetMistedPosted by tctaI personally think they are more laid back in general.
just met someone and found out he's 1st decan scorpio - I know nothing more - any general help on general disposition ? I just don't have the time to read all through this section on scorpio.
My signs listed in my avi ...
we are just meeting for coffee tomorrow ...
Agreed.
First decan Scorps are more relaxed.click to expand
First decan of Scorpio, which is ruled by Pluto, the second closest minor or dwarf planet to the Sun and named after the Roman god of the underworld.
In astrology, Pluto is synonymous with transformation, elimination, regeneration, rebirth as well as healing. It is also powerful, determined, obsessive and compulsive. That might be why your nearest and dearest would describe you as a fearless warrior that not only possesses great tenacity and courage, but also the remarkable ability to rebounce from failure and start afresh. You are emotionally resilient and can see or rather, create opportunities for growth in the face of turmoil, challenges, setbacks and stressful situations.
I think 2nd(Pisces) decan is most relaxed, then 1st(Scorpio) then 3rd (Cancer)
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairiesthat link could describe me in a lot of ways - but the only Scorpio I have is in Neptune and I don't know a lot about astrology - still learning ... so seeing those traits in someone else I would "get it" - thank you!
http://astrotunity.com/scorpio-decans-personality-traits.html
Posted by Unwordingsounds delicious and apropos so rather than my usual cup of black joe, I will have the "pumpkin spice latte" ooola lah !
I had a pumpkin spice latte earlier this morning, thinking how the hell do they manage to squeeze an entire season into a cup of deliciousness-- MAGIC! Highly recommend it. lol
Have fun. 🙂
Posted by Unwordingcute and thanks - is this BG2 - gurl !Posted by tctaPosted by Unwordingsounds delicious and apropos so rather than my usual cup of black joe, I will have the "pumpkin spice latte" ooola lah !
I had a pumpkin spice latte earlier this morning, thinking how the hell do they manage to squeeze an entire season into a cup of deliciousness-- MAGIC! Highly recommend it. lol
Have fun. 🙂
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I promise.
cute and thanks - is this BG2 - gurl !
No, I believe she's gone Feral. lol
oh ok - she was back - maybe just here and there ... nice to talk to you !
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