Trying to find a sign I'm compatible with. It's frustrating! Female Scorpio here.

Not sure If it's maybe the person, or if their sign does have a significant roll in who they are as a person. Myself, Scorpio sun, Scorpio rising, Sagittarius moon is just starting to get frustrated! I think I just find shitty people. I'm in my early 30's.

I tried dating a scorpio/libra cusp and that was a god awful nightmare, he was more manipulative than me!!!!

we were together about a year and a half, and i had to walk away due to his nasty cheating.

I shortly dated a Pisces, who drove me insane with his aloof behavior and indecisiveness, also his need to always spend money, even if he didnt have it!! Left him for cheating too. found a used condom under his bed and it wasn't ours.

My longest relationship was with a cancer, we got along really well, but he started drifting off after about a year, sex was non existent and he just was too "comfortable" or so i thought, but he was a secret dick pic sender and attended weird sex orgy's i later found out, which the guilt of not telling me turned him into a full blown alcoholic. I left that mess too..

I was with a Libra for about 5 months, and he ghosted me completely while i was in physical therapy from a super bad injury and fucked my Capricorn roommate. i moved out immediately and she went to jail.

I literally moved out of the state to somewhere new. It's been almost 3 years from that last mess which really really screwed me up. I just dont know what to look for..

I just had a major falling out with a virgo i knew for 15 years.. and he just went off on me about something that happened in the past that he said he's "over" and blew up at me for. (it happened 6 years ago!) So virgo's are OUT!

I've had issues with Gemini's and their double behavior, clingyness and a lot of them had commitment issues (an old friend of mine back home has been with her gem (she's a scorp.) for 6 years, and he bought a ring 2 years ago, and still hasn't asked. I work with one, and she drives me insane.

i was attracted to a leo once, him and i had magnetic sexual chemistry, it was insane!! but nothing came of it, and now hes married to a scorpio with 2 kids.

I'm trying to scan guys online dating, but i just dont know what sign i should pinpoint. I do enjoy cancer's since they understand my temper.. I've never been with a capricorn... My aunt (C) and uncle (Scorp) have been married for 40 years. they make it work.

any suggestions?

Well, I am with girl who is Scorpio Sun and Rising, and for now, everything is fine...she's just so into me...the chemistry is great, last night, on our 3rd date I fucked her four times, and long, she was very satisfied, she even wanted me on the second date, and thought about sex on the first, haha. So there is your suggestion...a Sag with water rising 😄

Posted by ozzzy
Well, I am with girl who is Scorpio Sun and Rising, and for now, everything is fine...she's just so into me...the chemistry is great, last night, on our 3rd date I fucked her four times, and long, she was very satisfied, she even wanted me on the second date, and thought about sex on the first, haha. So there is your suggestion...a Sag with water rising 😄

Hmm.. Never Tried dating a Sag before.. I had a friend long ago who was a sag and i had a crush on him , but he always told me i was "too serious" and i never had any fun. He never laughed at my jokes, and im hilarious!! not sure what his rising is though. And it's so hard trying to find a dude who believes in this! So many say it's crap, but I've literally gone through the list of my family, married and divorced and everyone is with the sign they're meant to be with! and the divorced people were super incompatible. I will keep an eye out, Thank you!

Naw. Saggis dont want none of this drama

Posted by DMV
Naw. Saggis dont want none of this drama

I have a couple friends, and even my baby sister who are Sag's. and we just don't get along at all. I try to avoid Fire signs all together.. Although my Aries brother married A scorpio, and they're just dandy.

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Virgos, Cancer / Pisces..

The happiest Scorpio woman I know is now married to her long-term boyfriend and he's cancer. 🙂

If you even knew half the shit i just went through with that Virgo, my god. Never ever ever ever no no no!

My best friend back home scorp just married a Pisces. but i haven't had any luck with Pisces Men.. are they all aloof and indecisive??

My cousin (scorp) just married her cancer too.

Her brother (leo) married his long time gf (libra)

Their parents Cap/Scorp going on 40 years.

My brother Aires married a Scorpio

My mom Cap/Aqua cusp married an Aires and Divorced awful match

My baby sister (sag) is with her long time bf (Aires)

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Posted by leowww


Virgos, Cancer / Pisces..

The happiest Scorpio woman I know is now married to her long-term boyfriend and he's cancer. 🙂

If you even knew half the shit i just went through with that Virgo, my god. Never ever ever ever no no no!

My best friend back home scorp just married a Pisces. but i haven't had any luck with Pisces Men.. are they all aloof and indecisive??

My cousin (scorp) just married her cancer too.

Her brother (leo) married his long time gf (libra)

Their parents Cap/Scorp going on 40 years.

My brother Aires married a Scorpio

My mom Cap/Aqua cusp married an Aires and Divorced awful match

My baby sister (sag) is with her long time bf (Aires)

I'm sorry about the Virgo.

Same here... ?

Scorpio and aries sounds interesting.... ?

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she keeps my brother balanced.. But when they fight, my god, you need ear muffs and a bomb shelter to hide in. But they made the sweetest little Pisces baby.

OP!

As a woman Scorpio you can have whomever you want!

Trust me'

I was watching my cousin! She walked by - men fell!

No ass. So..just be true to your sign!

Somethinv about your description of your experiences tell me it has not much to do with the sun sign of these men. Maybe try to date healthier versions if each sign you've tried already?

In general, as a scorp woman, I gotta say I wonder who's my astrological meat match too.

I like scorp men. I like Aqua or Aqua placements. I like earthy men too. I'm fixed dominant, I don't think a mutable sign would fair well with me.

Overall, i think it depends on the type of scorp woman you are

** not meat match. Just *match* lol

Posted by aNEWday
** not meat match. Just *match* lol

I WANT A MEAT MATCH! hahahahaha

I take note of peoples' signs and look up their birth charts, but I don't let it determine who I will and won't go out with.

I've had nothing but bad relationships with Geminis, but if I met another Gemini girl and fell in love, I'd give it another chance.

Looks to me like you just attract a certain type of guy. Maybe try to figure out why and how. Astrology is interesting, but it doesn't dictate who will do who dirty.

Posted by Bricks195
I take note of peoples' signs and look up their birth charts, but I don't let it determine who I will and won't go out with.

I've had nothing but bad relationships with Geminis, but if I met another Gemini girl and fell in love, I'd give it another chance.

Looks to me like you just attract a certain type of guy. Maybe try to figure out why and how. Astrology is interesting, but it doesn't dictate who will do who dirty.

yeah, i dont like to get in depth, i do like to know what their sign is so i can at least look.. I never really got into it until after my long term cancer... since then i like to check and see.

I think when i went over with my shrink, i liked to "fix" people. and that's something i needed to stop. So after the first guy i dated, i was single 7 years, then dated someone for 4 months, was single for 2 years, dated someone for 2 years, was single 2 years, dated someone for 6 months, now im single going on 3 years. I like to take my time in between to make sure I'm okay mentally and physically. But I'd just like a certain one to stick. But so does everyone else.

If i came across any other one's id give it a shot for sure. I do just tend to keep an eye out for ones i know I'm not very compatible with and try my best from there.

Wow that really is some terrible luck or just bad judgment.

I do think we have matches that are just harder to find though.

Anyway, maybe your best bet is a cancer who is developed and in control of their emotions, or a Leo who is balanced and grounded. You may even find yourself ina good union with a Taurus 🙂

It really depends on what kind of scorpion you are yourself. I know that my Gem moon would eventually grow tired of a cancer, and unable to bear the weight of a water moon.

I've always hated Pisces. Virgo... boring. Geminis are fun but a bit too unstable for me. My best relationships so far have been with Scorpio (platonic), Leo, Taurus, and Cap.

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Posted by ozzzy
Well, I am with girl who is Scorpio Sun and Rising, and for now, everything is fine...she's just so into me...the chemistry is great, last night, on our 3rd date I fucked her four times, and long, she was very satisfied, she even wanted me on the second date, and thought about sex on the first, haha. So there is your suggestion...a Sag with water rising 😄

Hmm.. Never Tried dating a Sag before.. I had a friend long ago who was a sag and i had a crush on him , but he always told me i was "too serious" and i never had any fun. He never laughed at my jokes, and im hilarious!! not sure what his rising is though. And it's so hard trying to find a dude who believes in this! So many say it's crap, but I've literally gone through the list of my family, married and divorced and everyone is with the sign they're meant to be with! and the divorced people were super incompatible. I will keep an eye out, Thank you!

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I think you're relying on astrology too much to tell you how to live your life.

And if you're going to do that, then I would suggest you read up on aspects and synastry - because theres usually msny combos that would

allow for 2 otherwise incompatible sun signs to complement each other in a relationship.

Posted by Bricks195
I take note of peoples' signs and look up their birth charts, but I don't let it determine who I will and won't go out with.

I've had nothing but bad relationships with Geminis, but if I met another Gemini girl and fell in love, I'd give it another chance.

Looks to me like you just attract a certain type of guy. Maybe try to figure out why and how. Astrology is interesting, but it doesn't dictate who will do who dirty.

wow that's a good attitude. not many would say that even though they keep attracting same energies and had bad relationships with that energy.

They need to invent a 13th sign for us



😛

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any suggestions?

I'm a ? Gemini and I think we should be besties! ?

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hahahahhaa We started out super compadible, but i think just the stress at work kind of just took us apart. But long term, I've had lots of problems with gem's. I'll be your online bestie 😉

Just an advice - don't go for Virgo men.