Downside to Taurus Man/Scorpio Woman

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

I need to know this for.........reasons.

Posted by Berzerker

This match is horrible scorpio women annoy me so much

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Posted by Boots1313

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

I need to know this for.........reasons.

Don't do it! 🦂

I haven’t got any female Taurus’ nearby. 🤷‍♂️

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Posted by Boots1313

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Posted by Boots1313

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

I need to know this for.........reasons.

Don't do it! 🦂

I haven’t got any female Taurus’ nearby. 🤷‍♂️

Local bars/restaurants during Taurus season...You will find one celebrating a bday!

You’re a genius 😋

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Posted by LethalFantasia

I wonder why so many Scorpio women/Taurus men relationships never last. This connection seems to have so much passion and true lahv but it doesn't seem to work, for whatever reason.

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Posted by LentoBull91

Posted by LethalFantasia

I wonder why so many Scorpio women/Taurus men relationships never last. This connection seems to have so much passion and true lahv but it doesn't seem to work, for whatever reason.

The answer is simple, Scorpios intensity will scorched the earth till there is nothing left. The only way it will last is if the Scorpio learns how to control their intensity.

Taurus males can be pretty intense and controlling themselves tbh

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Posted by jeane

you'll need the expert for this - @agentp911

Posted by AgentP911

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you'll need the expert for this - @agentp911

I is 'ere! 😆

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you'll need the expert for this - @agentp911

I is 'ere! 😆

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Posted by Berzerker

@AgentP911 i also see no 'spark' in this relantionship to be at least fun, but if worked for you congratulations you are a very rare exception, it's 10x easier when the scorpio is earth dominant with little water, or even venus dominant

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Posted by LethalFantasia

Posted by LentoBull91

Posted by LethalFantasia

I wonder why so many Scorpio women/Taurus men relationships never last. This connection seems to have so much passion and true lahv but it doesn't seem to work, for whatever reason.

The answer is simple, Scorpios intensity will scorched the earth till there is nothing left. The only way it will last is if the Scorpio learns how to control their intensity.

Taurus males can be pretty intense and controlling themselves tbh

Ehh we’re only intense in certain situations unlike scorpions who always have their stingers ready to strike. If you meet a controlling bull then you’re dealing with an unevolved Bull. The mature ones let you do you because we hate being controlled and controlling others.

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Posted by AgentP911

OP,

It can work out very well between a Scorpio woman (me) and a Taurus man (my fella).

Some people may have had horrendous experiences but you can say that about all sign combinations. My personal favourite to avoid is cancerian men. Others will say they're the sweetest.

Personally, I think to make it work between a scorpio woman and a taurus man you both have to have your shit together... And I mean seriously together. Mature. No fucking insecure fuelled bullshit drama (especially from scorpio women) and none of that harem crap from taurus man.

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Posted by LentoBull91

Posted by LethalFantasia

I wonder why so many Scorpio women/Taurus men relationships never last. This connection seems to have so much passion and true lahv but it doesn't seem to work, for whatever reason.

The answer is simple, Scorpios intensity will scorched the earth till there is nothing left. The only way it will last is if the Scorpio learns how to control their intensity.

Taurus males can be pretty intense and controlling themselves tbh

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Posted by LentoBull91

There is nothing for us to cover up, we’re very aware of our emotions, we just know how to control them unlike our opposites.

Posted by aquatar1

Passionate but also a lot of conflict.

I dealt with a scorp once...chemistry was great. But it was a lot of on/off/fights etc.

The two are compatible and can work out long term but jealousy and posessiveness can become an issue if they're immature/one party is immature

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Posted by LethalFantasia

I wonder why so many Scorpio women/Taurus men relationships never last. This connection seems to have so much passion and true lahv but it doesn't seem to work, for whatever reason.

The answer is simple, Scorpios intensity will scorched the earth till there is nothing left. The only way it will last is if the Scorpio learns how to control their intensity.

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Posted by AgentP911

OP,

It can work out very well between a Scorpio woman (me) and a Taurus man (my fella).

Some people may have had horrendous experiences but you can say that about all sign combinations. My personal favourite to avoid is cancerian men. Others will say they're the sweetest.

Personally, I think to make it work between a scorpio woman and a taurus man you both have to have your shit together... And I mean seriously together. Mature. No fucking insecure fuelled bullshit drama (especially from scorpio women) and none of that harem crap from taurus man.

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Posted by CopperDove

A related question:

Scorpio people with Taurus influences in their chart, and Taurus people with Scorpio in their chart, do you find that your opposite sun is a magnetic draw?

I'm a Scorpio woman with Taurus rising conjunct Taurus Saturn (both opposite my Scorpio sun, Venus and Jupiter). I have nothing against Taurus, but there is no magnet effect like some people write about. I assume this is because I'm dealing with both energies in my chart all of the time.

I don’t have Taurus in my chart to speak of and I don’t really feel any magnetic draw. It’s even my 5th house so you’d think so, but overall we never mesh to that level. I’ve met a few I think are cute or funny over the years. It always putters out as a passing flirtation tho. I don’t think I’ve so much as gone on a date with one ever.

I did have a Taurus moon phase for while. But even that is fairly short lived.

I’d say that the lack of chemistry was pretty mutual too. I never got the sense any were too interested as things always pretty mutually faded out.

If anything I’d attribute it to air dominance. My air houses are dominant. I need a lot of movement and continuous mental engagement and that’s just not Earth doms cup of tea normally. They’re fairly content to be without swirls of occasional chaos lol.

You’re a gem moon and 7th house dom yes? Do you feel similarly?

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Posted by CopperDove

A related question:

Scorpio people with Taurus influences in their chart, and Taurus people with Scorpio in their chart, do you find that your opposite sun is a magnetic draw?

I'm a Scorpio woman with Taurus rising conjunct Taurus Saturn (both opposite my Scorpio sun, Venus and Jupiter). I have nothing against Taurus, but there is no magnet effect like some people write about. I assume this is because I'm dealing with both energies in my chart all of the time.

I don’t have Taurus in my chart to speak of and I don’t really feel any magnetic draw. It’s even my 5th house so you’d think so, but overall we never mesh to that level. I’ve met a few I think are cute or funny over the years. It always putters out as a passing flirtation tho. I don’t think I’ve so much as gone on a date with one ever.

I did have a Taurus moon phase for while. But even that is fairly short lived.

I’d say that the lack of chemistry was pretty mutual too. I never got the sense any were too interested as things always pretty mutually faded out.

If anything I’d attribute it to air dominance. My air houses are dominant. I need a lot of movement and continuous mental engagement and that’s just not Earth doms cup of tea normally. They’re fairly content to be without swirls of occasional chaos lol.

You’re a gem moon and 7th house dom yes? Do you feel similarly?

Thanks for this answer! Yes, I relate! :-) I've always known the birthdays of men I've been involved with, and there are only 3 mysteries at most for sun sign (men I only had one date with), so it's zero Taurus for me too. Granted, I have two Taurus male friends, but I've definitely never had a romantic relationship with a Taurus man.

"a lot of movement and continuous mental engagement" is what I need too. In recent years, I've had to face something about myself when evaluating my relationship history. I consciously want stability, but the degree I have assumed that I need it is not actually what is best for me longterm.

Yes, I have Gem moon. My 6th house has 5 planets in it, but my Scorpio sun, Sag Mercury and Sag Neptune are in my 7th house so the 7th is a big influence for sure. My Sun sits right on my DC because my Taurus ascendant and Scorpio sun are so closely opposite by degree.

Yeah I struggled (and still do sometimes) with that exact relationship concept. The want for stability while realizing that what’s best for me is something that looks far less ‘stable.’ I have a 7th house moon and a 6th house Air Mars.

Being 6th house dom adds a touch of mercurial energy too. I notice in 6th house doms, there’s this tactician/academic quality to any planet that falls in there. There’s a need to dig down, curiosity that must be satisfied and then articulated, and if possible expounded upon past that. It’s an innate drive toward deconstruction almost. Purposefully, kind of like reverse engineering.

While I know a Taurus like that (who is gemini and Aries dom) most others need a firm sense of rootedness. Which is probably why there’s not that sense of magnetism between you and them typically.

Taurus is about hedonism classically, but spiritual depth esoterically. Rituals, festivals, simply the idea of a holiday, a regularly celebrated time of reverence for a figure, idea or moral, all deeply Taurus things. Finding spiritual identity from building boundaries, so the soul can evolve safely and learn adequately. (A lot of prominent philosophers are Taurus, leaders in thought theory, that teacher/leader fusion quality.)

I myself used to undersell the spiritual qualities of Taurus that way, but that’s because I’m water and air dominant. My spirituality evolves through a bit o chaos lol. With time tho I’ve come to really find the depth of Taurus and that spiritual attainment through rule and ritual is exceptionally vital for a huge amount of people and certain times in life.

Idk if that reply covers everything you’ve mentioned. Now my mind is just chaotically spinning about Astro theory. 😂 you’ve given inspiration for my book. 😂😂😂

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

I need to know this for.........reasons.

Posted by Officalnotsupa

the Taurus man craves the Scorpio women. and vice versa but the Scorpio women intensity and emotions will be tooken by the Taurus as pushy and too deep and get him out of his comfort zone making him seem uncomfortable and the Scorpio female will feel unwanted and look at the taurus as cold logical and trying to make sense out of her emotions she will need him to just feel and go with the flow see what happens and he will need her to fall back on the romance and use a lil but more sense I love this match either way both of you become stronger but every pairing I see female or male under the surface it's always back and forth with the dominance and submission w power couple but also power struggle

Taurus logical physical sensable power money wealth status

Scorpio silent power dark emotions based upon what u cant see or recognize or underlying problems

Posted by Impulsv

I got Taurus moon nstellium in Libra

Taurus ‘ are my weakness not all though

But when on strikes it’s like the moth to the flame

Posted by Officalnotsupa

both can leave eachother hurt because of there overwhelming confusing passion but If you were in a toxic relationship of this pair either sign can say to other I never was the same or "they drained me for every ounce of love I had" remember yall are opposites y'all want the same thing but go about it differently it's sad such a strong pairing breakups between the two usually happen because of a big big misunderstanding because y'all be reaching for the same goal but in ways that oppose eachother so in your own eyes it seems like y'all are fighting against eachother such a unbreakable bond nobody else can penetrate do not hate on this pair around me cause if u been in one you know bad or not you learned a hard lesson or came out stronger than b4 don't lie I know thts what these opposites do for eachother all opposite pairing are either really good or really bad or both at the same time it can be a blessing or a lesson

but Taurus and Scorpio 🐂🦂💚💚💚

Posted by Silvuh

Scorpio is getting the heat 😂 I had a totally different experience when I dated a Taurus though.

We really did have a strong attraction to one another but the communication just was not there from get. Handled confrontation very differently. He also cheated, so that was a no 😂

I could see this working If both parties have overcome whatever insecurities that make them hesitant on opening up.

I was never and don’t think I ever am hard pressed on control, but emotional vulnerability is kind of important to me because it creates a safe space of trust, and dude would just shut down at the simplest things. Even worse misdirect his anger. I found he was very emotional but was shit at expressing it and I didn’t have the patience or martyr type attitude to stick around for all of that combined.

I can see where the emotional need might be annoying for a Taurus to deal with. We are very big on fidelity. Taurus are very on their own time kind of people, even if their clock is a few hours behind. They know and don’t care lol

Bomb 🍆 though 😂 super attentive.

He was outdoorsy, always down for an adventure, we got along pretty good as friends, lots of common interests, it bothered me when he cheated but I wasn’t about to stay. It’s a shame because I really did see the potential in growth but that was the deal breaker 😭

He saw it too apparently, got 101 doe eyed apologies but I was so livid! Def bad timing. He still reaches out in a platonic type way. But after the resentment stage it’s just indifference and I had no real interest in taking him back.

I still think this pairing isn’t so bad. They both kinda have to get passed the whole “protect yourself via guarding” deal and hope one another can handle their emotions conducively. Then it’s a go I feel 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Posted by Silvuh

Scorpio is getting the heat 😂 I had a totally different experience when I dated a Taurus though.

We really did have a strong attraction to one another but the communication just was not there from get. Handled confrontation very differently. He also cheated, so that was a no 😂

I could see this working If both parties have overcome whatever insecurities that make them hesitant on opening up.

I was never and don’t think I ever am hard pressed on control, but emotional vulnerability is kind of important to me because it creates a safe space of trust, and dude would just shut down at the simplest things. Even worse misdirect his anger. I found he was very emotional but was shit at expressing it and I didn’t have the patience or martyr type attitude to stick around for all of that combined.

I can see where the emotional need might be annoying for a Taurus to deal with. We are very big on fidelity. Taurus are very on their own time kind of people, even if their clock is a few hours behind. They know and don’t care lol

Bomb 🍆 though 😂 super attentive.

He was outdoorsy, always down for an adventure, we got along pretty good as friends, lots of common interests, it bothered me when he cheated but I wasn’t about to stay. It’s a shame because I really did see the potential in growth but that was the deal breaker 😭

He saw it too apparently, got 101 doe eyed apologies but I was so livid! Def bad timing. He still reaches out in a platonic type way. But after the resentment stage it’s just indifference and I had no real interest in taking him back.

I still think this pairing isn’t so bad. They both kinda have to get passed the whole “protect yourself via guarding” deal and hope one another can handle their emotions conducively. Then it’s a go I feel 🤷🏽‍♀️

That is so crazy that you say that because I was ready to hit the "Protect yourself" button, but then he actually decided to open up, and all on his own. I told him how he was coming off as guarded, and he said that he could tell as well. He went onto say that he wants the next relationship he gets in to be his wife, and he did not want to jump too quickly. He said he held me in high regard, but wanted to really build a solid foundation before we commit to anything, including physically. That made me like him even more, but then he finished my say, "If we dont work out, I still want us to be close"....I think that is the scorpio in me that hates the negative talk, but its the Taurus being cautious of his feelings as well.

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Posted by Silvuh

Scorpio is getting the heat 😂 I had a totally different experience when I dated a Taurus though.

We really did have a strong attraction to one another but the communication just was not there from get. Handled confrontation very differently. He also cheated, so that was a no 😂

I could see this working If both parties have overcome whatever insecurities that make them hesitant on opening up.

I was never and don’t think I ever am hard pressed on control, but emotional vulnerability is kind of important to me because it creates a safe space of trust, and dude would just shut down at the simplest things. Even worse misdirect his anger. I found he was very emotional but was shit at expressing it and I didn’t have the patience or martyr type attitude to stick around for all of that combined.

I can see where the emotional need might be annoying for a Taurus to deal with. We are very big on fidelity. Taurus are very on their own time kind of people, even if their clock is a few hours behind. They know and don’t care lol

Bomb 🍆 though 😂 super attentive.

He was outdoorsy, always down for an adventure, we got along pretty good as friends, lots of common interests, it bothered me when he cheated but I wasn’t about to stay. It’s a shame because I really did see the potential in growth but that was the deal breaker 😭

He saw it too apparently, got 101 doe eyed apologies but I was so livid! Def bad timing. He still reaches out in a platonic type way. But after the resentment stage it’s just indifference and I had no real interest in taking him back.

I still think this pairing isn’t so bad. They both kinda have to get passed the whole “protect yourself via guarding” deal and hope one another can handle their emotions conducively. Then it’s a go I feel 🤷🏽‍♀️

That is so crazy that you say that because I was ready to hit the "Protect yourself" button, but then he actually decided to open up, and all on his own. I told him how he was coming off as guarded, and he said that he could tell as well. He went onto say that he wants the next relationship he gets in to be his wife, and he did not want to jump too quickly. He said he held me in high regard, but wanted to really build a solid foundation before we commit to anything, including physically. That made me like him even more, but then he finished my say, "If we dont work out, I still want us to be close"....I think that is the scorpio in me that hates the negative talk, but its the Taurus being cautious of his feelings as well.

Yes, he is def just being careful for you and for himself. I know as a scorp you may not have a lot of patience, or the pace of things can discourage you, but try to take your time and remember this conversation when you need to be reassured. You don't want to push or nag him, he will when he's ready. Anything else will be off-putting.

You are the prize 🙂 and as long as you remember that, no matter how they end your dating experiences will be fruitful 🍒

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Posted by Silvuh

Scorpio is getting the heat 😂 I had a totally different experience when I dated a Taurus though.

We really did have a strong attraction to one another but the communication just was not there from get. Handled confrontation very differently. He also cheated, so that was a no 😂

I could see this working If both parties have overcome whatever insecurities that make them hesitant on opening up.

I was never and don’t think I ever am hard pressed on control, but emotional vulnerability is kind of important to me because it creates a safe space of trust, and dude would just shut down at the simplest things. Even worse misdirect his anger. I found he was very emotional but was shit at expressing it and I didn’t have the patience or martyr type attitude to stick around for all of that combined.

I can see where the emotional need might be annoying for a Taurus to deal with. We are very big on fidelity. Taurus are very on their own time kind of people, even if their clock is a few hours behind. They know and don’t care lol

Bomb 🍆 though 😂 super attentive.

He was outdoorsy, always down for an adventure, we got along pretty good as friends, lots of common interests, it bothered me when he cheated but I wasn’t about to stay. It’s a shame because I really did see the potential in growth but that was the deal breaker 😭

He saw it too apparently, got 101 doe eyed apologies but I was so livid! Def bad timing. He still reaches out in a platonic type way. But after the resentment stage it’s just indifference and I had no real interest in taking him back.

I still think this pairing isn’t so bad. They both kinda have to get passed the whole “protect yourself via guarding” deal and hope one another can handle their emotions conducively. Then it’s a go I feel 🤷🏽‍♀️

That is so crazy that you say that because I was ready to hit the "Protect yourself" button, but then he actually decided to open up, and all on his own. I told him how he was coming off as guarded, and he said that he could tell as well. He went onto say that he wants the next relationship he gets in to be his wife, and he did not want to jump too quickly. He said he held me in high regard, but wanted to really build a solid foundation before we commit to anything, including physically. That made me like him even more, but then he finished my say, "If we dont work out, I still want us to be close"....I think that is the scorpio in me that hates the negative talk, but its the Taurus being cautious of his feelings as well.

Yes, he is def just being careful for you and for himself. I know as a scorp you may not have a lot of patience, or the pace of things can discourage you, but try to take your time and remember this conversation when you need to be reassured. You don't want to push or nag him, he will when he's ready. Anything else will be off-putting.

You are the prize 🙂 and as long as you remember that, no matter how they end your dating experiences will be fruitful 🍒

Awww shucks, thanks hun! 😘💕... so it is the crazy Scorpio in me, that entertains the thought of other people possibly being in the picture as well. Or are they pretty loyal even when dating?

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Posted by Silvuh

Scorpio is getting the heat 😂 I had a totally different experience when I dated a Taurus though.

We really did have a strong attraction to one another but the communication just was not there from get. Handled confrontation very differently. He also cheated, so that was a no 😂

I could see this working If both parties have overcome whatever insecurities that make them hesitant on opening up.

I was never and don’t think I ever am hard pressed on control, but emotional vulnerability is kind of important to me because it creates a safe space of trust, and dude would just shut down at the simplest things. Even worse misdirect his anger. I found he was very emotional but was shit at expressing it and I didn’t have the patience or martyr type attitude to stick around for all of that combined.

I can see where the emotional need might be annoying for a Taurus to deal with. We are very big on fidelity. Taurus are very on their own time kind of people, even if their clock is a few hours behind. They know and don’t care lol

Bomb 🍆 though 😂 super attentive.

He was outdoorsy, always down for an adventure, we got along pretty good as friends, lots of common interests, it bothered me when he cheated but I wasn’t about to stay. It’s a shame because I really did see the potential in growth but that was the deal breaker 😭

He saw it too apparently, got 101 doe eyed apologies but I was so livid! Def bad timing. He still reaches out in a platonic type way. But after the resentment stage it’s just indifference and I had no real interest in taking him back.

I still think this pairing isn’t so bad. They both kinda have to get passed the whole “protect yourself via guarding” deal and hope one another can handle their emotions conducively. Then it’s a go I feel 🤷🏽‍♀️

That is so crazy that you say that because I was ready to hit the "Protect yourself" button, but then he actually decided to open up, and all on his own. I told him how he was coming off as guarded, and he said that he could tell as well. He went onto say that he wants the next relationship he gets in to be his wife, and he did not want to jump too quickly. He said he held me in high regard, but wanted to really build a solid foundation before we commit to anything, including physically. That made me like him even more, but then he finished my say, "If we dont work out, I still want us to be close"....I think that is the scorpio in me that hates the negative talk, but its the Taurus being cautious of his feelings as well.

Yes, he is def just being careful for you and for himself. I know as a scorp you may not have a lot of patience, or the pace of things can discourage you, but try to take your time and remember this conversation when you need to be reassured. You don't want to push or nag him, he will when he's ready. Anything else will be off-putting.

You are the prize 🙂 and as long as you remember that, no matter how they end your dating experiences will be fruitful 🍒

Awww shucks, thanks hun! 😘💕... so it is the crazy Scorpio in me, that entertains the thought of other people possibly being in the picture as well. Or are they pretty loyal even when dating?

Uhhhh i don't know girl cause my Taurus ex cheated and that is why i left him LOL

I know they value loyalty too but at the same time are indulgent.

I feel like it was more of a personal issue on his part than simply cheating to cheat and when he did come back i believed he was sincere and knew he messed up. I just wasn't into emotionally anymore.

I would say just trust him as you would with any guy, and don't manifest that that into reality lol

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Posted by hibye

Interesting topic. I (scorpio woman) have been with my bull for about a year. When we are together it just feels right for both of us and I can say with certainty he's the man I've loved the most. At the same time we have also clashed badly. Mainly because he is a reserved, stoic personality. Maybe much purer than I am. He thinks everything is simple. I am more vulnerable, paranoid, expecting the worst and quite insecure. I see life as complex and messy. He takes for granted that we will both be loyal and committed (that can make him a bit lazy), while I think this is something that has to be demonstrated every day (which makes me a bit demanding). Jealousy and frustration hit me really badly at some point and he was shocked because he was happy and unaware of my increasing insecurity. We both hurt each other in that fight, but still, when I was crying he was holding my hand. It made us realize that we should have been more open and not so defensive. And how difficult it will be to let go of each other. We've had so many beautiful memories together in that short time, a truly incredible time. And even though we are very different people, we are cut from the same fabric.