Dear Men:Is being too loud during sex a turn on or a turn-off

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Help à sister out.I have been warned that I was too loud.But my problem is I can't help it but scream during penetration .Am I enjoying too much or ?


Well you're the only one who can answer that lol. As for the screaming, bring it !
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I think I do , my sensitivity is on it's own lol . But I've been accused of faking it in the past, the person even dumped me for.
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I dont mind but it's even better when she trying to contain it lol


I do try, that's if my partner ( at the time)doesn't try to block the noise by simply putting his giant hands on my noisy mouth.

But this other day I saw on his status after we broke uphe posted " it's not about how you scream,but how you arrive" .lol I felt like this was sure red to me, but just ignored it.
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Help à sister out.I have been warned that I was too loud.But my problem is I can't help it but scream during penetration .Am I enjoying too much or ?


Well you're the only one who can answer that lol. As for the screaming, bring it !


I think I do , my sensitivity is on it's own lol . But I've been accused of faking it in the past, the person even dumped me for.
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Weird person lol.

So were you faking it?
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Help à sister out.I have been warned that I was too loud.But my problem is I can't help it but scream during penetration .Am I enjoying too much or ?


Well you're the only one who can answer that lol. As for the screaming, bring it !


I think I do , my sensitivity is on it's own lol . But I've been accused of faking it in the past, the person even dumped me for.


Weird person lol.

So were you faking it?
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No I was not, I never fake . I think the person was just too insecure or he was comparing me to his previous sex partner.Cause he wud accuse me of other things as well .
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Really depends on your voice.

If you sound like Mr. T, I pitty da fool who has to deal with it.

Or if you're a damn opera singer breaking windows, that's a safety hazard.


Move the bed far from the window and charge her for broken glass!

Jesus! Lmao


I kinda like it.. looks like an exorcism.. really makes me feel like I'm doing the lord's work.
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What’s wrong with Daddy? He can’t do it anymore? For how long? Since he ping that pigeon so you would be born? Lmao
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Depends on the guy. My cancer likes the loudness and verbal stuff. I was with a scorp that used to put his hand over my mouth and say the neighbours will hear. And another scorp that loved that the neighbours could hear. You just be you, and find someone who accepts that. You dont have to fit in a certain box


True, no compromise

Compromise with things that are important but you don't have to water yourself down. Someone will love you for all your crazy bits. And if they don't, they're not the one for you. You change and adapt for someone who deserves it, because they do the same to make you happy. Not because they won't like you otherwise.
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So you feel you got left because you were too loud?

Jesus what kind of problems do people have. Always reminded the world is much bigger than my bubble out there.


Cause the guy lived with his grandmother who was very nosy
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No, don’t do that to yourself.

He didn’t leave you cause you made too much noise during sex. He left you because he was using you as a placeholder until the ex let him back in. Zero to do with you.

Your too nice to be taking some of the blame on your shoulders but it is 100% all him. Stop being nice.
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So you feel you got left because you were too loud?

Jesus what kind of problems do people have. Always reminded the world is much bigger than my bubble out there.


Cause the guy lived with his grandmother who was very nosy


No, don’t do that to yourself.

He didn’t leave you cause you made too much noise during sex. He left you because he was using you as a placeholder until the ex let him back in. Zero to do with you.

Your too nice to be taking some of the blame on your shoulders but it is 100% all him. Stop being nice.
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That hit home, I felt that. You right ,I must stop being too nice!!!and it's funny he also use to say I was " too nice" and that he said 2 weeks before he dumped me, and he said a lot of things during that 2 weeks to make me give up on him.
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Posted by tiziani

So you feel you got left because you were too loud?

Jesus what kind of problems do people have. Always reminded the world is much bigger than my bubble out there.


Cause the guy lived with his grandmother who was very nosy


No, don’t do that to yourself.

He didn’t leave you cause you made too much noise during sex. He left you because he was using you as a placeholder until the ex let him back in. Zero to do with you.

Your too nice to be taking some of the blame on your shoulders but it is 100% all him. Stop being nice.
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M learning to live with the facts that I got played by some someone I really loved and cared for.I am desperate to get over him I want it so bad! I him out of my system,even if I don't meet a man anytime soon it will be okay as long as I am not loving that man.I hope God helps me!!!!
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Posted by tiziani

So you feel you got left because you were too loud?

Jesus what kind of problems do people have. Always reminded the world is much bigger than my bubble out there.


Cause the guy lived with his grandmother who was very nosy


No, don’t do that to yourself.

He didn’t leave you cause you made too much noise during sex. He left you because he was using you as a placeholder until the ex let him back in. Zero to do with you.

Your too nice to be taking some of the blame on your shoulders but it is 100% all him. Stop being nice.


M learning to live with the facts that I got played by some someone I really loved and cared for.I am desperate to get over him I want it so bad! I him out of my system,even if I don't meet a man anytime soon it will be okay as long as I am not loving that man.I hope God helps me!!!!
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Its ok. Its happened to all of us.