So Virgo men are king of the city boys

According to the internet every time I google Virgo men pages of hate from women saying they need therapy or calling us the devil. Women saying if a man tells me they are born in sep it’s a no. I can confirm this has happen to me in real life so we out here. Runner up is Scorpio men you guys was real close I need y’all step your game up. Libra men are coming I have been seeing a lot women calling you guys the devil. But y’all are not on our level yet. Let’s go boys lol. side note I’m surprised Gemini is not on the board what’s up with you guy… are you getting soft.

Gemini men are kings of the country

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Gemini men are kings of the country

Are king of the country boys rather

pisces rule over the ocean boys

Posted by __ixi__
It's funny really, as I get older I meet more women who say "I would NEVER date a Virgo" loudly and usually without prompting...and 9 out of 10 times it's from a woman whom I wouldn't ever want anyway so it's kinda whatever, they convince themselves they have matured to a new level of wisdom and discernment on their way to a soft-girl era or whatever and I get to go about my day without someone looking at me with preconceived notions of my character based off of raw treatment from another man...it's a win-win frankly.

You know what I notice as I got older when I see women like this I can tell they are bitch lol. Even before they say they don’t like virgos. And what ever that Virgo did she deserved it lol.

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It's funny really, as I get older I meet more women who say "I would NEVER date a Virgo" loudly and usually without prompting...and 9 out of 10 times it's from a woman whom I wouldn't ever want anyway so it's kinda whatever, they convince themselves they have matured to a new level of wisdom and discernment on their way to a soft-girl era or whatever and I get to go about my day without someone looking at me with preconceived notions of my character based off of raw treatment from another man...it's a win-win frankly.

You know what I notice as I got older when I see women like this I can tell they are bitch lol. Even before they say they don’t like virgos. And what ever that Virgo did she deserved it lol.

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Hrm, I don't think I feel much of a way beyond what I've shared.

Maybe they are "mean", maybe they aren't. Either way i've learned it really is of zero consequence to me more often than not. How they feel about virguys and who they give their time of day to is their business and they may have valid reasons but it doesn't change a thing for me...nor does their perception change who I actually am or my dating prospects with women overall, especially the women who tend to be into me for their reasons.

I don't make solid judgments about their character off their astro prejudices as that would require me to get into their why and to treat their why as something serious worth exploration...and quite frankly that would be a waste of my energy in most cases.

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I hear you but it is funny I see women doing this to other sign but when it comes to Virgos it’s on a whole new level.

Posted by StubbornSag
Idk why honestly. Most wonderful men I met are Virgos 🤷🏼‍♀️ I've went out with 3 and am over a decade with one. Sure we clash from time to time and drive each other nuts sometimes but I honestly can't imagine someone more caring and dedicated.

Also I've seen same posts when I read about Sag women experiences with Virgo men, couldn't believe I can't read any that were content at all😂

the only time the city boy comes out of me is if I can tell a women trying to play games with me.

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Posted by __ixi__
It's funny really, as I get older I meet more women who say "I would NEVER date a Virgo" loudly and usually without prompting...and 9 out of 10 times it's from a woman whom I wouldn't ever want anyway so it's kinda whatever, they convince themselves they have matured to a new level of wisdom and discernment on their way to a soft-girl era or whatever and I get to go about my day without someone looking at me with preconceived notions of my character based off of raw treatment from another man...it's a win-win frankly.

You know what I notice as I got older when I see women like this I can tell they are bitch lol. Even before they say they don’t like virgos. And what ever that Virgo did she deserved it lol.

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Hrm, I don't think I feel much of a way beyond what I've shared.

Maybe they are "mean", maybe they aren't. Either way i've learned it really is of zero consequence to me more often than not. How they feel about virguys and who they give their time of day to is their business and they may have valid reasons but it doesn't change a thing for me...nor does their perception change who I actually am or my dating prospects with women overall, especially the women who tend to be into me for their reasons.

I don't make solid judgments about their character off their astro prejudices as that would require me to get into their why and to treat their why as something serious worth exploration...and quite frankly that would be a waste of my energy in most cases.

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This is what I like about Virgo men too, the discernment and confidence. Y’all treat everyone the same, don’t kiss asses bc of looks, y’all look at the big picture before being won over. It ain’t easy, and that’s a good thing.

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It's funny really, as I get older I meet more women who say "I would NEVER date a Virgo" loudly and usually without prompting...and 9 out of 10 times it's from a woman whom I wouldn't ever want anyway so it's kinda whatever, they convince themselves they have matured to a new level of wisdom and discernment on their way to a soft-girl era or whatever and I get to go about my day without someone looking at me with preconceived notions of my character based off of raw treatment from another man...it's a win-win frankly.

You know what I notice as I got older when I see women like this I can tell they are bitch lol. Even before they say they don’t like virgos. And what ever that Virgo did she deserved it lol.
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Hrm, I don't think I feel much of a way beyond what I've shared.
Maybe they are "mean", maybe they aren't. Either way i've learned it really is of zero consequence to me more often than not. How they feel about virguys and who they give their time of day to is their business and they may have valid reasons but it doesn't change a thing for me...nor does their perception change who I actually am or my dating prospects with women overall, especially the women who tend to be into me for their reasons.
I don't make solid judgments about their character off their astro prejudices as that would require me to get into their why and to treat their why as something serious worth exploration...and quite frankly that would be a waste of my energy in most cases.

I hear you but it is funny I see women doing this to other sign but when it comes to Virgos it’s on a whole new level.

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That so? I'm not saying you didn't see what you saw, but I just think this sorta things rolls in cycles.

When I first got on DXP circa 2012...there was a ton of Virguy hate on the forum....then it shifted to cancer and caps ...then taurus...for a while gem...then Libra. Everyone gets a turn here lol.

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well on this app it’s not that bad other astrology or even other forums that having nothing to do with astrology the hate is real. Just Google Virgo men are … and watch the hate lol. The lipstick alley forums lol man some one hurt them over there

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Posted by __ixi__
It's funny really, as I get older I meet more women who say "I would NEVER date a Virgo" loudly and usually without prompting...and 9 out of 10 times it's from a woman whom I wouldn't ever want anyway so it's kinda whatever, they convince themselves they have matured to a new level of wisdom and discernment on their way to a soft-girl era or whatever and I get to go about my day without someone looking at me with preconceived notions of my character based off of raw treatment from another man...it's a win-win frankly.

You know what I notice as I got older when I see women like this I can tell they are bitch lol. Even before they say they don’t like virgos. And what ever that Virgo did she deserved it lol.
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Hrm, I don't think I feel much of a way beyond what I've shared.
Maybe they are "mean", maybe they aren't. Either way i've learned it really is of zero consequence to me more often than not. How they feel about virguys and who they give their time of day to is their business and they may have valid reasons but it doesn't change a thing for me...nor does their perception change who I actually am or my dating prospects with women overall, especially the women who tend to be into me for their reasons.
I don't make solid judgments about their character off their astro prejudices as that would require me to get into their why and to treat their why as something serious worth exploration...and quite frankly that would be a waste of my energy in most cases.

This is what I like about Virgo men too, the discernment and confidence. Y’all treat everyone the same, don’t kiss asses bc of looks, y’all look at the big picture before being won over. It ain’t easy, and that’s a good thing.
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For me personally It just costs a lot to choose wrong in relationships and because of that if someone is going to do me the favor of displaying in clear terms i can interpret that "they are not for me" then I would be a fool to ignore that messenging.

Conversely, it costs me next to nothing to not deal with someone who I know would hurt me simply because she couldn't see me but could only see her notions of who I am supposed to be based on her understanding of my sign.


So ye... I try not to get too caught up with others perceptions of me fine af or not.

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You’re very lucky indeed to have such a clear sense of self from early on. It makes things easier for a person.

Don’t understand the Virgo hate after having dated several of them, and overall a positive/neutral experience. Like I don’t know anyone who ever passionately disliked a Virgo man. As a gem, I don’t think it’s my best match but wouldn’t mind dating another one in the future if I was single

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Posted by __ixi__
It's funny really, as I get older I meet more women who say "I would NEVER date a Virgo" loudly and usually without prompting...and 9 out of 10 times it's from a woman whom I wouldn't ever want anyway so it's kinda whatever, they convince themselves they have matured to a new level of wisdom and discernment on their way to a soft-girl era or whatever and I get to go about my day without someone looking at me with preconceived notions of my character based off of raw treatment from another man...it's a win-win frankly.

You know what I notice as I got older when I see women like this I can tell they are bitch lol. Even before they say they don’t like virgos. And what ever that Virgo did she deserved it lol.
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Hrm, I don't think I feel much of a way beyond what I've shared.
Maybe they are "mean", maybe they aren't. Either way i've learned it really is of zero consequence to me more often than not. How they feel about virguys and who they give their time of day to is their business and they may have valid reasons but it doesn't change a thing for me...nor does their perception change who I actually am or my dating prospects with women overall, especially the women who tend to be into me for their reasons.
I don't make solid judgments about their character off their astro prejudices as that would require me to get into their why and to treat their why as something serious worth exploration...and quite frankly that would be a waste of my energy in most cases.

This is what I like about Virgo men too, the discernment and confidence. Y’all treat everyone the same, don’t kiss asses bc of looks, y’all look at the big picture before being won over. It ain’t easy, and that’s a good thing.
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For me personally It just costs a lot to choose wrong in relationships and because of that if someone is going to do me the favor of displaying in clear terms i can interpret that "they are not for me" then I would be a fool to ignore that messenging.
Conversely, it costs me next to nothing to not deal with someone who I know would hurt me simply because she couldn't see me but could only see her notions of who I am supposed to be based on her understanding of my sign.

So ye... I try not to get too caught up with others perceptions of me fine af or not.
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You’re very lucky indeed to have such a clear sense of self from early on. It makes things easier for a person.
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At times...it can leave me isolated too for both good and bad(?) Reasons..I find self-possession is double edged at times as it also can hold you back from necessary transformations which often happen in the "unknown" parts of life.

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I can see that. It’s hard to find the balance either way. But I can understand that.

The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”

Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.

FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

Posted by aquarius09
The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”

Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.

FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

I hate to be a backseat driver and say this. I agree.

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The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”

Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.

FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

How am I tolerating them then😂 I can't say they ever behave like this with me. Well, there were few attempts for control, but since it never works out, they don't try too hard 🤷🏼‍♀️

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😝 LOL. How long did you tolerate them? Anything less than a yr isn’t a certificate of their normalcy. They want malleable people they can control. It’s not gonna work if you can’t be controlled. I’d like to hear from people who have married double to triple Virgos, have them as a sibling, parent etc.

I have so many stories of their repulsive, callously mean behaviour and I just wonder why anyone would want to torture themselves with them. Poor self-esteem or probably got attached…to the abuse that is🤣

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The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”

Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.

FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

How am I tolerating them then😂 I can't say they ever behave like this with me. Well, there were few attempts for control, but since it never works out, they don't try too hard 🤷🏼‍♀️

😝 LOL. How long did you tolerate them? Anything less than a yr isn’t a certificate of their normalcy. They want malleable people they can control. It’s not gonna work if you can’t be controlled. I’d like to hear from people who have married double to triple Virgos, have them as a sibling, parent etc.



I have so many stories of their repulsive, callously mean behaviour and I just wonder why anyone would want to torture themselves with them. Poor self-esteem or probably got attached…to the abuse that is🤣

He doesn't have much Virgo in his chart, just Sun and Merc lol we are over a decade together, almost 12 years. He's been actually incredibly supportive and caring all this time but there were attempts of control over certain things. It never works or plays out the way he wants so aside from getting on my nerves with those attempts, nothing more happens😅 he realizes he needs to let it go. And as he says: "no matter what I say, you'll always do it your way" 😅 and I say: "then why even bother, you know it's gonna be that way". Him: "Well, I have to point out I don't agree with it". Me: "Accepted to knowledge..."(proceeds to another subject)😅
He's never been mean about anything though, even if he does something that I say was hurtful in any way, he will always apologize and do something to make up for it. But there's his friend, I just remembered, also a Virgo, who does fit the description you made from as much as I know him (which is pretty shallow). He's done some really questionable stuff, including dumping his fiance to marry a some random girl he knocked up after shortly knowing her...

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The Virgo friend, do you know his personal planets? What is your guy’s moon and mars?

I liken them to sour patch kids lol they can definitely be mean, but I rarely see it just for meanness sake. They can get right angry, but then also cool off pretty quickly. Idk, sure there are shitty things about every sign. The negative traits of Virgos can be just bleh tho, I agree. Exhausting to the max. Virgo moon is one of my least favorite placements so far.

Being married to a Virgo. I get it “the hate”.

They’re not likeable or social enough to really vibe with people, without a hidden bias against people around them that they often let slip out.

For some reason they seem to have it more difficult. In relationships, friendships and work relationships. But they are fiercely loyal to those that understand them and show them love. I would not count a Virgo out as being the most beautiful and loyal people I’ve met.

In the end they’re very complex. People who are intimidated by a not easily won kind of person won’t gravitate towards them for obvious reasons.

virgos forever vetting

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I read the predominant experience with Virgos but they're usually pleasant with me and quicker with a compliment than anyone. More outgoing with me than anyone, and they come off trustworthy and straightforward, never seeming to have a hidden agenda. Virgo in the personal planets except for Mars are green flags that I can get along with a person. But I'm shit so who knows maybe we bond over that

Virgos seem to practice meritocracy better than anyone. While Libras have an extremely meta perspective, they usually hold apparent biases and I think Virgos deserve the reputation for fairness and justice. Never the sign to get joy out of group bullying and intimidation just because the person looks weak and vulnerable, never the sign to make up lies out of thin air to sabotage a romantic rival.

i think you have to be very sociable to be a bully in the first place coz it comes from the urge to maintain a status quo- hammering the heads of the nails that stick out.

as for sabotaging a romantic rival, i've seen more men in general talk crap about another guy's zodiac sign when they KNOW more women show interest in that sign than theirs.

Posted by aquarius09
The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”

Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.

FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

but cancer men are usually with aquarius women tho

Posted by aquarius09
The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”

Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.

FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

I have 4 placements in Virgo I must be the devil lol. You need to date a Virgo see if you have what it takes… will you be worthy and not active his hidden city boy powers.

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Posted by aquarius09
The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”

Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.

FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

but cancer men are usually with aquarius women tho

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Yeah, Aqua women who probably have Pisces or Cap influence for obvious reasons. One is opposite attraction and the other is conjunction.

When I was in my 20s, I attracted this sign a lot and I was baffled, but those Cancerians had Gemini influence. Mind you, those Cancers also told me themselves what they liked about me - that I wasn’t anything like them.

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Posted by aquarius09
The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”

Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.

FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

I have 4 placements in Virgo I must be the devil lol. You need to date a Virgo see if you have what it takes… will you be worthy and not active his hidden city boy powers.

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Eww. Hell no! I do not want to deal with all the overthinking and insecurities they mask with arrogance. My Aqua bro is married to a triple Virgo and no thanks!

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Posted by aquarius09
The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”
Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.
FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

How am I tolerating them then😂 I can't say they ever behave like this with me. Well, there were few attempts for control, but since it never works out, they don't try too hard 🤷🏼‍♀️

😝 LOL. How long did you tolerate them? Anything less than a yr isn’t a certificate of their normalcy. They want malleable people they can control. It’s not gonna work if you can’t be controlled. __I’d like to hear from people who have married double to triple Virgos, have them as a sibling, parent etc__.

I have so many stories of their repulsive, callously mean behaviour and I just wonder why anyone would want to torture themselves with them. Poor self-esteem or probably got attached…to the abuse that is🤣

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My mom is a Virgo and this post definitely applies to her like big time and then some. I have no Virgo siblings nor do I have any Virgo kids. My step-dad a Virgo and he was a very mean one long before sickness enter his life. But thing with him he's hilarious like all Virgo men are. My mom on the other hand only have Virgo in sun and venus. But yeah I think that is more than enough virgos alone. Honestly I think I can deal with Virgo men far more than I can put up with Virgo women. Regardless to how many insecure virgos is in a Virgo man's chart.

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The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”
Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.
FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

but cancer men are usually with aquarius women tho
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Yeah, Aqua women who probably have Pisces or Cap influence for obvious reasons. One is opposite attraction and the other is conjunction.

When I was in my 20s, I attracted this sign a lot and I was baffled, but those Cancerians had Gemini influence. Mind you, those Cancers also told me themselves what they liked about me - that I wasn’t anything like them.

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you know what's weird?

libra and leo might be influenced by virgo energies (the former being more sociable signs)

but most virgos always just give off this vibe which is okay if they're acquaintances but very frustrating when you've known each other for years:

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The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”
Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.
FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

but cancer men are usually with aquarius women tho
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Yeah, Aqua women who probably have Pisces or Cap influence for obvious reasons. One is opposite attraction and the other is conjunction.

When I was in my 20s, I attracted this sign a lot and I was baffled, but those Cancerians had Gemini influence. Mind you, those Cancers also told me themselves what they liked about me - that I wasn’t anything like them.

you know what's weird?

libra and leo might be influenced by virgo energies (the former being more sociable signs)

but most virgos always just give off this vibe which is okay if they're acquaintances but very frustrating when you've known each other for years:

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I’m gonna check out the video later. You’re spot on that their vibe is ok as an acquaintance or from afar until you get to know them. I have a Virgo with Aries moon friend and as long as I keep her at a distance she’s good. When I first met her at work, she seemed cool and made me impugn my theory about double Virgos (she’s sun and merc in Virgo), who I think have redeeming qualities of the bunch. The worst are moon, Venus and mars in Virgo. I travelled to Chicago with her and two of my other close Sag friends. Damn, did she unravel and show me and my friends that astrology always prevails! My Sag friends told me that she’s not allowed on any trips again. I mention this to illustrate that despite my personality, there were two others who didn’t like her up close and personal.

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The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”
Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.
FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

Very good observations. The Virgos on this message board seem too complacent. I do not know about you, but I am not like this and am ambitious.

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Thanks. If you’re looking for self-awareness and to change the vices, then astrology is good. This is how astrology should be used, not to make excuses for one’s vices.

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virgos forever vetting

Vetting is fine when you’re hot shit yourself. The problem is when you’re vetting and you’re basic to below average.

There was this double Virgo dude who uses his dating profile as a rant diary saying things like “women in their 30s should seize the moment (beauty) while they can.” It’s like he forgot he’s aging as well and losing his looks. Meanwhile he’s 38 living with his parents, no rent responsibilities, and no asset of his own. Like bro, calm down you’re a loser expecting a hot shit. I rejected his ass and he held a grudge to this day. Why? Because I have my shit together and he doesn’t. He felt entitled to a better thing.

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virgos forever vetting

Vetting is fine when you’re hot shit yourself. The problem is when you’re vetting and you’re basic to below average.

There was this double Virgo dude who uses his dating profile as a rant diary saying things like “women in their 30s should seize the moment (beauty) while they can.” It’s like he forgot he’s aging as well and losing his looks. Meanwhile he’s 38 living with his parents, no rent responsibilities, and no asset of his own. Like bro, calm down you’re a loser expecting a hot shit. I rejected his ass and he held a grudge to this day. Why? Because I have my shit together and he doesn’t. He felt entitled to a better thing.

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tbh that sounds like most men

they could be balding and feel this way

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The comments I’m seeing from Virgos on this thread is precisely one of the reasons why people don’t want to date Virgo and rightfully so. Y’all, even if you see your uptight, suffocating rigidity, don’t want to fix it. The idea is for one to identify their weakness/personality flaws and redress them instead of saying, “welp I’m like that so take it or leave it.”
Anyone with two or more Virgos in their personal planets is a mean spirited, tyrant that holds weak masochists signs hostages.
FYI, I have never dated a Virgo, so I’m not bitter for the butthurt brigade. I am one of those people who cringes hard when I see two or more Virgo placements. I have seen what double Virgo or more does to a person (plenty of experience observing friends, cousins, coworkers, acquaintances). They are miserable, neurotic, self critical, suffocatingly possessive of their partners/children etc. Such a person releases all of these negative traits externally. Only Cancer and Pisces dominants will tolerate them until they grow a backbone or get a better self-esteem. I like Libra and Leo as a sign but the moment these folks have two or more Virgos in their chart, they become vile and miserable too.

How am I tolerating them then😂 I can't say they ever behave like this with me. Well, there were few attempts for control, but since it never works out, they don't try too hard 🤷🏼‍♀️

😝 LOL. How long did you tolerate them? Anything less than a yr isn’t a certificate of their normalcy. They want malleable people they can control. It’s not gonna work if you can’t be controlled. I’d like to hear from people who have married double to triple Virgos, have them as a sibling, parent etc.

I have so many stories of their repulsive, callously mean behaviour and I just wonder why anyone would want to torture themselves with them. Poor self-esteem or probably got attached…to the abuse that is🤣

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He doesn't have much Virgo in his chart, just Sun and Merc lol we are over a decade together, almost 12 years. He's been actually incredibly supportive and caring all this time but there were attempts of control over certain things. It never works or plays out the way he wants so aside from getting on my nerves with those attempts, nothing more happens😅 he realizes he needs to let it go. And as he says: "no matter what I say, you'll always do it your way" 😅 and I say: "then why even bother, you know it's gonna be that way". Him: "Well, I have to point out I don't agree with it". Me: "Accepted to knowledge..."(proceeds to another subject)😅

He's never been mean about anything though, even if he does something that I say was hurtful in any way, he will always apologize and do something to make up for it. But there's his friend, I just remembered, also a Virgo, who does fit the description you made from as much as I know him (which is pretty shallow). He's done some really questionable stuff, including dumping his fiance to marry a some random girl he knocked up after shortly knowing her...

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OMG, I know a Virgo guy who married a Libra girl one day, and that night fell in love with a Sagittarius girl he met. 3 months later he left the Libra for the Sag. I don't know his placements.

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virgos forever vetting

Vetting is fine when you’re hot shit yourself. The problem is when you’re vetting and you’re basic to below average.



There was this double Virgo dude who uses his dating profile as a rant diary saying things like “women in their 30s should seize the moment (beauty) while they can.” It’s like he forgot he’s aging as well and losing his looks. Meanwhile he’s 38 living with his parents, no rent responsibilities, and no asset of his own. Like bro, calm down you’re a loser expecting a hot shit. I rejected his ass and he held a grudge to this day. Why? Because I have my shit together and he doesn’t. He felt entitled to a better thing.

tbh that sounds like most men

they could be balding and feel this way

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You’re right, that’s most delusional men who haven’t aligned their expectations with their reality. However, if I told you all the venom this guy spew on his dating profile, you’d see what I’m talking about. His vile comments were very unusually callous and most men don’t write things like that. I haven’t seen a profile like his ever!!!

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virgos forever vetting

Vetting is fine when you’re hot shit yourself. The problem is when you’re vetting and you’re basic to below average.





There was this double Virgo dude who uses his dating profile as a rant diary saying things like “women in their 30s should seize the moment (beauty) while they can.” It’s like he forgot he’s aging as well and losing his looks. Meanwhile he’s 38 living with his parents, no rent responsibilities, and no asset of his own. Like bro, calm down you’re a loser expecting a hot shit. I rejected his ass and he held a grudge to this day. Why? Because I have my shit together and he doesn’t. He felt entitled to a better thing.

tbh that sounds like most men



they could be balding and feel this way

You’re right, that’s most delusional men who haven’t aligned their expectations with their reality. However, if I told you all the venom this guy spew on his dating profile, you’d see what I’m talking about. His vile comments were very unusually callous and most men don’t write things like that. I haven’t seen a profile like his ever!!!

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an articulate incel 😆😆

Damn, maybe they're just weak for Sagittarius women.