DeeLovesRed
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Posted by DeeLovesRedOh, yeah! I will be saging all morning 😄Posted by EvatheDivaI agree with the part about letting anyone in your house... I said that in my answer... people can mess your energies in your homePosted by DeeLovesRedSorry, forgot to answer 2nd part. Because I do not allow strangers in my house; don't care if he was my So's ex girlfriend. There's only ONE Queen in this house! I do NOT like distraction, scheduling my time around ANYONE, esp ex-gf of my hubby 🍹Posted by EvatheDivaWhy— —Posted by DeeLovesRedHell no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Allow your Hubby/BF/SO ex girlfriend to sleep over at your house for one night because she is going through a rough time?
- Also, her and your hubby broke up years ago, but they remained good friends...
Yes or No?? & Why??
Thoughts!!!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I answer honestly here, as I'm a divorcee.
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🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by starwars??.... I can't with you.... ———?Posted by DeeLovesRedsure, she can have fun hearing us rootin' ?Posted by starwars—? had to be you...
threesome it is
Wouldn't be a bad idea... (I like stuff like that), but not with my boo ex.... NOOOO ——... next thing you know they're banging behind my back.... Nope I'm not giving the green light to that...
But, really would you let your SO ex stay a night? Or a few?click to expand
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Posted by LadyPootsAlotYes, if I can't trust that a partner is sincere about only being platonic friends with his ex and not wanting more, then I shouldn't be involved with him, or I should work on why I'm feel worried if it's just my fear (rare that I've ever had the fear unless something truly was off, thankfully).Posted by TeenaThis is it. I'm jealous, if I am not reassured that I have nothing to worry about and then shown that through behavior. I can't be in a relationship with someone who makes me jealous. I'd rather be alone. Once I trust, I trust. No questions or concerns. Unless, of course, something about the energy changes. I can feel that too.Posted by DeeLovesRedOk my answer is gonna be super hypothetical.
@CopperDove @Teena what's y'all take on this subject??
For now, the thing I dread the most is my SO still being in love with his ex. Idc if the guy has been in multiple relationships n affairs before me.. but the thought of him being in love with an ex is something I can't entertain even for a second. He can respect her, admire her yada yada..but nothing would hurt me more if I know he still has feelings for her( I can really excuse him cheating on me with someone else over this tbh).
And coming to the question, it really totally depends on my guy. I think I'd get into a relationship with him only if I can trust him with something like the given situation. Because as I said, it's a pretty huge thing for me.Idc how the girl is.The only thing I'd see is she needs help n she'll get it..my place or not.But because my guy is all super gentleman n passed all my tests even before getting into the relationship(say like @infinite8 's guy), yes I'd allow her to stay at my place. This is also another way of showing him how much I trust him n I'll make sure to let him know/remind him that.
So, exes are no threat, regardless of their feelings.click to expand
I think it's excellent when a partner is on good terms with exes -- often it means they had a decent friendship as a base of their relationship when they were romantic, and that remains after the romance is gone.
I really like meeting a partner's friends and family. I want him to meet my friends and family as well. If he becomes friends with one or more of my friends, I'm happy, and also the other way around. That's happened to me irl and it has always been a good thing.
Nope. I'd split the motel 6 bill with her if it was that bad
Posted by LadyPootsAlotPosted by CopperDoveIt also depends on the nature of the previous relationship. There are a couple exes my ex would not have wanted anywhere near his home. The ones I made friends with were just cool women he dated who he became friends with after they dated. The really serious relationships that ended badly had different outcomes.Posted by LadyPootsAlotYes, if I can't trust that a partner is sincere about only being platonic friends with his ex and not wanting more, then I shouldn't be involved with him, or I should work on why I'm feel worried if it's just my fear (rare that I've ever had the fear unless something truly was off, thankfully).Posted by TeenaThis is it. I'm jealous, if I am not reassured that I have nothing to worry about and then shown that through behavior. I can't be in a relationship with someone who makes me jealous. I'd rather be alone. Once I trust, I trust. No questions or concerns. Unless, of course, something about the energy changes. I can feel that too.Posted by DeeLovesRedOk my answer is gonna be super hypothetical.
@CopperDove @Teena what's y'all take on this subject??
For now, the thing I dread the most is my SO still being in love with his ex. Idc if the guy has been in multiple relationships n affairs before me.. but the thought of him being in love with an ex is something I can't entertain even for a second. He can respect her, admire her yada yada..but nothing would hurt me more if I know he still has feelings for her( I can really excuse him cheating on me with someone else over this tbh).
And coming to the question, it really totally depends on my guy. I think I'd get into a relationship with him only if I can trust him with something like the given situation. Because as I said, it's a pretty huge thing for me.Idc how the girl is.The only thing I'd see is she needs help n she'll get it..my place or not.But because my guy is all super gentleman n passed all my tests even before getting into the relationship(say like @infinite8 's guy), yes I'd allow her to stay at my place. This is also another way of showing him how much I trust him n I'll make sure to let him know/remind him that.
So, exes are no threat, regardless of their feelings.
I think it's excellent when a partner is on good terms with exes -- often it means they had a decent friendship as a base of their relationship when they were romantic, and that remains after the romance is gone.
I really like meeting a partner's friends and family. I want him to meet my friends and family as well. If he becomes friends with one or more of my friends, I'm happy, and also the other way around. That's happened to me irl and it has always been a good thing.
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Yes. Anyone I dated who had an ex who was trouble didn't want to interact with that ex, understandably, so there was no reason for me to meet that ex -- they weren't in his life.
Posted by Auri— why not??Posted by DeeLovesRed
Allow your Hubby/BF/SO ex girlfriend to sleep over at your house for one night because she is going through a rough time?
- Also, her and your hubby broke up years ago, but they remained good friends...
Yes or No?? & Why??
Thoughts!!!
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Posted by MagicMonaHahhahahahaha....Posted by exoGirl, my name would be OJ.Posted by DeeLovesRedimagine.Posted by exo——?? Oh no....
nah, that's just inappropriate and disrespectful.
unless i can poison her pancakes in the morn.
But, why do you feel it's disrespectful?
Elaborate
this ex would be a woman who your man has seen naked, seen orgasm, seen in vulnerable and intimate moments. someone your man has loved and lusted for in the past, and possibly present. you have no idea the true depths of their connection, or their harbored and unresolved feelings.
and then you invite that energy into your home with him?
insanity.click to expand
Posted by CapzWhy??
no
Posted by CapzTrue!!!Posted by DeeLovesRedwhy you feel you need to help your ex ? and i dont even want to here the "because". pack your lugagesPosted by CapzWhy??
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Posted by PlagueIf everyone on DXPnet followed that rule, there would be need for only three message boards, and only a few pages per post.Posted by LillyPetalI could read your comments really no need to tell me something you've said already in previous posts.Posted by PlaguePreciselyPosted by LillyPetalOkay that's you, not me.Posted by PlagueMehPosted by DeeLovesRedOne thing I feel is that it is an off putting idea that someone would specifically go to a past relationship for some emotional coddling knowing that person is in a relationship. When they could go to anyone else for support but they choose to immerse themselves yet again back into so and so's life. Sure you can be friends with your ex but out of all people he/she chooses the person they once had something with. Nah that's what your homies are for not your sloppy seconds.Posted by PlagueOk, so Why?
No. She/He needs to find another shoulder to cry on rough time or not. Doesn't make you immature for thinking so.
Do you think she'll always ask for favors following this one—
& by the way ladies, I will not allow it... only because our house is our safe haven... and I'm really big on energies!!! So, I don't even let certain family members in my house... I like to keep my house very positive...
So, it wouldn't be because of distrust or immaturity.. just I don't let everyone in my house... Now I will try to help her, I'll try to see if there's hotels available... Also, I might try to see if she could get in a shelter...
Follows with what @xXxQueenliciaxXx said she pretty much hit one of the nails on the head when it came to my thoughts on this.
It's one night. And the OP said they had YEARS of friendship so that means, in this hypothetical, I was cool with my man being friends with his ex.
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Pros and cons?
Wouldn't be a bad idea... (I like stuff like that), but not with my boo ex.... NOOOO ——... next thing you know they're banging behind my back.... Nope I'm not giving the green light to that...
But, really would you let your SO ex stay a night? Or a few?