5 love languages..

Now I'm curious about you Virgos and the rest of people on our board.

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/

What's your result? And second highest in order.

Im glad you posted this as its rarely talked about.🙂

is there a shorter quiz? 😢

There are questions that don't apply to me. What then? I need to choose? Like this one, I don't like both.

I feel loved when friends and loved ones help me with jobs or projects.
I really enjoy receiving gifts from friends and loved ones.

Damn it! I need to choose.

Yes, you need to choose. That pissed me off also.

I want allll..why is that so hard to grasp?

For me:

Quality Time - 11

In Quality Time, nothing says —I love you?? like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether it?_s spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities
together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time

followed closely by..

Physical Touch -8

A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and love to you.

Your Scores
9Words of Affirmation
8Quality Time
0Receiving Gifts
8Acts of Service
5Physical Touch

There was too much emphasis on gifts, me no likey! Almost all options involved gifts. WTH!

Most of the questions I had involved gifts OR acts of service. Meh I don't like either that much but since I have to choose, I choose the service.

7 Words of Affirmation
8 Quality Time
6 Receiving Gifts
6 Acts of Service
3 Physical Touch

4Words of Affirmation
8Quality Time
6Receiving Gifts
10Acts of Service
2Physical Touch

so far me and fox are going to have quality time together 😄

4. Words of Affirmation
10 Quality Time
2 Receiving Gifts
7 Acts of Service
7 Physical Touch

the plot thickens.

the panda and the virg_goki will also join us in spending quality time.

I was a little surprised by this

10Words of Affirmation
9Quality Time
0Receiving Gifts
3Acts of Service
8Physical Touch

Albeit not the receiving gifts... I always feel awkward, so that is spot on!

pvaf's on board also.

thank you for posting people..i am going to see if i find any correlation with sun signs, moon signs and venus signs.

so far..2 earth moons and 3 fire moons picked quality time.

Posted by Damnata
pvaf's on board also.

thank you for posting people..i am going to see if i find any correlation with sun signs, moon signs and venus signs.

so far..2 earth moons and 3 fire moons picked quality time.

If there's any undue groping during that group hug, I'm going to start charging.





A Panda can only bear so much squeezing....

It's not very accurate, Damnata. The options I had were always between service vs gifts. I don't like both that much.

Can't emphasize the quality time enough.
I see it happening more where when in conversation someone starts answering a text or in one case, takes a phone call. And this is not done with forwarning of waiting on something important, but mundane communication.

I know Aesma, that part upset me also.

I am huge on quality time. People bond by doing stuff together, if it's stuff they do for the first time, all the better. It brings a couple closer and closer together.

Let's go ballroom dance, let's go play darts for the first time..let's go go go. Let's experience this life and journey together.

Words of Affirmation:7

Quality Time: 10

Receiving Gifts: 1

Acts of Service: 8

Physical Touch: 7

And..we have another fire moon on board.

Posted by PVandJelleh

Posted by Damnata
pvaf's on board also.

thank you for posting people..i am going to see if i find any correlation with sun signs, moon signs and venus signs.

so far..2 earth moons and 3 fire moons picked quality time.

Fire and earth moons love they quality time apparently. LOL.

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It's important. That's the best gift anyone can give since that's one of the few things we can never get back.

i see the physical touch pattern with water signs..

which makes sense because i am fire and then water..therefore quality time and then physical touch.

6Words of Affirmation
9Quality Time
1Receiving Gifts
7Acts of Service
7Physical Touch

What I find interesting with the results posted thus far, is that Physical Touch is listed last, and Word of Affirmation is listed first. Not for all of course, but for most.

Me? I'm an Aquarius, February 18th

Posted by Damnata
Now I'm curious about you Virgos and the rest of people on our board.

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/

What's your result? And second highest in order.

11- Physical Touch

7- Quality Time

7- Acts of Service

Posted by lildol
Albeit not the receiving gifts... I always feel awkward, so that is spot on!

So do I.

I love giving them, though. :/

Your Scores

4Words of Affirmation
10Quality Time
0Receiving Gifts
7Acts of Service
9Physical Touch


Quality Time

In Quality Time, nothing says —I love you?? like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether it's spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time.


Physical Touch

A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and love to you.

TMV, we scored the same way 😄

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by lildol
Albeit not the receiving gifts... I always feel awkward, so that is spot on!

So do I.

I love giving them, though. :/

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I'm amazing with presents. Yes, I am going to brag because I pay attention to people and they're shocked by how much I pick up on.

They can't come close to this awesomeness so I'm always meh. I love the gesture but I'd rather gift myself things.

Posted by kindness
What I find interesting with the results posted thus far, is that Physical Touch is listed last, and Word of Affirmation is listed first. Not for all of course, but for most.

For me it was because some questions were getting hugs from family / loved ones vs gifts.

I dont like being hugged by family. It's not something I'm used to unless I'm super close to them like my sis. The only one I want a lot of physical contact with is my partner.

Words of affirmation not really always but sometimes, I need it. Clear communication without passive aggressive talk is what I need.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by lildol
Albeit not the receiving gifts... I always feel awkward, so that is spot on!

So do I.

I love giving them, though. :/

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it's funny...when you're a child you love receiving them, but as you get older, you give more. Like the role reverse...and you give and give until you grow old and die, and you have nothing left to give.
you = general.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by lildol
Albeit not the receiving gifts... I always feel awkward, so that is spot on!

So do I.

I love giving them, though. :/

it's funny...when you're a child you love receiving them, but as you get older, you give more. Like the role reverse...and you give and give until you grow old and die, and you have nothing left to give.
you = general.

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Sounds like you've been reading the Giving Tree




link

Posted by Damnata

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by lildol
Albeit not the receiving gifts... I always feel awkward, so that is spot on!

So do I.

I love giving them, though. :/

I'm amazing with presents. Yes, I am going to brag because I pay attention to people and they're shocked by how much I pick up on.

They can't come close to this awesomeness so I'm always meh. I love the gesture but I'd rather gift myself things.

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You have permission to give me presents, then.



You ever make someone cry?

You have, haven't you.. 😐

Posted by Montgomery

You ever make someone cry?

You have, haven't you.. 😐

Lol, yeah.

Had another fire moon To that list :

7Words of Affirmation
10Quality Time
0Receiving Gifts
3Acts of Service
10Physical Touch

So we have decided.

fire moon = quality time.

you me and tmv have quality time seconded by physical touch.

i'm a fire moon too!!!

4Words of Affirmation
11Quality Time
3Receiving Gifts
10Acts of Service
2Physical Touch

i have to warm up to people touching me... and for loved ones who touch me, i still have that consciousness about their touch... not that i coil at it at all.. it's something like this in my mind.."hey they are touching me. hey they are touching me. look they are touching me". i didn't grow up with hugs 😢

4Words of Affirmation
11Quality Time
4Receiving Gifts
9Acts of Service
2Physical Touch

6 Words of Affirmation
8 Quality Time
5 Receiving Gifts
7 Acts of Service
4 Physical Touch

...ew

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by lildol
Albeit not the receiving gifts... I always feel awkward, so that is spot on!

So do I.

I love giving them, though. :/

it's funny...when you're a child you love receiving them, but as you get older, you give more. Like the role reverse...and you give and give until you grow old and die, and you have nothing left to give.
you = general.

Sounds like you've been reading the Giving Tree




link

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thanks for showing me that. It really made me smile.

From my fish. Pisces sun, Cancer moon

3Words of Affirmation
10Quality Time
0Receiving Gifts
7Acts of Service
10Physical Touch

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
6Words of Affirmation
10Quality Time
0Receiving Gifts
5Acts of Service
9Physical Touch

you 2. yaaay

fire moons ftw!

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Montgomery
link

thanks for showing me that. It really made me smile.

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Welcome. 😄

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by lildol
Albeit not the receiving gifts... I always feel awkward, so that is spot on!

So do I.

I love giving them, though. :/

it's funny...when you're a child you love receiving them, but as you get older, you give more. Like the role reverse...and you give and give until you grow old and die, and you have nothing left to give.
you = general.

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I didn't like gifts as a child either - made me feel "icky" inside... but, indeed I love to give, give, give and always have.

Posted by lildol

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by lildol
Albeit not the receiving gifts... I always feel awkward, so that is spot on!

So do I.

I love giving them, though. :/

it's funny...when you're a child you love receiving them, but as you get older, you give more. Like the role reverse...and you give and give until you grow old and die, and you have nothing left to give.
you = general.

I didn't like gifts as a child either - made me feel "icky" inside... but, indeed I love to give, give, give and always have.

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i loved it alot, i loved getting anything from my parents as it was very difficult for them when we were growing up so it was really really precious when it happened. My grandparents, however, we always got stuff.

Posted by lildol

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by lildol
Albeit not the receiving gifts... I always feel awkward, so that is spot on!

So do I.

I love giving them, though. :/

it's funny...when you're a child you love receiving them, but as you get older, you give more. Like the role reverse...and you give and give until you grow old and die, and you have nothing left to give.
you = general.

I didn't like gifts as a child either - made me feel "icky" inside... but, indeed I love to give, give, give and always have.

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But, hey, that being said... best gift I ever received was from a guy who stopped and picked me wild daisies off the side off the road