Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
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Posted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Posted by Ixi
Here you go:
https://transequality.org/sites/default/files/docs/resources/Understanding-Trans-Full-July-2016_0.pdf
Not reading that. I’m asking you. Your perspective trans or not.
I can read anything on web. I’m asking you’s
Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straightclick to expand
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?click to expand
well the consensus (on the us side at least) is that transwomen are women and therefore being straight and attracted to women, you would be attracted to transwomen as well.
Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
well the consensus (on the us side at least) is that transwomen are women and therefore being straight and attracted to women, you would be attracted to transwomen as well.click to expand
Well, News Flash Buddy! Their NOT. and I’m definitely Not.
And the confusion is that this consensus is only true in Trans community and SOME of the LGBTQ+ community. But in honesty close to 280 million out of nearly 300 million people in the U.S do not believe this consensus. I’m just being real. Anybody is free to think, believe, feel and identify as they want but that doesn’t mean I have to agree. Because I’m free to be a free thinker too.
Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
It seems more like you think otherwise, no?click to expand
How do I think other wise I’m not labeling him/her as any phobic. We don’t call lesbians Manphobics. We just call them lesbians who have sexual preference.

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
well the consensus (on the us side at least) is that transwomen are women and therefore being straight and attracted to women, you would be attracted to transwomen as well.
Well, News Flash Buddy! Their NOT. and I’m definitely Not.
And the confusion is that this consensus is only true in Trans community and SOME of the LGBTQ+ community. But in honesty close to 280 million out of nearly 300 million people in the U.S do not believe this consensus. I’m just being real. Anybody is free to think, believe, feel and identify as they want but that doesn’t mean I have to agree. Because I’m free to be a free thinker too.click to expand
so you could be attracted to a transman?
Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
well the consensus (on the us side at least) is that transwomen are women and therefore being straight and attracted to women, you would be attracted to transwomen as well.
Well, News Flash Buddy! There NOT. and I’m definitely Not.
And the confusion is that this consensus is only true in Trans community and SOME of the LGBTQ+ community. But in honesty close to 280 million out of nearly 300 million people in the U.S do not believe this consensus. I’m just being real. Anybody is free to think, believe, feel and identify as they want but that doesn’t mean I have to agree. Because I’m free to be a free thinker too.
You seem to know quite a lot bout Trans people then? You have all of these opinions, *but* I thought you wanted to "understand". Or, should folks be more concerned that you are "trying".
If you are "trying"...you may want to be in a more receptive mindset.click to expand
Hmmm that’s true guess I missed the purpose. But I’m still entitled to answer and give my opinion. But let’s stay on subject.

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
It seems more like you think otherwise, no?
How do I think other wise I’m not labeling him/her as any phobic. We don’t call lesbians Manphobics. We just call them lesbians who have sexual preference.click to expand
yes but lesbians are encouraged (? not sure that is the right term) to consider transwomen as potential sexual partners because transwomen are women. so as a straight man what's the big deal?
Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
well the consensus (on the us side at least) is that transwomen are women and therefore being straight and attracted to women, you would be attracted to transwomen as well.
Well, News Flash Buddy! Their NOT. and I’m definitely Not.
And the confusion is that this consensus is only true in Trans community and SOME of the LGBTQ+ community. But in honesty close to 280 million out of nearly 300 million people in the U.S do not believe this consensus. I’m just being real. Anybody is free to think, believe, feel and identify as they want but that doesn’t mean I have to agree. Because I’m free to be a free thinker too.
so you could be attracted to a transman?click to expand
Nope, not by physical features, but I have no problem with beating that pussy up. Because no matter how they see themselves a TransMan is a BIOLOGICAL women. Sex parts and all. So naturally I would be pulled by a physical force even if it wasn’t attraction if reason snd opportunity was present.
Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
It seems more like you think otherwise, no?
How do I think other wise I’m not labeling him/her as any phobic. We don’t call lesbians Manphobics. We just call them lesbians who have sexual preference.
yes but lesbians are encouraged (? not sure that is the right term) to consider transwomen as potential sexual partners because transwomen are women. so as a straight man what's the big deal?click to expand
And a straight man is encouraged to not want a biological male who dresses like a female. It’s The same thing.
Example the number one reason trans women are assaulted or murdered is because they do not disclose they are men to straight men.
For a man to feel that upset that he would attack some one he must strongly encouraged that he doesn’t agree or likes it.
No offense I do not advocate violence against anybody straight, gay or trans.

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
well the consensus (on the us side at least) is that transwomen are women and therefore being straight and attracted to women, you would be attracted to transwomen as well.
Well, News Flash Buddy! Their NOT. and I’m definitely Not.
And the confusion is that this consensus is only true in Trans community and SOME of the LGBTQ+ community. But in honesty close to 280 million out of nearly 300 million people in the U.S do not believe this consensus. I’m just being real. Anybody is free to think, believe, feel and identify as they want but that doesn’t mean I have to agree. Because I’m free to be a free thinker too.
so you could be attracted to a transman?
Nope, not by physical features, but I have no problem with beating that pussy up. Because no matter how they see themselves a TransMan is a BIOLOGICAL women. Sex parts and all. So naturally I would be pulled by a physical force even if it wasn’t attraction if reason snd opportunity was present.click to expand
what about a transwomen after she has had surgery? she has a pussy. you couldn't "beat that up"?

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
It seems more like you think otherwise, no?
How do I think other wise I’m not labeling him/her as any phobic. We don’t call lesbians Manphobics. We just call them lesbians who have sexual preference.
yes but lesbians are encouraged (? not sure that is the right term) to consider transwomen as potential sexual partners because transwomen are women. so as a straight man what's the big deal?
And a straight man is encouraged to not want a biological male who dresses like a female. It’s The same thing.
Example the number one reason trans women are assaulted or murdered is because they do not disclose they are men to straight men.
For a man to feel that upset that he would attack some one he must strongly encouraged that he doesn’t agree or likes it.
No offense I do not advocate violence against anybody straight, gay or trans.click to expand
source?
Posted by bmoon8
Usually people who are secure in their sexuality....
You can fill in the blanks.
Well I secure enough to ask. While others feel uncomfortable to even approach.

"Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women."
No that is a personal preference.
What does make you transphobic is everything else you said.
"Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense."
No that is a personal preference.
What does make you transphobic is everything else you said.
"Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense."
Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
well the consensus (on the us side at least) is that transwomen are women and therefore being straight and attracted to women, you would be attracted to transwomen as well.
Well, News Flash Buddy! Their NOT. and I’m definitely Not.
And the confusion is that this consensus is only true in Trans community and SOME of the LGBTQ+ community. But in honesty close to 280 million out of nearly 300 million people in the U.S do not believe this consensus. I’m just being real. Anybody is free to think, believe, feel and identify as they want but that doesn’t mean I have to agree. Because I’m free to be a free thinker too.
so you could be attracted to a transman?
Nope, not by physical features, but I have no problem with beating that pussy up. Because no matter how they see themselves a TransMan is a BIOLOGICAL women. Sex parts and all. So naturally I would be pulled by a physical force even if it wasn’t attraction if reason snd opportunity was present.
what about a transwomen after she has had surgery? she has a pussy. you couldn't "beat that up"?click to expand
Honestly No, but I’d be more respectful with pro nouns they and maybe her.
Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
It seems more like you think otherwise, no?
How do I think other wise I’m not labeling him/her as any phobic. We don’t call lesbians Manphobics. We just call them lesbians who have sexual preference.
yes but lesbians are encouraged (? not sure that is the right term) to consider transwomen as potential sexual partners because transwomen are women. so as a straight man what's the big deal?
And a straight man is encouraged to not want a biological male who dresses like a female. It’s The same thing.
Example the number one reason trans women are assaulted or murdered is because they do not disclose they are men to straight men.
For a man to feel that upset that he would attack some one he must strongly encouraged that he doesn’t agree or likes it.
No offense I do not advocate violence against anybody straight, gay or trans.
source?click to expand
Me. I’m a MAN. First hand source. You couldn’t get more source then this.

I'm sorry to burst your bubble but every cis female you have dated has modified their body in some shape or form.
Shaved it. Makeup. Bras (padded and pushup) Colored their hair, cut it. Whitened their teeth, straightened their teeth. Waxed pussy, plucked eyebrows. All of these are mild yes, but modifications none the less. Many women also undergo plastic surgery, get botex or filler/lip injections.
You don't really have an issue with someone modifying their body. You have an issue with transpeople modifying their body.
Shaved it. Makeup. Bras (padded and pushup) Colored their hair, cut it. Whitened their teeth, straightened their teeth. Waxed pussy, plucked eyebrows. All of these are mild yes, but modifications none the less. Many women also undergo plastic surgery, get botex or filler/lip injections.
You don't really have an issue with someone modifying their body. You have an issue with transpeople modifying their body.

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
It seems more like you think otherwise, no?
How do I think other wise I’m not labeling him/her as any phobic. We don’t call lesbians Manphobics. We just call them lesbians who have sexual preference.
yes but lesbians are encouraged (? not sure that is the right term) to consider transwomen as potential sexual partners because transwomen are women. so as a straight man what's the big deal?
And a straight man is encouraged to not want a biological male who dresses like a female. It’s The same thing.
Example the number one reason trans women are assaulted or murdered is because they do not disclose they are men to straight men.
For a man to feel that upset that he would attack some one he must strongly encouraged that he doesn’t agree or likes it.
No offense I do not advocate violence against anybody straight, gay or trans.
source?
Me. I’m a MAN. First hand source. You couldn’t get more source then this.click to expand
your source that the number one reason transwomen are killed is because they have somehow tricked men into believing they are women. a significant amount of transwomen are killed by their partners so i would like your source on this new understanding.

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
well the consensus (on the us side at least) is that transwomen are women and therefore being straight and attracted to women, you would be attracted to transwomen as well.
Well, News Flash Buddy! Their NOT. and I’m definitely Not.
And the confusion is that this consensus is only true in Trans community and SOME of the LGBTQ+ community. But in honesty close to 280 million out of nearly 300 million people in the U.S do not believe this consensus. I’m just being real. Anybody is free to think, believe, feel and identify as they want but that doesn’t mean I have to agree. Because I’m free to be a free thinker too.
so you could be attracted to a transman?
Nope, not by physical features, but I have no problem with beating that pussy up. Because no matter how they see themselves a TransMan is a BIOLOGICAL women. Sex parts and all. So naturally I would be pulled by a physical force even if it wasn’t attraction if reason snd opportunity was present.
what about a transwomen after she has had surgery? she has a pussy. you couldn't "beat that up"?
Honestly No, but I’d be more respectful with pro nouns they and maybe her.click to expand
so she can look like a woman. have female genitalia that you find attractive. you would address her as a woman but you still wouldn't consider her as a potential mate even if she had all the qualities that you seek in a partner.
that's why you are transphobic because you discriminate on no other grounds other than she is trans.
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Let’s just say you meet a woman. You go on some dates and get to know her. You end up developing feelings for her. She then reveals she is transgender. How does this make you feel about yourself? (Now this has nothing to do with your preference to genitalia on a person.) Do you feel disgusted? Do you start to worry about your sexuality? Does it make you feel like there’s something wrong with you? Or do you feel/think hey that’s fine but I prefer a woman with a vagina? Do you feel that you’re still straight? Are there any other feelings? Basically would this situation make you look upon the trans person in a negative way because of the way they made you feel about yourself? If yes then you might wanna investigate those feelings cos it probably stems from transphobia.
I’d feel lied too. Upset, very angry. And I may go into a rage if I’m near that person in that moment of betrayal. You know why because relationships are about trust. If I came home and saw my biological women girlfriend cheating I would do same thing.
But if I’m walking and I see to trans person being attacked and are defenseless because they are openly trans. I would try and defend them or help them get away. Even I don’t know the reason.

Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straightclick to expand
I just saw this TikTok! 🤣🤣🤣

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by bmoon8
Usually people who are secure in their sexuality....
You can fill in the blanks.
Well I secure enough to ask. While others feel uncomfortable to even approach.click to expand
What about straight men who like wearing women’s clothes in private and in front of their girl?
Posted by LadyNeptune
I'm sorry to burst your bubble but every cis female you have dated has modified their body in some shape or form.
Shaved it. Makeup. Bras (padded and pushup) Colored their hair, cut it. Whitened their teeth, straightened their teeth. Waxed pussy, plucked eyebrows. All of these are mild yes, but modifications none the less. Many women also undergo plastic surgery, get botex or filler/lip injections.
You don't really have an issue with someone modifying their body. You have an issue with transpeople modifying their body.
I didn’t say I had a problem, your saying I do. I just asked a question. But this is your defense get upset bark bark, deflect, bark bark, compare and accuse. You made no point so far.
Body MoD-iF-i-CaTion I’m referring to is removing sex organs that’s more then just make up on some dry or pale skin.

How many transwomen have approached you wanting that dick op?
Or is this just a scary fantasy for you from watching too much Jerry springer
Inquiring minds want to know.
Or is this just a scary fantasy for you from watching too much Jerry springer
Inquiring minds want to know.

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
I'm sorry to burst your bubble but every cis female you have dated has modified their body in some shape or form.
Shaved it. Makeup. Bras (padded and pushup) Colored their hair, cut it. Whitened their teeth, straightened their teeth. Waxed pussy, plucked eyebrows. All of these are mild yes, but modifications none the less. Many women also undergo plastic surgery, get botex or filler/lip injections.
You don't really have an issue with someone modifying their body. You have an issue with transpeople modifying their body.
I didn’t say I had a problem, your saying I do. I just asked a question. But this is your defense get upset bark bark, deflect, bark bark, compare and accuse. You made no point so far.
Body MoD-iF-i-CaTion I’m referring to is removing sex organs that’s more then just make up on some dry or pale skin.click to expand
yeah that's not the definition of body modification.
So then just say you have an issue with people changing their sex.
And then we can continue to point out the obvious, you are transphobic.

Would you say you’re Super Straight


Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by bmoon8
Usually people who are secure in their sexuality....
You can fill in the blanks.
Well I secure enough to ask. While others feel uncomfortable to even approach.
What about straight men who like wearing women’s clothes in private and in front of their girl?click to expand
What about people who see and hear things. What would you tell them about voices? Would you encourage them or request they get mental evaluation
What about people with no legs, who complain about feet pain? What would you do? Pretend to rub their feet?
All these are true things probably happening right now.
Posted by LadyNeptune
How many transwomen have approached you wanting that dick op?
Or is this just a scary fantasy for you from watching too much Jerry springer
Inquiring minds want to know.
Lol zero!!
Posted by xiongmaoPosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
well the consensus (on the us side at least) is that transwomen are women and therefore being straight and attracted to women, you would be attracted to transwomen as well.
Well, News Flash Buddy! Their NOT. and I’m definitely Not.
And the confusion is that this consensus is only true in Trans community and SOME of the LGBTQ+ community. But in honesty close to 280 million out of nearly 300 million people in the U.S do not believe this consensus. I’m just being real. Anybody is free to think, believe, feel and identify as they want but that doesn’t mean I have to agree. Because I’m free to be a free thinker too.
so you could be attracted to a transman?
Nope, not by physical features, but I have no problem with beating that pussy up. Because no matter how they see themselves a TransMan is a BIOLOGICAL women. Sex parts and all. So naturally I would be pulled by a physical force even if it wasn’t attraction if reason snd opportunity was present.
what about a transwomen after she has had surgery? she has a pussy. you couldn't "beat that up"?
Honestly No, but I’d be more respectful with pro nouns they and maybe her.
How would you know the difference between a post-surgery trans woman and a cis-woman? Or do you insist on knowing a woman's history to determine if they are cis-woman or not?click to expand
If they were born male parts then yes. I would want to know that immediately. Simple isn’t it.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
I'm sorry to burst your bubble but every cis female you have dated has modified their body in some shape or form.
Shaved it. Makeup. Bras (padded and pushup) Colored their hair, cut it. Whitened their teeth, straightened their teeth. Waxed pussy, plucked eyebrows. All of these are mild yes, but modifications none the less. Many women also undergo plastic surgery, get botex or filler/lip injections.
You don't really have an issue with someone modifying their body. You have an issue with transpeople modifying their body.
I didn’t say I had a problem, your saying I do. I just asked a question. But this is your defense get upset bark bark, deflect, bark bark, compare and accuse. You made no point so far.
Body MoD-iF-i-CaTion I’m referring to is removing sex organs that’s more then just make up on some dry or pale skin.
yeah that's not the definition of body modification.
So then just say you have an issue with people changing their sex.
And then we can continue to point out the obvious, you are transphobic.click to expand
But that’s the question I asked? You can’t answer a simple question. Because your deliberately looking for a reason to label me something. You don’t care about the trying to answer a question more so then how dare you ask a question. Go face the wall.

Am I transphobic for saying that it isn't normal but abnormal and should be considered as such? Asking for a friend
Frantically rewriting school litterature with leftist propaganda ain't gonna change that fact.
Also, it's ok to be abnormal or have a condition that is outside the norm. You are basically saying there is no such thing as a norm bc everything and everyone supposedly falls under that umbrella for the sake of inclusion, and that's a highly toxic and delusional logic.
Frantically rewriting school litterature with leftist propaganda ain't gonna change that fact.
Also, it's ok to be abnormal or have a condition that is outside the norm. You are basically saying there is no such thing as a norm bc everything and everyone supposedly falls under that umbrella for the sake of inclusion, and that's a highly toxic and delusional logic.

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by bmoon8
Usually people who are secure in their sexuality....
You can fill in the blanks.
Well I secure enough to ask. While others feel uncomfortable to even approach.
What about straight men who like wearing women’s clothes in private and in front of their girl?
What about people who see and hear things. What would you tell them about voices? Would you encourage them or request they get mental evaluation
What about people with no legs, who complain about feet pain? What would you do? Pretend to rub their feet?
All these are true things probably happening right now.click to expand
As the world turns. 🌎
What are you trying to understand and why does it matter what anyone looks like on the outside and what they do in the bedroom?
Are you afraid they will trick you into cheating?
Posted by cake
What's the issue though?
Nothing baby, just go back to sleep honey.

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
I'm sorry to burst your bubble but every cis female you have dated has modified their body in some shape or form.
Shaved it. Makeup. Bras (padded and pushup) Colored their hair, cut it. Whitened their teeth, straightened their teeth. Waxed pussy, plucked eyebrows. All of these are mild yes, but modifications none the less. Many women also undergo plastic surgery, get botex or filler/lip injections.
You don't really have an issue with someone modifying their body. You have an issue with transpeople modifying their body.
I didn’t say I had a problem, your saying I do. I just asked a question. But this is your defense get upset bark bark, deflect, bark bark, compare and accuse. You made no point so far.
Body MoD-iF-i-CaTion I’m referring to is removing sex organs that’s more then just make up on some dry or pale skin.
yeah that's not the definition of body modification.
So then just say you have an issue with people changing their sex.
And then we can continue to point out the obvious, you are transphobic.
But that’s the question I asked? You can’t answer a simple question. Because your deliberately looking for a reason to label me something. You don’t care about the trying to answer a question more so then how dare you ask a question. Go face the wall.click to expand
I certainly did answer your question.
You asked if you were transphobic. I answered and said yes.
Don't be mad you got exactly what you were looking for

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
How many transwomen have approached you wanting that dick op?
Or is this just a scary fantasy for you from watching too much Jerry springer
Inquiring minds want to know.
Lol zero!!click to expand
so then why are you so obsessed with transpeople when they don't even know you exist.
They aren't up in your business questioning your right to do with your body what you choose.
So why are you so concerned with trans bodies is the question. And transwomens bodies specifically.
Sorry I was wrong. Your not transphobic but transmisogynic.
Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
It seems more like you think otherwise, no?
How do I think other wise I’m not labeling him/her as any phobic. We don’t call lesbians Manphobics. We just call them lesbians who have sexual preference.
yes but lesbians are encouraged (? not sure that is the right term) to consider transwomen as potential sexual partners because transwomen are women. so as a straight man what's the big deal?
And a straight man is encouraged to not want a biological male who dresses like a female. It’s The same thing.
Example the number one reason trans women are assaulted or murdered is because they do not disclose they are men to straight men.
For a man to feel that upset that he would attack some one he must strongly encouraged that he doesn’t agree or likes it.
No offense I do not advocate violence against anybody straight, gay or trans.
source?
Me. I’m a MAN. First hand source. You couldn’t get more source then this.
your source that the number one reason transwomen are killed is because they have somehow tricked men into believing they are women. a significant amount of transwomen are killed by their partners so i would like your source on this new understanding.click to expand
Killed by their partners? Yes partners they don’t disclose their sex too ( again we addressed that it’s betrayal, dishonesty). And Your free to look it up. A High Majority unfortunately are due to prostitution. Which straight women are victims to as well at higher rate.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
I'm sorry to burst your bubble but every cis female you have dated has modified their body in some shape or form.
Shaved it. Makeup. Bras (padded and pushup) Colored their hair, cut it. Whitened their teeth, straightened their teeth. Waxed pussy, plucked eyebrows. All of these are mild yes, but modifications none the less. Many women also undergo plastic surgery, get botex or filler/lip injections.
You don't really have an issue with someone modifying their body. You have an issue with transpeople modifying their body.
I didn’t say I had a problem, your saying I do. I just asked a question. But this is your defense get upset bark bark, deflect, bark bark, compare and accuse. You made no point so far.
Body MoD-iF-i-CaTion I’m referring to is removing sex organs that’s more then just make up on some dry or pale skin.
yeah that's not the definition of body modification.
So then just say you have an issue with people changing their sex.
And then we can continue to point out the obvious, you are transphobic.
But that’s the question I asked? You can’t answer a simple question. Because your deliberately looking for a reason to label me something. You don’t care about the trying to answer a question more so then how dare you ask a question. Go face the wall.
I certainly did answer your question.
You asked if you were transphobic. I answered and said yes.
Don't be mad you got exactly what you were looking forclick to expand
Because I don’t want date a trans women. So a lesbian or gay guy have Phobias of straight people. Because that question was based off of sexual preference.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
How many transwomen have approached you wanting that dick op?
Or is this just a scary fantasy for you from watching too much Jerry springer
Inquiring minds want to know.
Lol zero!!
so then why are you so obsessed with transpeople when they don't even know you exist.
They aren't up in your business questioning your right to do with your body what you choose.
So why are you so concerned with trans bodies is the question. And transwomens bodies specifically.
Sorry I was wrong. Your not transphobic but transmisogynic.click to expand
Well they are definitely concerned if I choose not to date them. And that concerns snd disturbs me.

I only suck dick, but I see absolutely no point in dating either a trans man or trans woman.
The former is not a real man in the ways that really count according to the age-old concept of Biology (can't impregnate a woman), doesn't have a dick to suck - and no, dildos don't count.
The latter DOES have a dick, but looks too much like a woman on the outside. If I was meant to be attracted to feminine features, I would've been born straight.
The former is not a real man in the ways that really count according to the age-old concept of Biology (can't impregnate a woman), doesn't have a dick to suck - and no, dildos don't count.
The latter DOES have a dick, but looks too much like a woman on the outside. If I was meant to be attracted to feminine features, I would've been born straight.
Posted by ElectroLeo
What the hell are they. But I bet some of them might be quite nice and normal but I wouldn’t go close.
Don’t do that. You can speak your mind but don’t be transphobic.

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
I'm sorry to burst your bubble but every cis female you have dated has modified their body in some shape or form.
Shaved it. Makeup. Bras (padded and pushup) Colored their hair, cut it. Whitened their teeth, straightened their teeth. Waxed pussy, plucked eyebrows. All of these are mild yes, but modifications none the less. Many women also undergo plastic surgery, get botex or filler/lip injections.
You don't really have an issue with someone modifying their body. You have an issue with transpeople modifying their body.
I didn’t say I had a problem, your saying I do. I just asked a question. But this is your defense get upset bark bark, deflect, bark bark, compare and accuse. You made no point so far.
Body MoD-iF-i-CaTion I’m referring to is removing sex organs that’s more then just make up on some dry or pale skin.
yeah that's not the definition of body modification.
So then just say you have an issue with people changing their sex.
And then we can continue to point out the obvious, you are transphobic.
But that’s the question I asked? You can’t answer a simple question. Because your deliberately looking for a reason to label me something. You don’t care about the trying to answer a question more so then how dare you ask a question. Go face the wall.
I certainly did answer your question.
You asked if you were transphobic. I answered and said yes.
Don't be mad you got exactly what you were looking for
Because I don’t want date a trans women. So a lesbian or gay guy have Phobias of straight people. Because that question was based off of sexual preference.click to expand
You’re not transphobic if you don’t want to date a trans person. That’s silly. I think a phobia is when something actually bothers you about a person.
If you would help them out in a tough situation but just don’t want to fuck them, that’s not phobic.
Trans people should let whoever they’re dating in on what they looked like previously if it happened to be anything different then what they are.
It comes down to morals as well. If they are now a women cause they had the surgery, the man they are dating should still know the reason they can’t have kids and not just that they are “sterile”
I think anyone should be open and be accepted by their spouse fully. Anyone hiding something is being deceitful. IMO

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
How many transwomen have approached you wanting that dick op?
Or is this just a scary fantasy for you from watching too much Jerry springer
Inquiring minds want to know.
Lol zero!!
so then why are you so obsessed with transpeople when they don't even know you exist.
They aren't up in your business questioning your right to do with your body what you choose.
So why are you so concerned with trans bodies is the question. And transwomens bodies specifically.
Sorry I was wrong. Your not transphobic but transmisogynic.
Well they are definitely concerned if I choose not to date them. And that concerns snd disturbs me.click to expand
Yes all zero who have approached you are very very concerned that you turned them down. Must be tough for you.

Posted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
It seems more like you think otherwise, no?
How do I think other wise I’m not labeling him/her as any phobic. We don’t call lesbians Manphobics. We just call them lesbians who have sexual preference.
yes but lesbians are encouraged (? not sure that is the right term) to consider transwomen as potential sexual partners because transwomen are women. so as a straight man what's the big deal?
And a straight man is encouraged to not want a biological male who dresses like a female. It’s The same thing.
Example the number one reason trans women are assaulted or murdered is because they do not disclose they are men to straight men.
For a man to feel that upset that he would attack some one he must strongly encouraged that he doesn’t agree or likes it.
No offense I do not advocate violence against anybody straight, gay or trans.
source?
Me. I’m a MAN. First hand source. You couldn’t get more source then this.
your source that the number one reason transwomen are killed is because they have somehow tricked men into believing they are women. a significant amount of transwomen are killed by their partners so i would like your source on this new understanding.
Killed by their partners? Yes partners they don’t disclose their sex too ( again we addressed that it’s betrayal, dishonesty). And Your free to look it up. A High Majority unfortunately are due to prostitution. Which straight women are victims to as well at higher rate.click to expand
there is nothing to suggest these men were "tricked". it's just another example of male violence - against each other and against women.
but it goes to your sense that transwomen are just like women (good enough for you and others to be "tricked" so for you to refuse to date them because they are trans and nothing else is transphobic

PS: don't bother trying to communicate with basic white bitches whose IQ is lower than the number of fingers and toes on them. You'll just end up burning off your own brain cells.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
I'm sorry to burst your bubble but every cis female you have dated has modified their body in some shape or form.
Shaved it. Makeup. Bras (padded and pushup) Colored their hair, cut it. Whitened their teeth, straightened their teeth. Waxed pussy, plucked eyebrows. All of these are mild yes, but modifications none the less. Many women also undergo plastic surgery, get botex or filler/lip injections.
You don't really have an issue with someone modifying their body. You have an issue with transpeople modifying their body.
I didn’t say I had a problem, your saying I do. I just asked a question. But this is your defense get upset bark bark, deflect, bark bark, compare and accuse. You made no point so far.
Body MoD-iF-i-CaTion I’m referring to is removing sex organs that’s more then just make up on some dry or pale skin.
yeah that's not the definition of body modification.
So then just say you have an issue with people changing their sex.
And then we can continue to point out the obvious, you are transphobic.
But that’s the question I asked? You can’t answer a simple question. Because your deliberately looking for a reason to label me something. You don’t care about the trying to answer a question more so then how dare you ask a question. Go face the wall.
I certainly did answer your question.
You asked if you were transphobic. I answered and said yes.
Don't be mad you got exactly what you were looking for
Because I don’t want date a trans women. So a lesbian or gay guy have Phobias of straight people. Because that question was based off of sexual preference.
You’re not transphobic if you don’t want to date a trans person. That’s silly. I think a phobia is when something actually bothers you about a person.
If you would help them out in a tough situation but just don’t want to fuck them, that’s not phobic.
Trans people should let whoever they’re dating in on what they looked like previously if it happened to be anything different then what they are.
It comes down to morals as well. If they are now a women cause they had the surgery, the man they are dating should still know the reason they can’t have kids and not just that they are “sterile”
I think anyone should be open and be accepted by their spouse fully. Anyone hiding something is being deceitful. IMOclick to expand
Thank you you’ve given the most sound, nonjudgmental, mature and honest response.
This is a true response. It’s not a question for a question or a accusation or a phobia label. This is what I was setting up this whole post about.
Not for me to understand trans but for does who disagree with a straight mans allowed perspective on our own preference, to understand us.
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Let’s just say you meet a woman. You go on some dates and get to know her. You end up developing feelings for her. She then reveals she is transgender. How does this make you feel about yourself?
It would feel like unknowingly getting u dick sucked in a gloryhole by a man, having been promised a woman.
Or like a woman getting raped and having an involuntary orgasm
It still feels good...but it ain't right.click to expand
Lolololol THIS!!
Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by jeanePosted by SuperSize9
Am I really transphobic if I prefer not to date a trans women. Because I’m not into men? And why do you feel the urge to modify your body? You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right? And what’s up with forcing other to use a pro noun they are not comfortable using? No offense.
i think what you are describing is that you are super straight
Yea, heard that being used, but I’m just straight. I don’t care for word games. Like cis, super straight. I’m just plan ol normal and not into being with another man. Which is preference. Guys who are gay are cool as hell and down to earth. Just not my thing.
Trans seem to think other wise tho?
It seems more like you think otherwise, no?
How do I think other wise I’m not labeling him/her as any phobic. We don’t call lesbians Manphobics. We just call them lesbians who have sexual preference.
yes but lesbians are encouraged (? not sure that is the right term) to consider transwomen as potential sexual partners because transwomen are women. so as a straight man what's the big deal?
And a straight man is encouraged to not want a biological male who dresses like a female. It’s The same thing.
Example the number one reason trans women are assaulted or murdered is because they do not disclose they are men to straight men.
For a man to feel that upset that he would attack some one he must strongly encouraged that he doesn’t agree or likes it.
No offense I do not advocate violence against anybody straight, gay or trans.
source?
Me. I’m a MAN. First hand source. You couldn’t get more source then this.
your source that the number one reason transwomen are killed is because they have somehow tricked men into believing they are women. a significant amount of transwomen are killed by their partners so i would like your source on this new understanding.
Killed by their partners? Yes partners they don’t disclose their sex too ( again we addressed that it’s betrayal, dishonesty). And Your free to look it up. A High Majority unfortunately are due to prostitution. Which straight women are victims to as well at higher rate.
there is nothing to suggest these men were "tricked". it's just another example of male violence - against each other and against women.
but it goes to your sense that transwomen are just like women (good enough for you and others to be "tricked" so for you to refuse to date them because they are trans and nothing else is transphobicclick to expand
The fact that they are trans and don’t disclose their sex is alone suggest disruptive and trickery?
And I’ll do say it this way. I’m not dating anybody born with male sex parts. Trans or not trans is that fair enough.

Posted by jukeyPosted by SuperSize9
You feel Your born in the wrong body “Ok. But surgery or no surgery it’s still the wrong body right?
Is it the "wrong" body or, like many things in nature, something that falls on a spectrum? Perhaps we're not all flatly one or the other. A fun question to ask at parties is 'Why do men have breasts and nipples?'click to expand
because every embryo is female in the early stages
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