Pink Bird
@pinkbird03
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A question to you aquas
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@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
@Seleukos you're needed!😁
Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
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@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜click to expand
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You went from grumpy to lazy. OMG
Posted by STILLHehe it's weekend so.... 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
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You went from grumpy to lazy. OMGclick to expand
Posted by SmidgeI've never seen you giving relationship advises hehe 😜Posted by AerialViewShe probably wants less bias advice. 😜Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜click to expand
Posted by SmidgeSo honest 😀Posted by AerialViewI don't really have much knowledge in that area 🙄Posted by SmidgeI've never seen you giving relationship advises hehe 😜Posted by AerialViewShe probably wants less bias advice. 😜Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
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Posted by SmidgeBut we do KNOW 😎Posted by AerialViewYeah, I'm not like aquas who pretend they know shet. 😉Posted by SmidgeSo honest 😀Posted by AerialViewI don't really have much knowledge in that area 🙄Posted by SmidgeI've never seen you giving relationship advises hehe 😜Posted by AerialViewShe probably wants less bias advice. 😜Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
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I KNOW is ours 😎
Posted by SmidgeLightyears ahead of everyone else 😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialViewAn aquarius wrote that, clearly... Aquas have a bigger ego than us. 😝Posted by SmidgeBut we do KNOW 😎Posted by AerialViewYeah, I'm not like aquas who pretend they know shet. 😉Posted by SmidgeSo honest 😀Posted by AerialViewI don't really have much knowledge in that area 🙄Posted by SmidgeI've never seen you giving relationship advises hehe 😜Posted by AerialViewShe probably wants less bias advice. 😜Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
I KNOW is ours 😎
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Posted by pinkbird03Not really, he stopped following me there a long time ago anyway.
Do u think he saw something on your profile that he didn’t like? Do your dating app pictures look like your normal pictures or are your dating app pictures a lot prettier?
I’m only asking because I hear a lot of girls post pictures that are old or don’t resemble their current look
At the time, he did ask me why my pics were blurry... I did not realise they were.
Anyway when I saw him, I asked him if Iooked like my profie pics, and he answered yes
Posted by SmidgeLol is the best advice you got 😂
You're an Aries you can handle that shet 💪
The problem is if you have the time or patience for their bs 😪😴
Posted by SmidgeThe poster didn't even interested let alone find that useful 😂Posted by AerialViewShut up! You're the one that beckoned me here god damn it!Posted by SmidgeLol is the best advice you got 😂
You're an Aries you can handle that shet 💪
The problem is if you have the time or patience for their bs 😪😴
I had to give her something lolclick to expand
Posted by Aquaman4848You are probably right, which is one of the reasons I decided to stop giving him attention.
Am too aqua...
In reality, no one can make us fall for them...it entirely depends on aquas...if they like someone then only they will take effort for them...else not
Whenever I like someone...I go too fast at start, within couple of days I ask her out, and keep going out again and again whenever we have time...
So I guess he is not interested much...he is just keeping u as friend...u need to read stuffs about what aquarius likes and all
At the same time, he is the one who came back telling me he was thinking about me...
But would it change to read stuff about aquarius, I can't really change who I am.
Posted by SmidgeDon't let the door hit you 🚶🚪Posted by AerialViewI hate you, I'm leaving now.Posted by SmidgeThe poster didn't even interested let alone find that useful 😂Posted by AerialViewShut up! You're the one that beckoned me here god damn it!Posted by SmidgeLol is the best advice you got 😂
You're an Aries you can handle that shet 💪
The problem is if you have the time or patience for their bs 😪😴
I had to give her something lol
Show me the door plz
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Posted by SmidgeI knew you would gonna say that 😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialView...in the vaginaPosted by SmidgeDon't let the door hit you 🚶🚪Posted by AerialViewI hate you, I'm leaving now.Posted by SmidgeThe poster didn't even interested let alone find that useful 😂Posted by AerialViewShut up! You're the one that beckoned me here god damn it!Posted by SmidgeLol is the best advice you got 😂
You're an Aries you can handle that shet 💪
The problem is if you have the time or patience for their bs 😪😴
I had to give her something lol
Show me the door plz
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Posted by Senorita_LL
I'm glad am not an Aqua. Else it gets tiring answering the same question, like every single day.
No offence OP. It's just funny cos' almost all the issue with Aqua men are somewhat the same. 😬😬
Isn't that the concept of this entire website though? People asking the same questions over and over for the past 15 years? I read the same questions on the cancer or the taurus forum being asked over and over again...I also see the same subject appear from time to time, I see people arguing about which placement is the smartest, sexiest, more intense, worst, buttertiest etc
Are cancer men cheaters, why are they hot and cold
Why are taurus so cold
Why are gemini people two faced
etc
That is all I read on this entire website
Posted by SmidgeDid it hurt? 😂Posted by AerialViewDeja vuPosted by SmidgeI knew you would gonna say that 😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialView...in the vaginaPosted by SmidgeDon't let the door hit you 🚶🚪Posted by AerialViewI hate you, I'm leaving now.Posted by SmidgeThe poster didn't even interested let alone find that useful 😂Posted by AerialViewShut up! You're the one that beckoned me here god damn it!Posted by SmidgeLol is the best advice you got 😂
You're an Aries you can handle that shet 💪
The problem is if you have the time or patience for their bs 😪😴
I had to give her something lol
Show me the door plz
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Posted by SeleukosThank you for your input. To be honest, the real question I asked him was more like "did you like what you saw". I did not really asked where I stand with him.
You made the mistake of asking him where he stands regarding you.
If he is busy he wouldn't need any more drama until he has completly decided to be with you.
You can either deal with him not reaching out to you for a couple of days every now or then or he isn't the right one for you and you might be happier with a more clingy sign.
He is indeed really busy and he has expressed to me more than once how his studies are messing up his social life.
I dont mind him not reaching out to me for a couple of days, but why doesn't he invite me to go on dates is my question. a texting relationship is really not enough
Also, there were times in the past where he tooks 2 days to answer a text.
And then if I take more than 30 mn to reply, he either double text or once he straight up sent me "oh so I see you choose when to answer my texts now"
I was just asleep, so the next morning, I replied "no, but I have to admit that I tend to imitate the ways of the person I am talking to"
Posted by SmidgeThis aqua I am dealing with does have a big ego and is very proud tooPosted by AerialViewAn aquarius wrote that, clearly... Aquas have a bigger ego than us. 😝Posted by SmidgeBut we do KNOW 😎Posted by AerialViewYeah, I'm not like aquas who pretend they know shet. 😉Posted by SmidgeSo honest 😀Posted by AerialViewI don't really have much knowledge in that area 🙄Posted by SmidgeI've never seen you giving relationship advises hehe 😜Posted by AerialViewShe probably wants less bias advice. 😜Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
I KNOW is ours 😎
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I told him to send me a friend request on insta again so I can add him.
He said that since I already removed him from my friends list, he will not ask me again...
Posted by SmidgeI really agree with you on that...
You're an Aries you can handle that shet 💪
The problem is if you have the time or patience for their bs 😪😴
Patience...
I already noticed that aqua and aries don't move at the same pace
Posted by SmidgeI already follow him, his inta is public, not mine thoughPosted by doubleramThat's fair enough though really. 😂Posted by SmidgeThis aqua I am dealing with does have a big ego and is very proud tooPosted by AerialViewAn aquarius wrote that, clearly... Aquas have a bigger ego than us. 😝Posted by SmidgeBut we do KNOW 😎Posted by AerialViewYeah, I'm not like aquas who pretend they know shet. 😉Posted by SmidgeSo honest 😀Posted by AerialViewI don't really have much knowledge in that area 🙄Posted by SmidgeI've never seen you giving relationship advises hehe 😜Posted by AerialViewShe probably wants less bias advice. 😜Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
I KNOW is ours 😎
I told him to send me a friend request on insta again so I can add him.
He said that since I already removed him from my friends list, he will not ask me again...
Can you not send him a request?
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Posted by doubleramWhat's the rest of his placements?Posted by SmidgeThis aqua I am dealing with does have a big ego and is very proud tooPosted by AerialViewAn aquarius wrote that, clearly... Aquas have a bigger ego than us. 😝Posted by SmidgeBut we do KNOW 😎Posted by AerialViewYeah, I'm not like aquas who pretend they know shet. 😉Posted by SmidgeSo honest 😀Posted by AerialViewI don't really have much knowledge in that area 🙄Posted by SmidgeI've never seen you giving relationship advises hehe 😜Posted by AerialViewShe probably wants less bias advice. 😜Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
I KNOW is ours 😎
I told him to send me a friend request on insta again so I can add him.
He said that since I already removed him from my friends list, he will not ask me again...click to expand
Posted by AerialViewPosted by doubleramWhat's the rest of his placements?Posted by SmidgeThis aqua I am dealing with does have a big ego and is very proud tooPosted by AerialViewAn aquarius wrote that, clearly... Aquas have a bigger ego than us. 😝Posted by SmidgeBut we do KNOW 😎Posted by AerialViewYeah, I'm not like aquas who pretend they know shet. 😉Posted by SmidgeSo honest 😀Posted by AerialViewI don't really have much knowledge in that area 🙄Posted by SmidgeI've never seen you giving relationship advises hehe 😜Posted by AerialViewShe probably wants less bias advice. 😜Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
I KNOW is ours 😎
I told him to send me a friend request on insta again so I can add him.
He said that since I already removed him from my friends list, he will not ask me again...click to expand
I wish I knew
I think I would have enough patience for him, but I would need a sign that there is some sort of interest from him
Posted by doubleramHave you apologized for removing him?Posted by AerialViewPosted by doubleramWhat's the rest of his placements?Posted by SmidgeThis aqua I am dealing with does have a big ego and is very proud tooPosted by AerialViewAn aquarius wrote that, clearly... Aquas have a bigger ego than us. 😝Posted by SmidgeBut we do KNOW 😎Posted by AerialViewYeah, I'm not like aquas who pretend they know shet. 😉Posted by SmidgeSo honest 😀Posted by AerialViewI don't really have much knowledge in that area 🙄Posted by SmidgeI've never seen you giving relationship advises hehe 😜Posted by AerialViewShe probably wants less bias advice. 😜Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
I KNOW is ours 😎
I told him to send me a friend request on insta again so I can add him.
He said that since I already removed him from my friends list, he will not ask me again...
I wish I knew
I think I would have enough patience for him, but I would need a sign that there is some sort of interest from him
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Posted by AerialViewApologized for removing him?Posted by doubleramHave you apologized for removing him?Posted by AerialViewPosted by doubleramWhat's the rest of his placements?Posted by SmidgeThis aqua I am dealing with does have a big ego and is very proud tooPosted by AerialViewAn aquarius wrote that, clearly... Aquas have a bigger ego than us. 😝Posted by SmidgeBut we do KNOW 😎Posted by AerialViewYeah, I'm not like aquas who pretend they know shet. 😉Posted by SmidgeSo honest 😀Posted by AerialViewI don't really have much knowledge in that area 🙄Posted by SmidgeI've never seen you giving relationship advises hehe 😜Posted by AerialViewShe probably wants less bias advice. 😜Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
I KNOW is ours 😎
I told him to send me a friend request on insta again so I can add him.
He said that since I already removed him from my friends list, he will not ask me again...
I wish I knew
I think I would have enough patience for him, but I would need a sign that there is some sort of interest from him
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Did he apologize for not talking to me for 2 days right after I sent him my insta details.
Not talking to someone for 2 days is fine, but I feel like after someone gives you access to something personal is... insensitive. At the time I took it as him disliking me
anyway, I dont think this is the matter cause he came back talking to me after that, we met after that and we've been talking since then
He is just so ... static
Posted by doubleramWell he won't ask your insta friend request again till you apologize I think.Posted by AerialViewApologized for removing him?Posted by doubleramHave you apologized for removing him?Posted by AerialViewPosted by doubleramWhat's the rest of his placements?Posted by SmidgeThis aqua I am dealing with does have a big ego and is very proud tooPosted by AerialViewAn aquarius wrote that, clearly... Aquas have a bigger ego than us. 😝Posted by SmidgeBut we do KNOW 😎Posted by AerialViewYeah, I'm not like aquas who pretend they know shet. 😉Posted by SmidgeSo honest 😀Posted by AerialViewI don't really have much knowledge in that area 🙄Posted by SmidgeI've never seen you giving relationship advises hehe 😜Posted by AerialViewShe probably wants less bias advice. 😜Posted by STILL@smidge please guide this fellow ram escape the Aquarius' maze safely 😜
@AerialView get your ass in here! 😜
I KNOW is ours 😎
I told him to send me a friend request on insta again so I can add him.
He said that since I already removed him from my friends list, he will not ask me again...
I wish I knew
I think I would have enough patience for him, but I would need a sign that there is some sort of interest from him
Did he apologize for not talking to me for 2 days right after I sent him my insta details.
Not talking to someone for 2 days is fine, but I feel like after someone gives you access to something personal is... insensitive. At the time I took it as him disliking me
anyway, I dont think this is the matter cause he came back talking to me after that, we met after that and we've been talking since then
He is just so ... staticclick to expand
Posted by SeleukosYes I see why this could appear as some sort of compliment fishing. In my head I was just trying to see if he had some sort of interest. It was still a very playful convo.Posted by doubleramOkay, but that's still some sort of compliment fishing and some Aquas don't react well to that.
I also tend do answers with a delay of days but mostly because I often forget to charge my phone etc. but that doesn't excuse his double standard about it.
Regarding the dates thing:
I wouldn't ask someone out if there is a slight possibility that I might have a bad day and be moody.
I wouldn't want to pull her down somehow. Not saying this is the case with him but it might be. Especially if he is mostly working all the time.
Possible solution: do a netflix and chill together to show him that you both can date even if he is down sometimes.click to expand
Also, I do understand that given his schedule he must be tired, but when I ask him what has he been doing, he always tell me that he was out somehow. So he does have time to invite me.
I would like him to be less static by initiating texting or by inviting me out.
Right now I dont see myself doing a "netflix and chill" kind of date with him
it's too early
My aries moon might make me want to text him without waiting for him to reach out to me first....
Posted by SeleukosYes, but I am also a human being, and I dont wan't to chase someone that has no interest in me you knowPosted by doubleramJust do it then.
My aries moon might make me want to text him without waiting for him to reach out to me first....
Trying to play, maipulate or control Aquas only backfires.
Be what you are and go for it and it either works or it doesn't.
Everything else is a waste of time in the end.
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That would need some sort of sign from him
Really that is my main issue
Just apologize and you guys will be back on track again.
Posted by SeleukosPosted by doubleramGoing out for himself is something else than going out with you.Posted by SeleukosYes I see why this could appear as some sort of compliment fishing. In my head I was just trying to see if he had some sort of interest. It was still a very playful convo.Posted by doubleramOkay, but that's still some sort of compliment fishing and some Aquas don't react well to that.
I also tend do answers with a delay of days but mostly because I often forget to charge my phone etc. but that doesn't excuse his double standard about it.
Regarding the dates thing:
I wouldn't ask someone out if there is a slight possibility that I might have a bad day and be moody.
I wouldn't want to pull her down somehow. Not saying this is the case with him but it might be. Especially if he is mostly working all the time.
Possible solution: do a netflix and chill together to show him that you both can date even if he is down sometimes.
Also, I do understand that given his schedule he must be tired, but when I ask him what has he been doing, he always tell me that he was out somehow. So he does have time to invite me.
I would like him to be less static by initiating texting or by inviting me out.
Right now I dont see myself doing a "netflix and chill" kind of date with him
it's too early
It might not be the relaxation he needs at this point.
I don't think it's ever too early for movies and chill.
Put a dinner prior to it and keep things calm and relaxed.click to expand
I have already tried to invite him though
1st attempt > He told me he had planned to go to a stand up comedy show but he missed it because of work
So I asked if he was inviting me
He replied 'I would like to, but you know I have not control over my week days schedule'
2nd attempt > I asked him to meet after school so we can have a drink.
He was already invited to a friend's house to celebrate a baby birth
3rd attempt > He tells me he wanna go out but feels lazy too
I text "let's use this as an occasion to have our 2nd date, let's go for a drink"
He texts me that he would rather go to the movies
And then 50mn later he texts me "not today, let's do this another day"
He has a big ego, but I have one too. I don't know if you guys see my point.
Posted by SeleukosWhat you mean is that I would have to put my ego to the side and chase him up til he shows interest (or I get tired of this )?Posted by doubleramCompletly understandable.Posted by SeleukosYes, but I am also a human being, and I dont wan't to chase someone that has no interest in me you knowPosted by doubleramJust do it then.
My aries moon might make me want to text him without waiting for him to reach out to me first....
Trying to play, maipulate or control Aquas only backfires.
Be what you are and go for it and it either works or it doesn't.
Everything else is a waste of time in the end.
That would need some sort of sign from him
Really that is my main issue
That's why I stated in the first post that you have to decide for yourself if you want to deal with this or not.
It's your decision if you want to have a variation of trade war or do you make a leap of faith.click to expand
Would that work with an aqua??
Posted by AerialViewI dont want to apologise to him.
Just apologize and you guys will be back on track again.
Plus most of our contact happened after this insta drama, I feel like we are past this
but maybe I am mistaken
I think this is just the personality of an aqua man. They are hot and cold. Cold can be due to their busyness or because they aren’t totally into you. Or both. What’s your gut say?
“My aqua” is the same exact way
“My aqua” is the same exact way
Posted by pinkbird03I feel like there might be some interest, I feel like he enjo the attention, and that he will take it all from me without showing any interest until he has to.
I think this is just the personality of an aqua man. They are hot and cold. Cold can be due to their busyness or because they aren’t totally into you. Or both. What’s your gut say?
“My aqua” is the same exact way
Reading the advice given by @AerialView and @Seleukos, I feel like moving on might be the solution. If he is interested he does have my number so he will contact me like he did in the past.
I don't know if telling him that I dont like his ways would be a good idea since I dont think I am in the position to do so.
Posted by doubleramThat’s what I’m doing. They will reach out if they are truly interested. The chase gets boring when it’s the same pattern. If you tell him you don’t like his ways, he will most likely get butthurt and I don’t think you want to burn bridges in case there’s a chance in the future. Good luck to you!Posted by pinkbird03I feel like there might be some interest, I feel like he enjo the attention, and that he will take it all from me without showing any interest until he has to.
I think this is just the personality of an aqua man. They are hot and cold. Cold can be due to their busyness or because they aren’t totally into you. Or both. What’s your gut say?
“My aqua” is the same exact way
Reading the advice given by @AerialView and @Seleukos, I feel like moving on might be the solution. If he is interested he does have my number so he will contact me like he did in the past.
I don't know if telling him that I dont like his ways would be a good idea since I dont think I am in the position to do so.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Thank you, good luck to you too!!Posted by doubleramThat’s what I’m doing. They will reach out if they are truly interested. The chase gets boring when it’s the same pattern. If you tell him you don’t like his ways, he will most likely get butthurt and I don’t think you want to burn bridges in case there’s a chance in the future. Good luck to you!Posted by pinkbird03I feel like there might be some interest, I feel like he enjo the attention, and that he will take it all from me without showing any interest until he has to.
I think this is just the personality of an aqua man. They are hot and cold. Cold can be due to their busyness or because they aren’t totally into you. Or both. What’s your gut say?
“My aqua” is the same exact way
Reading the advice given by @AerialView and @Seleukos, I feel like moving on might be the solution. If he is interested he does have my number so he will contact me like he did in the past.
I don't know if telling him that I dont like his ways would be a good idea since I dont think I am in the position to do so.
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Posted by doubleramPosted by pinkbird03Thank you, good luck to you too!!Posted by doubleramThat’s what I’m doing. They will reach out if they are truly interested. The chase gets boring when it’s the same pattern. If you tell him you don’t like his ways, he will most likely get butthurt and I don’t think you want to burn bridges in case there’s a chance in the future. Good luck to you!Posted by pinkbird03I feel like there might be some interest, I feel like he enjo the attention, and that he will take it all from me without showing any interest until he has to.
I think this is just the personality of an aqua man. They are hot and cold. Cold can be due to their busyness or because they aren’t totally into you. Or both. What’s your gut say?
“My aqua” is the same exact way
Reading the advice given by @AerialView and @Seleukos, I feel like moving on might be the solution. If he is interested he does have my number so he will contact me like he did in the past.
I don't know if telling him that I dont like his ways would be a good idea since I dont think I am in the position to do so.
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Thanks! Same to you!
Posted by SeleukosI don't know if this is definitive yet. But as of now, I would say I dont feel like talking to him.Posted by doubleramMoving on isn't the best solution but is seems to be what you are gearing yourself for.Posted by pinkbird03I feel like there might be some interest, I feel like he enjo the attention, and that he will take it all from me without showing any interest until he has to.
I think this is just the personality of an aqua man. They are hot and cold. Cold can be due to their busyness or because they aren’t totally into you. Or both. What’s your gut say?
“My aqua” is the same exact way
Reading the advice given by @AerialView and @Seleukos, I feel like moving on might be the solution. If he is interested he does have my number so he will contact me like he did in the past.
I don't know if telling him that I dont like his ways would be a good idea since I dont think I am in the position to do so.
my take would to focus on your own and talk/interact with him whenever you want to and just leave him besides that.
Then it's up to him to make progress or let things run out.click to expand
But maybe in 3 weeks or less or more, I will want to.
Or even better he will come to me.
I dont necessarily think that this is the end of our interaction, but this is just how things are now
a big question mark
Posted by SeleukosBut I do see your point though, I read a lot about how we are supposed to be their friend first.Posted by doubleramMoving on isn't the best solution but is seems to be what you are gearing yourself for.Posted by pinkbird03I feel like there might be some interest, I feel like he enjo the attention, and that he will take it all from me without showing any interest until he has to.
I think this is just the personality of an aqua man. They are hot and cold. Cold can be due to their busyness or because they aren’t totally into you. Or both. What’s your gut say?
“My aqua” is the same exact way
Reading the advice given by @AerialView and @Seleukos, I feel like moving on might be the solution. If he is interested he does have my number so he will contact me like he did in the past.
I don't know if telling him that I dont like his ways would be a good idea since I dont think I am in the position to do so.
my take would to focus on your own and talk/interact with him whenever you want to and just leave him besides that.
Then it's up to him to make progress or let things run out.click to expand
Posted by Lioness18881that sounds like anyone though.
Always look at their actions and behaviour, not their words. They'll always be polite and nice because they have really good control over their emotions and can detatch from them to communicate on an impersonal level.
If they are distant it's because you cause more stress than peace. If their experience with you leaves them with a positive feeling, they will come back for it. If when they see you, or communicate with you, there's an argument or criticism, they will create space.
If they like you enough, they will make an effort to communicate and resolve problems and reassure your insecurities. When they stop trying, they're on their way out. If you can change their perception of you, you can fix it. But girls are too emotionally charged when upset and Aquarius can pick up on it, even if you try to hide it.
The only thing you can do is be yourself, if that's not something he can appreciate, move on.
Posted by SeleukosIt is probably true.Posted by doubleramI know that's why I suggested to do what you want.Posted by SeleukosI don't know if this is definitive yet. But as of now, I would say I dont feel like talking to him.Posted by doubleramMoving on isn't the best solution but is seems to be what you are gearing yourself for.Posted by pinkbird03I feel like there might be some interest, I feel like he enjo the attention, and that he will take it all from me without showing any interest until he has to.
I think this is just the personality of an aqua man. They are hot and cold. Cold can be due to their busyness or because they aren’t totally into you. Or both. What’s your gut say?
“My aqua” is the same exact way
Reading the advice given by @AerialView and @Seleukos, I feel like moving on might be the solution. If he is interested he does have my number so he will contact me like he did in the past.
I don't know if telling him that I dont like his ways would be a good idea since I dont think I am in the position to do so.
my take would to focus on your own and talk/interact with him whenever you want to and just leave him besides that.
Then it's up to him to make progress or let things run out.
But maybe in 3 weeks or less or more, I will want to.
Or even better he will come to me.
I dont necessarily think that this is the end of our interaction, but this is just how things are now
a big question mark
It's about your happiness in the end.
This also works the best in my experience because it breaks this retarded circle of control and power games to some degree.click to expand
It is probably wht will happen
I wanna talk to him again, I will
But I dont want to, I wont
Makes things less complicated
Posted by WittyGem88You know where you stand with the first one
Aries — too aggressive
Aqua —- will reject, build a wall and ignore
Posted by Lioness18881Posted by lisabethur8They are like everyone else in a lot of ways. But unlike most people, Aqua won't confront what bothers them and come out and say it. They show it instead. Through detatchment and space.Posted by Lioness18881that sounds like anyone though.
Always look at their actions and behaviour, not their words. They'll always be polite and nice because they have really good control over their emotions and can detatch from them to communicate on an impersonal level.
If they are distant it's because you cause more stress than peace. If their experience with you leaves them with a positive feeling, they will come back for it. If when they see you, or communicate with you, there's an argument or criticism, they will create space.
If they like you enough, they will make an effort to communicate and resolve problems and reassure your insecurities. When they stop trying, they're on their way out. If you can change their perception of you, you can fix it. But girls are too emotionally charged when upset and Aquarius can pick up on it, even if you try to hide it.
The only thing you can do is be yourself, if that's not something he can appreciate, move on.
Other signs will usually come out and say what you do wrong in words by being critical. They will ignore you and cut you off. But Aqua guys operate differently. They can maintain calm because they aren't emotionally charged.click to expand
oh if something is bothering me i will tell my husband right away. i dont like being upset...we are very very open with eachother. i never hold anything in.
i dont have much experience with aqua men except the one that was not a good one.
but he was very confrontational. thats why he was able to reach success easily. cause he just went after what he wanted. if he was confident in his abilities, there was no stopping him.
Posted by WittyGem88In this situation I have never been agressive
Aries — too aggressive
Aqua —- will reject, build a wall and ignore
Posted by WittyGem88Dunno, I am the kind of person with whom you need to be directPosted by doubleramHe is already rejecting you. How many times does he have to say No? :/Posted by SeleukosPosted by doubleramGoing out for himself is something else than going out with you.Posted by SeleukosYes I see why this could appear as some sort of compliment fishing. In my head I was just trying to see if he had some sort of interest. It was still a very playful convo.Posted by doubleramOkay, but that's still some sort of compliment fishing and some Aquas don't react well to that.
I also tend do answers with a delay of days but mostly because I often forget to charge my phone etc. but that doesn't excuse his double standard about it.
Regarding the dates thing:
I wouldn't ask someone out if there is a slight possibility that I might have a bad day and be moody.
I wouldn't want to pull her down somehow. Not saying this is the case with him but it might be. Especially if he is mostly working all the time.
Possible solution: do a netflix and chill together to show him that you both can date even if he is down sometimes.
Also, I do understand that given his schedule he must be tired, but when I ask him what has he been doing, he always tell me that he was out somehow. So he does have time to invite me.
I would like him to be less static by initiating texting or by inviting me out.
Right now I dont see myself doing a "netflix and chill" kind of date with him
it's too early
It might not be the relaxation he needs at this point.
I don't think it's ever too early for movies and chill.
Put a dinner prior to it and keep things calm and relaxed.
I have already tried to invite him though
1st attempt > He told me he had planned to go to a stand up comedy show but he missed it because of work
So I asked if he was inviting me
He replied 'I would like to, but you know I have not control over my week days schedule'
2nd attempt > I asked him to meet after school so we can have a drink.
He was already invited to a friend's house to celebrate a baby birth
3rd attempt > He tells me he wanna go out but feels lazy too
I text "let's use this as an occasion to have our 2nd date, let's go for a drink"
He texts me that he would rather go to the movies
And then 50mn later he texts me "not today, let's do this another day"
He has a big ego, but I have one too. I don't know if you guys see my point.click to expand
If I invite you and you tell me that you are not available, that is exactly what I will believe
If I invite you and you tell me that you have not interest in going further than a friendship, that what I will believe
I guess it an aries thing, or maybe it's just me;
Posted by Lioness18881Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Lioness18881Posted by lisabethur8They are like everyone else in a lot of ways. But unlike most people, Aqua won't confront what bothers them and come out and say it. They show it instead. Through detatchment and space.Posted by Lioness18881that sounds like anyone though.
Always look at their actions and behaviour, not their words. They'll always be polite and nice because they have really good control over their emotions and can detatch from them to communicate on an impersonal level.
If they are distant it's because you cause more stress than peace. If their experience with you leaves them with a positive feeling, they will come back for it. If when they see you, or communicate with you, there's an argument or criticism, they will create space.
If they like you enough, they will make an effort to communicate and resolve problems and reassure your insecurities. When they stop trying, they're on their way out. If you can change their perception of you, you can fix it. But girls are too emotionally charged when upset and Aquarius can pick up on it, even if you try to hide it.
The only thing you can do is be yourself, if that's not something he can appreciate, move on.
Other signs will usually come out and say what you do wrong in words by being critical. They will ignore you and cut you off. But Aqua guys operate differently. They can maintain calm because they aren't emotionally charged.
oh if something is bothering me i will tell my husband right away. i dont like being upset...we are very very open with eachother. i never hold anything in.
i dont have much experience with aqua men except the one that was not a good one.
but he was very confrontational. thats why he was able to reach success easily. cause he just went after what he wanted. if he was confident in his abilities, there was no stopping him.
It probably doesn't apply to long term. But i think in the initial stages, they're observing and not as emotionally invested so it's probably different. When it's love and stable, i think they try harder to resolve things. My exaqua was never critical of me but I didn't really do much to piss him off. I only made him mad 2 times. First time he left and waited at my front door lol. Then i went to lock the door but i opened it first and he was still standing there so i made him come back in. 2nd time, i told him he treats me like shit so he left. Then i messaged him the next day and we were ok again.
He's confrontational with other people and throws things and yells at them and used to get into fights but he never said a bad word or lost his cool with me. He was always really calm. But i don't think Aquas are critical of others.
Do you lose your cool at your husband and tell him you always do this and that! And be critical?
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nope, cause my hubs won't take it. lol he dont like nagging women i can tell.
and that's not really my nature. i dont demand much from him. and he doesn't demand much from me.
it's really easy going to be honest.
i think in our early stages of marriage, i am bad at cooking and cleaning. and i did his clothes badly in the wash and shrunk his expensive cashmere and wool sweaters that i bought for him and my parents bought for him lol and he loves them and uses them alot.
but he doesn't lose his temper with me. only if i'm not prepared to get ready to go to an important event,
and i have to be ready cause he HATES being late for anything (Virgo influence) so i'm always ahead...
i'm setting the clocks and time schedule for important stuff.
i even shrunk my own sweaters. I looked up how to stretch them back though DIY stretch 'em back sweaters...
Posted by vixen14Maybe I am more into him than he is into me. I thought we already clicked maybe I was wrong.
He’s not that into you, that’s why he’s not giving you much. All you can do is try and be patient and hope you both “click”. That’s as all I can offer for advice.
I will distance myself for a bit, and if I still feel like talking to him I will
I guess I would have 'to unclick myself' and have no expectations from him
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