Are his feelings getting deeper?

I hope someone can give me some insight on my aquarius fwb. Currently we have been fwb for like 6 months. The past 3 months we havent seen each other or had sex due to busy schedules and him cancelling plans last minute. All of a sudden my fwb starts telling me he really likes me and wants me to himself but doesnt know if he can trust me. Because he doesnt trust women. He also told me he loved me, this was all through text tho. I didnt really respond to that. We’ve been texting non-stop for like 2-3 weeks now. I’m a believe it when i see it girl so this weekend we were supposed to meet again because he wanted to talk about everything and see me because he misses me. I was okay with that, but he didnt show up? He was texting me the whole time that he is on his way, even calling me, but didnt show up. This is the third time in the last 3 months, so i told him i’m not gonna do this anymore. I dont understand why he makes plans to see me but never follows thru. Can anyone please tell me why he is acting this way? I’m so confused.

Yes. He told you.

I think he thinks that you are not serious about him

He is Contemplating if he likes you based on a series of patterns, objective ideas, personal desires, your desires etc. So if you haven't made things clear for him then it makes sense why he hasn't sealed anything.

As for why he isn't being stable with you, that is an individual trait. not Aquarius.

Posted by Gemgyal

I hope someone can give me some insight on my aquarius fwb. Currently we have been fwb for like 6 months. The past 3 months we havent seen each other or had sex due to busy schedules and him cancelling plans last minute. All of a sudden my fwb starts telling me he really likes me and wants me to himself but doesnt know if he can trust me. Because he doesnt trust women. He also told me he loved me, this was all through text tho. I didnt really respond to that. We’ve been texting non-stop for like 2-3 weeks now. I’m a believe it when i see it girl so this weekend we were supposed to meet again because he wanted to talk about everything and see me because he misses me. I was okay with that, but he didnt show up? He was texting me the whole time that he is on his way, even calling me, but didnt show up. This is the third time in the last 3 months, so i told him i’m not gonna do this anymore. I dont understand why he makes plans to see me but never follows thru. Can anyone please tell me why he is acting this way? I’m so confused.

You're confused because you keep doing the same thing expecting a different result.

He keeps doing it cause you keep accepting it.

He knows he can get away with the absolute bare minimum and still get pussie

@pisceswoman123 why do you say he thinks i’m not serious with him? We never spoke about being serious, he just recently mentioned it and we havent spoken about it face2face yet

@candi3bb2 thx for replying i guess so. He even told me that sometimes he tests me? I think its best we talk about it face 2 face and figure it out. I dont know if i want to be more than fwb to be honest

Talk to him face to face.

Not everything should be mentioned in a text message.

Its almost 6 months for me with the Scorpio dude I've been dealing with in the past months.

I havent mention anything about him, cause it wasn't the trouble to mention the major migraines of a daily dose of confusions.

Other people would implement their opinions of how you explain your story. Do your part and communicate.

I am currently best friends with the Scorpio now. I kept walking away from him and he regrets his miscommunication and actions everytime I ignore him for a few days. Cause I have no time for that bullshat

Posted by Gemgyal

@pisceswoman123 why do you say he thinks i’m not serious with him? We never spoke about being serious, he just recently mentioned it and we havent spoken about it face2face yet

“All of a sudden my fwb starts telling me he really likes me and wants me to himself but doesnt know if he can trust me. Because he doesnt trust women. He also told me he loved me, this was all through text tho. I didnt really respond to that”

It seems to me he wants to get into the next level and he is unsure about you. He sounds scared of his feelings

Posted by Gemgyal

@pisceswoman123 why do you say he thinks i’m not serious with him? We never spoke about being serious, he just recently mentioned it and we havent spoken about it face2face yet

“All of a sudden my fwb starts telling me he really likes me and wants me to himself but doesnt know if he can trust me. Because he doesnt trust women. He also told me he loved me, this was all through text tho. I didnt really respond to that”

It seems to me he wants to get into the next level and he is unsure about you. He sounds scared of his feelings

he doesn’t trust women lol.. who does he think he is? he wants you to prove yourself by the sound of it - but he must think saying he loves you is all it takes on his part. but he can’t even make time for you

Set his house on fire

Every guy wants his fwb to be „his“. A man saying he doesn‘t want to share you or dislikes other guys hittin on you simply doesn‘t want to share his free pussy. I mean why would he, you could catch stds from someone else, you could drop his sorry ass because some other dude does it better then him etc. no man wants to share a woman he is having sex with but that doesn‘t mean he actually wants you as a gf.

You deserve better girl

Posted by AquaNextDoor

Every guy wants his fwb to be „his“. A man saying he doesn‘t want to share you or dislikes other guys hittin on you simply doesn‘t want to share his free pussy. I mean why would he, you could catch stds from someone else, you could drop his sorry ass because some other dude does it better then him etc. no man wants to share a woman he is having sex with but that doesn‘t mean he actually wants you as a gf.

You deserve better girl

Why do you think that he doesn’t want her as a girlfriend if he is telling her that he loves her and that he wants her just for him.

I think he is behaving like that because she is not reciprocating and he is scared of his feelings.

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AquaNextDoor

Every guy wants his fwb to be „his“. A man saying he doesn‘t want to share you or dislikes other guys hittin on you simply doesn‘t want to share his free pussy. I mean why would he, you could catch stds from someone else, you could drop his sorry ass because some other dude does it better then him etc. no man wants to share a woman he is having sex with but that doesn‘t mean he actually wants you as a gf.

You deserve better girl

Why do you think that he doesn’t want her as a girlfriend if he is telling her that he loves her and that he wants her just for him.

I think he is behaving like that because she is not reciprocating and he is scared of his feelings.

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Because he doesn‘t follow his words. 3x no show up? Just because a man says I love you (it was all over txt, as far as I understood) and says he wants her for himself doesn‘t mean anything. No serious effort on his side so far. Just a lot of talk

What is it YOU want from this fwb?

STOP wasting time and giving energy to people who CONFUSE YOU 🙄 Period.

Posted by Sag898

Set his house on fire

Where will they fwb then? 🤔

@pisceswoman123 saw him last tuesday. When we were together it was real fun but he never mentioned any of the things he said through text. He didnt tell me he liked me and he didnt say anything about that. So i just let it slide. So the next day i messaged him asking him about all the things he said and he acted like he didnt know what I was talking about. He was really tryna avoid the conversation so i just let it be.So in between us talking i just made a joke about that he is in love with me and he replied with: no not really, but i really think you are fun and we have a great connection and you’re a good

Woman with a lot of goals. So i said huh? First you said you didnt want to be fwb and you want me to yourself but u cant trust me and now its not really? He doesnt want to reply to that so I’ve just let it be for now, cause its really getting annoying at this point. It looks like he’s downplaying his feelings for me and i’m just confused atm.

Posted by Gemgyal

I’m a believe it when i see it girl so this weekend we were supposed to meet again because he wanted to talk about everything and see me because he misses me. I was okay with that, but he didnt show up? He was texting me the whole time that he is on his way, even calling me, but didnt show up.

That right there tells me, he's bullshitting. The whole trust conversation is bullshit too. As Aquarius I do the lack of trust conversation because it's true BUT because I don't want to move forward if I like someone and truly want to make it work, I'll disappear all together (stupid yes) or suck up being scared and be there for said person. Move on but don't bother having the conversation with him.

Talking about feelings is sometimes scary for a lot of men. I think the aqua I like is scared to talk and act on his feelings. I think you’re best way is to show how much you care. I’ve planned two very special dates around his interests and I’m going to treat him. He only knows a few details so it’s a little bit of a surprise too 😁 would you do something like that?

Posted by pinkbird03

Talking about feelings is sometimes scary for a lot of men. I think the aqua I like is scared to talk and act on his feelings. I think you’re best way is to show how much you care. I’ve planned two very special dates around his interests and I’m going to treat him. He only knows a few details so it’s a little bit of a surprise too 😁 would you do something like that?

thanks for your reply. Yes, i think he is scared too, because now he is downplaying the whole thing and is now keeping his distance after we met last week. I would like to do something fun with him but because he wants space i’ve decided to let him be for a while..

Posted by Sag898

Set his house on fire

😱😱😂😂😂