SagGirl1124
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That's what I know i had a wrong move, he came in too strong and i just couldn't resist, i hesitated when he was asking me to be his gf, cause I knew that was way to fast... but he had all the skills and got me..
The first 2 weeks i was still very under control and didnt really acting too much into this, he was still crazy about me, but then the trips, i started to be panic since my experience, and oncething started tp be not the way it was, i would become that focus on this matter and trying to figure out what tge heck is going on and fix thing.... this time with this guy, i have been trying so hard to not letting myself out of control, that's why been typing a lot here the dxp
I have just sent him this message already- baby, let me know if you think you'll be well enough on wed be there for my first talk ever, that's something very important to me and i will be very happy to have my girlfriend there sees it and know more of what I'm doing in my life
Is it not a good idea ? Should I recall the message? He's sleeping already anyways
The first 2 weeks i was still very under control and didnt really acting too much into this, he was still crazy about me, but then the trips, i started to be panic since my experience, and oncething started tp be not the way it was, i would become that focus on this matter and trying to figure out what tge heck is going on and fix thing.... this time with this guy, i have been trying so hard to not letting myself out of control, that's why been typing a lot here the dxp
I have just sent him this message already- baby, let me know if you think you'll be well enough on wed be there for my first talk ever, that's something very important to me and i will be very happy to have my girlfriend there sees it and know more of what I'm doing in my life
Is it not a good idea ? Should I recall the message? He's sleeping already anyways
You already asked and he ignored you. That’s most likely a no.
My aqua also locked me down within a week. I think they get really excited in the beginning and then realize they don’t know you well enough to know if they still want what they thought they wanted.
My aqua also locked me down within a week. I think they get really excited in the beginning and then realize they don’t know you well enough to know if they still want what they thought they wanted.
Posted by CvurkooYes, won't send that for sure, just not sure if there will be chance to say it in personPosted by SagGirl1124Oh, no, please, dont send him that. speak in person.Posted by TimonTure.. I'm hoping i will see him and talk to him in person, but now for some reasons i feel like there's no chance...Posted by SagGirl1124You are who you are. If you're a person that needs a lot of communication you should be able to tell him that so he knows how you feel. There is no point pretending to be someone else because ultimately you want the person you're with to love you for you. Trying to be someone you're not and not being able to talk to the person that really should be the person that sees all of you will only lead to you feeling frustrated and angry at him. How can you be upset with him when you never communicated what you wanted and needed from him.Posted by TimonYes, he's had connection all these time and did update his Facebook with pictures mainly show his mother living overseas.Posted by SagGirl11242 weeks with no contact is a lot if you're in a relationship. But did he have internet where he was? Is he online often? Trying to see the bigger picture here. When I'm abroad I shut off data roaming if I'm outside Europe.Posted by TimonTrue... so anyhow yea he's back in town last night after 2 weeks of holidays with zero contact plus ignoring my 2 of important moment messages in 2 weeks and now only saying he's vomiting since last night but not replying if he's still showing up on Weds my first talk ever as promised ... that's mostly what you didn't read after last time you were here 🙂Posted by SagGirl1124I didn't read all your posts so maybe I'm missing something but if it's true that his toilet broke and he got food poisoned I would feel bad for him and maybe laugh a little too at his misfortune. 😆Posted by TimonThat's why, i don't feel like i can trust him now....Posted by SagGirl1124Leaking toilet and now vomiting. This guy really has some shitty problems lol. 😆
Now he finally replied said he's been vomiting since last night flew back and had to take sick leave for work today.
Will see, usually i believe whatever he said, but this time... i don't know if that's true or he just want me to shut up. Still replied him asking if visited doctor and maybe food poisoning ? (Sad face), that's all.
I don't know, really, i don't know....
I don't know how to be with him without trust/security issue
Also if I've been vomiting I wouldn't promise to go to an event in two days either. But I think you should be able to communicate with him in a calm way how his lack of communication makes you feel without accusing him of anything ofc. People are not mind readers. We all have different needs and you should be able to talk to him about it if you're in a relationship.
And I did see him online on whatsapp, not always but not just little time either.
But i didn't contact him at all in these 2 weeks during his trips, except his beach pictures i replied, and my on stage getting award pic that he ignored. Other than the trip was the toilet incident we were texting and he was asking for my help to find plumber, that's all. So I honestly have been giving him all the time all the freedom he needs.
I do really want to communicate with him about how i feel in these 2 weeks, of course calmly without accusing him, but everyone here the Aquarians seems really don't like this idea and think my boyfriend would think I'm crazy and not giving him space or freedom and that will just push him away...
I'm so just lost and really really upset, and feel like I'm useless and helpless...
First decide what you need from him and then communicate it to him. If he tells you that he can't meet those needs then you can either accept it or find someone that is better compatible with you.
I'm trying to prepare the message and will send him..What do you guys think of I message him this:
Hey baby, sorry you have been having all the issues and now even the food poisoning. I am sure my girlfriend will be recovered real fast.
I understand the last 2 weeks of holiday was really something you needed - I know it's never enough but hope it helped a bit for you to relax. I'm happy seeing you did enjoy it.
However, there is something i want you to help me understand, in the 2 weeks of holidays, maybe too soon to have such a big contrast on our communication before i even get to know my girlfriend enough, which took me some time to get used to, so, somehow I do feel like I'm being pushed away and not being wanted, especially when a congratulations from my boyfriend last weds would be the greatest gift after all, but didn't happen. And now you're sick, i understand maybe that's the reason you can't for sure if you're able to be there to support me on Wednesday to my first talk.
I am a Sagittarius, not sure if you lovely mom is the same, when I like one person I would have so much to give, and I like you, i said yes to be your boyfriend even i was having hesitation, cause I scared to be heartbroken, but I saw that you were being forward and so honest with me about everything, and always open and telling me how you feel and what you think and what you need, that's really something made me thought you're different and I can trust you.
Now, can you help me with this?
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Posted by pinkbird03Should I recall the message then...
You already asked and he ignored you. That’s most likely a no.
My aqua also locked me down within a week. I think they get really excited in the beginning and then realize they don’t know you well enough to know if they still want what they thought they wanted.
Posted by SagGirl1124At this point, no. You want to know. See how he responds.Posted by pinkbird03Should I recall the message then...
You already asked and he ignored you. That’s most likely a no.
My aqua also locked me down within a week. I think they get really excited in the beginning and then realize they don’t know you well enough to know if they still want what they thought they wanted.click to expand
Now i worried if that last message makes him feel like I'm pushing him....
Maybe i should just recall it....
Maybe i should just recall it....
Posted by SagGirl1124Don’t be afraid to be you. Don’t be afraid to walk on eggshells. Either he will like u for u or he won’t.
Now i worried if that last message makes him feel like I'm pushing him....
Maybe i should just recall it....
Posted by CvurkooI just don't want to ruin it even more with my wrong move...Posted by SagGirl1124try and see. You dont need to say it if he doesnt make himself available. Why? Because you are essentially going to say it because you want to see how he reacts and if there is a chance for the relationship. If you dont see him, take that as an implicit confirmation that there is no future for you.Posted by CvurkooYes, won't send that for sure, just not sure if there will be chance to say it in personPosted by SagGirl1124Oh, no, please, dont send him that. speak in person.Posted by TimonTure.. I'm hoping i will see him and talk to him in person, but now for some reasons i feel like there's no chance...Posted by SagGirl1124You are who you are. If you're a person that needs a lot of communication you should be able to tell him that so he knows how you feel. There is no point pretending to be someone else because ultimately you want the person you're with to love you for you. Trying to be someone you're not and not being able to talk to the person that really should be the person that sees all of you will only lead to you feeling frustrated and angry at him. How can you be upset with him when you never communicated what you wanted and needed from him.Posted by TimonYes, he's had connection all these time and did update his Facebook with pictures mainly show his mother living overseas.Posted by SagGirl11242 weeks with no contact is a lot if you're in a relationship. But did he have internet where he was? Is he online often? Trying to see the bigger picture here. When I'm abroad I shut off data roaming if I'm outside Europe.Posted by TimonTrue... so anyhow yea he's back in town last night after 2 weeks of holidays with zero contact plus ignoring my 2 of important moment messages in 2 weeks and now only saying he's vomiting since last night but not replying if he's still showing up on Weds my first talk ever as promised ... that's mostly what you didn't read after last time you were here 🙂Posted by SagGirl1124I didn't read all your posts so maybe I'm missing something but if it's true that his toilet broke and he got food poisoned I would feel bad for him and maybe laugh a little too at his misfortune. 😆Posted by TimonThat's why, i don't feel like i can trust him now....Posted by SagGirl1124Leaking toilet and now vomiting. This guy really has some shitty problems lol. 😆
Now he finally replied said he's been vomiting since last night flew back and had to take sick leave for work today.
Will see, usually i believe whatever he said, but this time... i don't know if that's true or he just want me to shut up. Still replied him asking if visited doctor and maybe food poisoning ? (Sad face), that's all.
I don't know, really, i don't know....
I don't know how to be with him without trust/security issue
Also if I've been vomiting I wouldn't promise to go to an event in two days either. But I think you should be able to communicate with him in a calm way how his lack of communication makes you feel without accusing him of anything ofc. People are not mind readers. We all have different needs and you should be able to talk to him about it if you're in a relationship.
And I did see him online on whatsapp, not always but not just little time either.
But i didn't contact him at all in these 2 weeks during his trips, except his beach pictures i replied, and my on stage getting award pic that he ignored. Other than the trip was the toilet incident we were texting and he was asking for my help to find plumber, that's all. So I honestly have been giving him all the time all the freedom he needs.
I do really want to communicate with him about how i feel in these 2 weeks, of course calmly without accusing him, but everyone here the Aquarians seems really don't like this idea and think my boyfriend would think I'm crazy and not giving him space or freedom and that will just push him away...
I'm so just lost and really really upset, and feel like I'm useless and helpless...
First decide what you need from him and then communicate it to him. If he tells you that he can't meet those needs then you can either accept it or find someone that is better compatible with you.
I'm trying to prepare the message and will send him..What do you guys think of I message him this:
Hey baby, sorry you have been having all the issues and now even the food poisoning. I am sure my girlfriend will be recovered real fast.
I understand the last 2 weeks of holiday was really something you needed - I know it's never enough but hope it helped a bit for you to relax. I'm happy seeing you did enjoy it.
However, there is something i want you to help me understand, in the 2 weeks of holidays, maybe too soon to have such a big contrast on our communication before i even get to know my girlfriend enough, which took me some time to get used to, so, somehow I do feel like I'm being pushed away and not being wanted, especially when a congratulations from my boyfriend last weds would be the greatest gift after all, but didn't happen. And now you're sick, i understand maybe that's the reason you can't for sure if you're able to be there to support me on Wednesday to my first talk.
I am a Sagittarius, not sure if you lovely mom is the same, when I like one person I would have so much to give, and I like you, i said yes to be your boyfriend even i was having hesitation, cause I scared to be heartbroken, but I saw that you were being forward and so honest with me about everything, and always open and telling me how you feel and what you think and what you need, that's really something made me thought you're different and I can trust you.
Now, can you help me with this?
What are your placements btw?click to expand
I don't know how what are my placement, how to find out
Posted by SagGirl1124Posted by CvurkooI just don't want to ruin it even more with my wrong move...Posted by SagGirl1124try and see. You dont need to say it if he doesnt make himself available. Why? Because you are essentially going to say it because you want to see how he reacts and if there is a chance for the relationship. If you dont see him, take that as an implicit confirmation that there is no future for you.Posted by CvurkooYes, won't send that for sure, just not sure if there will be chance to say it in personPosted by SagGirl1124Oh, no, please, dont send him that. speak in person.Posted by TimonTure.. I'm hoping i will see him and talk to him in person, but now for some reasons i feel like there's no chance...Posted by SagGirl1124You are who you are. If you're a person that needs a lot of communication you should be able to tell him that so he knows how you feel. There is no point pretending to be someone else because ultimately you want the person you're with to love you for you. Trying to be someone you're not and not being able to talk to the person that really should be the person that sees all of you will only lead to you feeling frustrated and angry at him. How can you be upset with him when you never communicated what you wanted and needed from him.Posted by TimonYes, he's had connection all these time and did update his Facebook with pictures mainly show his mother living overseas.Posted by SagGirl11242 weeks with no contact is a lot if you're in a relationship. But did he have internet where he was? Is he online often? Trying to see the bigger picture here. When I'm abroad I shut off data roaming if I'm outside Europe.Posted by TimonTrue... so anyhow yea he's back in town last night after 2 weeks of holidays with zero contact plus ignoring my 2 of important moment messages in 2 weeks and now only saying he's vomiting since last night but not replying if he's still showing up on Weds my first talk ever as promised ... that's mostly what you didn't read after last time you were here 🙂Posted by SagGirl1124I didn't read all your posts so maybe I'm missing something but if it's true that his toilet broke and he got food poisoned I would feel bad for him and maybe laugh a little too at his misfortune. 😆Posted by TimonThat's why, i don't feel like i can trust him now....Posted by SagGirl1124Leaking toilet and now vomiting. This guy really has some shitty problems lol. 😆
Now he finally replied said he's been vomiting since last night flew back and had to take sick leave for work today.
Will see, usually i believe whatever he said, but this time... i don't know if that's true or he just want me to shut up. Still replied him asking if visited doctor and maybe food poisoning ? (Sad face), that's all.
I don't know, really, i don't know....
I don't know how to be with him without trust/security issue
Also if I've been vomiting I wouldn't promise to go to an event in two days either. But I think you should be able to communicate with him in a calm way how his lack of communication makes you feel without accusing him of anything ofc. People are not mind readers. We all have different needs and you should be able to talk to him about it if you're in a relationship.
And I did see him online on whatsapp, not always but not just little time either.
But i didn't contact him at all in these 2 weeks during his trips, except his beach pictures i replied, and my on stage getting award pic that he ignored. Other than the trip was the toilet incident we were texting and he was asking for my help to find plumber, that's all. So I honestly have been giving him all the time all the freedom he needs.
I do really want to communicate with him about how i feel in these 2 weeks, of course calmly without accusing him, but everyone here the Aquarians seems really don't like this idea and think my boyfriend would think I'm crazy and not giving him space or freedom and that will just push him away...
I'm so just lost and really really upset, and feel like I'm useless and helpless...
First decide what you need from him and then communicate it to him. If he tells you that he can't meet those needs then you can either accept it or find someone that is better compatible with you.
I'm trying to prepare the message and will send him..What do you guys think of I message him this:
Hey baby, sorry you have been having all the issues and now even the food poisoning. I am sure my girlfriend will be recovered real fast.
I understand the last 2 weeks of holiday was really something you needed - I know it's never enough but hope it helped a bit for you to relax. I'm happy seeing you did enjoy it.
However, there is something i want you to help me understand, in the 2 weeks of holidays, maybe too soon to have such a big contrast on our communication before i even get to know my girlfriend enough, which took me some time to get used to, so, somehow I do feel like I'm being pushed away and not being wanted, especially when a congratulations from my boyfriend last weds would be the greatest gift after all, but didn't happen. And now you're sick, i understand maybe that's the reason you can't for sure if you're able to be there to support me on Wednesday to my first talk.
I am a Sagittarius, not sure if you lovely mom is the same, when I like one person I would have so much to give, and I like you, i said yes to be your boyfriend even i was having hesitation, cause I scared to be heartbroken, but I saw that you were being forward and so honest with me about everything, and always open and telling me how you feel and what you think and what you need, that's really something made me thought you're different and I can trust you.
Now, can you help me with this?
What are your placements btw?
I don't know how what are my placement, how to find outclick to expand
Go to astro.com/Free horoscopes/Natal charts, ascendant, input your birth data and you will get your chart.
Posted by CvurkooI wasn't like this at the beginning, i was more self centered and he mentioned he saw that I'm a person who love myself enough and liked how i am, but whenever thing doesn't go the way it was then I will start to be panic and rush to find every possibility to control it.. cause there's always thing i had it but somehow suddenly just slipped away, not just relationship but everything, that's really something makes me out of control...Posted by SagGirl1124Are you sure you are ready for a relationship? You have to love yourself first, and it seems like you are afraid how you'd be perceived which is a sign you are not loving yourself much.Posted by CvurkooI just don't want to ruin it even more with my wrong move...Posted by SagGirl1124try and see. You dont need to say it if he doesnt make himself available. Why? Because you are essentially going to say it because you want to see how he reacts and if there is a chance for the relationship. If you dont see him, take that as an implicit confirmation that there is no future for you.Posted by CvurkooYes, won't send that for sure, just not sure if there will be chance to say it in personPosted by SagGirl1124Oh, no, please, dont send him that. speak in person.Posted by TimonTure.. I'm hoping i will see him and talk to him in person, but now for some reasons i feel like there's no chance...Posted by SagGirl1124You are who you are. If you're a person that needs a lot of communication you should be able to tell him that so he knows how you feel. There is no point pretending to be someone else because ultimately you want the person you're with to love you for you. Trying to be someone you're not and not being able to talk to the person that really should be the person that sees all of you will only lead to you feeling frustrated and angry at him. How can you be upset with him when you never communicated what you wanted and needed from him.Posted by TimonYes, he's had connection all these time and did update his Facebook with pictures mainly show his mother living overseas.Posted by SagGirl11242 weeks with no contact is a lot if you're in a relationship. But did he have internet where he was? Is he online often? Trying to see the bigger picture here. When I'm abroad I shut off data roaming if I'm outside Europe.Posted by TimonTrue... so anyhow yea he's back in town last night after 2 weeks of holidays with zero contact plus ignoring my 2 of important moment messages in 2 weeks and now only saying he's vomiting since last night but not replying if he's still showing up on Weds my first talk ever as promised ... that's mostly what you didn't read after last time you were here 🙂Posted by SagGirl1124I didn't read all your posts so maybe I'm missing something but if it's true that his toilet broke and he got food poisoned I would feel bad for him and maybe laugh a little too at his misfortune. 😆Posted by TimonThat's why, i don't feel like i can trust him now....Posted by SagGirl1124Leaking toilet and now vomiting. This guy really has some shitty problems lol. 😆
Now he finally replied said he's been vomiting since last night flew back and had to take sick leave for work today.
Will see, usually i believe whatever he said, but this time... i don't know if that's true or he just want me to shut up. Still replied him asking if visited doctor and maybe food poisoning ? (Sad face), that's all.
I don't know, really, i don't know....
I don't know how to be with him without trust/security issue
Also if I've been vomiting I wouldn't promise to go to an event in two days either. But I think you should be able to communicate with him in a calm way how his lack of communication makes you feel without accusing him of anything ofc. People are not mind readers. We all have different needs and you should be able to talk to him about it if you're in a relationship.
And I did see him online on whatsapp, not always but not just little time either.
But i didn't contact him at all in these 2 weeks during his trips, except his beach pictures i replied, and my on stage getting award pic that he ignored. Other than the trip was the toilet incident we were texting and he was asking for my help to find plumber, that's all. So I honestly have been giving him all the time all the freedom he needs.
I do really want to communicate with him about how i feel in these 2 weeks, of course calmly without accusing him, but everyone here the Aquarians seems really don't like this idea and think my boyfriend would think I'm crazy and not giving him space or freedom and that will just push him away...
I'm so just lost and really really upset, and feel like I'm useless and helpless...
First decide what you need from him and then communicate it to him. If he tells you that he can't meet those needs then you can either accept it or find someone that is better compatible with you.
I'm trying to prepare the message and will send him..What do you guys think of I message him this:
Hey baby, sorry you have been having all the issues and now even the food poisoning. I am sure my girlfriend will be recovered real fast.
I understand the last 2 weeks of holiday was really something you needed - I know it's never enough but hope it helped a bit for you to relax. I'm happy seeing you did enjoy it.
However, there is something i want you to help me understand, in the 2 weeks of holidays, maybe too soon to have such a big contrast on our communication before i even get to know my girlfriend enough, which took me some time to get used to, so, somehow I do feel like I'm being pushed away and not being wanted, especially when a congratulations from my boyfriend last weds would be the greatest gift after all, but didn't happen. And now you're sick, i understand maybe that's the reason you can't for sure if you're able to be there to support me on Wednesday to my first talk.
I am a Sagittarius, not sure if you lovely mom is the same, when I like one person I would have so much to give, and I like you, i said yes to be your boyfriend even i was having hesitation, cause I scared to be heartbroken, but I saw that you were being forward and so honest with me about everything, and always open and telling me how you feel and what you think and what you need, that's really something made me thought you're different and I can trust you.
Now, can you help me with this?
What are your placements btw?
I don't know how what are my placement, how to find out
Ask yourself what is the worst thing that can happen. You guys can break up, right? Why is that so bad? If you break up wont you be able to learn from the experience and find a more mature and evolved love down the road?
I find that when we make something look extremely important we start questioning ourselves and stressing out about it. It harms our prospects greatly.
To find your placements you can go to astro.com -> Free horoscopes -> Natal Chart & Ascendant -> add your birth details and see. Or you can give me your birth details (exact hour, date, location) in PM if you feel like it.
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I really don't know what should I do now... i feel like I should just recall that message and see how he's going to do this week....and just forget about having him to show up on Wed.
I just don't want to push him further away and I really want to have a chance to talk to him in person about how all these made me feel (not in an accusing way)
But on tge other hand i still hoping he's as open as he was before the trip and just be there on that important day for me....
I really so lost now.. i already confused about which is my actually gut feeling...
I just don't want to push him further away and I really want to have a chance to talk to him in person about how all these made me feel (not in an accusing way)
But on tge other hand i still hoping he's as open as he was before the trip and just be there on that important day for me....
I really so lost now.. i already confused about which is my actually gut feeling...
Tomorrow, will be our 1st month together anniversary day... 😢
Did u recall the message?
Posted by pinkbird03Yes.... i did
Did u recall the message?
Okay... i might have been taking all the thing personal
Just chit chat with him a little bit, as that I knew before he never liked living in this city but cause of his son, so...now after 2 weeks of get away, he's now having the after holiday depression, plus the toilet incident before and now still sick and have to be back in this city again and work, that's what makes him now being so quiet....
I don't know, will try to see how it goes this week....
Just chit chat with him a little bit, as that I knew before he never liked living in this city but cause of his son, so...now after 2 weeks of get away, he's now having the after holiday depression, plus the toilet incident before and now still sick and have to be back in this city again and work, that's what makes him now being so quiet....
I don't know, will try to see how it goes this week....
Posted by SagGirl1124Exactly.
Okay... i might have been taking all the thing personal
Yeah... i know, i know....
But see! How easy is it to just talk and let me know what's going on !!!!!!!! Why always have to make it so not easy for people cares you
But see! How easy is it to just talk and let me know what's going on !!!!!!!! Why always have to make it so not easy for people cares you
Posted by SagGirl1124There's nothing to talk about.
Yeah... i know, i know....
But see! How easy is it to just talk and let me know what's going on !!!!!!!! Why always have to make it so not easy for people cares you
It's all just in your head over thinking things.
Posted by AerialViewSometimes, women can't help with that... once we understand what exactly this is about, we can then just shut up and let you have all the time you need and we're happy here 😄Posted by SagGirl1124There's nothing to talk about.
Yeah... i know, i know....
But see! How easy is it to just talk and let me know what's going on !!!!!!!! Why always have to make it so not easy for people cares you
It's all just in your head over thinking things.click to expand
Posted by HearttofTopazWhat's that lol
He was with baby mama
Boo boo
Posted by SagGirl1124I've been telling you to chill since forever 😄Posted by AerialViewSometimes, women can't help with that... once we understand what exactly this is about, we can then just shut up and let you have all the time you need and we're happy here 😄Posted by SagGirl1124There's nothing to talk about.
Yeah... i know, i know....
But see! How easy is it to just talk and let me know what's going on !!!!!!!! Why always have to make it so not easy for people cares you
It's all just in your head over thinking things.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewRight right right... Sometimes just so not that easy when you care this relationship, but yes... you're right 🤣🤣🤣Posted by SagGirl1124I've been telling you to chill since forever 😄Posted by AerialViewSometimes, women can't help with that... once we understand what exactly this is about, we can then just shut up and let you have all the time you need and we're happy here 😄Posted by SagGirl1124There's nothing to talk about.
Yeah... i know, i know....
But see! How easy is it to just talk and let me know what's going on !!!!!!!! Why always have to make it so not easy for people cares you
It's all just in your head over thinking things.click to expand
Posted by SagGirl1124I'm always right!Posted by AerialViewRight right right... Sometimes just so not that easy when you care this relationship, but yes... you're right 🤣🤣🤣Posted by SagGirl1124I've been telling you to chill since forever 😄Posted by AerialViewSometimes, women can't help with that... once we understand what exactly this is about, we can then just shut up and let you have all the time you need and we're happy here 😄Posted by SagGirl1124There's nothing to talk about.
Yeah... i know, i know....
But see! How easy is it to just talk and let me know what's going on !!!!!!!! Why always have to make it so not easy for people cares you
It's all just in your head over thinking things.click to expand
In Aqua board 😛
Posted by AerialViewHe's still not replying if he's still showing up tomorrow at my talk as promised.....sighhhPosted by SagGirl1124I'm always right!Posted by AerialViewRight right right... Sometimes just so not that easy when you care this relationship, but yes... you're right 🤣🤣🤣Posted by SagGirl1124I've been telling you to chill since forever 😄Posted by AerialViewSometimes, women can't help with that... once we understand what exactly this is about, we can then just shut up and let you have all the time you need and we're happy here 😄Posted by SagGirl1124There's nothing to talk about.
Yeah... i know, i know....
But see! How easy is it to just talk and let me know what's going on !!!!!!!! Why always have to make it so not easy for people cares you
It's all just in your head over thinking things.
In Aqua board 😛click to expand
So what now... i can just only wait？
sighhh, i really hate this part
Maybe he's still trying to figure out if he could be there for me tomorrow that's why he's not replying that yet?
sighhh, i really hate this part
Maybe he's still trying to figure out if he could be there for me tomorrow that's why he's not replying that yet?
Rather than concentrating on him coming or not to your speech, you should concentrate on your performance for tomorrow, because it's you that you need to be ready for it, not him. If you put your self confidence in his arms, you are already lost, because he took control of your life and emotions without even properly starting a relationship. You must go on with your life as before meeting him. I wish you good luck with the speech and let's celebrate your success after that!
@compy - yes and thanks dear. I'm still working on to make everything perfect tomorrow at the seminar, actually will be talking the same shxt, just this time will be in front of a big group of people and means that everyone gonna be focusing on me lol... scary!! Fingers crossed there will be some sales could be done deal instantly there tomorrow evening 🙂
And that's why I really want him to be there as he promised, especially i always cared so much of what people promised... honestly politely a simple reply can save me thinking about it all the time and still with hope.... people nowadays really being so difficult on being forward....
And that's why I really want him to be there as he promised, especially i always cared so much of what people promised... honestly politely a simple reply can save me thinking about it all the time and still with hope.... people nowadays really being so difficult on being forward....
Ok... i can't help myself but sent him this - “Listen girlfriend, i know you're really not in the mood for anything now especially still with the sore throat can't sing, tho tomorrow is really important to me and your presence will be the best gift, but that's up to you of course if tomorrow finishing work but still no energy for that, you don't have to baby. Just let me know tomorrow, I can understand 🙂
I fuck off now hahaa, let my Aqurian girlfriend stay quiet or you gonna fucking kill me 😂, still... kisses”
He read... not replying tho... we did chi chat for awhile this afternoon and so knew he's in a after holiday depression and hate to back in this city... saying he's mildly depressed.
I fuck off now hahaa, let my Aqurian girlfriend stay quiet or you gonna fucking kill me 😂, still... kisses”
He read... not replying tho... we did chi chat for awhile this afternoon and so knew he's in a after holiday depression and hate to back in this city... saying he's mildly depressed.
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Ok... i can't help myself but sent him this - “Listen girlfriend, i know you're really not in the mood for anything now especially still with the sore throat can't sing, tho tomorrow is really important to me and your presence will be the best gift, but that's up to you of course if tomorrow finishing work but still no energy for that, you don't have to baby. Just let me know tomorrow, I can understand 🙂
I fuck off now hahaa, let my Aqurian girlfriend stay quiet or you gonna fucking kill me 😂, still... kisses”
He read... not replying tho... we did chi chat for awhile this afternoon and so knew he's in a after holiday depression and hate to back in this city... saying he's mildly depressed.
Sounds like a lot of excuses and like he’s trying to avoid going
Yes we have talked... just been ignoring the message about tomorrow my talk : (
Lol... cause the story was when he was asking me to be his girlfriend that moment, he was probably too excited or nervous, said it as “can you be my boyfriend”, since then he calls me boyfriend i call him girlfriend
Lol... cause the story was when he was asking me to be his girlfriend that moment, he was probably too excited or nervous, said it as “can you be my boyfriend”, since then he calls me boyfriend i call him girlfriend
"All these trip he planned way before we officially together" : )
Official? As in boyfriend/girlfriend? Relax. He's was with his son. He will respect you more and more if you "accept" his absence. Take to heart the texts he sends you. And who did he turn to tell you of the plumbing (expensive) problem? You. Yeah, he's in the dark about your anxiety; but we're here to chime in and comment.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Remember what they say (EVEN stand up comics say this, "Women are wired like a freeway; men are wired going "one way"). What does that mean, you say? (young chickie; I'm intuitive and know you will ask). He takes care of things as they come one at a time without having to be at your "hip". My guess is if he WAS your boyfriend he'd be more "open" to you 24/7, 365 days + 1 (leap year). Relax!
Official? As in boyfriend/girlfriend? Relax. He's was with his son. He will respect you more and more if you "accept" his absence. Take to heart the texts he sends you. And who did he turn to tell you of the plumbing (expensive) problem? You. Yeah, he's in the dark about your anxiety; but we're here to chime in and comment.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Remember what they say (EVEN stand up comics say this, "Women are wired like a freeway; men are wired going "one way"). What does that mean, you say? (young chickie; I'm intuitive and know you will ask). He takes care of things as they come one at a time without having to be at your "hip". My guess is if he WAS your boyfriend he'd be more "open" to you 24/7, 365 days + 1 (leap year). Relax!
@JadeAlexander
@EvatheDiva52
@Timon
Thanks for finishing reading all, much appreciated, i know 11pages must have took you some time : )
I mean I really want this time could work with my boyfriend, cause before the trips, i felt like I have never been so much liked by someone, and everything of him was just so perfect to me and we're so connected on everything, and I liked he came clean to me about all his situation of the separation with his wife and everything else. He's never been indifferent before the trip, always messaging me and wanted to see me all the time and telling me how much he likes me and telling me how different I'm to the girls he ever met, even say I'm somehow just like his mother cause we both are Sagittarius and feel we're thinking similar way, he and his mom always talk a lot on whatsapp too.
3 of your replies somehow calm me a lot, tho i still not sure how long I can hold myself not to do anymore silly thing....
“With Aqua, assume everything is okay until he tells you it’s not. ”
- - - i think yes... hope his absence these days won't lead to forever
“He will respect you more and more if you "accept" his absence. ”
- - - i understand this.. just always so hard to do it while you really like that person and suddenly so much quiet lately : ( thanks for the cyber hugs.. i do need them so muchhhhh
“My guess is if he WAS your boyfriend he'd be more "open" to you 24/7, 365 days + 1 (leap year). Relax!”
- - - this one I don't quite understand hahaa, just yes, he's my boyfriend, still at the moment : ) I'm trying to relax... but it's hard : (
"Open invitations are good, but don’t press for an answer or commitment"
- - - actually he replied me early this morning when he's on the way to work, he said - - - “Still sick im really sorry im not gonna be able to make it tonight : (” I read his message instantly, just have yet reply him until just an hour ago, and I said - - - "Poor baby, it's okay this time, i understand. Rest more and maybe find someone to punch NOT ME hahaa, take some time for you I know. Just tell my handsome goofy smiley girlfriend who talks a lot to come back fast : ) x"
he's still always replying my messages, just not that one for tonight... Should be still a good sign, right ? I don't know... but haven't replied the last one i sent, which i didn't expect he will, but would be nice if he does...
Yeah good luck tonight to myself : )
Thanks guys, please i need you guys so much and thanks for helping me here all the time, without able to talk to you guys, i would have already gone nuts here on my own : ( love y'all
@EvatheDiva52
@Timon
Thanks for finishing reading all, much appreciated, i know 11pages must have took you some time : )
I mean I really want this time could work with my boyfriend, cause before the trips, i felt like I have never been so much liked by someone, and everything of him was just so perfect to me and we're so connected on everything, and I liked he came clean to me about all his situation of the separation with his wife and everything else. He's never been indifferent before the trip, always messaging me and wanted to see me all the time and telling me how much he likes me and telling me how different I'm to the girls he ever met, even say I'm somehow just like his mother cause we both are Sagittarius and feel we're thinking similar way, he and his mom always talk a lot on whatsapp too.
3 of your replies somehow calm me a lot, tho i still not sure how long I can hold myself not to do anymore silly thing....
“With Aqua, assume everything is okay until he tells you it’s not. ”
- - - i think yes... hope his absence these days won't lead to forever
“He will respect you more and more if you "accept" his absence. ”
- - - i understand this.. just always so hard to do it while you really like that person and suddenly so much quiet lately : ( thanks for the cyber hugs.. i do need them so muchhhhh
“My guess is if he WAS your boyfriend he'd be more "open" to you 24/7, 365 days + 1 (leap year). Relax!”
- - - this one I don't quite understand hahaa, just yes, he's my boyfriend, still at the moment : ) I'm trying to relax... but it's hard : (
"Open invitations are good, but don’t press for an answer or commitment"
- - - actually he replied me early this morning when he's on the way to work, he said - - - “Still sick im really sorry im not gonna be able to make it tonight : (” I read his message instantly, just have yet reply him until just an hour ago, and I said - - - "Poor baby, it's okay this time, i understand. Rest more and maybe find someone to punch NOT ME hahaa, take some time for you I know. Just tell my handsome goofy smiley girlfriend who talks a lot to come back fast : ) x"
he's still always replying my messages, just not that one for tonight... Should be still a good sign, right ? I don't know... but haven't replied the last one i sent, which i didn't expect he will, but would be nice if he does...
Yeah good luck tonight to myself : )
Thanks guys, please i need you guys so much and thanks for helping me here all the time, without able to talk to you guys, i would have already gone nuts here on my own : ( love y'all
No thanking me 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Posted by AerialViewHahaa, you're of course included, just didn't tag you....you've been telling me to chill since forever and I still can't hahaa. You're like changing profile pic every 2 days lol
No thanking me 😭😭😭😭😭😭
So how's my last message to him, was it too cheesy ? : ( i swear to god I won't text him again this week..... : ( hopefully he's not like those guys just end things without even saying, i have faith he will back to me real soon!!!!!!
Posted by pinkbird03Maybe yea he's.. : (Posted by SagGirl1124
Ok... i can't help myself but sent him this - “Listen girlfriend, i know you're really not in the mood for anything now especially still with the sore throat can't sing, tho tomorrow is really important to me and your presence will be the best gift, but that's up to you of course if tomorrow finishing work but still no energy for that, you don't have to baby. Just let me know tomorrow, I can understand 🙂
I fuck off now hahaa, let my Aqurian girlfriend stay quiet or you gonna fucking kill me 😂, still... kisses”
He read... not replying tho... we did chi chat for awhile this afternoon and so knew he's in a after holiday depression and hate to back in this city... saying he's mildly depressed.
Sounds like a lot of excuses and like he’s trying to avoid going
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Posted by SagGirl1124What's the rest of your placements?Posted by AerialViewHahaa, you're of course included, just didn't tag you....you've been telling me to chill since forever and I still can't hahaa. You're like changing profile pic every 2 days lol
No thanking me 😭😭😭😭😭😭
So how's my last message to him, was it too cheesy ? : ( i swear to god I won't text him again this week..... : ( hopefully he's not like those guys just end things without even saying, i have faith he will back to me real soon!!!!!!click to expand
And his if you have it.
Posted by AerialView● Here are mine, duno how to readPosted by SagGirl1124What's the rest of your placements?Posted by AerialViewHahaa, you're of course included, just didn't tag you....you've been telling me to chill since forever and I still can't hahaa. You're like changing profile pic every 2 days lol
No thanking me 😭😭😭😭😭😭
So how's my last message to him, was it too cheesy ? : ( i swear to god I won't text him again this week..... : ( hopefully he's not like those guys just end things without even saying, i have faith he will back to me real soon!!!!!!
And his if you have it.click to expand
SUN Sagittarius
Ascendant Gemini
Sun 1 Sag 32'42'
Moon 21 Can 33'1 5'
Mercury 15 Sag 17'55'
Venus 16 Lib 5' 58'
Mars 3 Lib 30'40'
Jupiter 17 Sag 25'20'
Satum 10 Sco 6'29'
Uranus 8 Sag 53' 0'
Neptune 27 Sag 57'18'
Pluto 0 Sco42'1 5'
True Node 15 Gem 56'1 5'd
Chiron 0 Gem 16'1 48'r
● his.. i have no clue, his birth and others i pm you 😉
From what I observed from the beginning, He's very straightforward, speaks whatever in his head without trying cover anything even that's gonna hurt ppl, but been real lovely, caring, and talk openly about how he feels on me, on our relationship and everything. Easy to be grumpy when things around him doesn't goes the way he wanted (he didn't admit it, but that's what I feel), but he would talk to me about what bothers him and he did mention it he didnt usually talk to people about his difficulties, but he liked to do that with me, he said that's rare, but... now he seems not...but he anyways whatever bothers him, he talks to his mom cause she's Sag and always know how to calm him down, anyways, all were before the trips I observed about him.....
At least you’ll get your answer about your talk today!
Posted by pinkbird03True true, so nervous now haahaa, something good had happened today anyways, I'm happy, hopping some instant sales could be done tonight too.
At least you’ll get your answer about your talk today!
He already messaged me saids sorry not gonna make it tonight : ( replied him then i promise myself won't message him this week unless he does....
Posted by SagGirl1124Posted by pinkbird03True true, so nervous now haahaa, something good had happened today anyways, I'm happy, hopping some instant sales could be done tonight too.
At least you’ll get your answer about your talk today!
He already messaged me saids sorry not gonna make it tonight : ( replied him then i promise myself won't message him this week unless he does....click to expand
Doesn’t surprise me. Did he say why he can’t make it?
Not recovered yet, here's what he sent - Still sick im really sorry im not gonna be able to make it tonight : (
Posted by SagGirl1124Yea he was definitely foreshadowing that.
Not recovered yet, here's what he sent - Still sick im really sorry im not gonna be able to make it tonight : (
Posted by pinkbird03What do you mean foreshadowing ? He's breaking up with me? : (Posted by SagGirl1124Yea he was definitely foreshadowing that.
Not recovered yet, here's what he sent - Still sick im really sorry im not gonna be able to make it tonight : (click to expand
Awwww your poor Cancer moon must be feeling horribly rejected
😢
😢
Posted by MyStarsShineOh, right... I'm cancer moon, means anything ? Tell me please... i don't feel too bad to be rejected but feel sad when losing the relationship it was so perfect at the beginning....
Awwww your poor Cancer moon must be feeling horribly rejected
😢
Posted by TimonI really feel like crying now even I'm sitting around all my friends and partners at the dinner after the talk.... i feel like I'm losing him for good.....Posted by SagGirl1124It explains why you are behaving in this clingy manner. 😛Posted by MyStarsShineOh, right... I'm cancer moon, means anything ? Tell me please... i don't feel too bad to be rejected but feel sad when losing the relationship it was so perfect at the beginning....
Awwww your poor Cancer moon must be feeling horribly rejected
😢
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He replied this early morning while he's on the way to work, said “Still sick im really sorry im not gonna be able to make it tonight : ( ”.....
Now i don't even know if he's planning to see ne again
Now i don't even know if he's planning to see ne again
Posted by TimonHe took one day sick leave already, our city are famous about the company and the boss counting your sick leaves here...Posted by SagGirl1124If he is sick then why is he going to work?
He replied this early morning while he's on the way to work, said “Still sick im really sorry im not gonna be able to make it tonight : ( ”.....
Now i don't even know if he's planning to see ne again
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But who knows, maybe he's just trying to avoid me
Posted by TimonJust so upset i thought i have met this perfect one, while everything been so perfect, thought that I finally found someone I have never felt that completed and so open and honest to me and able talk everything and feelings, but then all in a sudden... everything just turned upside down just after the trips... really that's what hurt the most is the disappointment and the feeling of losing this one person who gave me those hope and feelings....and now it's like is gone forever....Posted by SagGirl1124Oh no. Please don't. Cheer up. Don't expect the worst. If he doesn't share your feelings it's better it end now than later. You have only known him a couple weeks. Try to relax and don't let all your happiness depend on this. 🙂Posted by TimonI really feel like crying now even I'm sitting around all my friends and partners at the dinner after the talk.... i feel like I'm losing him for good.....Posted by SagGirl1124It explains why you are behaving in this clingy manner. 😛Posted by MyStarsShineOh, right... I'm cancer moon, means anything ? Tell me please... i don't feel too bad to be rejected but feel sad when losing the relationship it was so perfect at the beginning....
Awwww your poor Cancer moon must be feeling horribly rejected
😢
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He's that kind of person if he doesn't want you, he would just use words to tell you to fuxk off... in a really cruel way, doesn't matter how hurt it is... and he didn't do this to me, and he told me his situation and I try to believe it and be understanding, this is somehow why I still trying to hang in there and believing he's gonna back to the same person before and spoil me like he used to.... just i feel so insecure now and really so upset about how everything changed so quick..
Really without everyone here been listening to me giving me feedbacks and cheering me up, i really don't know what to do, i feel so alone in this situation
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