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Posted by Undinei made the mistake of his placements (bertrand cantanti) he has pisces mars but aries venus. which is exactly like my ex husband.
"he is a pisces sun/ aries mars, jupiter aries, sagittarius moon, cap rising, pisces stellium including mercury and mars and sun.(similar to my ex husband's mars, mercury sun) but my ex pisces never physically abused me. he was just an addict and criminal."
Lisa, you were lucky to get rid of him x
This being said, I'm also Pisces with Aries Mars, so I feel like I have to defend these placements.. I punched a few boys in my youth and I have sometimes aggressive thoughts, but keep them in check. There is nothing addictive or criminal about me. Maybe it's my Aqua Merc, lol.

Posted by lisabethur8Wow Lisa! My longest lived with relationship was Pisces with Aries Venus, Pisces Mars and Jupiter Aqua!! He is the sweetest man you could imagine. Won't hurt a fly.Posted by Undinei made the mistake of his placements (bertrand cantanti) he has pisces mars but aries venus. which is exactly like my ex husband.
"he is a pisces sun/ aries mars, jupiter aries, sagittarius moon, cap rising, pisces stellium including mercury and mars and sun.(similar to my ex husband's mars, mercury sun) but my ex pisces never physically abused me. he was just an addict and criminal."
Lisa, you were lucky to get rid of him x
This being said, I'm also Pisces with Aries Mars, so I feel like I have to defend these placements.. I punched a few boys in my youth and I have sometimes aggressive thoughts, but keep them in check. There is nothing addictive or criminal about me. Maybe it's my Aqua Merc, lol.
but his aries venus conjunct jupiter aries (bertrand the murderer) . my ex has jupiter aquarius. leo rising.
i dont really see women being abusive as much .. if they are abusing, it's nagging. lol
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Posted by Undineprobably different upbringing too. i always felt sad about his childhood and his weaknesses (for the heroin addiction ... but he just didnt understand that you dont break into people's homes...he was into burglaries...it was the thrill for him. so he went to prison) you were really lucky.Posted by lisabethur8Wow Lisa! My longest lived with relationship was Pisces with Aries Venus, Pisces Mars and Jupiter Aqua!! He is the sweetest man you could imagine. Won't hurt a fly.Posted by Undinei made the mistake of his placements (bertrand cantanti) he has pisces mars but aries venus. which is exactly like my ex husband.
"he is a pisces sun/ aries mars, jupiter aries, sagittarius moon, cap rising, pisces stellium including mercury and mars and sun.(similar to my ex husband's mars, mercury sun) but my ex pisces never physically abused me. he was just an addict and criminal."
Lisa, you were lucky to get rid of him x
This being said, I'm also Pisces with Aries Mars, so I feel like I have to defend these placements.. I punched a few boys in my youth and I have sometimes aggressive thoughts, but keep them in check. There is nothing addictive or criminal about me. Maybe it's my Aqua Merc, lol.
but his aries venus conjunct jupiter aries (bertrand the murderer) . my ex has jupiter aquarius. leo rising.
i dont really see women being abusive as much .. if they are abusing, it's nagging. lol
Virgo Rising.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Yes, you could be right. Mine's is the eldest of three children and had to work as a teenager for pocket money. No drugs at all, he is a University professor, lol! His Virgo rising makes him control his alcohol intake to the point he drink only tee if he went to the pub the day before. He is addicted, but to healthy living....running, pilates, pump and toning....yes, HE is luckyPosted by Undineprobably different upbringing too. i always felt sad about his childhood and his weaknesses (for the heroin addiction ... but he just didnt understand that you dont break into people's homes...he was into burglaries...it was the thrill for him. so he went to prison) you were really lucky.Posted by lisabethur8Wow Lisa! My longest lived with relationship was Pisces with Aries Venus, Pisces Mars and Jupiter Aqua!! He is the sweetest man you could imagine. Won't hurt a fly.Posted by Undinei made the mistake of his placements (bertrand cantanti) he has pisces mars but aries venus. which is exactly like my ex husband.
"he is a pisces sun/ aries mars, jupiter aries, sagittarius moon, cap rising, pisces stellium including mercury and mars and sun.(similar to my ex husband's mars, mercury sun) but my ex pisces never physically abused me. he was just an addict and criminal."
Lisa, you were lucky to get rid of him x
This being said, I'm also Pisces with Aries Mars, so I feel like I have to defend these placements.. I punched a few boys in my youth and I have sometimes aggressive thoughts, but keep them in check. There is nothing addictive or criminal about me. Maybe it's my Aqua Merc, lol.
but his aries venus conjunct jupiter aries (bertrand the murderer) . my ex has jupiter aquarius. leo rising.
i dont really see women being abusive as much .. if they are abusing, it's nagging. lol
Virgo Rising.click to expand
Posted by UndinePosted by lisabethur8Yes, you could be right. Mine's is the eldest of three children and had to work as a teenager for pocket money. No drugs at all, he is a University professor, lol! His Virgo rising makes him control his alcohol intake to the point he drink only tee if he went to the pub the day before. He is addicted, but to healthy living....running, pilates, pump and toning....yes, HE is luckyPosted by Undineprobably different upbringing too. i always felt sad about his childhood and his weaknesses (for the heroin addiction ... but he just didnt understand that you dont break into people's homes...he was into burglaries...it was the thrill for him. so he went to prison) you were really lucky.Posted by lisabethur8Wow Lisa! My longest lived with relationship was Pisces with Aries Venus, Pisces Mars and Jupiter Aqua!! He is the sweetest man you could imagine. Won't hurt a fly.Posted by Undinei made the mistake of his placements (bertrand cantanti) he has pisces mars but aries venus. which is exactly like my ex husband.
"he is a pisces sun/ aries mars, jupiter aries, sagittarius moon, cap rising, pisces stellium including mercury and mars and sun.(similar to my ex husband's mars, mercury sun) but my ex pisces never physically abused me. he was just an addict and criminal."
Lisa, you were lucky to get rid of him x
This being said, I'm also Pisces with Aries Mars, so I feel like I have to defend these placements.. I punched a few boys in my youth and I have sometimes aggressive thoughts, but keep them in check. There is nothing addictive or criminal about me. Maybe it's my Aqua Merc, lol.
but his aries venus conjunct jupiter aries (bertrand the murderer) . my ex has jupiter aquarius. leo rising.
i dont really see women being abusive as much .. if they are abusing, it's nagging. lol
Virgo Rising.click to expand



Posted by sierra_she's actually a double Leo. He was a capricorn rising, pisces sun, sag moon. aries venus, pisces mars jupiter aries.
i think his ex wife was a virgo who committed suicide at their home while he was in there
their kids found her.. hanged herself i think
some speculate he might've killed her or something
but she's been accusing him of being emotionally/mentally abusive to her
Posted by hydorahthis woman is his ex wife.
I don't like all these cosmo shit you post, but cantat's ex wife was really beautiful naturally, google image search her. She has beautiful attitudes even tough she looks kinda old. Doesn't even need make up to look good.
Cantat was good looking too even though he let himself go recently.
The woman he supposedly killed looks trashy in every pic. Daughter of stars and probably spoiled child.
The other guy you posted is a jewish producer and probably spends his time sleeping with starlets. Zero relevance.
Posted by hydorah
I don't like all these cosmo shit you post, but cantat's ex wife was really beautiful naturally, google image search her. She has beautiful attitudes even tough she looks kinda old. Doesn't even need make up to look good.
Cantat was good looking too even though he let himself go recently.
The woman he supposedly killed looks trashy in every pic. Daughter of stars and probably spoiled child.
The other guy you posted is a jewish producer and probably spends his time sleeping with starlets. Zero relevance.
Posted by sierra_23 augustPosted by lisabethur8yeah i think her bday makes her more of a virgo-leo cusperPosted by sierra_she's actually a double Leo. He was a capricorn rising, pisces sun, sag moon. aries venus, pisces mars jupiter aries.
i think his ex wife was a virgo who committed suicide at their home while he was in there
their kids found her.. hanged herself i think
some speculate he might've killed her or something
but she's been accusing him of being emotionally/mentally abusive to her
but she may have some virgo. I have to re-look at her chart. or she's a cusper near the virgo sun.
yeah it's too suspicious. that all of a sudden he gets out of prison, he was the last to see her as an adult, and had complaints of him abusing her and then she commits suicide??click to expand
you're the pisces type of guy that would go for his ex wife.
i think you are aqua dominant. i remember you have aqua venus lol
you dont tell your chart placements often on here though. i get the vibe of air dominannt.
Posted by SpaceBirdsmh.Posted by hydorahraping you mean?
The other guy you posted is a jewish producer and probably spends his time sleeping with starlets.click to expand
he just trying to get a nut.
Posted by sierra_she left a suicide note too.Posted by lisabethur8they both have fire in themPosted by sierra_23 augustPosted by lisabethur8yeah i think her bday makes her more of a virgo-leo cusperPosted by sierra_she's actually a double Leo. He was a capricorn rising, pisces sun, sag moon. aries venus, pisces mars jupiter aries.
i think his ex wife was a virgo who committed suicide at their home while he was in there
their kids found her.. hanged herself i think
some speculate he might've killed her or something
but she's been accusing him of being emotionally/mentally abusive to her
but she may have some virgo. I have to re-look at her chart. or she's a cusper near the virgo sun.
yeah it's too suspicious. that all of a sudden he gets out of prison, he was the last to see her as an adult, and had complaints of him abusing her and then she commits suicide??
https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krisztina_R% C3% A1dy
you're right...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leo_(astrology)
23 is the last day. that's cusp.
but why they get so depressingclick to expand
Posted by sierra_from my understandingPosted by lisabethur8that's sad asf
@sierra, they dont have kristina rady's chart on astrotheme though.
she wasn't famous like Bertrand or Marie (singer of a band and her an actress from childhood)
but wow, she has a virgo stellium!!! she's a triple leo, Sun, moon, Mars leo. 5 planets in virgo, sierra. that's ALOT of virgo.
did any of you read the french site?
http://www.theme-astrologie.com/fr/blog/55/bertrand-cantat-oscar-pistorius
i know a virgo chick who poisoned herself who was also with a pisces
sometimes it gets really destructive from what i've noticedclick to expand
Posted by sierra_did your ex libra gaslight you?Posted by lisabethur8pisces gaslights much like libraPosted by sierra_she left a suicide note too.Posted by lisabethur8they both have fire in themPosted by sierra_23 augustPosted by lisabethur8yeah i think her bday makes her more of a virgo-leo cusperPosted by sierra_she's actually a double Leo. He was a capricorn rising, pisces sun, sag moon. aries venus, pisces mars jupiter aries.
i think his ex wife was a virgo who committed suicide at their home while he was in there
their kids found her.. hanged herself i think
some speculate he might've killed her or something
but she's been accusing him of being emotionally/mentally abusive to her
but she may have some virgo. I have to re-look at her chart. or she's a cusper near the virgo sun.
yeah it's too suspicious. that all of a sudden he gets out of prison, he was the last to see her as an adult, and had complaints of him abusing her and then she commits suicide??
https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krisztina_R% C3% A1dy
you're right...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leo_(astrology)
23 is the last day. that's cusp.
but why they get so depressing
it was stated that he left her for marie, separation. which is why no divorce at that time, but processing.
also with marie she left her husband.
it's weird he is SO violent with marie... to the point of killing her.
but with his ex wife?? he didnt physically abuse her. only mentally abuse her /gas lighting which is gross too.
"She had spoken out in defence of her ex-husband during his trial in Lithuania, saying he had never been violent with her during their marriage."
http://www.news.com.au/breaking-news/french-rock-star-bertrand-cantat-questioned-after-ex-wife-kristina-radys-suicide/news-story/6c5e137e466df4b23909d2d547533a4b
both were probably obsessed with eachother. eww. he looks too creepy to me.
hydroah likes the ex wife's looks more sooo now i understand where he coming from...
cause that bertrand looks like a creepy guy. and scary fucker!!
see, thing is they know how to bury stuff in the virgo mind
i know this in my own relationship
the mind is the battlefield much more than the body
guilt is a weapon they often use
honestly it hurts me a lot sometimes
coz it's a way of twisting my intentionsclick to expand
Posted by sierra_Posted by lisabethur8they've very hurtful sometimesPosted by sierra_from my understandingPosted by lisabethur8that's sad asf
@sierra, they dont have kristina rady's chart on astrotheme though.
she wasn't famous like Bertrand or Marie (singer of a band and her an actress from childhood)
but wow, she has a virgo stellium!!! she's a triple leo, Sun, moon, Mars leo. 5 planets in virgo, sierra. that's ALOT of virgo.
did any of you read the french site?
http://www.theme-astrologie.com/fr/blog/55/bertrand-cantat-oscar-pistorius
i know a virgo chick who poisoned herself who was also with a pisces
sometimes it gets really destructive from what i've noticed
it seemed like she loved him more than he loved her. which sucks and happens alot in marriages.
it's unbalanced.
she stood by him for years and it seemed they had a row, (they probably keep in touch due to the children) cause their children still not adult (one is 7years old the other 12)
and i bet she killed herself cause she couldnt take it anymore ...his abuse.
if only she had a support, that she doesn't need that fucker. and just walk away. (i've seen it alot in this forum where the woman loves the man more) that man is crazy and insane. he should have left her alone.
but did you read about his cranial trauma when he was 16 years old? it's on wikipedia.
but virgo won't leave you just coz you have mental issues
that cranial trauma probably affected him even moreclick to expand
Posted by sierra_that is sad :/Posted by lisabethur8he definitely didPosted by sierra_did your ex libra gaslight you?Posted by lisabethur8pisces gaslights much like libraPosted by sierra_she left a suicide note too.Posted by lisabethur8they both have fire in themPosted by sierra_23 augustPosted by lisabethur8yeah i think her bday makes her more of a virgo-leo cusperPosted by sierra_she's actually a double Leo. He was a capricorn rising, pisces sun, sag moon. aries venus, pisces mars jupiter aries.
i think his ex wife was a virgo who committed suicide at their home while he was in there
their kids found her.. hanged herself i think
some speculate he might've killed her or something
but she's been accusing him of being emotionally/mentally abusive to her
but she may have some virgo. I have to re-look at her chart. or she's a cusper near the virgo sun.
yeah it's too suspicious. that all of a sudden he gets out of prison, he was the last to see her as an adult, and had complaints of him abusing her and then she commits suicide??
https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krisztina_R% C3% A1dy
you're right...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leo_(astrology)
23 is the last day. that's cusp.
but why they get so depressing
it was stated that he left her for marie, separation. which is why no divorce at that time, but processing.
also with marie she left her husband.
it's weird he is SO violent with marie... to the point of killing her.
but with his ex wife?? he didnt physically abuse her. only mentally abuse her /gas lighting which is gross too.
"She had spoken out in defence of her ex-husband during his trial in Lithuania, saying he had never been violent with her during their marriage."
http://www.news.com.au/breaking-news/french-rock-star-bertrand-cantat-questioned-after-ex-wife-kristina-radys-suicide/news-story/6c5e137e466df4b23909d2d547533a4b
both were probably obsessed with eachother. eww. he looks too creepy to me.
hydroah likes the ex wife's looks more sooo now i understand where he coming from...
cause that bertrand looks like a creepy guy. and scary fucker!!
see, thing is they know how to bury stuff in the virgo mind
i know this in my own relationship
the mind is the battlefield much more than the body
guilt is a weapon they often use
honestly it hurts me a lot sometimes
coz it's a way of twisting my intentions
i never had that problem with my ex pisces husband. he never gas lit me at all. he hated his mother because she was always bitter and nagged alot. I did her chart... her ex scorpio left her for another woman...and she was a leo with virgo and cancer placements. -_- jesus....the astrology. the woman he ended up with had cancer and gemini placements.. he was a scorpio with aries, gemini and virgo placements.
but there's a happy ending for her, she remarried a good man and stayed married to him for decades i heard. However, for some reason she was still bitter over the scorpio. maybe it is what is happeneing here, with bertrand and Rady, she is bitter that he doesn't love her. that's gotta suck major.
it's the unrequited thing going on.
as for my ex, he was just avoidant of his problems and drank and did heroin cocaine his problems away... it's like he just wanted to have a death wish.
the pisces sometimes guilt trips me but doesn't make feel nor look crazy (the libra would've)
we drink sometimes but stay away from anything else
hmm as for rady.. she's got a lot of virgo.. i think that yeah that feeling that she's been left behind and also the mental toll on her.. that probably drove her to suicideclick to expand
Posted by sierra_i dont know why she never remarried after bernard left her and went to prison.Posted by lisabethur8he definitely didPosted by sierra_did your ex libra gaslight you?Posted by lisabethur8pisces gaslights much like libraPosted by sierra_she left a suicide note too.Posted by lisabethur8they both have fire in themPosted by sierra_23 augustPosted by lisabethur8yeah i think her bday makes her more of a virgo-leo cusperPosted by sierra_she's actually a double Leo. He was a capricorn rising, pisces sun, sag moon. aries venus, pisces mars jupiter aries.
i think his ex wife was a virgo who committed suicide at their home while he was in there
their kids found her.. hanged herself i think
some speculate he might've killed her or something
but she's been accusing him of being emotionally/mentally abusive to her
but she may have some virgo. I have to re-look at her chart. or she's a cusper near the virgo sun.
yeah it's too suspicious. that all of a sudden he gets out of prison, he was the last to see her as an adult, and had complaints of him abusing her and then she commits suicide??
https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krisztina_R% C3% A1dy
you're right...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leo_(astrology)
23 is the last day. that's cusp.
but why they get so depressing
it was stated that he left her for marie, separation. which is why no divorce at that time, but processing.
also with marie she left her husband.
it's weird he is SO violent with marie... to the point of killing her.
but with his ex wife?? he didnt physically abuse her. only mentally abuse her /gas lighting which is gross too.
"She had spoken out in defence of her ex-husband during his trial in Lithuania, saying he had never been violent with her during their marriage."
http://www.news.com.au/breaking-news/french-rock-star-bertrand-cantat-questioned-after-ex-wife-kristina-radys-suicide/news-story/6c5e137e466df4b23909d2d547533a4b
both were probably obsessed with eachother. eww. he looks too creepy to me.
hydroah likes the ex wife's looks more sooo now i understand where he coming from...
cause that bertrand looks like a creepy guy. and scary fucker!!
see, thing is they know how to bury stuff in the virgo mind
i know this in my own relationship
the mind is the battlefield much more than the body
guilt is a weapon they often use
honestly it hurts me a lot sometimes
coz it's a way of twisting my intentions
i never had that problem with my ex pisces husband. he never gas lit me at all. he hated his mother because she was always bitter and nagged alot. I did her chart... her ex scorpio left her for another woman...and she was a leo with virgo and cancer placements. -_- jesus....the astrology. the woman he ended up with had cancer and gemini placements.. he was a scorpio with aries, gemini and virgo placements.
but there's a happy ending for her, she remarried a good man and stayed married to him for decades i heard. However, for some reason she was still bitter over the scorpio. maybe it is what is happeneing here, with bertrand and Rady, she is bitter that he doesn't love her. that's gotta suck major.
it's the unrequited thing going on.
as for my ex, he was just avoidant of his problems and drank and did heroin cocaine his problems away... it's like he just wanted to have a death wish.
the pisces sometimes guilt trips me but doesn't make me feel nor look crazy (the libra would've)
we drink sometimes but stay away from anything else
hmm as for rady.. she's got a lot of virgo.. i think that yeah that feeling that she's been left behind and also the mental toll on her.. that probably drove her to suicideclick to expand
Posted by sierra_good for you.Posted by lisabethur8absolutely terriblePosted by sierra_that is sad :/Posted by lisabethur8he definitely didPosted by sierra_did your ex libra gaslight you?Posted by lisabethur8pisces gaslights much like libraPosted by sierra_she left a suicide note too.Posted by lisabethur8they both have fire in themPosted by sierra_23 augustPosted by lisabethur8yeah i think her bday makes her more of a virgo-leo cusperPosted by sierra_she's actually a double Leo. He was a capricorn rising, pisces sun, sag moon. aries venus, pisces mars jupiter aries.
i think his ex wife was a virgo who committed suicide at their home while he was in there
their kids found her.. hanged herself i think
some speculate he might've killed her or something
but she's been accusing him of being emotionally/mentally abusive to her
but she may have some virgo. I have to re-look at her chart. or she's a cusper near the virgo sun.
yeah it's too suspicious. that all of a sudden he gets out of prison, he was the last to see her as an adult, and had complaints of him abusing her and then she commits suicide??
https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krisztina_R% C3% A1dy
you're right...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leo_(astrology)
23 is the last day. that's cusp.
but why they get so depressing
it was stated that he left her for marie, separation. which is why no divorce at that time, but processing.
also with marie she left her husband.
it's weird he is SO violent with marie... to the point of killing her.
but with his ex wife?? he didnt physically abuse her. only mentally abuse her /gas lighting which is gross too.
"She had spoken out in defence of her ex-husband during his trial in Lithuania, saying he had never been violent with her during their marriage."
http://www.news.com.au/breaking-news/french-rock-star-bertrand-cantat-questioned-after-ex-wife-kristina-radys-suicide/news-story/6c5e137e466df4b23909d2d547533a4b
both were probably obsessed with eachother. eww. he looks too creepy to me.
hydroah likes the ex wife's looks more sooo now i understand where he coming from...
cause that bertrand looks like a creepy guy. and scary fucker!!
see, thing is they know how to bury stuff in the virgo mind
i know this in my own relationship
the mind is the battlefield much more than the body
guilt is a weapon they often use
honestly it hurts me a lot sometimes
coz it's a way of twisting my intentions
i never had that problem with my ex pisces husband. he never gas lit me at all. he hated his mother because she was always bitter and nagged alot. I did her chart... her ex scorpio left her for another woman...and she was a leo with virgo and cancer placements. -_- jesus....the astrology. the woman he ended up with had cancer and gemini placements.. he was a scorpio with aries, gemini and virgo placements.
but there's a happy ending for her, she remarried a good man and stayed married to him for decades i heard. However, for some reason she was still bitter over the scorpio. maybe it is what is happeneing here, with bertrand and Rady, she is bitter that he doesn't love her. that's gotta suck major.
it's the unrequited thing going on.
as for my ex, he was just avoidant of his problems and drank and did heroin cocaine his problems away... it's like he just wanted to have a death wish.
the pisces sometimes guilt trips me but doesn't make feel nor look crazy (the libra would've)
we drink sometimes but stay away from anything else
hmm as for rady.. she's got a lot of virgo.. i think that yeah that feeling that she's been left behind and also the mental toll on her.. that probably drove her to suicide
because she has children underage. they need her.
i find that peeps who constantly gaslight... seem narcissitic.
https://beyondbetrayal.community/why-people-gaslight/
Unintentional Gaslighting
For example, recently I gaslighted my son. I was in the kitchen preparing a salad for dinner when my teenager walked into the room, scowled in the direction of the vegetable-topped lettuce I was tossing, and said, âUgh. I hate salad.â I retorted in a playful voice, âItâll be okay, kiddo. This salad will be yummy. You love salad, remember?â
My son looked at me skeptically and walked out of the room. I realized then I had stated something that simply wasnât true. My son doesnât find vegetables tasty nor does he like salad. In my attempt to help my son have light-heartedness about the salad, and to convince him to eat the salad, my words actually disputed his reality. I stated an opposing version of reality as truth. I didnât purposely intend to confuse or harm him, but I did create some confusion by gaslighting him.
Semi-Intentional Gaslighting
Sometimes gaslighting is done with a degree of intentionality and awareness, but without a full understanding of the impact it has on the recipient. A person might recognize if they say certain things, another person may have an expected response.
For example, in my early adulthood, when I felt sad, rather than accepting comfort, I pushed people away so I could be alone with my pain. On occasion my husband would see me cry and ask, âWhatâs wrong?â I would answer, âNothing. Iâm fine.â I knew that if I told him I was okay, he would stop inquiring. Even though he could see my tears, my words conveyed an alternate reality as truth. My husband would look puzzled, yet he would typically leave the room, thus doing the very thing I hoped for. I didnât realize I was gaslighting him. I only knew if I said I was fine, he would go away. My gaslighting created confusion in my partner and caused him to back up. This is a common reason people gaslight â to create distance between themselves and another.
Intentional Gaslighting
Unfortunately, gaslighting may be intentional and malicious. This is the most detrimental and abusive of the three kinds of gaslighting.
In working with partners of sex addicts, I sometimes hear stories of purposeful and malevolent gaslighting. In one such example, an addict went on a business trip. He withdrew cash from the ATM, turned off his cell phone locater, and stopped answering his wifeâs texts or calls for the afternoon. When he called his wife several hours later, she demanded he tell her why he withdrew cash and what he had been doing while unreachable.
He responded, âI needed cash to pay for taxi rides and to give as tips. I was unreachable because itâs hard to get cell service downtown. Thatâs probably why my cell phone locater didnât work. You know cell phones donât work perfectly 100% of the time. Iâm surprised you are getting so worked up. You really have high anxiety. You should probably see someone to help you with that problem. And you are so paranoid. It really is a turn off. I canât believe you would pick a fight while Iâm on a business trip. Iâm disgusted with you, and now I donât want to talk to you for the rest of the day.â She barely heard him hang up the phone as she stammered, âIâm so sorry! I wasnât trying to pick a fight!â
In this example, the gaslighter diverted his wifeâs attention away from his behavior by giving excuses that were unlikely, yet not completely implausible. She doubted herself, and this created enough confusion in the wife that when he criticized her and told her she needed to seek treatment, she wondered if that were true as well. He then used contempt and rejection. In this confused state, the wife felt desperate as she not only didnât want to be abandoned, but she wanted him to see her clearly and not push her away. She called him back to beg for him to talk with her, putting to the side the gnawing feeling he had betrayed her and instead focusing on her apologies to him."
one time my bf was busy guilt tripping me
i got so hurt that i decided
you know what? i don't have to stay still and listen to this
i walked away and he's the one hurt now
sometimes i just can't deal with itclick to expand
Posted by sierra_Posted by lisabethur8sometimes it's just really hard to connect with someone elsePosted by sierra_i dont know why she never remarried after bernard left her and went to prison.Posted by lisabethur8he definitely didPosted by sierra_did your ex libra gaslight you?Posted by lisabethur8pisces gaslights much like libraPosted by sierra_she left a suicide note too.Posted by lisabethur8they both have fire in themPosted by sierra_23 augustPosted by lisabethur8yeah i think her bday makes her more of a virgo-leo cusperPosted by sierra_she's actually a double Leo. He was a capricorn rising, pisces sun, sag moon. aries venus, pisces mars jupiter aries.
i think his ex wife was a virgo who committed suicide at their home while he was in there
their kids found her.. hanged herself i think
some speculate he might've killed her or something
but she's been accusing him of being emotionally/mentally abusive to her
but she may have some virgo. I have to re-look at her chart. or she's a cusper near the virgo sun.
yeah it's too suspicious. that all of a sudden he gets out of prison, he was the last to see her as an adult, and had complaints of him abusing her and then she commits suicide??
https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krisztina_R% C3% A1dy
you're right...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leo_(astrology)
23 is the last day. that's cusp.
but why they get so depressing
it was stated that he left her for marie, separation. which is why no divorce at that time, but processing.
also with marie she left her husband.
it's weird he is SO violent with marie... to the point of killing her.
but with his ex wife?? he didnt physically abuse her. only mentally abuse her /gas lighting which is gross too.
"She had spoken out in defence of her ex-husband during his trial in Lithuania, saying he had never been violent with her during their marriage."
http://www.news.com.au/breaking-news/french-rock-star-bertrand-cantat-questioned-after-ex-wife-kristina-radys-suicide/news-story/6c5e137e466df4b23909d2d547533a4b
both were probably obsessed with eachother. eww. he looks too creepy to me.
hydroah likes the ex wife's looks more sooo now i understand where he coming from...
cause that bertrand looks like a creepy guy. and scary fucker!!
see, thing is they know how to bury stuff in the virgo mind
i know this in my own relationship
the mind is the battlefield much more than the body
guilt is a weapon they often use
honestly it hurts me a lot sometimes
coz it's a way of twisting my intentions
i never had that problem with my ex pisces husband. he never gas lit me at all. he hated his mother because she was always bitter and nagged alot. I did her chart... her ex scorpio left her for another woman...and she was a leo with virgo and cancer placements. -_- jesus....the astrology. the woman he ended up with had cancer and gemini placements.. he was a scorpio with aries, gemini and virgo placements.
but there's a happy ending for her, she remarried a good man and stayed married to him for decades i heard. However, for some reason she was still bitter over the scorpio. maybe it is what is happeneing here, with bertrand and Rady, she is bitter that he doesn't love her. that's gotta suck major.
it's the unrequited thing going on.
as for my ex, he was just avoidant of his problems and drank and did heroin cocaine his problems away... it's like he just wanted to have a death wish.
the pisces sometimes guilt trips me but doesn't make me feel nor look crazy (the libra would've)
we drink sometimes but stay away from anything else
hmm as for rady.. she's got a lot of virgo.. i think that yeah that feeling that she's been left behind and also the mental toll on her.. that probably drove her to suicide
she could have rebuilt her life.
she had that possibility. the man didnt love her, and obviously didnt care if she committed suicide.
she poured way too much energy into a man who didnt want her. it really is a big waste.
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Posted by sierra_yeah it is mars/pluto. lol
@lisabethur8
i can get confrontational too
but only later on when we're in a more relaxed mood
when i think we're both more reasonable
we can both get very jealous
i blame the aries energy in our charts
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and the current Sophie Marceau, Juliette Binoche...all famous french actresses.
this woman's chart is, Taurus rising (there's the algol, demon) and especially with women they get abused...i notice this with taurus rising, taurus moon, taurus suns (not all, but just a pattern i see) even other taurus placements ..
for example, Nicole Simpson has two taurus placements. one of them is 10 degree taurus mercury, the worst algol...and she was brutally killed.
this is Marie Trigtignant.
http://blog.virgovault.com/2012/10/02/fixed-star-algol-25-taurus-sexual-emotional-psychological-drives-heterosexual-men-algol/
here she has the saddest eyes..
https://www.astrotheme.fr/astrologie/Marie_Trintignant
taurus rising, Aquarius sun, Leo moon. Capricorn mars. (She has a stellium in Aquarius, sun, saturn, Jupiter and mercury all opposing her Leo moon) squaring her taurus rising.
she was married to a leo rising cancer sun, aries mars, taurus moon. His leo rising makes his 7th house Aquarius for his marriage partner...or those energies.
samuel bentritchet.
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Samuel_Benchetrit
this was them together
she was brutally killed by a fellow frenchman.
reports said her head was smashed /punched into at least 19 times causing her death.
"Marie Trintignant died aged 41 of a cerebral edema on 1 August 2003 in Vilnius, Lithuania, as a result of being repeatedly punched by her boyfriend Bertrand Cantat, lead singer with the French rock group Noir DĂŠsir.[3]"
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marie_Trintignant
when the man who killed her was about to be released, many female activists & victim's parents joined in to prevent his release back in 2007.
female activists joined in to rally against women's abuse that kills.
i think they did the same for nicole simpson.