Tests!

Do you constantly test your partners, lover, friends, interests or whatever have you— You guys are such logical creatures that you can't help your self can you? tell me, what have you done or said in the past that were you testing them. Conciously or non conciously? The annoying thing is, I have Aqua moon n mars and I do that a lot but, when it's being done to me it's super annoying lol

Never even on the back of my mind!

If you need to test - it means you are feeling they aren't true to you. Yes?

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Never even on the back of my mind!

If you need to test - it means you are feeling they aren't true to you. Yes?

Are u an Aqua? , nah, I do it a lot lol.... having Aqua moon. I test men's patience on purpose and right now I'm Being tested on the same thing.... having the test of my own medicines big time

Hm not with bad intentions though! If the communication is good and both try to communicate on the same level then there's no test needed. But I know exactly what you mean.

"Test:"- A term coined by those who want to justify being treated like shit.

I don't think most men even know how to test, I wouldn't know so it could be the same for aqua males. It's probably exhausting anyway

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I don't think most men even know how to test, I wouldn't know so it could be the same for aqua males. It's probably exhausting anyway

The Aqua admits to me he tests women on a regular basis lol.

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I don't think most men even know how to test, I wouldn't know so it could be the same for aqua males. It's probably exhausting anyway

The Aqua admits to me he tests women on a regular basis lol.

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How?

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Do you constantly test your partners, lover, friends, interests or whatever have you— You guys are such logical creatures that you can't help your self can you? tell me, what have you done or said in the past that were you testing them. Conciously or non conciously? The annoying thing is, I have Aqua moon n mars and I do that a lot but, when it's being done to me it's super annoying lol

What have you done? Give examples ?

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Posted by TheSag
I don't think most men even know how to test, I wouldn't know so it could be the same for aqua males. It's probably exhausting anyway

The Aqua admits to me he tests women on a regular basis lol.

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Then he's a sociopath.

No i don't think I do.

i'm pretty authentic and open about who i am; sometimes more than i should be tbh. People either like me or they don't.

I would need examples of these "tests" to even understand and be able to say yes or no.

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Do you constantly test your partners, lover, friends, interests or whatever have you— You guys are such logical creatures that you can't help your self can you? tell me, what have you done or said in the past that were you testing them. Conciously or non conciously? The annoying thing is, I have Aqua moon n mars and I do that a lot but, when it's being done to me it's super annoying lol

What have you done? Give examples ?

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Oh god ok ok, well I always test men's patience. Purposely don't reply or cancel on dates to see how clingy they can get. So far the cap has passed and the Leo have failed. The Scorpio failed big time, he would reply within mins and always text n text n text so I just ghost him out for a month and come back to see how he's doing lol.... mostly I test men to see if they will become clingy. I don't even like it when men ask me what I am doing lol... now, the Aqua knows all that about me and he seems to be acting the way I like it. Give me space, doing and saying the right thing and now he's testing my patience . Big time. I test to see if they will become a good compatible partner for me. Like I'm supposed to go out with the cap dancing to see if we match each other on that level lol. I even told the Aqua about it coz we might bump into each other n I don't want him to think I'm playing mind games lol..., but, Aqua seem to test people so they can become better human being... like if I tell him I have changed on certain things, he will act in a way to see if I have truly change... purposely acting out to watch my reaction or whatever... I see it from miles away n so far, I am doing ok at it hahahahahaha .... but , it shud end soon so the tests get exhausting lol....

I see Aqua placement is also a bit like a teacher, they will say their opinion and things and see if you will adapt and thrive to be a better human or not. If not, they r not going to invest much time and energy on you.. I could be totally wrong here. But after weeks of the Aqua regularly coming watch me in the dance clsss to see if I have practised and if I have improve myself, it's becoming more clear to me. He also become bossy at times, if I don't practise or become stubborn n doing everything completely 360 degrees hahahahhaa he says I am a lot more stubborn I thin I have mostly fixed in my chart where he's more Matual Aqua... so I'm trying to calm the stubbornness down. Maybe I have the it's my way or no way attitude too lol... .. with friends I don't care I love all the same and no testing or whether with, lovers though , they better be ready IMAo

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I don't think most men even know how to test, I wouldn't know so it could be the same for aqua males. It's probably exhausting anyway

The Aqua admits to me he tests women on a regular basis lol.

Then he's a sociopath.

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Lol so I am too! ?

Ok, we had a discussion a few months back about tests things, and he said he asks questions to poke into their mind and to see what they are like. He has 3 dates rules. He holds a woman hand a certain way to see how she reacts. He says no on purpose to see how she reacts. Along the line, I have see other pieces he's been doing along the way.... Aqua is stubborn nature too, n I feel like, this is me. If you can't deal with it then don't waste ur time... coz Aqua don't change for anyone. They also test ur loyalty and your patience and your way of expressing anger or sad feelings. He's big on physical anger. If there're physical fights or anger it's a big no no. Stuff like that... these r just examples ...

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I don't think most men even know how to test, I wouldn't know so it could be the same for aqua males. It's probably exhausting anyway

The Aqua admits to me he tests women on a regular basis lol.

Then he's a sociopath.

Lol so I am too! ?

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Yes.

Immature and stupid people also play these childish "testing" games. Grow up.

I'm part aqua... And no. Maybe when i was young and insecure but not now

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I don't think most men even know how to test, I wouldn't know so it could be the same for aqua males. It's probably exhausting anyway

The Aqua admits to me he tests women on a regular basis lol.

Then he's a sociopath.

Lol so I am too! ?

Yes.

Immature and stupid people also play these childish "testing" games. Grow up.

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So people should just go about love and relationships blindly? Umm nah I don't see that as sociopathic behaviour? I see it as an evaluation of compatability and analyzing if that person is someone you'd be happy with long term.

There's harm in going about it all blindly... people can end up more hurt after going through a long relationship that was never going to work out! if they had 'tested' each other initially they'd be able to figure out the quality of the relationship that they're heading into sooner and save themselves heartache.. no?

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I don't think most men even know how to test, I wouldn't know so it could be the same for aqua males. It's probably exhausting anyway

The Aqua admits to me he tests women on a regular basis lol.

Then he's a sociopath.

Lol so I am too! ?

Yes.

Immature and stupid people also play these childish "testing" games. Grow up.

So people should just go about love and relationships blindly? Umm nah I don't see that as sociopathic behaviour? I see it as an evaluation of compatability and analyzing if that person is someone you'd be happy with long term.

There's harm in going about it all blindly... people can end up more hurt after going through a long relationship that was never going to work out! if they had 'tested' each other initially they'd be able to figure out the quality of the relationship that they're heading into sooner and save themselves heartache.. no?

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Thank you!!!! LoL. Exactly what I mean... you can test people's behaviour before hand. I truly think that's coming from my Aqua side of my chart... I seem to do it a lot subconsciously... lots of signs are shown early. How they handle anger . Are they going to be clingy or possessive. Are they going to have real goals. What are they like when they sad or happy. Etc etc. normally once I make up my mind about someone it's normally fixed and I'm normally right about them.... also connection is important. Physical, emotional and mental connection. That's also important for me....🙂

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Posted by TheSag
I don't think most men even know how to test, I wouldn't know so it could be the same for aqua males. It's probably exhausting anyway

The Aqua admits to me he tests women on a regular basis lol.

Then he's a sociopath.

Lol so I am too! ?

Yes.

Immature and stupid people also play these childish "testing" games. Grow up.

So people should just go about love and relationships blindly? Umm nah I don't see that as sociopathic behaviour? I see it as an evaluation of compatability and analyzing if that person is someone you'd be happy with long term.

There's harm in going about it all blindly... people can end up more hurt after going through a long relationship that was never going to work out! if they had 'tested' each other initially they'd be able to figure out the quality of the relationship that they're heading into sooner and save themselves heartache.. no?

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Are you and Aqua?

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Posted by TheSag
I don't think most men even know how to test, I wouldn't know so it could be the same for aqua males. It's probably exhausting anyway

The Aqua admits to me he tests women on a regular basis lol.

Then he's a sociopath.

Lol so I am too! ?

Yes.

Immature and stupid people also play these childish "testing" games. Grow up.

So people should just go about love and relationships blindly? Umm nah I don't see that as sociopathic behaviour? I see it as an evaluation of compatability and analyzing if that person is someone you'd be happy with long term.

There's harm in going about it all blindly... people can end up more hurt after going through a long relationship that was never going to work out! if they had 'tested' each other initially they'd be able to figure out the quality of the relationship that they're heading into sooner and save themselves heartache.. no?

Are you and Aqua?

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No I'm a cancer and I think I failed the Aquas tests. ugh I'm real sad at the moment but I love him like no one could fathom.

And I get it.... I understand why they do it.

Posted by saweetz1988
Do you constantly test your partners, lover, friends, interests or whatever have you— You guys are such logical creatures that you can't help your self can you? tell me, what have you done or said in the past that were you testing them. Conciously or non conciously? The annoying thing is, I have Aqua moon n mars and I do that a lot but, when it's being done to me it's super annoying lol

It seems you are projecting too much of your own "testing thing" and push this "testing thing" into your lovers.... no need to be so insecure

testing if somebody is getting clingy? and then brag about it? how amusing (for you presumably)... do you feel more important after they get clingy? 🙂 does it prove your worth?

do you feel that everybody loves you? or is into you? just be aware of your testing, because its a symptom of many opressed feelings 🙂

if your Aqua confessed to you of testing, dont you think its a sarcasm? That would be my first thought

not everything and everybody is "testing", some Aquas (not only aquas) are just normal, you know 🙂

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Do you constantly test your partners, lover, friends, interests or whatever have you— You guys are such logical creatures that you can't help your self can you? tell me, what have you done or said in the past that were you testing them. Conciously or non conciously? The annoying thing is, I have Aqua moon n mars and I do that a lot but, when it's being done to me it's super annoying lol

What have you done? Give examples ?

Oh god ok ok, well I always test men's patience. Purposely don't reply or cancel on dates to see how clingy they can get. So far the cap has passed and the Leo have failed. The Scorpio failed big time, he would reply within mins and always text n text n text so I just ghost him out for a month and come back to see how he's doing lol.... mostly I test men to see if they will become clingy. I don't even like it when men ask me what I am doing lol... now, the Aqua knows all that about me and he seems to be acting the way I like it. Give me space, doing and saying the right thing and now he's testing my patience . Big time. I test to see if they will become a good compatible partner for me. Like I'm supposed to go out with the cap dancing to see if we match each other on that level lol. I even told the Aqua about it coz we might bump into each other n I don't want him to think I'm playing mind games lol..., but, Aqua seem to test people so they can become better human being... like if I tell him I have changed on certain things, he will act in a way to see if I have truly change... purposely acting out to watch my reaction or whatever... I see it from miles away n so far, I am doing ok at it hahahahahaha .... but , it shud end soon so the tests get exhausting lol....

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Haha thanks for sharing.

I don't do that to my SO maybe to others —

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Do you constantly test your partners, lover, friends, interests or whatever have you— You guys are such logical creatures that you can't help your self can you? tell me, what have you done or said in the past that were you testing them. Conciously or non conciously? The annoying thing is, I have Aqua moon n mars and I do that a lot but, when it's being done to me it's super annoying lol

It seems you are projecting too much of your own "testing thing" and push this "testing thing" into your lovers.... no need to be so insecure

testing if somebody is getting clingy? and then brag about it? how amusing (for you presumably)... do you feel more important after they get clingy? 🙂 does it prove your worth?

do you feel that everybody loves you? or is into you? just be aware of your testing, because its a symptom of many opressed feelings 🙂

if your Aqua confessed to you of testing, dont you think its a sarcasm? That would be my first thought

not everything and everybody is "testing", some Aquas (not only aquas) are just normal, you know 🙂

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Sacarsm? How is the clingy testing proving my worth? What's wrong with me not wanting clingy men? lol.... I think I'm a just a normal person who doesn't want a clingy obsessive partner. your answer does not make sense at all lol.

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Do you constantly test your partners, lover, friends, interests or whatever have you— You guys are such logical creatures that you can't help your self can you? tell me, what have you done or said in the past that were you testing them. Conciously or non conciously? The annoying thing is, I have Aqua moon n mars and I do that a lot but, when it's being done to me it's super annoying lol

What have you done? Give examples ?

Oh god ok ok, well I always test men's patience. Purposely don't reply or cancel on dates to see how clingy they can get. So far the cap has passed and the Leo have failed. The Scorpio failed big time, he would reply within mins and always text n text n text so I just ghost him out for a month and come back to see how he's doing lol.... mostly I test men to see if they will become clingy. I don't even like it when men ask me what I am doing lol... now, the Aqua knows all that about me and he seems to be acting the way I like it. Give me space, doing and saying the right thing and now he's testing my patience . Big time. I test to see if they will become a good compatible partner for me. Like I'm supposed to go out with the cap dancing to see if we match each other on that level lol. I even told the Aqua about it coz we might bump into each other n I don't want him to think I'm playing mind games lol..., but, Aqua seem to test people so they can become better human being... like if I tell him I have changed on certain things, he will act in a way to see if I have truly change... purposely acting out to watch my reaction or whatever... I see it from miles away n so far, I am doing ok at it hahahahahaha .... but , it shud end soon so the tests get exhausting lol....

Haha thanks for sharing.

I don't do that to my SO maybe to others —

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Lol seeeeeeee

I'm not an aqua...but I do test people or rather life test them and I watch the results...

I'm a Scorpio moon so alot of times I feel like if you lurk long enough people will show you who they are...

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Do you constantly test your partners, lover, friends, interests or whatever have you— You guys are such logical creatures that you can't help your self can you? tell me, what have you done or said in the past that were you testing them. Conciously or non conciously? The annoying thing is, I have Aqua moon n mars and I do that a lot but, when it's being done to me it's super annoying lol

What have you done? Give examples ?

Oh god ok ok, well I always test men's patience. Purposely don't reply or cancel on dates to see how clingy they can get. So far the cap has passed and the Leo have failed. The Scorpio failed big time, he would reply within mins and always text n text n text so I just ghost him out for a month and come back to see how he's doing lol.... mostly I test men to see if they will become clingy. I don't even like it when men ask me what I am doing lol... now, the Aqua knows all that about me and he seems to be acting the way I like it. Give me space, doing and saying the right thing and now he's testing my patience . Big time. I test to see if they will become a good compatible partner for me. Like I'm supposed to go out with the cap dancing to see if we match each other on that level lol. I even told the Aqua about it coz we might bump into each other n I don't want him to think I'm playing mind games lol..., but, Aqua seem to test people so they can become better human being... like if I tell him I have changed on certain things, he will act in a way to see if I have truly change... purposely acting out to watch my reaction or whatever... I see it from miles away n so far, I am doing ok at it hahahahahaha .... but , it shud end soon so the tests get exhausting lol....

Haha thanks for sharing.

I don't do that to my SO maybe to others —

Lol seeeeeeee

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Your SO already passed all your tests lol

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Posted by Gemitati
Never even on the back of my mind!

If you need to test - it means you are feeling they aren't true to you. Yes?

Are u an Aqua? , nah, I do it a lot lol.... having Aqua moon. I test men's patience on purpose and right now I'm Being tested on the same thing.... having the test of my own medicines big time

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There's no scenario where that's plausible or even acceptable. If you test people for fun you're an asshole. If you have trust issues that's your problem you too have to work on yourself even if your friends/lovers are trustworthy or not; If you do it because you want to "study people's behaviour" well you should get punche din the face because people ain't your guinea pigs...read a book or watch a doc.

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I don't think most men even know how to test, I wouldn't know so it could be the same for aqua males. It's probably exhausting anyway

The Aqua admits to me he tests women on a regular basis lol.

Then he's a sociopath.

Lol so I am too! ?

Yes.

Immature and stupid people also play these childish "testing" games. Grow up.

So people should just go about love and relationships blindly? Umm nah I don't see that as sociopathic behaviour? I see it as an evaluation of compatability and analyzing if that person is someone you'd be happy with long term.

There's harm in going about it all blindly... people can end up more hurt after going through a long relationship that was never going to work out! if they had 'tested' each other initially they'd be able to figure out the quality of the relationship that they're heading into sooner and save themselves heartache.. no?

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Of course you shouldn't do it blindly! Firts of all relationships should start with friendship and some constructed trust (I think Aquas should know about that, right), that's the first step. Plus, you have a gut feeling use it, there's plenty of ways to analyze and probe the relationship without having to test people.