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Nope IME they like real bitches. Someone that won't take their shit. My cancer ex told me when he first started to really like me was when I stood up to him. We use to work together and one time I was late to work and he was giving me shit. I just told him to mind his own damn business. Don't get me wrong I'm a sweet girl. But I don't take shit from no one. So that really got to him because he wasn't expecting it. He said he caught goo goo eyes for me after that.

It's not they don't like sweet women, they do, but they don't want doormats like most men.
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Nope IME they like real bitches. Someone that won't take their shit. My cancer ex told me when he first started to really like me was when I stood up to him. We use to work together and one time I was late to work and he was giving me shit. I just told him to mind his own damn business. Don't get me wrong I'm a sweet girl. But I don't take shit from no one. So that really got to him because he wasn't expecting it. He said he caught goo goo eyes for me after that.

It's not they don't like sweet women, they do, but they don't want doormats like most men.
Only one sample to make a generalization for a whole group of men born between 22 June- 22 July. I'm writhing in pain. Masochist is someone who gets sexual satisfaction from being subjected to physical pain or humiliation. You didn't humiliate him, you just showed your clear cut independence and that is what cancer men have to hots for.
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I was just joking about the masochism thing!! It use to be an inside joke between me and him!
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Nope IME they like real bitches. Someone that won't take their shit. My cancer ex told me when he first started to really like me was when I stood up to him. We use to work together and one time I was late to work and he was giving me shit. I just told him to mind his own damn business. Don't get me wrong I'm a sweet girl. But I don't take shit from no one. So that really got to him because he wasn't expecting it. He said he caught goo goo eyes for me after that.

It's not they don't like sweet women, they do, but they don't want doormats like most men.
Only one sample to make a generalization for a whole group of men born between 22 June- 22 July. I'm writhing in pain. Masochist is someone who gets sexual satisfaction from being subjected to physical pain or humiliation. You didn't humiliate him, you just showed your clear cut independence and that is what cancer men have to hots for.
I was just joking about the masochism thing!! It use to be an inside joke between me and him!


Damn. I let the cat out. Oh well at least Leo won the Oscar. I'm still happy.
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Hey! I'm an Aries and am always too happy to play Dom with whips and chains 😉
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Seriously... I thought it was the opposite, I thought they were super sensitive and needed a girl that would be sweet and caring; a real doormat type...
They say they want that, but choose women who will kick their ass verbally or physically. It's almost as if they have to fear their woman to love them.

Disclaimer: MY observation in my circle of cancers.
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Seriously... I thought it was the opposite, I thought they were super sensitive and needed a girl that would be sweet and caring; a real doormat type...
They say they want that, but choose women who will kick their ass verbally or physically. It's almost as if they have to fear their woman to love them.

Disclaimer: MY observation in my circle of cancers.
OK fine then could you imagine Morgan Freeman as a masochist?
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Don't bring Morgan Freeman in this because:

a) He's a celebrity and we all know how real celebrity lives are. You don't know what's real and what's a publicity stunt; and
b) I don't know him personally.
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Seriously... I thought it was the opposite, I thought they were super sensitive and needed a girl that would be sweet and caring; a real doormat type...
They say they want that, but choose women who will kick their ass verbally or physically. It's almost as if they have to fear their woman to love them.

Disclaimer: MY observation in my circle of cancers.
OK fine then could you imagine Morgan Freeman as a masochist?
Don't bring Morgan Freeman in this because:

a) He's a celebrity and we all know how real celebrity lives are. You don't know what's real and what's a publicity stunt; and
b) I don't know him personally.
I just find it very unethical to generalize because you only have a limited group of samples to come to a conclusion this quickly. I don't enjoy blatantly generalizing things like that. But what do I know?*shrug*( ̄ー ̄)

Edit: My bad didn't read last statement. Still not liking the label you put on us nonchalantly like this.
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Every sign has its good and its bad. I don't know why people take generalizations so personally. As long as they are not personally attacking me and I'm not guilty of the said behaviour, I don't care.
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When you get past the looks and stuff, I like stability and consistency.

But for looks, I like them thin and smart. Opinionated is unattractive on both men and women though at one point I thought it was a sign of a strong personality, it was not until later that I realized that it is a sign of a weak character.
You like them thin and smart, eh?! Where is your Venus? Also, being opinionated is not a sign of weakness. It is a sign of being human because one forms opinions based on their experience/surrounding. I read a lot and based on what I read and observe, I form opinions. To share those opinions passionately makes me opinionated on those topics because I formed a conclusion in my head. How is that indicative of a weak character? They are not connected at all.
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Posted by GemiGirl78
So, I'm trying to figure out what cancer men find attractive in a partner. Looks, height, skinny, curvy, smart, sweet, opinionated, etc Give me the sweet juicy info!!!
Hmm...all women attract by different things realy....but the values would go like kindness,empathy,humility,humble people who show more than they talk,because ussualy people who talk to much never do that much,i'm impressed with people's actions,tho nice words and compliments rly boost my ego ....ofc trust,respect for us is rly important,i need a person to respect me and trust me,if i see a person doesn't trust me,i get angry or sad,because i'm loyal and i need to know those around me trust me,thats why i don't rly have that many friends,but the one's i call friend is considered my family 🙂 just be yourself,you can't fool cancer,get to knowyouself and know how do you seduce,eveyone has their own special quoality,for example aries,confidence and sexual looks,pisces mistery and shy or her pretending not giving a fuck attitude,aquarius by his amazing looking for new things and adventures,cancers for i don't even know,probably because they are just simple and loving,the thing is,everyone has their own seduction tactic without even knowing about it,if you want to find out about it,read robert greene art of seduction,great book for boosting your awareness and knowing yourself beter🙂
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Ok so generalising cancers as pussies or weak or dependant or masochists lol. I keep mentioning this, on how we are isn't always about our astrology. Sometimes you have to look at people's background.

Unfortunately no one is perfect and it's the faults in someone that we can fall for.

I've dated a girl with model looks nd a shallow messed up personality to go with it!

I've been with a drifter girl who goes with the flow and is unpredictable. We like a bit of mystery but not too much to make us wonder.
Anyway that one ended in heartbreak on her side.

I have tried and tested being beaten physically and mentally and I can tell you now it's not Fucking funny.
I loved the girl but over time you realise she was taking her personal frustrations out on you. Just wasn't a healthy relationship.

I'm now with someone who worships my ground and in return she will always have someone to care for her and to hold her when she's down. Someone who she can trust someone who will always look after her.
We've both been broken and as a result know what's best.
Hence why I say it's better to judge by history and not astrology.

Pros:
We like pretty faces.
I like curvy girls, more female body types.
Nurturing, caring personality.
Good SOH.
A girl willing to see through our swings and still be there.

Cons:
Shallow bitches.
Bad guy lovers.
Stick thin self centered.
Cold hearted.

Again though this is my interpretation hope you've enjoyed the read.
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I mean I like thin and smart but that doesnt mean that is what I always get. I have leo venus.

Sounds like we have a semantic disagreement. Having an opinion is expected, but being opinionated is by definition "conceitedly assertive and dogmatic in one's opinions" which lends itself to a multitude of character flaws.
I liked your comment because I had an idea you'd have Venus in Leo. I have often noticed that Venus in Leo men like slim women.

Being opinionated is actually "expressing strong beliefs or judgments about something : having or showing strong opinions" according to the dictionary. This whole "conceitedly assertive or dogmatic" is completely wrong when you say opinionated. What you are referring to is being obstinate in your beliefs/rigid. That, I completely agree with. It's a turn off. You got to be flexible.
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When you get past the looks and stuff, I like stability and consistency.

But for looks, I like them thin and smart. Opinionated is unattractive on both men and women though at one point I thought it was a sign of a strong personality, it was not until later that I realized that it is a sign of a weak character.
I thought Csncer men liked curvy girls with a little meat on their bony sticks lol
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I mean I like thin and smart but that doesnt mean that is what I always get. I have leo venus.

Sounds like we have a semantic disagreement. Having an opinion is expected, but being opinionated is by definition "conceitedly assertive and dogmatic in one's opinions" which lends itself to a multitude of character flaws.
I liked your comment because I had an idea you'd have Venus in Leo. I have often noticed that Venus in Leo men like slim women.

Being opinionated is actually "expressing strong beliefs or judgments about something : having or showing strong opinions" according to the dictionary. This whole "conceitedly assertive or dogmatic" is completely wrong when you say opinionated. What you are referring to is being obstinate in your beliefs/rigid. That, I completely agree with. It's a turn off. You got to be flexible.
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What type of women does Venus in Gemini like?
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My dad is a Cancer and his Cap wife yells non stop. We all wonder how he deals with it, honestly
Same with my dad. He's a Cancer and he's been married 43 years to my Leeb mom who treats him like shit. I actually feel bad for him. Perhaps there's truth to the story.
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How many of you cancer men are absolutely batty over a woman that butters you up bad!
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So, I'm trying to figure out what cancer men find attractive in a partner. Looks, height, skinny, curvy, smart, sweet, opinionated, etc Give me the sweet juicy info!!!
Hmm...all women attract by different things realy....but the values would go like kindness,empathy,humility,humble people who show more than they talk,because ussualy people who talk to much never do that much,i'm impressed with people's actions,tho nice words and compliments rly boost my ego ....ofc trust,respect for us is rly important,i need a person to respect me and trust me,if i see a person doesn't trust me,i get angry or sad,because i'm loyal and i need to know those around me trust me,thats why i don't rly have that many friends,but the one's i call friend is considered my family 🙂 just be yourself,you can't fool cancer,get to knowyouself and know how do you seduce,eveyone has their own special quoality,for example aries,confidence and sexual looks,pisces mistery and shy or her pretending not giving a fuck attitude,aquarius by his amazing looking for new things and adventures,cancers for i don't even know,probably because they are just simple and loving,the thing is,everyone has their own seduction tactic without even knowing about it,if you want to find out about it,read robert greene art of seduction,great book for boosting your awareness and knowing yourself beter🙂
I like what you have to say, my boyfriend I put through the trust ringer for one year...he never gave up on me. We are so in love now. What is your birthday you sound the same as him.
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I'm a cancer guy born on june 22,inlove with pisces,but she changed me for a libra guy,meeting her on march 4 and hoping to work things out,but don't have to much hope,she broke my trust anyways.. we will see how it goes 🙂
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Hey OP, I understand you want to make yourself more attractive for this Cancer guy in your office. I think your best shot is to improve on what your strengths are rather than try to fit some arbitrary mold. Trust me, that is 1000x more attractive than anything else. Gemini's have their strengths, the ones that I have found very attractive are intelligent, smart and funny. Make it work for you, or better, keep doing what you're doing. If you want to force his hand, maybe you should just ask him out and be prepared for rejection or like they have said in the other thread, just grab him and kiss him.


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Posted by killerwhalemoon
All cancer men are different.
Im not skinny nor am i fat. My bf loves my body he treats me like a Goddess in bed and in life. He nurtures me.
I dont think my cancer has a preference on women. A good heart and mind is all it takes. Also if your good at vibing with some one...vibe with a cancer, he will crave your beautiful vibes and grow feelings.
A few weeks before me and mine became cuddle buddies we were sitting on a couch with my friend and i could feel him craving me. No idea why we just had this chemistry between each other and i remember looking over at him and he had this sweet look in his eyes. I never did anything about it but our legs where touching and i could feel him feeling safe and comfortable with me.
Then when we cuddled all that came into play and we got to be expressional. Now hes mine.
That is the cutest story I've heard... That's how it feels around my cancer, it's like a magnet and when we are in eachother's company everything is right in the world, like the balance is right. At least for me. Which for a Gemini that's saying lots cause we are up and down and out balance is always anything but right - like bad PH in the water for a beta fish! Lol
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So, I'm trying to figure out what cancer men find attractive in a partner. Looks, height, skinny, curvy, smart, sweet, opinionated, etc Give me the sweet juicy info!!!
Hmm...all women attract by different things realy....but the values would go like kindness,empathy,humility,humble people who show more than they talk,because ussualy people who talk to much never do that much,i'm impressed with people's actions,tho nice words and compliments rly boost my ego ....ofc trust,respect for us is rly important,i need a person to respect me and trust me,if i see a person doesn't trust me,i get angry or sad,because i'm loyal and i need to know those around me trust me,thats why i don't rly have that many friends,but the one's i call friend is considered my family 🙂 just be yourself,you can't fool cancer,get to knowyouself and know how do you seduce,eveyone has their own special quoality,for example aries,confidence and sexual looks,pisces mistery and shy or her pretending not giving a fuck attitude,aquarius by his amazing looking for new things and adventures,cancers for i don't even know,probably because they are just simple and loving,the thing is,everyone has their own seduction tactic without even knowing about it,if you want to find out about it,read robert greene art of seduction,great book for boosting your awareness and knowing yourself beter🙂
I like what you have to say, my boyfriend I put through the trust ringer for one year...he never gave up on me. We are so in love now. What is your birthday you sound the same as him.
I'm a cancer guy born on june 22,inlove with pisces,but she changed me for a libra guy,meeting her on march 4 and hoping to work things out,but don't have to much hope,she broke my trust anyways.. we will see how it goes 🙂
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Sorry to hear, that girl is bat-skunk-crazy! Cancer boys are the cutest ever... Like these big babies that love to cuddle, be sweet and just adore the ones they love in the most demonstrative and unexpected ways. I'd never trade my cancer for anyone else in the whole wide world, I'm just dying to keep him for good and forever...
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Hey OP, I understand you want to make yourself more attractive for this Cancer guy in your office. I think your best shot is to improve on what your strengths are rather than try to fit some arbitrary mold. Trust me, that is 1000x more attractive than anything else. Gemini's have their strengths, the ones that I have found very attractive are intelligent, smart and funny. Make it work for you, or better, keep doing what you're doing. If you want to force his hand, maybe you should just ask him out and be prepared for rejection or like they have said in the other thread, just grab him and kiss him.

I'm the type of Gemini that isn't completely forward and can sometimes be a little shy. But yes, I am the funny, smart and witty type... I make friends everywhere I go... I just don't want him to think that I want to be his bestie... That's not my intent at all.., but when I tell him that he gets upset like I do nice things with some ulterior motive cause I want a piece of him... Not my fault that little crab looks so succulent and delicious! Yum... Lol haha
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Their masochists. They love being treated badly.
That is a true statement. Gluttons for punishment.
cancers crave organization & structure, yes punishment, discipline

they are chaos & moody

all signs crave their opposite
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Yup. I guess someone who won't put up with their shit either? Imagine a gemini with many cancer placements
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Their masochists. They love being treated badly.
That is a true statement. Gluttons for punishment.
cancers crave organization & structure, yes punishment, discipline

they are chaos & moody

all signs crave their opposite
Yup. I guess someone who won't put up with their shit either? Imagine a gemini with many cancer placements
i dated a gemini w/ venus in cancer one time.

we were both immediately attracted to each other.. but he had these super high expectations of me, career-wise. My shit was set. but i didn't like the fact that he had expectations. Like, I'm good. I don't need another daddy. I need you to help me relax.

but yeah..

Oh god...

I remember this cancer from HS... he called me like 50 times in a day to ask for help on hw. I literally had to hold his hand through it. it was starting to piss me off. I found out he was doing this to other people too.

And there's this girl I used to go clubbing with who's a cancer.. She would text me like 20 times before the set time to confirm, and then she'd CANCEL.. and then she'd accuse me of potentially not being on time.. And it's like. Bruh. The time. is. SET. JUST CHILL. I'M A TAURUS. SO I KEEP DEADLINES & PLANS ON TRACK. She was causing all this drama out of nothing. Like dude stop creating problems out of nothing. Just don't talk to me until the time we're supposed to meet up unless you got something real to say. It's like the girl who cried wolf.. she kept bringing up all this shit to the point that nothing she said was credible anymore. Only bring up a problem IF A REAL PROBLEM EXISTS. I'm not gonna baby you if it's ova some BULLLSHIIT.
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If you told her all that, I'm sure she ended up appreciating the fact that you didn't put up with her bullshit. Haha
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Posted by killerwhalemoon
All cancer men are different.
Im not skinny nor am i fat. My bf loves my body he treats me like a Goddess in bed and in life. He nurtures me.
I dont think my cancer has a preference on women. A good heart and mind is all it takes. Also if your good at vibing with some one...vibe with a cancer, he will crave your beautiful vibes and grow feelings.
A few weeks before me and mine became cuddle buddies we were sitting on a couch with my friend and i could feel him craving me. No idea why we just had this chemistry between each other and i remember looking over at him and he had this sweet look in his eyes. I never did anything about it but our legs where touching and i could feel him feeling safe and comfortable with me.
Then when we cuddled all that came into play and we got to be expressional. Now hes mine.
I enjoyed this read. Real cute lol. Awesome when u can pick up feelings like a chemical reaction.
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Posted by RumiL
They like girls who are genuine and shy :p

I think they like girls who are

Girl next door type
Sweet/warm
Shy
Courteous
Studious/work-oriented.

Hmm.. They like girls who they can feel comfortable in all THEIR own crabby feely shyness 😄
That's a pretty good description of me 😄

The want a lady on the streets and a freak in the sheets ‚‚
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When you get past the looks and stuff, I like stability and consistency.

But for looks, I like them thin and smart. Opinionated is unattractive on both men and women though at one point I thought it was a sign of a strong personality, it was not until later that I realized that it is a sign of a weak character.
I thought Csncer men liked curvy girls with a little meat on their bony sticks lol
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This is why I asked him about his venus because that placement dictates what kind of woman they are attracted to.
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When you get past the looks and stuff, I like stability and consistency.

But for looks, I like them thin and smart. Opinionated is unattractive on both men and women though at one point I thought it was a sign of a strong personality, it was not until later that I realized that it is a sign of a weak character.
I thought Csncer men liked curvy girls with a little meat on their bony sticks lol
This is why I asked him about his venus because that placement dictates what kind of woman they are attracted to.
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venus and moon apparantly, long term.
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When you get past the looks and stuff, I like stability and consistency.

But for looks, I like them thin and smart. Opinionated is unattractive on both men and women though at one point I thought it was a sign of a strong personality, it was not until later that I realized that it is a sign of a weak character.
I thought Csncer men liked curvy girls with a little meat on their bony sticks lol
This is why I asked him about his venus because that placement dictates what kind of woman they are attracted to.
venus and moon apparantly, long term.
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Yep, moon for long term. I'd consider both and I think they like someone that's a medium between their moon and venus.

My ex was a venus in Virgo and moon in Aries. My personality catered to both these placements and that is why our connection was so strong.
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When you get past the looks and stuff, I like stability and consistency.

But for looks, I like them thin and smart. Opinionated is unattractive on both men and women though at one point I thought it was a sign of a strong personality, it was not until later that I realized that it is a sign of a weak character.
I thought Csncer men liked curvy girls with a little meat on their bony sticks lol
This is why I asked him about his venus because that placement dictates what kind of woman they are attracted to.
venus and moon apparantly, long term.
Yep, moon for long term. I'd consider both and I think they like someone that's a medium between their moon and venus.

My ex was a venus in Virgo and moon in Aries. My personality catered to both these placements and that is why our connection was so strong.
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i was just mentioning Vin Diesel much earlier today, cause we were watching one of his films last night,

and his woman is a Leo sun/Leo mars. (dont know what house) but he's got sag moon/virgo venus.

And he's a 9th house sun as well, so those energies trine his lady love's personal planets. that is why he feels fulfilled with her.

she has aquarius moon, virgo venus, and that aquarius part of her likes his Sagittarius.
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what does a venus in virgo or a venus in libra like?
Venus in virgo, contrary to what astrology says about them, is an insecure placement. Astrology says they are picky, but they aren't. They like smart looking women. Whether or not you're actually smart doesn't matter, but if you look smart or can con them into thinking you're smart, you're in. LOL. They are pretty shy and won't make the first move unless they have the reassurance that they won't get rejected. They are neat freaks when it comes to their appearance so they want that in their partner.

My ex used to take two showers a day and said "eww" to me for taking a shower once a day or even every other day in winter.

They like women who will appreciate their half ass, stingy efforts in love. Listening to you whine about something is them showing you love. Don't expect gifts or poetry from them. They like women to splurge on them, but not the other way around.
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what does a venus in virgo or a venus in libra like?
Venus in virgo, contrary to what astrology says about them, is an insecure placement. Astrology says they are picky, but they aren't. They like smart looking women. Whether or not you're actually smart doesn't matter, but if you look smart or can con them into thinking you're smart, you're in. LOL. They are pretty shy and won't make the first move unless they have the reassurance that they won't get rejected. They are neat freaks when it comes to their appearance so they want that in their partner.

My ex used to take two showers a day and said "eww" to me for taking a shower once a day or even every other day in winter.

They like women who will appreciate their half ass, stingy efforts in love. Listening to you whine about something is them showing you love. Don't expect gifts or poetry from them. They like women to splurge on them, but not the other way around.
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jesus that sounds cheap.

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