Cancers Triggered by the word "space"

ok in light of my most recent post about the Aqua, I've noticed literally the only people commenting who were bothered by my use of the word "space", have been cancers. Regardless of my expressing use of the word with context and intentional details of reasoning as to not confuse the Aqua. THAT SAID im running a new study. CANCERS: HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE FELT PERSONALLY VICTIMIZED BY REGINA GEORGE.....i mean..... HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE FELT PERSONALLY VICTIMIZED BY THE WORD "SPACE" ?

Who hurt ya'll to make you feel it's such a dirty word?

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll

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"so you agree? you think you're really pretty." -RG

Posted by MissKrabs

What? I love space 👽👽👽

tehehehe

Posted by LethalFantasia

This post..... The Mean Girls references....

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P.S - I'm a Gemini and I would feel extremely devastated and crushed and pretty much very upset for atleast 2-3 months and even THEN it would be in the back of my mind if I had a bae and he said we need space

xoxoxoxox

Haha Got you fam! And word, so i guess a broader term would be that you feel frustrated for 2-3 months but try to not think about it? Is that a gemini thing? Ya'll can be such a mystery to me sometimes.

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Posted by LethalFantasia

This post..... The Mean Girls references....

I LOVE YOU



P.S - I'm a Gemini and I would feel extremely devastated and crushed and pretty much very upset for atleast 2-3 months and even THEN it would be in the back of my mind if I had a bae and he said we need space

xoxoxoxox

Yeah but this wasn't i need space, you are suffocating me, just telling in advance about her needs so there won't be any confusion. Big difference.

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correct.

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Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by LethalFantasia

This post..... The Mean Girls references....

I LOVE YOU



P.S - I'm a Gemini and I would feel extremely devastated and crushed and pretty much very upset for atleast 2-3 months and even THEN it would be in the back of my mind if I had a bae and he said we need space

xoxoxoxox

Haha Got you fam! And word, so i guess a broader term would be that you feel frustrated for 2-3 months but try to not think about it? Is that a gemini thing? Ya'll can be such a mystery to me sometimes.

I think we're a mystery because we desperately try not to show our true intimate feelings in fear of losing control or looking weak asf

So we are very good at acting and you would never be able to tell that the smiling Gemini who is talking to everyone at the table is secretly very down

lolz

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That actually makes a lot of sense. I just left this house and moved, but the previous house i was in i lived with a gemini and she was just across the hall from me so Id observe her a lot out of curiosity. One day she had a christmas party and only half the people showed up. The second the last person left she ran upstairs and was sobbing like crazy and her bf had to run and comfort her for hours.

Actually I think only 2 of them were Cancers. There rest were (off the top of my head) a couple of Aquas, a Virgo (the one you had a petty argument with), I think there was another Virgo as well. And 2 Scorpios.

Posted by Ram416

Actually I think only 2 of them were Cancers. There rest were (off the top of my head) a couple of Aquas, a Virgo (the one you had a petty argument with), I think there was another Virgo as well. And 2 Scorpios.

I was specifying those who got stuck on the word it self. like "TRIGGERED" all the other's were more so questioning my reasonings for needing space and not the use of the word. And post my rebuttals changed their tunes. Or didnt take it so seriously. The cancers were just STUCK on it. And as a cancer I know what triggered af looks like haha

Posted by Ram416

Actually I think only 2 of them were Cancers. There rest were (off the top of my head) a couple of Aquas, a Virgo (the one you had a petty argument with), I think there was another Virgo as well. And 2 Scorpios.

also who did I argue with? lol

Posted by MissKrabs

Ok downloaded mean girls.

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAS !!! Im happy about this.

I think if you have to tell your partner you need space, then either you are not ready for a relationship or they are not the right for fit you. Sorry, not sorry 💁🏻‍♀️

Posted by Moonbutter

I think if you have to tell your partner you need space, then either you are not ready for a relationship or they are not the right for fit you. Sorry, not sorry 💁🏻‍♀️

how old are you? asking for a friend

Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by Moonbutter

I think if you have to tell your partner you need space, then either you are not ready for a relationship or they are not the right for fit you. Sorry, not sorry 💁🏻‍♀️

how old are you? asking for a friend

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You can tell your friend “thanks, but I’m already taken” 😆

Lmao

Posted by Arielle83

Maybe it’s ironic that you’re asking for “SPACE”, because your post history shows that you don’t like “SPACE”.

You seem to have issues with “SPACE”. You come across as a clingy cancer that doesn’t want “SPACE”. So your text seemed funny when asking for “SPACE”.

Just “SPACE” it out a bit.

Or just...

Ever hear of emotional growth? I don’t disagree with you regarding who I was. But that was then and this is now. I understand a lot more than I could have said about my self 2 years ago. And how to communicate. I realized through these two years that I was upset about “space” because I was going after women who couldn’t communicate their boundaries properly in addition to my A) being bi polar and not taking meds, which has changed as of a year ago. And B) not working on my abandonment issues, which lead me to realize it wasn’t space I had issues with. It was giving other’s their space as I have always wanted my own. But I never experienced the opposite end of that because I never was in a situation where I felt there was equilibrium as I do with this aqua. I chose to be compassionate to my self and I’m proud of how far I come. I know all you guys see is my post history. But you can’t gauge emotional and spiritual growth on DXP. Judge all you want. I know who I am. And not for nothing, I make all these posts as lighthearted as possible. When really I’m so excited about how amazing this women is, regardless of if it works out or not. She is restoring my faith that there are still people out there open to love, boundaries, and no games. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Posted by vivi4656

I mean... I'm fine by the word! Actually... my current boyfriend and i were thinking about taking a break or having some space. I'm in nursing school and there have been some issues in our relationship... but, my main focus should be on my academics at this current moment. Anyways, we both love and want to be together.. We just both know that maybe we should work on ourselves first before moving forward. Anyways, yes.. I do know you can do that while in a relationship.. but sometimes, it's easier to work on yourself when all distractions are not at arms length (Not that my boyfriend and family are distractions! They are lovely distractions). It's just hard when you're an emotional person to focus fully on academics when you just had a fight with your significant other. Anyways- sorry for making this long! I guess.. I would say yes.. I am okay with space if it's truly needed to evaluate something in the relationship! But then again.. I do have my venus in gemini and moon in virgo... so... I usually need time to analyze a situation before moving forward.

YESSS ALL OF THIS YESSS. Finally someone looking at it with the intended point of view. SPACE IS HEALTHY!!! VOCALIZING BOUNDRIES IS HEALTHY!!

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Posted by Ram416

Actually I think only 2 of them were Cancers. There rest were (off the top of my head) a couple of Aquas, a Virgo (the one you had a petty argument with), I think there was another Virgo as well. And 2 Scorpios.

also who did I argue with? lol

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Posted by WaterDevil

Posted by vivi4656

I mean... I'm fine by the word! Actually... my current boyfriend and i were thinking about taking a break or having some space. I'm in nursing school and there have been some issues in our relationship... but, my main focus should be on my academics at this current moment. Anyways, we both love and want to be together.. We just both know that maybe we should work on ourselves first before moving forward. Anyways, yes.. I do know you can do that while in a relationship.. but sometimes, it's easier to work on yourself when all distractions are not at arms length (Not that my boyfriend and family are distractions! They are lovely distractions). It's just hard when you're an emotional person to focus fully on academics when you just had a fight with your significant other. Anyways- sorry for making this long! I guess.. I would say yes.. I am okay with space if it's truly needed to evaluate something in the relationship! But then again.. I do have my venus in gemini and moon in virgo... so... I usually need time to analyze a situation before moving forward.

YESSS ALL OF THIS YESSS. Finally someone looking at it with the intended point of view. SPACE IS HEALTHY!!! VOCALIZING BOUNDRIES IS HEALTHY!!

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You probably need to work on usage of words and situational descriptions because as far as I saw, people were confused by your words and sentences which seemed to state the opposite.

No one likes to be asked for space. Although unintentional, asking for space implies you're sick of them, they're annoying, or they're too clingy or needy or something negative. Even if all you want is to gather your thoughts and work out what's in your head. My ex was an Aqua, I considered asking for space once but didn't go through with it.

My current partner is a Cancer. Water signs are probably more vocal about how it would make them feel so they'll speak up when something is upsetting.

Aquarius is on the Ego axis with my type (Leo) so they are probably less inclined to admit that it would hurt their feelings. They'd rather bury them or pretend they don't care when they do. They are also fixed, so they'd be likely to keep the routine of regular contact to show they care. Saying it doesn't come as easily to them. They'll try to show it in some way because that's just how they do it.

Space is good & needed at times but hey I’m not a cancer anywhere in my chart except I think my north node

Lol you seriously have mental issues. I recommend a really good therapist.

Posted by Ram416

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Posted by vivi4656

I mean... I'm fine by the word! Actually... my current boyfriend and i were thinking about taking a break or having some space. I'm in nursing school and there have been some issues in our relationship... but, my main focus should be on my academics at this current moment. Anyways, we both love and want to be together.. We just both know that maybe we should work on ourselves first before moving forward. Anyways, yes.. I do know you can do that while in a relationship.. but sometimes, it's easier to work on yourself when all distractions are not at arms length (Not that my boyfriend and family are distractions! They are lovely distractions). It's just hard when you're an emotional person to focus fully on academics when you just had a fight with your significant other. Anyways- sorry for making this long! I guess.. I would say yes.. I am okay with space if it's truly needed to evaluate something in the relationship! But then again.. I do have my venus in gemini and moon in virgo... so... I usually need time to analyze a situation before moving forward.

YESSS ALL OF THIS YESSS. Finally someone looking at it with the intended point of view. SPACE IS HEALTHY!!! VOCALIZING BOUNDRIES IS HEALTHY!!

You probably need to work on usage of words and situational descriptions because as far as I saw, people were confused by your words and sentences which seemed to state the opposite.

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I don’t disagree with this

Posted by Elissar18

No one likes to be asked for space. Although unintentional, asking for space implies you're sick of them, they're annoying, or they're too clingy or needy or something negative. Even if all you want is to gather your thoughts and work out what's in your head. My ex was an Aqua, I considered asking for space once but didn't go through with it.

My current partner is a Cancer. Water signs are probably more vocal about how it would make them feel so they'll speak up when something is upsetting.

Aquarius is on the Ego axis with my type (Leo) so they are probably less inclined to admit that it would hurt their feelings. They'd rather bury them or pretend they don't care when they do. They are also fixed, so they'd be likely to keep the routine of regular contact to show they care. Saying it doesn't come as easily to them. They'll try to show it in some way because that's just how they do it.

Seen her last night on our date, it’s went very will. talked all night. Talked about my boundary. Came to an understanding. And communicated a lot about boundaries and feelings. She expressed many times how serious she was about me. So far so good. She did express that her insecurities came up when she seen the text and the younger version of her self would have taken offense but logically she understands now that it’s not about her and it’s sinoly learned insecurities she has to work on. So long as she trusts that I’ll be back after each time I decompress. Which thus far I’ve honored my word

Posted by pinkbird03

Lol you seriously have mental issues. I recommend a really good therapist.

Sure do. I’m bipolar and I see a therapist once a week and take self care and constantly grow. But maybe you should look in to yourself exploiting mental health issues to insult someone. Because if I do have mental health you are inconsiderable offending and insulting someone with a condition they can not help. Maybe find a more intelligent way to tell someone you disagree with their philosophies. Last I check I havnt insulted anyone and have been toung in chic the entire time. But I bet you won’t even read it. Which most trolls wouldn’t respond to a response that is direct and non confrontational as mine. I’m not insulting anyone just stating facts based off experience. And you are merely judging me and my experiences. What does that say about you?