Capricorn BF says Im TOO NICE and need to be more AGGRESSIVE TOWARDS HIM

Posted by AriesBaby954

Should I stop doing these nice things? I dunno

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pinkbird03 I ask him what he means he replies "I dont know"...I said but you said it I just want to know and he replies "I said I dunno"....THATS WHEN I GOT UPSET

Posted by AriesBaby954

Ok ill be more patient thanks pinkbird03

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Ok ill be more patient thanks pinkbird03

I think you need to communicate with him openly in a warm loving way. Show you care about his wants and needs.

I think she has already done that, hence the part about her being too nice. Lol he probably wishes she was a bit more independent, stood her ground more. From her description in the original post, it sounds like she has already showed that she cares about his wants/needs. He didn’t say he needs her to be more squishy and loving. Lol he said she’s too nice. he probably senses that she’s trying to come across as always being chill and perfect. That’s a red flag to an intuitive cap because he knows it’s bullshit and he knows no one is perfect. She needs to just be herself and stop trying to “be more patient, be more understanding, be more.. be more...” that’s a big part of the problem. She is playing a role. She just needs to be herself instead of trying so hard to make HIM happy.

And I’m not saying she should start treating him like shit. Be kind to him, of course.. but when the time calls for it, voice your argument instead of stifling your voice in an attempt to come across as being “his peace”.

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Posted by AriesBaby954

Ok ill be more patient thanks pinkbird03

I think you need to communicate with him openly in a warm loving way. Show you care about his wants and needs.

I think she has already done that, hence the part about her being too nice. Lol he probably wishes she was a bit more independent, stood her ground more. From her description in the original post, it sounds like she has already showed that she cares about his wants/needs. He didn’t say he needs her to be more squishy and loving. Lol he said she’s too nice. he probably senses that she’s trying to come across as always being chill and perfect. That’s a red flag to an intuitive cap because he knows it’s bullshit and he knows no one is perfect. She needs to just be herself and stop trying to “be more patient, be more understanding, be more.. be more...” that’s a big part of the problem. She is playing a role. She just needs to be herself instead of trying so hard to make HIM happy.

And I’m not saying she should start treating him like shit. Be kind to him, of course.. but when the time calls for it, voice your argument instead of stifling your voice in an attempt to come across as being “his peace”.

She got upset and asked him what do you mean? He didn’t answer. Clearly there’s more he can elaborate on so she understands

The question “what do you mean” is vague as well.. that’s basically asking him to elaborate on his feelings and good luck getting any man to do that. I think he was pretty straight forward. I guess another (and more direct) way she could phrase the question would be “give me an example”.

If he can give an example of how she is too nice then maybe that would give her a better idea of what he’s referring to, whether it’s sex or the gifts or the fact that she purposely avoids ruffling his feathers in an effort to “keep the peace”. Cap men are not little delicate little flowers, they’re much tougher than some people give them credit for.

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What is Amazon position

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What is Amazon position

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Posted by NostalgicCappyy

I was talking to a Taurus guy a few years ago, and he was Way too sweet. I mean like to the point, it was annoying. I could Not get serious about him or even have a real attraction because of it. If we had a disagreement or anything like that, he would apologize profusely and never stick up for himself or put me in my place. It was boring, and I couldn’t stay in that.

Then one day, he finally blew up at me for avoiding him, and making excuses about never responding, etc. That’s when I saw that he wasn’t some fake fruitcake, that would always kiss my ass. That day I was immediately attracted (after talking for a few years), and have to admit- turned on. The first time he actually said the F word and was yelling at me, it was like I was talking to a different person. When I told him, he said that he hid that side of himself because he thought he’d lose me. He was totally different after that.

Capricorns Need you to be genuine, be yourself, and Don’t be overly sweet or not know how to put us in our place if we fuck up. Being sweet is good, but there needs to be a balance. Show us you’re Real. We can be really good friends and be there for the weaker minded, but romantically we need someone with more of a backbone. As a Cap, this is how I am. I guess I can’t really speak for all of us though.

I hope that didn’t sound mean, I don’t mean for it to be.

💯💯💯 that’s what I said. It comes across as being insincere

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Posted by AriesBaby954

Thanks NostalgicCappyy will def. use that advice...maybe I am being too nice because I like this guy for like 2 whole decades and now we finally dating and now Im trying too hard to keep him.

Posted by AriesBaby954

Yes he is boring too...I heard on here they say sex is good with these signs....but it's ONLY good when I put in work. SMH

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What is Amazon position

in the mailbox

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Posted by FknMeow

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Should I stop doing these nice things? I dunno

Yes, do nice things for someone who appreciates you. This guy is too lazy for a good relationship.

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Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo

Aries angel?

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@Underworldaries @pooface222

Posted by _kitten_

Have you done Amazon position with him?

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Capricorn men are so unlucky, They would never be loved by the Genius air sign woman. Because they are so boring, and can only attracts Fire sign women.

Posted by AriesBaby954

Im Aries Sun, Virgo Moon

He is Capricorn Sun, Aquarius Moon and Scorpio rising

NO....HE isnt doing those things for me....just occasion eat out every other or so months...

Im the one with gift, cook meals which I stop after 3 times since we started dating, christmas gifts, just because gift and bday he ask for this January

Posted by AriesBaby954

ScorpioTruth I'll def worrk on not sugarcoating anymore...cause countless times to avoid any issues I just bite my tongue so I can bring peace but now that he thinks Im too nice...I'll be respectful but I wont keep letting him get away with stuff I don't like. Thanks

I'm still trying to decide whether I should move on or just start being myself because....Capricorn men are already hard to deal with...we been togther 7 months and when I got upset yesterday...and told him maybe he wants to be with those witches that use to slap him around and curse at him sooo that why I appear "too nice" and his response to me was I needed to shut up....yes CAPS ARE DIFFICULT BUT...I dont think I want to continue pursuing someone who has little respect for me and tell me to shut up...

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Capricorn men are so unlucky, They would never be loved by the Genius air sign woman. Because they are so boring, and can only attracts Fire sign women.

Mine attracted me but he's a "CAP"ital whore.🤣 -Pisces

I don't want the Dirty-panties Pisces woman, I want the Beautiful and Lively Air sign woman!

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Posted by AriesBaby954

I have been officially dating this Capricorn Man since this past August 2018. We known each other for over decade. I notice his coldness and read about him on here and taking what he says trying to make it work because like making sure Im positive, being patient with him, being his peacemaker, and making sure the sex is good, gave him a nice bday recently like he ask for with a hotel by the beach and all of that. Now he tells me im too nice and need to be aggressive. I kind of got upset at him because I felt like he was saying all I was doing was a waste and I now felt I may have overreacted but now I dont know what to do about him saying Im too nice. In a relationship, I was thinking dealing with him to be the example I want to see in this relationship.

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ScorpioTruth I'll def worrk on not sugarcoating anymore...cause countless times to avoid any issues I just bite my tongue so I can bring peace but now that he thinks Im too nice...I'll be respectful but I wont keep letting him get away with stuff I don't like. Thanks

I'm still trying to decide whether I should move on or just start being myself because....Capricorn men are already hard to deal with...we been togther 7 months and when I got upset yesterday...and told him maybe he wants to be with those witches that use to slap him around and curse at him sooo that why I appear "too nice" and his response to me was I needed to shut up....yes CAPS ARE DIFFICULT BUT...I dont think I want to continue pursuing someone who has little respect for me and tell me to shut up...

Funny thing is when u give them the truth they can't take it. But want u to act a certain way. For me that's just how I am I love showering love on the one I care about so if I can't be me then the cap or gem or any of them doesn't deserve me since I'm too nice. Like the other cap said let him get cheated on by an ugly fire sign.

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Posted by AriesBaby954

ScorpioTruth I'll def worrk on not sugarcoating anymore...cause countless times to avoid any issues I just bite my tongue so I can bring peace but now that he thinks Im too nice...I'll be respectful but I wont keep letting him get away with stuff I don't like. Thanks

I'm still trying to decide whether I should move on or just start being myself because....Capricorn men are already hard to deal with...we been togther 7 months and when I got upset yesterday...and told him maybe he wants to be with those witches that use to slap him around and curse at him sooo that why I appear "too nice" and his response to me was I needed to shut up....yes CAPS ARE DIFFICULT BUT...I dont think I want to continue pursuing someone who has little respect for me and tell me to shut up...

Funny thing is when u give them the truth they can't take it. But want u to act a certain way. For me that's just how I am I love showering love on the one I care about so if I can't be me then the cap or gem or any of them doesn't deserve me since I'm too nice. Like the other cap said let him get cheated on by an ugly fire sign.

Only time I upset a cap guy was when I told the truth : that I had a much more high sex drive than him. And that was me putting it nicely 😂😂😂😂🤷🏼‍♀️ He couldn't take that.... Maybe that's why he turned into this super horny beast that constantly cross peoples lines with sexual talk and touching 🤔🤔🤔😂😂😂

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Posted by AriesBaby954

ScorpioTruth I'll def worrk on not sugarcoating anymore...cause countless times to avoid any issues I just bite my tongue so I can bring peace but now that he thinks Im too nice...I'll be respectful but I wont keep letting him get away with stuff I don't like. Thanks

I'm still trying to decide whether I should move on or just start being myself because....Capricorn men are already hard to deal with...we been togther 7 months and when I got upset yesterday...and told him maybe he wants to be with those witches that use to slap him around and curse at him sooo that why I appear "too nice" and his response to me was I needed to shut up....yes CAPS ARE DIFFICULT BUT...I dont think I want to continue pursuing someone who has little respect for me and tell me to shut up...

Funny thing is when u give them the truth they can't take it. But want u to act a certain way. For me that's just how I am I love showering love on the one I care about so if I can't be me then the cap or gem or any of them doesn't deserve me since I'm too nice. Like the other cap said let him get cheated on by an ugly fire sign.

Only time I upset a cap guy was when I told the truth : that I had a much more high sex drive than him. And that was me putting it nicely 😂😂😂😂🤷🏼‍♀️ He couldn't take that.... Maybe that's why he turned into this super horny beast that constantly cross peoples lines with sexual talk and touching 🤔🤔🤔😂😂😂

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Posted by DeadInside

lol the dude want rough sex, i'm sure is being passive af.

if i date an aries girl i want her to be angry

Posted by NostalgicCappyy

I was talking to a Taurus guy a few years ago, and he was Way too sweet. I mean like to the point, it was annoying. I could Not get serious about him or even have a real attraction because of it. If we had a disagreement or anything like that, he would apologize profusely and never stick up for himself or put me in my place. It was boring, and I couldn’t stay in that.

Then one day, he finally blew up at me for avoiding him, and making excuses about never responding, etc. That’s when I saw that he wasn’t some fake fruitcake, that would always kiss my ass. That day I was immediately attracted (after talking for a few years), and have to admit- turned on. The first time he actually said the F word and was yelling at me, it was like I was talking to a different person. When I told him, he said that he hid that side of himself because he thought he’d lose me. He was totally different after that.

Capricorns Need you to be genuine, be yourself, and Don’t be overly sweet or not know how to put us in our place if we fuck up. Being sweet is good, but there needs to be a balance. Show us you’re Real. We can be really good friends and be there for the weaker minded, but romantically we need someone with more of a backbone. As a Cap, this is how I am. I guess I can’t really speak for all of us though.

I hope that didn’t sound mean, I don’t mean for it to be.

Posted by AriesBaby954

ScorpioTruth I'll def worrk on not sugarcoating anymore...cause countless times to avoid any issues I just bite my tongue so I can bring peace but now that he thinks Im too nice...I'll be respectful but I wont keep letting him get away with stuff I don't like. Thanks

I'm still trying to decide whether I should move on or just start being myself because....Capricorn men are already hard to deal with...we been togther 7 months and when I got upset yesterday...and told him maybe he wants to be with those witches that use to slap him around and curse at him sooo that why I appear "too nice" and his response to me was I needed to shut up....yes CAPS ARE DIFFICULT BUT...I dont think I want to continue pursuing someone who has little respect for me and tell me to shut up...