DuchessLove
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How comes I can never get a gemini man :(
I am a gemini man.
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Seems like your fire placements in the love signs are getting them. Gemini's like fun. Are you super stubborn? Cause that's not good in the long run with Gemini men. They need someone who is flexible and let's them be. They are flirtatious, but usually it's just in fun. I find them to be loyal. They may see you as fun at first, but then a little boring once they get to know you. (I'm just basing this on your sun/moon combo, don't take it personally)
I don't think holding conversations are as important for them, unlike with Aquas (different Air sign), Gemini's can yap and yap. They like the fun and games, quick witted, playful and flirty conversations most of the times. I attract Geminis that love talking and just being listened to. This works for me since I'm not a big talker.
I was in a Long term relationship for years with a Gem/Virgo Moon and have been talking to another (Gem/Taurus Moon) on a regular basis in Canada for just about a year now. But I won't do long distance relationships, yet he still contacts me.
When you're upset at them a lot or just a stick in the mud, they don't like it. Yes, you can get upset at them, but get over it and get back to normal things quickly so the convo can be entertaining and fun again.
I don't think holding conversations are as important for them, unlike with Aquas (different Air sign), Gemini's can yap and yap. They like the fun and games, quick witted, playful and flirty conversations most of the times. I attract Geminis that love talking and just being listened to. This works for me since I'm not a big talker.
I was in a Long term relationship for years with a Gem/Virgo Moon and have been talking to another (Gem/Taurus Moon) on a regular basis in Canada for just about a year now. But I won't do long distance relationships, yet he still contacts me.
When you're upset at them a lot or just a stick in the mud, they don't like it. Yes, you can get upset at them, but get over it and get back to normal things quickly so the convo can be entertaining and fun again.
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by saggurl88
Seems like your fire placements in the love signs are getting them. Gemini's like fun. Are you super stubborn? Cause that's not good in the long run with Gemini men. They need someone who is flexible and let's them be. They are flirtatious, but usually it's just in fun. I find them to be loyal. They may see you as fun at first, but then a little boring once they get to know you. (I'm just basing this on your sun/moon combo, don't take it personally)
I don't think holding conversations are as important for them, unlike with Aquas (different Air sign), Gemini's can yap and yap. They like the fun and games, quick witted, playful and flirty conversations most of the times. I attract Geminis that love talking and just being listened to. This works for me since I'm not a big talker.
I was in a Long term relationship for years with a Gem/Virgo Moon and have been talking to another (Gem/Taurus Moon) on a regular basis in Canada for just about a year now. But I won't do long distance relationships, yet he still contacts me.
When you're upset at them a lot or just a stick in the mud, they don't like it. Yes, you can get upset at them, but get over it and get back to normal things quickly so the convo can be entertaining and fun again.
You're a Gemini whisperer.
I'm not always in a good mood or a playful mood, but someone in a good and playful mood can almost always make me feel better, and being around someone who insists on heaviness or like, shooting darts of anger at you with their eyes and you're supposed to know what they're mad about and walk on eggshells and suck up to them...fuck that.click to expand
Geminis are super annoying cause they bug the crap out of you when they like you. It's good when you like them back but overkill once things are over. They don't let go easily. 😆
But they are great, They are super easy to get along with for me. Just not really a challenge. But if I find another in my area, I will give it a shot. They are very loving and loyal, and I like that.
I think most mutables like fun and nothing too heavy. I can be intense sometimes and I find that Geminis don't shy away from it at all, it draws them in more, especially since I don't play games with them. They play all the games and I just cut the strings and keep letting them back in lol This works well drawing their interest.
Thanks a lot for your replies so far everyone. I do agree with a lot of what you've all said.
I do wonder if playing hot and cold with geminis works? They seem to be enjoy the chase more than other signs. Despite things not working out with all of my player/narc gemini exes, literally all of them continued to contact and chase me even years later (all while with new partners etc. so I presume they were texting other exes when they were with me too).
The one I was obsessed with like never before was a gemini sun, sagittarius moon so as you can guess, a major a player and oddly also very controlling... he had all the positive traits and negative traits of a typical gemini (both to extremes!).
I have dated taurus sun, gemini moon (he was very stubborn and very much "his way or no way" and also a gemini sun cancer moon - who was a lot softer and less of a player than other gems (which makes sense due to the cancer moon), like he wouldn't ever randomly approach a woman and start flirting.. he seemed very shy etc. but I could tell he longed to be a player and never really wanted to be with one woman (even if he had a very shy, soft exterior)
I do wonder if playing hot and cold with geminis works? They seem to be enjoy the chase more than other signs. Despite things not working out with all of my player/narc gemini exes, literally all of them continued to contact and chase me even years later (all while with new partners etc. so I presume they were texting other exes when they were with me too).
The one I was obsessed with like never before was a gemini sun, sagittarius moon so as you can guess, a major a player and oddly also very controlling... he had all the positive traits and negative traits of a typical gemini (both to extremes!).
I have dated taurus sun, gemini moon (he was very stubborn and very much "his way or no way" and also a gemini sun cancer moon - who was a lot softer and less of a player than other gems (which makes sense due to the cancer moon), like he wouldn't ever randomly approach a woman and start flirting.. he seemed very shy etc. but I could tell he longed to be a player and never really wanted to be with one woman (even if he had a very shy, soft exterior)
You gotta be crazy, and I mean not like fatal attraction crazy, I mean like fun/quirky. The more unique you are the better, and always be changing... change your makeup, hair, style , hell, even accents 😆 just keep Gem on their toes and never be completely predictable. You also gotta be care-free, yet responsible and communicative. Be driven, but not bossy. You ever try a Sag? Your Fire Mars might be more suited toward a fire sign guy instead 🤷🏻♀️ Sag is like a Gemini in a lot of ways.
Posted by Moonbutter
You gotta be crazy, and I mean not like fatal attraction crazy, I mean like fun/quirky. The more unique you are the better, and always be changing... change your makeup, hair, style , hell, even accents 😆 just keep Gem on their toes and never be completely predictable. You also gotta be care-free, yet responsible and communicative. Be driven, but not bossy. You ever try a Sag? Your Fire Mars might be more suited toward a fire sign guy instead 🤷🏻♀️ Sag is like a Gemini in a lot of ways.
Sag men wouldn't put up with her stubborness. It's a buzzkill and Sag men give up easy when their interest is too hard headed. Two people holding out isn't a good thing at all. Sag can hold out forever, until they forget about you and they lose interest if the person does the same thing to them lol Sag are way more trickier then Geminis. IMO
Posted by 7sPosted by Moonbutter
You gotta be crazy, and I mean not like fatal attraction crazy, I mean like fun/quirky. The more unique you are the better, and always be changing... change your makeup, hair, style , hell, even accents 😆 just keep Gem on their toes and never be completely predictable. You also gotta be care-free, yet responsible and communicative. Be driven, but not bossy. You ever try a Sag? Your Fire Mars might be more suited toward a fire sign guy instead 🤷🏻♀️ Sag is like a Gemini in a lot of ways.
Gemini whisperer right hereclick to expand
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Posted by DuchessLove
Hi all,
I'm Taurus Sun, Aquarius Moon, Taurus Mercury, Aries Venus and Leo Mars. Ever since I started dating, I've always been completely captivated by men with gemini in their charts... literally out of the 5 I've dated, 4 of them had a gemini aspect (either gemini sun or moon) and the one that didn't have gemini, I wasn't exactly in love with him - was more of a nice friendship that got romantic due to me not wanting to be alone at the time. I've had countless different men interested in me of all different zodiac signs, but the only 4 in my entire dating life (last 7 years) I said yes to dating was the geminis.
& I know for sure, I never feel romantically compatible with aquarius guys (feels more like a good friendship/sibling type relationship, it's just too cool and lacking in the spark) and I find libra guys very clingy, needy and girly. I don't want to stereotype but I've seen this play out with every guy I meet before I find out their birthday, zodiac sign etc.
Clearly, gemini men seem super keen on me initially (hence why I've dated 4) but in the end I find out they're total players, lie via omission, constantly flirt with others, are narcs etc. but obviously I know of gemini man who are committed to one etc. too so... why does it never work out for me? Isn't aquarius moon fairly compatible with gemini even if my taurus sun isn't?
Any advice how to keep a gemini man? I can discuss various topics, I'm witty, quick, lively, very academic etc. (but also have negative traits like stubborness, I'm very messy, I need a lot of alone time etc)
Woman, you don’t want a Gemini man. They are the worst. I’m a Gemini gal and even I wouldn’t want to be around them. At first they can be cute, lighthearted jokesters. Then later on they just turn into incessantly sarcastic pains in the ass. Gemini men REALLY never grow up. Look at Trump... I like Trump but, just.... I mean, LOOK AT HIM!
Oh you have an aqua moon. I know a guy with your same sun and moon. Christ. I wonder how much longer I’m going to keep in contact with him.
Anyway, go date some weird Virgo or a boring Capricorn. Some earth sign who won’t get offended and can hold their own against the Taurus/Aquarius BS... That may be only a Cap. Air signs... a Libra might be all right, but the other two... they’re too detached and flighty and sarcastic... and jerkish for the boring bull.
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by saggurl88
Seems like your fire placements in the love signs are getting them. Gemini's like fun. Are you super stubborn? Cause that's not good in the long run with Gemini men. They need someone who is flexible and let's them be. They are flirtatious, but usually it's just in fun. I find them to be loyal. They may see you as fun at first, but then a little boring once they get to know you. (I'm just basing this on your sun/moon combo, don't take it personally)
I don't think holding conversations are as important for them, unlike with Aquas (different Air sign), Gemini's can yap and yap. They like the fun and games, quick witted, playful and flirty conversations most of the times. I attract Geminis that love talking and just being listened to. This works for me since I'm not a big talker.
I was in a Long term relationship for years with a Gem/Virgo Moon and have been talking to another (Gem/Taurus Moon) on a regular basis in Canada for just about a year now. But I won't do long distance relationships, yet he still contacts me.
When you're upset at them a lot or just a stick in the mud, they don't like it. Yes, you can get upset at them, but get over it and get back to normal things quickly so the convo can be entertaining and fun again.
You're a Gemini whisperer.
I'm not always in a good mood or a playful mood, but someone in a good and playful mood can almost always make me feel better, and being around someone who insists on heaviness or like, shooting darts of anger at you with their eyes and you're supposed to know what they're mad about and walk on eggshells and suck up to them...fuck that.
Geminis are super annoying cause they bug the crap out of you when they like you. It's good when you like them back but overkill once things are over. They don't let go easily. 😆
But they are great, They are super easy to get along with for me. Just not really a challenge. But if I find another in my area, I will give it a shot. They are very loving and loyal, and I like that.
I think most mutables like fun and nothing too heavy. I can be intense sometimes and I find that Geminis don't shy away from it at all, it draws them in more, especially since I don't play games with them. They play all the games and I just cut the strings and keep letting them back in lol This works well drawing their interest.
That's funny. Most people consider us too challenging.click to expand
I think Sag and Gemini are a lot alike, in that we just like fun and having a great time with someone we are with. It doesn’t take much. But people think Sag are challenging too. They just don’t know how to be consistent with our signs.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by saggurl88
Seems like your fire placements in the love signs are getting them. Gemini's like fun. Are you super stubborn? Cause that's not good in the long run with Gemini men. They need someone who is flexible and let's them be. They are flirtatious, but usually it's just in fun. I find them to be loyal. They may see you as fun at first, but then a little boring once they get to know you. (I'm just basing this on your sun/moon combo, don't take it personally)
I don't think holding conversations are as important for them, unlike with Aquas (different Air sign), Gemini's can yap and yap. They like the fun and games, quick witted, playful and flirty conversations most of the times. I attract Geminis that love talking and just being listened to. This works for me since I'm not a big talker.
I was in a Long term relationship for years with a Gem/Virgo Moon and have been talking to another (Gem/Taurus Moon) on a regular basis in Canada for just about a year now. But I won't do long distance relationships, yet he still contacts me.
When you're upset at them a lot or just a stick in the mud, they don't like it. Yes, you can get upset at them, but get over it and get back to normal things quickly so the convo can be entertaining and fun again.
You're a Gemini whisperer.
I'm not always in a good mood or a playful mood, but someone in a good and playful mood can almost always make me feel better, and being around someone who insists on heaviness or like, shooting darts of anger at you with their eyes and you're supposed to know what they're mad about and walk on eggshells and suck up to them...fuck that.
Geminis are super annoying cause they bug the crap out of you when they like you. It's good when you like them back but overkill once things are over. They don't let go easily. 😆
But they are great, They are super easy to get along with for me. Just not really a challenge. But if I find another in my area, I will give it a shot. They are very loving and loyal, and I like that.
I think most mutables like fun and nothing too heavy. I can be intense sometimes and I find that Geminis don't shy away from it at all, it draws them in more, especially since I don't play games with them. They play all the games and I just cut the strings and keep letting them back in lol This works well drawing their interest.
That's funny. Most people consider us too challenging.
I think Sag and Gemini are a lot alike, in that we just like fun and having a great time with someone we are with. It doesn’t take much. But people think Sag are challenging too. They just don’t know how to be consistent with our signs.click to expand
Right, this is what I meant by Sags and Gems are similar... care-free, fun, adventurous...
Posted by LittleStar
We really have to buy into it on our own without outside expectations or we will always even years down the road in a good relationship question if it’s “real”.
If you try to win us over or seduce us or control how this fall into place it will scare us. We want to be the ones who suddenly wake up one day thinking “I always have such a great time and this person is all I think about I really am falling for them”. And then make it happen on our own terms.
We really suck at the dating stage so I’d chalk it up to experience and move on. 😂
Agreed! The gem really needs to be the one to say “they’re falling” and if they are super emotional, then bonus points 🤣 but that also means they are extremely vulnerable and you have to pace your self and not get too mushy or they will 180 your a $ $ Soo fast your head will pop off 😆
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by saggurl88
Seems like your fire placements in the love signs are getting them. Gemini's like fun. Are you super stubborn? Cause that's not good in the long run with Gemini men. They need someone who is flexible and let's them be. They are flirtatious, but usually it's just in fun. I find them to be loyal. They may see you as fun at first, but then a little boring once they get to know you. (I'm just basing this on your sun/moon combo, don't take it personally)
I don't think holding conversations are as important for them, unlike with Aquas (different Air sign), Gemini's can yap and yap. They like the fun and games, quick witted, playful and flirty conversations most of the times. I attract Geminis that love talking and just being listened to. This works for me since I'm not a big talker.
I was in a Long term relationship for years with a Gem/Virgo Moon and have been talking to another (Gem/Taurus Moon) on a regular basis in Canada for just about a year now. But I won't do long distance relationships, yet he still contacts me.
When you're upset at them a lot or just a stick in the mud, they don't like it. Yes, you can get upset at them, but get over it and get back to normal things quickly so the convo can be entertaining and fun again.
You're a Gemini whisperer.
I'm not always in a good mood or a playful mood, but someone in a good and playful mood can almost always make me feel better, and being around someone who insists on heaviness or like, shooting darts of anger at you with their eyes and you're supposed to know what they're mad about and walk on eggshells and suck up to them...fuck that.
Geminis are super annoying cause they bug the crap out of you when they like you. It's good when you like them back but overkill once things are over. They don't let go easily. 😆
But they are great, They are super easy to get along with for me. Just not really a challenge. But if I find another in my area, I will give it a shot. They are very loving and loyal, and I like that.
I think most mutables like fun and nothing too heavy. I can be intense sometimes and I find that Geminis don't shy away from it at all, it draws them in more, especially since I don't play games with them. They play all the games and I just cut the strings and keep letting them back in lol This works well drawing their interest.
That's funny. Most people consider us too challenging.
I think Sag and Gemini are a lot alike, in that we just like fun and having a great time with someone we are with. It doesn’t take much. But people think Sag are challenging too. They just don’t know how to be consistent with our signs.
It's as though they confuse "I like happy better than depressing" for "has no depth." What the fuck is so deep about making yourself and others miserable?click to expand
Hahaha!!!! EXACTLY!!! lol I don't have time to be miserable lol
They like sags
Just go with the flow and if its meant to be and hes the right one it'll happen naturally.
Posted by DuchessLove
Hi all,
I'm Taurus Sun, Aquarius Moon, Taurus Mercury, Aries Venus and Leo Mars. Ever since I started dating, I've always been completely captivated by men with gemini in their charts... literally out of the 5 I've dated, 4 of them had a gemini aspect (either gemini sun or moon) and the one that didn't have gemini, I wasn't exactly in love with him - was more of a nice friendship that got romantic due to me not wanting to be alone at the time. I've had countless different men interested in me of all different zodiac signs, but the only 4 in my entire dating life (last 7 years) I said yes to dating was the geminis.
& I know for sure, I never feel romantically compatible with aquarius guys (feels more like a good friendship/sibling type relationship, it's just too cool and lacking in the spark) and I find libra guys very clingy, needy and girly. I don't want to stereotype but I've seen this play out with every guy I meet before I find out their birthday, zodiac sign etc.
Clearly, gemini men seem super keen on me initially (hence why I've dated 4) but in the end I find out they're total players, lie via omission, constantly flirt with others, are narcs etc. but obviously I know of gemini man who are committed to one etc. too so... why does it never work out for me? Isn't aquarius moon fairly compatible with gemini even if my taurus sun isn't?
Any advice how to keep a gemini man? I can discuss various topics, I'm witty, quick, lively, very academic etc. (but also have negative traits like stubborness, I'm very messy, I need a lot of alone time etc)
Taurus women are focused on looks and money and gemini men are focused on intellectual stimulation. Hence a mismatch but it can be overcame. Also, gemini man wants a woman that plays a role for him in his life.
"I'm Taurus Sun (Fixed energy aka very stubborn), Aquarius Moon (Fixed energy aka very stubborn), Taurus Mercury (Fixed energy aka very stubborn), Aries Venus and Leo Mars (Fixed energy aka very stubborn)."
While taking in consideration above placements - you may be way to stubborn for most Geminis. Controlling too. 😐
While taking in consideration above placements - you may be way to stubborn for most Geminis. Controlling too. 😐
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