Has anyone ever been hurt by Libra?

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Everyone knows you don't date a Libra seriously.

Look at all those likes

There are barely ever any Libra complaint threads so I have no idea where is all this Leeb hatred is coming from. Like Scorpios, Cancers and every other signs have so many complaint threads but no one ever says not to take those bastards seriously

So the truth is yall just mad yall arent pretty enough for a Leeb !
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Yup. But pretty sure it was his scorp venus, and in the big picture I got him worse.

He looked me up years after we dated, we had coffee and caught up. At the end saying goodbye he asked if I'd go to his place for "some fun." I was disgusted, didn't talk to him again for years.

Many years later out of nowhere he messaged me on social media, we met up for drinks, went back to his place, excellent convo. I needed to sell my car and he said he was interested, made a great case for it. I met up with him a few more times, truth be told it was great conversation, shit I'm starved for that these days (even now!) in the end, he tried to kiss me ( I managed an intellectual checkmate and he got all bothered), I turned him down. Shocker, a few days later he couldn't take the car and I had to scramble to figure something out with it. I told him I was upset about that and he said he'd forgive me. like..wtf..

I say I got him worse cause he thanked me for teaching him how to f*** (his words) and that we were never in sync (when we were together), and after I turned him down he said I was missing out (he had cap mars) on a great experience,got all cocky about it too. I never had the heart to tell him I faked pretty much through our entire relationship 🤷🏻‍♀️

I was the one who broke up with him too, so back then I burned him badly.. if you can believe it.. I was once even more direct and rude (and oblivious to it all) than I am now


See you should have never agreed to meet up with him to catch up. When it's over, it's over if you don't care anymore.
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Mine is a case of twin flame runner syndrome. Usually I'm the runner. I'm over it now. Maybe we will catch each other again in our next life. He doesn't know how to just be friends with me now and I don't have time for that. So at this point we just wish each other happy birthday every year and that's it. I tried being friends with him but he can't not flirt with me. Once he was doing it and I had him on blue tooth speaker in my car while I was driving with the Virgo. 😂 (I was talking to him about fixing or buying a laptop for my sister, something like that and I was trying to keep it professional but he wouldn't stop making flirty comments, he has a long term gf and I had the Virgo with me... anyway... hung up with him and the Virgo called him an idiot. 😂) I've known him for almost 20 years now.
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As in romantically. What happened? What went wrong?

Lets start with you....who hurt you?....
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Not a libra. Not yet. I think it's more projection than anything with this dude. He's a natural at romance though and good god, I haven't slept with him but he's a cutie. Not sure if I can stimulate him in the way that he needs, as in mentally. Just tells me that i make him feel less lonely in the world and always finds time to get back to me. I've since tried to detach a little since I'm giving him mixed signals. Just fearing that all romancey stuff was just a Libra doing his/her thang and being disingenuous. I don't know. I'd better not tip the scales.
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Posted by RollergirlOrc
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As in romantically. What happened? What went wrong?

Lets start with you....who hurt you?....

Not a libra. Not yet. I think it's more projection than anything with this dude. He's a natural at romance though and good god, I haven't slept with him but he's a cutie. Not sure if I can stimulate him in the way that he needs, as in mentally. Just tells me that i make him feel less lonely in the world and always finds time to get back to me. I've since tried to detach a little since I'm giving him mixed signals. Just fearing that all romancey stuff was just a Libra doing his/her thang and being disingenuous. I don't know. I'd better not tip the scales.
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every relationship (or start of relationship) involves a bit of risk. unfortunately you have to lay yourself on the line to some degree. the most important thing is assessing that risk, managing it and minimising it. however do that too much and you end up not risking anything at all which is certain failure.

go slowly. see if he is a man of his words and then decide if you are willing to accept the chance of losing your bet.

there is no reward without risk.
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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Everyone knows you don't date a Libra seriously.

Look at all those likes

There are barely ever any Libra complaint threads so I have no idea where is all this Leeb hatred is coming from. Like Scorpios, Cancers and every other signs have so many complaint threads but no one ever says not to take those bastards seriously

So the truth is yall just mad yall arent pretty enough for a Leeb !
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I’m married to a Virgo born on the cusp of Libra...

I’m ugly

Your point is moot and overreactive. Bye 👋

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No one has EVER been hurt by a libra EVER. IT NEVER HAPPENS! THIS IS AN ATTACK WE WILL NOT STAND FOR IT!!! LIBRAS UNITE WE MUST COME TOGETHER TO AVOID THIS CONFRONTATION FROM THESE UGGOS

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Oh noooooo Aries direct confrontation 😱 I can’t take it I’m meeelllttiiinnngggggg

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Are we fighting or flirting? Cos I can't tell with you damn Leebs sometimes.
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No one has EVER been hurt by a libra EVER. IT NEVER HAPPENS! THIS IS AN ATTACK WE WILL NOT STAND FOR IT!!! LIBRAS UNITE WE MUST COME TOGETHER TO AVOID THIS CONFRONTATION FROM THESE UGGOS

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Oh noooooo Aries direct confrontation 😱 I can’t take it I’m meeelllttiiinnngggggg

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Are we fighting or flirting? Cos I can't tell with you damn Leebs sometimes.
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When in doubt, just abuse them in both ways anyways 🤷🏻‍♀️

They don’t seem to mind 🤓
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Yes, I have. I'm an Aquarius woman that dated a Libra for a year. We were acquaintances and my best friends were his friends. He had previously went on dates with a lot of girls and I thought of it as him just exploring his options. He was such a chill guy and we had so many hilarious conversations together that I eventually caught feelings for him. We started dating and apparently we had his longest relationship.

The first few months were interesting and romantic. But after that, it went south. He was super distant to the point where I questioned his loyalty and started to become jealous when he hung out with female friends that I've never met. One minute, he's all affectionate. Then the next minute, he avoids me and gets annoyed when I sent him texts. He enjoys art and paints the most brilliant paintings but I always thought it was weird how he stopped hanging out with me because he was too invested in his artwork all the time. At this point, I thought I was just being clingy and Libra was highly ambitious when it came to his art. Subconsciously, I knew that I was thinking bs. We also argued a lot the last few months we were together (the rare few times we hung out at all.) It was such a WEIRD occurence because whenever I sense something wrong in a relationship, I usually leave right away. But he was so interesting to talk to and he understood me even though we were sort of opposite personalities.

Anyways, I ended up breaking up with him two days after our one year anniversary (that he was too busy for.) We met up and it was such a peaceful and mutual agreement to break up that he even brought up the "we can still be friends" line. I agreed and we never spoke again.

A month later I found out from one of my best friends that he was, in fact, cheating on me while we were together. She gave me proof and I wasn't surprised.
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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Everyone knows you don't date a Libra seriously.

Look at all those likes

There are barely ever any Libra complaint threads so I have no idea where is all this Leeb hatred is coming from. Like Scorpios, Cancers and every other signs have so many complaint threads but no one ever says not to take those bastards seriously

So the truth is yall just mad yall arent pretty enough for a Leeb !

I’m married to a Virgo born on the cusp of Libra...

I’m ugly

Your point is moot and overreactive. Bye 👋
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But he's still a Virgo and not a Libra. I highly doubt you're ugly. Talk about overreactive.