Posted by infiresBut if he said ok - then it's ok or strangers on Internet know better?
leebs like to make the first move
Posted by infiresShit. I kinda tried to back track and make it seem like not a date or anything.... Like just 'my town is awesome'... Sigh..
leebs like to make the first move
Posted by LadyNeptuneThat is true.... And he didn't say no!
Bright side is you'll now find out how serious he is about this crush. Less wasted time. A win in my book.
Posted by GemitatiI juat have a habit of acting on my feelings immediately and really wish i would pace myself better as to not scare anyone off.... He did say ok though!Posted by infiresBut if he said ok - then it's ok or strangers on Internet know better?
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Posted by pinkbird03Well i guess cuz saying and doing are two different things...... He may now feel uncomfortable or obligated... And then making conversations weird and forced.. I dunno! I never get crushes so when i do im super nervous like a bumbling idiot jerkface
If he said yes, why are you stressing?
Posted by infiresYes.. I will not bring it up again! See what he does *facepalm*Posted by boxcarmirntathe next time, maybe you should let him intiate :3Posted by infiresShit. I kinda tried to back track and make it seem like not a date or anything.... Like just 'my town is awesome'... Sigh..
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you still have a chance
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Posted by boxcarmirntaIf he wasn't interested, he would have made up some excuse to not meet you. I think you should be more worried about the actual date coming up. Do you have it planned out? That's the bad thing. It seems like you're courting him. But maybe he will turn it around. Let him pay for everything and allow him to make the moves, not you.Posted by pinkbird03Well i guess cuz saying and doing are two different things...... He may now feel uncomfortable or obligated... And then making conversations weird and forced.. I dunno! I never get crushes so when i do im super nervous like a bumbling idiot jerkface
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Posted by boxcarmirnta2 young people on a date! What's the problem? Enjoy.Posted by pinkbird03Well i guess cuz saying and doing are two different things...... He may now feel uncomfortable or obligated... And then making conversations weird and forced.. I dunno! I never get crushes so when i do im super nervous like a bumbling idiot jerkface
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Posted by pinkbird03No plans at all.... Id like to forget it ever happened quite frankly.. I never trust men to do what they say they're gonna do... Hopefully he will court my ass.. The ball is literally in his court!!Posted by boxcarmirntaIf he wasn't interested, he would have made up some excuse to not meet you. I think you should be more worried about the actual date coming up. Do you have it planned out? That's the bad thing. It seems like you're courting him. But maybe he will turn it around. Let him pay for everything and allow him to make the moves, not you.Posted by pinkbird03Well i guess cuz saying and doing are two different things...... He may now feel uncomfortable or obligated... And then making conversations weird and forced.. I dunno! I never get crushes so when i do im super nervous like a bumbling idiot jerkface
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Posted by GemitatiFirst off.. Not young.. Second..... It will likely never happen... Why? Cuz i made it happen too soon..Posted by boxcarmirnta2 young people on a date! What's the problem? Enjoy.Posted by pinkbird03Well i guess cuz saying and doing are two different things...... He may now feel uncomfortable or obligated... And then making conversations weird and forced.. I dunno! I never get crushes so when i do im super nervous like a bumbling idiot jerkface
If he said yes, why are you stressing?
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Posted by Algol-RisingYes.. Bc i assume he felt pressured and it will never actually happen.. Cuz i pulled the trigger too soon!
Why are you facepalming about making the first move. He said yes?
Posted by LunabeeBc its too much pressure throws the whole thing off... Jumped the gun etc blah blah...
What does fearing his reaction benefit you? If it was fun then good times - let em roll. Nothing is set in stone
Posted by compyOk! Thank you... I will keep this in mind and not stress.... Haha.. Such a bafoon i am.. 🙂
You let him know that you are interested in meeting him. He will acknowledge this, probably won't mention anything about it anyway, but he knows his path is open now. If he likes you, he can ask you out anytime without fearing for a refusal. Maybe what you did is actually beneficial 🙂
You should stop overthinking. Be natural, we like this.
Posted by rockyroadicecream@rockyroadicecream
Wtf are you fretting about, exactly?
Posted by Pisces_DaydreamerShe's being retarded.Posted by rockyroadicecream@rockyroadicecream
Wtf are you fretting about, exactly?
She is a Pisces...... fretting is us no?!click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamShut up. I haven't had a crush in years?? I can fret about whatever the fuck i want. I can be nervous i can vent i can ask for help.. Whatever. This is all brand fucking new to me and I'm not gonna feel even the tiniest bit bad for feeling like a goddamn kid again. Also i seem to recall you and i getting along swimmingly not that long ago.. So maybe you should calm your tits? Hmmm?Posted by Pisces_DaydreamerShe's being retarded.Posted by rockyroadicecream@rockyroadicecream
Wtf are you fretting about, exactly?
She is a Pisces...... fretting is us no?!
Fret over something that ACTUALLY happened.
"OH MAH GAWD, I INITIATED. IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD!"
Shut the fuck up, gawd. I fret too, but not over inane shit like this. Stay away from the opposite gender if you're this damned neurotic before anything has actually happened. :/
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Posted by Pisces_Daydreamer
My experience told me that they are absolutely treetrunking useless if they like you..... they won't suggest nothing, and in the end you will because well, they like you to do things like that. Patient they be. Lead the way, make the moves and then, when they get bored, they can't be blamed 🙂
Do what you feel is right and if in the end it doesn't work out, don't feel bad about having made an effort, they are real lazy anyway 😉
Posted by boxcarmirntaThat's what I mean, there is no benefit from worrying. It's the past. Hakuna matata : )Posted by LunabeeBc its too much pressure throws the whole thing off... Jumped the gun etc blah blah...
What does fearing his reaction benefit you? If it was fun then good times - let em roll. Nothing is set in stoneclick to expand
Posted by boxcarmirntait's ok - you sort of threw it out there so now lets see if he takes it from there ...Posted by infiresShit. I kinda tried to back track and make it seem like not a date or anything.... Like just 'my town is awesome'... Sigh..
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Posted by boxcarmirntaDon't call stuff on yourself! Everything going to be ok. Not all men created equally stupid! LolPosted by GemitatiFirst off.. Not young.. Second..... It will likely never happen... Why? Cuz i made it happen too soon..Posted by boxcarmirnta2 young people on a date! What's the problem? Enjoy.Posted by pinkbird03Well i guess cuz saying and doing are two different things...... He may now feel uncomfortable or obligated... And then making conversations weird and forced.. I dunno! I never get crushes so when i do im super nervous like a bumbling idiot jerkface
If he said yes, why are you stressing?
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Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by pinkbird03Well i guess cuz saying and doing are two different things...... He may now feel uncomfortable or obligated... And then making conversations weird and forced.. I dunno! I never get crushes so when i do im super nervous like a bumbling idiot jerkface
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Posted by Pisces_Daydreamer
@rockyroadicecream - aaaahhhh love that attitude!!
@boxcarmirnta - well...... they are also always capable of pulling you back in too..... I haven't spoken to mine for a couple of weeks because I was fed up with his whining about this and that, always something wrong health wise and he looks after his health too, go figure!! But I know, if he calls, and he will...... well, we will chat like nothing happened....... they are just strange 🙂
rockyroad.... is right though, stop with the fretting.... I am guilty of the same at times, overthinking, doubting etc but that has only been when I have had something to worry about, like he actually did something to make me reassess.. before that it was great! So, just literally enjoy the moment, it's ok for women to do some initiating these days, so don't worry about it!
Posted by CuzimbatmanOmg exactly... I'm like who tf am i right now?!? I'm trying to retain some semblance of normalcy.....Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by pinkbird03Well i guess cuz saying and doing are two different things...... He may now feel uncomfortable or obligated... And then making conversations weird and forced.. I dunno! I never get crushes so when i do im super nervous like a bumbling idiot jerkface
If he said yes, why are you stressing?
Dude same lmfao. It doesn't happen often but when I have a crush it's like my personality goes out the window and I act like a moron lmao.
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Posted by boxcarmirntaHe went MIA?
i can pretty much guarantee the dude will not be initiating contact again.... ERRRRRGHHHH...
when did men forget to have a little chivalry and common courtesy? sorry dudes..
Posted by Gemitatiit's been a couple days.. which i realize isn't THAT much.... i'll give him a couple more and then i'll never reach out again.... this has happened too many times to count. not waiting around... over it.Posted by boxcarmirntaHe went MIA?
i can pretty much guarantee the dude will not be initiating contact again.... ERRRRRGHHHH...
when did men forget to have a little chivalry and common courtesy? sorry dudes..click to expand
Posted by boxcarmirntaIf you can do it it means you aren't hooked and CAN move on! Best of luck girl!Posted by Gemitatiit's been a couple days.. which i realize isn't THAT much.... i'll give him a couple more and then i'll never reach out again.... this has happened too many times to count. not waiting around... over it.Posted by boxcarmirntaHe went MIA?
i can pretty much guarantee the dude will not be initiating contact again.... ERRRRRGHHHH...
when did men forget to have a little chivalry and common courtesy? sorry dudes..click to expand
Posted by boxcarmirntaGood girl!Posted by Gemitatiit's been a couple days.. which i realize isn't THAT much.... i'll give him a couple more and then i'll never reach out again.... this has happened too many times to count. not waiting around... over it.Posted by boxcarmirntaHe went MIA?
i can pretty much guarantee the dude will not be initiating contact again.... ERRRRRGHHHH...
when did men forget to have a little chivalry and common courtesy? sorry dudes..click to expand
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