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We, women in general always take a lot of critics, especially from men.

Then I guess both genders dont like each other becaus I think everything we do is labelled as cliche and you shamed on for seemingly for seemingly toxic behavior social media, hollywood movies, commercials politics. You dont feel like you have the upperhand these days?

Men are harsher when it comes to critics about our physical aspect, and that's a fact. Don't even go as far as saying we have the upper hand whereas you men are paid more than us. Now, I'm not saying all men are like that, but the majority is.

I think you are right, but it's just if you use any media att all you cant help but think we are evil pos in general. The current zeitgeist is more pro woman than it was before.

No, I didn't reply according to what I read on social medias, instead it's from what I hear from my other female friends, relatives, or what I experienced myself. Social medias aren't something to take seriously.I didn't say men are evil, they aren't all bad, BUT when it comes to make female feel inferior or whenever they see a confident woman they do everything they can to put her down.

One exemple I can give you, when I was between 9 and 10 yers old, I always wanted to play soccer with guys, they'd always refuse. I kept coming everyday until they let me, they never did. One day I snapped and shoot at their ball angry and they were like "😦". So whenever we'd play at the break to another game, they were surprised because I was better than them. Because I was a faster runner than them, my team would always win. As I was growing up I noticed a couple of patterns such as this one. I was good at sport, but because men feel entitled they wanted me to feel restricted, yet I would always prove them wrong. Back then the guys from my promo actually started to respect me more.

Emma Watson also experienced a similar thing to me at sports. To you men it might seem like it's nothing, but for us ? it's a big deal.

Yes. It’s true!

Men are very dumb. Most of them are anyway. I don’t think I want to be in a relationship with one either. I’d rather be with a woman next time around.

Hell do I want with a weakling in my life. Most men are weak and I easily lose respect for most of them.

They aren't all bad, some are nice, but for the most part ? yes they are.

I feel sad everytime I hear a woman says she's scared to go out alone at night because a man might harrass/harm her. I believe, when it comes to those things we all feel the same. It's hard to be a woman in this world.

Yes, for most part… most men suck. Even on this site. This site should be an eye opener for most women because people are more uninhibited online. That’s what I think anyway.

Yes, women have to worry about those type of things where a man does not.

The world is a dangerous and mean place. We calculate risk and rewarded on a daily basis. There's areas I don't go to and places I won't visit after dark for risk of being beaten. It's just common sense. That said if in the unlikely event I go to a nightclub I don't need to worry about a woman pinching my bottom as the average man is stronger than the average woman. Flip it around I see why that is a danger for women.

I honestly don't care if people, men or women sexually degrade me. But my mindset is different from a lot of men.

Degrade you physically or verbally?

I'm not a superhot chad, but women grabbing a man's muscles, his crotch or his arse is degrading as are comments like "I want you in my bush". Just because men are men, doesn't mean things like I've mentioned aren't unwanted attention.
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We, women in general always take a lot of critics, especially from men.

Then I guess both genders dont like each other becaus I think everything we do is labelled as cliche and you shamed on for seemingly for seemingly toxic behavior social media, hollywood movies, commercials politics. You dont feel like you have the upperhand these days?

Men are harsher when it comes to critics about our physical aspect, and that's a fact. Don't even go as far as saying we have the upper hand whereas you men are paid more than us. Now, I'm not saying all men are like that, but the majority is.

I think you are right, but it's just if you use any media att all you cant help but think we are evil pos in general. The current zeitgeist is more pro woman than it was before.

No, I didn't reply according to what I read on social medias, instead it's from what I hear from my other female friends, relatives, or what I experienced myself. Social medias aren't something to take seriously.I didn't say men are evil, they aren't all bad, BUT when it comes to make female feel inferior or whenever they see a confident woman they do everything they can to put her down.

One exemple I can give you, when I was between 9 and 10 yers old, I always wanted to play soccer with guys, they'd always refuse. I kept coming everyday until they let me, they never did. One day I snapped and shoot at their ball angry and they were like "😦". So whenever we'd play at the break to another game, they were surprised because I was better than them. Because I was a faster runner than them, my team would always win. As I was growing up I noticed a couple of patterns such as this one. I was good at sport, but because men feel entitled they wanted me to feel restricted, yet I would always prove them wrong. Back then the guys from my promo actually started to respect me more.

Emma Watson also experienced a similar thing to me at sports. To you men it might seem like it's nothing, but for us ? it's a big deal.

Yes. It’s true!

Men are very dumb. Most of them are anyway. I don’t think I want to be in a relationship with one either. I’d rather be with a woman next time around.

Hell do I want with a weakling in my life. Most men are weak and I easily lose respect for most of them.

They aren't all bad, some are nice, but for the most part ? yes they are.

I feel sad everytime I hear a woman says she's scared to go out alone at night because a man might harrass/harm her. I believe, when it comes to those things we all feel the same. It's hard to be a woman in this world.

Yes, for most part… most men suck. Even on this site. This site should be an eye opener for most women because people are more uninhibited online. That’s what I think anyway.

Yes, women have to worry about those type of things where a man does not.

The world is a dangerous and mean place. We calculate risk and rewarded on a daily basis. There's areas I don't go to and places I won't visit after dark for risk of being beaten. It's just common sense. That said if in the unlikely event I go to a nightclub I don't need to worry about a woman pinching my bottom as the average man is stronger than the average woman. Flip it around I see why that is a danger for women.

I honestly don't care if people, men or women sexually degrade me. But my mindset is different from a lot of men.

Degrade you physically or verbally?

I'm not a superhot chad, but women grabbing a man's muscles, his crotch or his arse is degrading as are comments like "I want you in my bush". Just because men are men, doesn't mean things like I've mentioned aren't unwanted attention.

Did you mean its ok if men verbally

degrade you?

Refers specifically to gay or bisexual men in this case. I'm not saying it's OK, I'm saying I don't care. Most people aren't interested full stop.
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Long and short if a white woman's biggest personal complaint about race is that people are appropriately albeit harshly pointing out thoughtless or entitled behavior or being lightly ribbed for her mainstream purchases... or love of generic autumn themed items...she is gotdamned lucky and has frankly gotten off lucky each and every time that that is the peak of her discomfort.


@bmoon8 claims white woman are more oppressed than any racial minority and white women are a minority that’s abused and disenfranchised.
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Long and short if a white woman's biggest personal complaint about race is that people are appropriately albeit harshly pointing out thoughtless or entitled behavior or being lightly ribbed for her mainstream purchases... or love of generic autumn themed items...she is gotdamned lucky and has frankly gotten off lucky each and every time that that is the peak of her discomfort.

It's really not about that, but its so interesting of you to dismiss someone else experience because it doesn't relate to yours.
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I still fail to see why women think referring to each other as bitches is empowering. A bitch is a spiteful woman and a female dog. Men don't refer to each other as bastards.

Do they actually feel empowered? Or are they trying to be more like the men that treat them like shit? Seems patriarchal power play

I don't think it is for empowerment.

I think it is used as an attempt to impress asshole men.
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Yeah be all like ā€œlook I’m just like you and every other woman is a bitch, just not me, but pick me!ā€
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Long and short if a white woman's biggest personal complaint about race is that people are appropriately albeit harshly pointing out thoughtless or entitled behavior or being lightly ribbed for her mainstream purchases... or love of generic autumn themed items...she is gotdamned lucky and has frankly gotten off lucky each and every time that that is the peak of her discomfort.

It's really not about that, but its so interesting of you to dismiss someone else experience because it doesn't relate to yours.

Me pointing out inconvenient truths and social phenomena is not the same as actually experienced systematized oppression.

Women including the basic white ones experience sexism but that in no way invalidates the points being made here since most criticism of white women from the larger society focuses on their entitlement and racial aggression/ignorance.

To even talk about white women taking the majority of shit in this country when BIPOC women take all the sexism white women get (magnified) along with racism, religious discrimination, transphobia and TONS of other isms is nose blind and tone deaf.

Stereotypes can hurt but it is a bad faith argument to assert that all stereotypes are equally damaging all grievances are equally valid and that white women are the preferred target of discrimination in the U.S.

But in case I am missing something here...

Tell us what experience are you saying I am dismissing?

A white woman's distressing experience of race in America?

lol look at this man telling a woman about oppression. In a patriarchal society no less.
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Long and short if a white woman's biggest personal complaint about race is that people are appropriately albeit harshly pointing out thoughtless or entitled behavior or being lightly ribbed for her mainstream purchases... or love of generic autumn themed items...she is gotdamned lucky and has frankly gotten off lucky each and every time that that is the peak of her discomfort.

It's really not about that, but its so interesting of you to dismiss someone else experience because it doesn't relate to yours.

Me pointing out inconvenient truths and social phenomena is not the same as actually experienced systematized oppression.

Women including the basic white ones experience sexism but that in no way invalidates the points being made here since most criticism of white women from the larger society focuses on their entitlement and racial aggression/ignorance.

To even talk about white women taking the majority of shit in this country when BIPOC women take all the sexism white women get (magnified) along with racism, religious discrimination, transphobia and TONS of other isms is nose blind and tone deaf.

Stereotypes can hurt but it is a bad faith argument to assert that all stereotypes are equally damaging all grievances are equally valid and that white women are the preferred target of discrimination in the U.S.

But in case I am missing something here...

Tell us what experience are you saying I am dismissing?

A white woman's distressing experience of race in America?
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My observation is that it seems to be acceptable to put these women down because of their choices of expression. Like idk 20 years ago when people would mock black culture, baggy pants ebonics ect.. but we've come to a place in society where the majority doesn't find that acceptable, but its still acceptable to mock this other group, I guess for all the reasons you just listed, they obviously deserve it.

It's simple fucking question, and i don't need some Virgo mansplaining what I'm saying. So thank you for your time and Thats white lady for GTFO.
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Long and short if a white woman's biggest personal complaint about race is that people are appropriately albeit harshly pointing out thoughtless or entitled behavior or being lightly ribbed for her mainstream purchases... or love of generic autumn themed items...she is gotdamned lucky and has frankly gotten off lucky each and every time that that is the peak of her discomfort.

It's really not about that, but its so interesting of you to dismiss someone else experience because it doesn't relate to yours.

Me pointing out inconvenient truths and social phenomena is not the same as actually experienced systematized oppression.

Women including the basic white ones experience sexism but that in no way invalidates the points being made here since most criticism of white women from the larger society focuses on their entitlement and racial aggression/ignorance.

To even talk about white women taking the majority of shit in this country when BIPOC women take all the sexism white women get (magnified) along with racism, religious discrimination, transphobia and TONS of other isms is nose blind and tone deaf.

Stereotypes can hurt but it is a bad faith argument to assert that all stereotypes are equally damaging all grievances are equally valid and that white women are the preferred target of discrimination in the U.S.

But in case I am missing something here...

Tell us what experience are you saying I am dismissing?

A white woman's distressing experience of race in America?

My observation is that it seems to be acceptable to put these women down because of their choices of expression. Like idk 20 years ago when people would mock black culture, baggy pants ebonics ect.. but we've come to a place in society where the majority doesn't find that acceptable, but its still acceptable to mock this other group, I guess for all the reasons you just listed, they obviously deserve it.

It's simple fucking question, and i don't need some Virgo mansplaining what I'm saying. So thank you for your time and Thats white lady for GTFO.

Me being a Virgo and me being a man have very little to do with explaining racial dynamics. You're citing me for dismissal but I am objectively engaging with you.

You seem to be dismissing the vast majority of the tie in to race that your issue has...considering that you framed it as a racial argument since you're speaking about the qualms of specifically white women having issues with being made fun of...it is "interesting" though that you're adopting a stance (seemingly) of this being a colorblind thing. It's not as evidenced by your titling.
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Its like you just can't stop speaking for me.
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Long and short if a white woman's biggest personal complaint about race is that people are appropriately albeit harshly pointing out thoughtless or entitled behavior or being lightly ribbed for her mainstream purchases... or love of generic autumn themed items...she is gotdamned lucky and has frankly gotten off lucky each and every time that that is the peak of her discomfort.

It's really not about that, but its so interesting of you to dismiss someone else experience because it doesn't relate to yours.

Me pointing out inconvenient truths and social phenomena is not the same as actually experienced systematized oppression.

Women including the basic white ones experience sexism but that in no way invalidates the points being made here since most criticism of white women from the larger society focuses on their entitlement and racial aggression/ignorance.

To even talk about white women taking the majority of shit in this country when BIPOC women take all the sexism white women get (magnified) along with racism, religious discrimination, transphobia and TONS of other isms is nose blind and tone deaf.

Stereotypes can hurt but it is a bad faith argument to assert that all stereotypes are equally damaging all grievances are equally valid and that white women are the preferred target of discrimination in the U.S.

But in case I am missing something here...

Tell us what experience are you saying I am dismissing?

A white woman's distressing experience of race in America?

My observation is that it seems to be acceptable to put these women down because of their choices of expression. Like idk 20 years ago when people would mock black culture, baggy pants ebonics ect.. but we've come to a place in society where the majority doesn't find that acceptable, but its still acceptable to mock this other group, I guess for all the reasons you just listed, they obviously deserve it.

It's simple fucking question, and i don't need some Virgo mansplaining what I'm saying. So thank you for your time and Thats white lady for GTFO.
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Honestly there is certain parts of black culture that some people will never get, and it doesn't have to do much with "mocking black culture"

One example for instance, that they have just changed

Kids growing up and seeing Uncle Ben- A black slave on the front on Uncle Ben's rice, representing a brand as well as Aunt Jemima on syrup, a black slave nanny.

Then you go down the aisle a little more and see The Quaker oats brand and see a White Male Plantation and Slave owner on that brand.

And it's been on shelves for years, until recently, with all kids seeing and recognizing the face, as well as the cultural appropriation associated with the brands.

Which child do you think has more pride in seeing these brands on the shelves? Which child feels more powerful and proud to be represented?

This is what a child is supposed to identify with, to know their place in the world?

This is what's supposed to be common in America because it's the culture?

These are the subconscious, subliminal messages that can keep a culture being oppressed and making sure they "know their place"- and this is starting in the cereal aisle, so it catches all kids while they are young.
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Long and short if a white woman's biggest personal complaint about race is that people are appropriately albeit harshly pointing out thoughtless or entitled behavior or being lightly ribbed for her mainstream purchases... or love of generic autumn themed items...she is gotdamned lucky and has frankly gotten off lucky each and every time that that is the peak of her discomfort.

It's really not about that, but its so interesting of you to dismiss someone else experience because it doesn't relate to yours.

Me pointing out inconvenient truths and social phenomena is not the same as actually experienced systematized oppression.

Women including the basic white ones experience sexism but that in no way invalidates the points being made here since most criticism of white women from the larger society focuses on their entitlement and racial aggression/ignorance.

To even talk about white women taking the majority of shit in this country when BIPOC women take all the sexism white women get (magnified) along with racism, religious discrimination, transphobia and TONS of other isms is nose blind and tone deaf.

Stereotypes can hurt but it is a bad faith argument to assert that all stereotypes are equally damaging all grievances are equally valid and that white women are the preferred target of discrimination in the U.S.

But in case I am missing something here...

Tell us what experience are you saying I am dismissing?

A white woman's distressing experience of race in America?

My observation is that it seems to be acceptable to put these women down because of their choices of expression. Like idk 20 years ago when people would mock black culture, baggy pants ebonics ect.. but we've come to a place in society where the majority doesn't find that acceptable, but its still acceptable to mock this other group, I guess for all the reasons you just listed, they obviously deserve it.

It's simple fucking question, and i don't need some Virgo mansplaining what I'm saying. So thank you for your time and Thats white lady for GTFO.

Me being a Virgo and me being a man have very little to do with explaining racial dynamics. You're citing me for dismissal but I am objectively engaging with you.

You seem to be dismissing the vast majority of the tie in to race that your issue has...considering that you framed it as a racial argument since you're speaking about the qualms of specifically white women having issues with being made fun of...it is "interesting" though that you're adopting a stance (seemingly) of this being a colorblind thing. It's not as evidenced by your titling.

Its like you just can't stop speaking for me.

Are you so triggered by the 2nd person? Should I instead refer to actions taken by you which I am observing and commenting on as Jane doe 1?

I think analyzing the commentary you put out which invited public commentary and I in obliging your question and pointing out a very relative and foundational component of white women being made fun in America is not speaking for you. Is it? If so how?
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"you're speaking about the qualms of specifically white women having issues with being made fun of"

well this statement is jumping to conclusions and making assumptions about what I think or what I mean.

You may be very bad at it and relaying what someone else's mean. but you are very good at trying to insinuate what you want other people to think they mean. So I can see clearly what your trying to do, and I want you to fuck off.
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I still fail to see why women think referring to each other as bitches is empowering. A bitch is a spiteful woman and a female dog. Men don't refer to each other as bastards.

Ive always thought it ridiculous as is using cunt in a derogatory way - sacred ground

Term of affection in Australia: "buy you a beer ya big cunt".
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Long and short if a white woman's biggest personal complaint about race is that people are appropriately albeit harshly pointing out thoughtless or entitled behavior or being lightly ribbed for her mainstream purchases... or love of generic autumn themed items...she is gotdamned lucky and has frankly gotten off lucky each and every time that that is the peak of her discomfort.

It's really not about that, but its so interesting of you to dismiss someone else experience because it doesn't relate to yours.

Me pointing out inconvenient truths and social phenomena is not the same as actually experienced systematized oppression.

Women including the basic white ones experience sexism but that in no way invalidates the points being made here since most criticism of white women from the larger society focuses on their entitlement and racial aggression/ignorance.

To even talk about white women taking the majority of shit in this country when BIPOC women take all the sexism white women get (magnified) along with racism, religious discrimination, transphobia and TONS of other isms is nose blind and tone deaf.

Stereotypes can hurt but it is a bad faith argument to assert that all stereotypes are equally damaging all grievances are equally valid and that white women are the preferred target of discrimination in the U.S.

But in case I am missing something here...

Tell us what experience are you saying I am dismissing?

A white woman's distressing experience of race in America?

My observation is that it seems to be acceptable to put these women down because of their choices of expression. Like idk 20 years ago when people would mock black culture, baggy pants ebonics ect.. but we've come to a place in society where the majority doesn't find that acceptable, but its still acceptable to mock this other group, I guess for all the reasons you just listed, they obviously deserve it.

It's simple fucking question, and i don't need some Virgo mansplaining what I'm saying. So thank you for your time and Thats white lady for GTFO.

Me being a Virgo and me being a man have very little to do with explaining racial dynamics. You're citing me for dismissal but I am objectively engaging with you.

You seem to be dismissing the vast majority of the tie in to race that your issue has...considering that you framed it as a racial argument since you're speaking about the qualms of specifically white women having issues with being made fun of...it is "interesting" though that you're adopting a stance (seemingly) of this being a colorblind thing. It's not as evidenced by your titling.

Its like you just can't stop speaking for me.

Are you so triggered by the 2nd person? Should I instead refer to actions taken by you which I am observing and commenting on as Jane doe 1?

I think analyzing the commentary you put out which invited public commentary and I in obliging your question and pointing out a very relative and foundational component of white women being made fun in America is not speaking for you. Is it? If so how?

"you're speaking about the qualms of specifically white women having issues with being made fun of"

well this statement is jumping to conclusions and making assumptions about what I think or what I mean.

You may be very bad at it and relaying what someone else's mean. but you are very good at trying to insinuate what you want other people to think they mean. So I can see clearly what your trying to do, and I want you to fuck off.
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Scared white woman versus black man.

Bit cliche
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Long and short if a white woman's biggest personal complaint about race is that people are appropriately albeit harshly pointing out thoughtless or entitled behavior or being lightly ribbed for her mainstream purchases... or love of generic autumn themed items...she is gotdamned lucky and has frankly gotten off lucky each and every time that that is the peak of her discomfort.

It's really not about that, but its so interesting of you to dismiss someone else experience because it doesn't relate to yours.

Me pointing out inconvenient truths and social phenomena is not the same as actually experienced systematized oppression.

Women including the basic white ones experience sexism but that in no way invalidates the points being made here since most criticism of white women from the larger society focuses on their entitlement and racial aggression/ignorance.

To even talk about white women taking the majority of shit in this country when BIPOC women take all the sexism white women get (magnified) along with racism, religious discrimination, transphobia and TONS of other isms is nose blind and tone deaf.

Stereotypes can hurt but it is a bad faith argument to assert that all stereotypes are equally damaging all grievances are equally valid and that white women are the preferred target of discrimination in the U.S.

But in case I am missing something here...

Tell us what experience are you saying I am dismissing?

A white woman's distressing experience of race in America?

My observation is that it seems to be acceptable to put these women down because of their choices of expression. Like idk 20 years ago when people would mock black culture, baggy pants ebonics ect.. but we've come to a place in society where the majority doesn't find that acceptable, but its still acceptable to mock this other group, I guess for all the reasons you just listed, they obviously deserve it.

It's simple fucking question, and i don't need some Virgo mansplaining what I'm saying. So thank you for your time and Thats white lady for GTFO.

Me being a Virgo and me being a man have very little to do with explaining racial dynamics. You're citing me for dismissal but I am objectively engaging with you.

You seem to be dismissing the vast majority of the tie in to race that your issue has...considering that you framed it as a racial argument since you're speaking about the qualms of specifically white women having issues with being made fun of...it is "interesting" though that you're adopting a stance (seemingly) of this being a colorblind thing. It's not as evidenced by your titling.

Its like you just can't stop speaking for me.

Are you so triggered by the 2nd person? Should I instead refer to actions taken by you which I am observing and commenting on as Jane doe 1?

I think analyzing the commentary you put out which invited public commentary and I in obliging your question and pointing out a very relative and foundational component of white women being made fun in America is not speaking for you. Is it? If so how?

"you're speaking about the qualms of specifically white women having issues with being made fun of"

well this statement is jumping to conclusions and making assumptions about what I think or what I mean.

You may be very bad at it and relaying what someone else's mean. but you are very good at trying to insinuate what you want other people to think they mean. So I can see clearly what your trying to do, and I want you to fuck off.

What am I allegedly insinuating Robyn?

I don't recall trying to explain your words to other people. What I will cop to is me examining your words that made up your arguments and asked you about them. I took your words and pointed out things I noticed about them. I joined your conversation primarily to speak to you about issues you raised. Because of that I have already invited you to clarify your points what I have not done is explain your words to someone else on this thread I have said what your words seem to express to me when you analyze them. That is not the same as saying that was your intended message or how you wanted things to be perceived.

Your hostility is super unfortunate and truly misplaced.
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You came in here to dismiss someone else's experience by comparing it to yours. I find it disappointing that a man with your experiences and education can't see past himself.

I don't personally identify with any of this shit, it was objective observation about the current culture. And I believe there is value to all humanity to question and observe all aspects human experience.
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"Basic White Bitch Culture" Because pride of ones culture belongs to them too

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Hold up. The girl in black face and a prison jumpsuit is culture pride? You almost had me.
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It is in the eye of the "Basic White Bitch" - Who are we to say what is right or wrong? "They know not what they do"

The representation of the take over of land and slaughter of Natives is in the picture as well šŸ™‚
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People will always be judgmental and have some shit to say, ESPECIALLY online where people talk out their ass in a way they would never irl.

If the worst someone can say is to insult you based on your love of a good scented candle then you literally have already won. Its like when internet strangers call you fat or ugly because they don't have anything of value to add to the discussion. Like... ok cool beans.

I view it as very low brow intelligence.
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I actually still haven't tried a Pumpkin Spice Latte. This thread has me wondering what all the fuss is about it. Maybe I might.

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Can I join you ? 😃
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Of course!!! I'm wondering if coconut milk or oat milk will taste better in it, since I can't have the dairy.

What do you think? Which sounds tastier?
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I actually still haven't tried a Pumpkin Spice Latte. This thread has me wondering what all the fuss is about it. Maybe I might.

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Can I join you ? 😃

Of course!!! I'm wondering if coconut milk or oat milk will taste better in it, since I can't have the dairy.

What do you think? Which sounds tastier?
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oat milk has my vote
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I actually still haven't tried a Pumpkin Spice Latte. This thread has me wondering what all the fuss is about it. Maybe I might.

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It's not that impressive I tried one last fall. It was a tiny cup and it cost like $ 7. I think Starbucks coffee is really overrated and weak, like its not strong enough

This thread made me want to try it again tho
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I usually always get the Chai Tea Lattes with Oat milk because it taste like a warm cup of cinnamony oatmeal.

It's like what oatmeal is meant to taste like. I don't like the actual texture of real oatmeal. It is really AMAZING

I think I might give it a chance, and try it out. $ 7!!!!!

They need a pumpkin spice latte shot to get a quick fix for $ 2!
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Honestly, we're all the same on the inside, and its whats on the inside that counts. Are your insides healthy? I'm looking for a healthy hoe. Whoever drinks coffee can get lost. That shits bad for you and your teeth too.


Sadly when you become a designer you have to sign a contract that says you will either be addicted to coffee or cigs or both. I don't make the rules 🤷
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I actually still haven't tried a Pumpkin Spice Latte. This thread has me wondering what all the fuss is about it. Maybe I might.

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Can I join you ? 😃

Of course!!! I'm wondering if coconut milk or oat milk will taste better in it, since I can't have the dairy.

What do you think? Which sounds tastier?

oat milk has my vote
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I'm thinking fall comfort foods and I think I agree! Oat milk it is!
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I basic white girl'd out when I bought my first order of Bath and Body Works wall flowers and varied scents. Some were fall like cinnamon or pumpkin. They got me in a facebook ad, it was a free wallflower with purchase of fragrance or something. I am very susceptible to sales and "free" stuff. I wasn't happy with the product because it stopped working after 2 days so I Karen'd and asked for a refund, to which they sent me a wall flower replacement. It's just sitting on my counter now.

b&bw is extra karen friendly, they have a 100% satisfaction guarantee. I know a chick that will burn all of her 3 wick candle and take it back for a complete replacement with the reason being "well I just didn't like the smell"
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@saggurl88 if you every see a pumpkin horchata or chai horchata spiced latte you must try! Its next level basic bitch.

OOHHH! I might have to try it! I will be on the lookout!
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starbucks is crap coffee anyways. but most small mom and pop coffee shops have these kinda seasonal drinks. I go to a local one here run by Cubans and damn... everything I've tried has been beyond perfection. They use real ingredients too, real pumpkin puree not the mixes and syrups Starbucks uses.
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I actually still haven't tried a Pumpkin Spice Latte. This thread has me wondering what all the fuss is about it. Maybe I might.

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It is way too sweet. I like the gingerbread lattes at Christmas time. Has a little kick.
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That's actually the reason why I don't drink most of their flavored drinks. I can't even enjoy their mochas because they can be inconsistent in the taste, depending on who makes them.

Hmmm. Gingerbread sounds good too.

My favorite cookies are Biscoff gingersnap cookies, so I will have to add his to the list as well! Thanks for the recommendation.
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We, women in general always take a lot of critics, especially from men.

Then I guess both genders dont like each other becaus I think everything we do is labelled as cliche and you shamed on for seemingly for seemingly toxic behavior social media, hollywood movies, commercials politics. You dont feel like you have the upperhand these days?

Men are harsher when it comes to critics about our physical aspect, and that's a fact. Don't even go as far as saying we have the upper hand whereas you men are paid more than us. Now, I'm not saying all men are like that, but the majority is.

I think you are right, but it's just if you use any media att all you cant help but think we are evil pos in general. The current zeitgeist is more pro woman than it was before.

No, I didn't reply according to what I read on social medias, instead it's from what I hear from my other female friends, relatives, or what I experienced myself. Social medias aren't something to take seriously.I didn't say men are evil, they aren't all bad, BUT when it comes to make female feel inferior or whenever they see a confident woman they do everything they can to put her down.

One exemple I can give you, when I was between 9 and 10 yers old, I always wanted to play soccer with guys, they'd always refuse. I kept coming everyday until they let me, they never did. One day I snapped and shoot at their ball angry and they were like "😦". So whenever we'd play at the break to another game, they were surprised because I was better than them. Because I was a faster runner than them, my team would always win. As I was growing up I noticed a couple of patterns such as this one. I was good at sport, but because men feel entitled they wanted me to feel restricted, yet I would always prove them wrong. Back then the guys from my promo actually started to respect me more.

Emma Watson also experienced a similar thing to me at sports. To you men it might seem like it's nothing, but for us ? it's a big deal.

Yes. It’s true!

Men are very dumb. Most of them are anyway. I don’t think I want to be in a relationship with one either. I’d rather be with a woman next time around.

Hell do I want with a weakling in my life. Most men are weak and I easily lose respect for most of them.

They aren't all bad, some are nice, but for the most part ? yes they are.

I feel sad everytime I hear a woman says she's scared to go out alone at night because a man might harrass/harm her. I believe, when it comes to those things we all feel the same. It's hard to be a woman in this world.

Yes, for most part… most men suck. Even on this site. This site should be an eye opener for most women because people are more uninhibited online. That’s what I think anyway.

Yes, women have to worry about those type of things where a man does not.

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You really despise men on dxp, do you lol ? šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

Like I said let's not take them seriously. Big mouth online, small dicks offline. šŸ¤šŸ¼šŸ¤£

But still your point is valid, since they're a good reflection of toxic men in general.

Fuck yeah, I do. There are a lot of bitter men on this site.
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There are some good ones too šŸ‘