Do Pisces try to make you jealous?

Me and longtime friend who we dated for a year broke up in December. It felt like friends and no romance for me. He was devastated and said he was going to propose over Xmas. It was really sad and hard but had to be done.

Now he's posting pics online kissing a girl with people all around them like a wedding. 15 people lined up and each side of them.

I want him happy, don't get me wrong. But you said you've been inlove with me for 10 years, wanted to marry me, and 3 months later a very loud fb post like this?!!!

If he wanted to get a rise out of me he did, but makes me very much not regret ending it with someone who can flip flop like that so quick. WOW.

Is this a pisces heartbreak thing? Or was he just full of BS?

Why do you care? He isn't your business anymore.

Well, it just seemed really out of his character, so was wondering what his purpose was, but he's that happy in inlove that is most important. He so deserves it. An awesome human. It was a big decision and I am 100% sure on it, but I know him so well, and it threw me off to see him doing a social media display like that.

haha you BRAT! Well I do love the man deeply, and like I said friends first. OK, and he hadn't posted anything in 5 years! hmmmmmmmmmm

Yeah, I'm happy in my own life, and I really want him happy because he is such a sweetheart. Can't make magic happen if it just isn't there!

OK, fine, I'll ignore it! lol 😛

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Posted by taurusgoddess
Me and longtime friend who we dated for a year broke up in December. It felt like friends and no romance for me. He was devastated and said he was going to propose over Xmas. It was really sad and hard but had to be done.

Now he's posting pics online kissing a girl with people all around them like a wedding. 15 people lined up and each side of them.

I want him happy, don't get me wrong. But you said you've been inlove with me for 10 years, wanted to marry me, and 3 months later a very loud fb post like this?!!!

If he wanted to get a rise out of me he did, but makes me very much not regret ending it with someone who can flip flop like that so quick. WOW.

Is this a pisces heartbreak thing? Or was he just full of BS?

Not really, it's called moving on.

It's funny you mention that, a Taurus friend of mine actually split up with her husband of 4 years last July, got with a new guy in August and was married to him within less than six months.

Sure everyone was like WTF initially but if the other partner (in your case you) doesn't want you, why not move on? I say good for him!

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That is awesome, and puts it in perspective. Thanks for sharing. MOVIN' ON!

lol yet another twist ... my Pisces ex-husband did this with me and his ex-wife when we first met - then after we divorced he did the same to me - he wanted to continue to call me to "see how I was doing" and then he would proceed to start talking about how great he was doing and that he had got help and stopped the bad behaviors that caused our marriage to end and that he was soooo much better lol - I said "well good for you" and that put an end to his rantings about how he got therapy and is allllll better now lololol

however, my ex-fiancé Aries years ago did the very same thing to me so I don't think this is sign related ... everything that I had asked him for years which he ignored he started doing after I left him and he had to come back and tell me what he was doing - now he didn't come across as "look how great I'm doing" ... he would just look at me and tell me what he was doing ... I was under the impression that he may have thought that all of a sudden I would fall for him again - I said the same "well good for you!" ...

when I'm done, I'm done and I don't step backwards ...

I'm glad they are better people now. So am I !

THAT is a response I was hoping for!

Yeah I don't take backwards steps either. Sometimes in healing or learning you can't help but questions certain details. It hurt me too to make that decision but knew it was best for BOTH of us in the long term. I think it's proving itself right not just for me, but him too.

Yeah maybe he wanted to throw it in your face, but also just wanted to be happy. Who knows.

Stuff like that doesn't bother me. More power to them if they want to move on. I mean my ex husband nor I did anything like that. Neither are a Pisces, but it's probably not a sun sign thing.

Life's too short to care about stuff like that! Go have a good time with some family or friends. 🙂

Sounds to me like you're upset that your manipulation didn't work.

Obviously, you only broke up with him to try and get him to come for you harder .. and it backfired in your face.



There's no other reason for you to be bitter that he's happy without you.



You should check yourself.

Ohhh no honey. I didn't need him to come harder, he moved mountains to make us work. I want him happy, just a strange thing for him to post a photo like that, all our common friends totally agree it's very out of his character. Which is why I was left to wonder the purpose of it.

I have checked myself to make sure. I think a part of me feels guilt about how I ended and I didn't give him enough explanation that he wanted.

Posted by taurusgoddess
Well, it just seemed really out of his character, so was wondering what his purpose was, but he's that happy in inlove that is most important. He so deserves it. An awesome human. It was a big decision and I am 100% sure on it, but I know him so well, and it threw me off to see him doing a social media display like that.

His purpose or intent shouldn't concern you if you really don't want him. Your not curious, your ego is hurt.

Ahhhh you're likely right! 😢 Amongst a bunch of of ugly and strange emotions. Don't quite like it!!!

Well, at least if I can't help how I feel the least I can do is try to change my perspective. 🙂 Thanks guys for shooting a bunch at me. It's never fun when bad feelings arise and linger.

Posted by YasmineMin
I think so. Im a Pisces and I do think I can see myself trying to make a guy I like or dated once jealous but really only if I still had feelings for him, but not in a high key way like posting on social media. All that ish is just for show in my opinion.

Ahh good point about the social media thing in general! lol I've really withdrawn from publishing my personal love life and specials moments and big opinions on there. The people who love me most and matter will know whats important and going on in my life.

I think since I've done that I've had a better focus on my relationships. The face time, and calls. 🙂 Damn, now I need to call my mother!!! lol

PS. Happy St. Patty's everyone!

Social media gives the best hotbed to these common, immature ego trips.

This is not sign-related.

I wonder when people would stop doing it.

Probably when they get exactly what they want.

Posted by taurusgoddess
Me and longtime friend who we dated for a year broke up in December. It felt like friends and no romance for me. He was devastated and said he was going to propose over Xmas. It was really sad and hard but had to be done.

Now he's posting pics online kissing a girl with people all around them like a wedding. 15 people lined up and each side of them.

I want him happy, don't get me wrong. But you said you've been inlove with me for 10 years, wanted to marry me, and 3 months later a very loud fb post like this?!!!

If he wanted to get a rise out of me he did, but makes me very much not regret ending it with someone who can flip flop like that so quick. WOW.

Is this a pisces heartbreak thing? Or was he just full of BS?

Hey Taurus Goddess!

Pisces girl here married to a Taurus man. YES, Pisces do try to make people they love jealous, so that could be part of it. I don't understand social media, and my husband and I avoid FB because it seems like a ridiculous waste of time, but if he still has you as a friend and you are able to view his pictures then he has unfinished business with you, whether it is revenge or unrequited love. He could have lied about being in love with you for 10 years to try to get your sympathy, but if he was trying that desperately then he probably really did love you. All people are complicated when it comes to love, not just Pisces.

Then again, it is very possible that he found another woman in 3 months and decided to move on since you were so clear with him that you weren't romantically interested. I dated a Pisces man for less than a month before I met my husband, and there were no sparks, he seemed like a good guy but did not know how to take charge as a man.

If you are feeling jealous or a little hurt that he has moved on, I would say just remember why you friend-zoned him in the first place and stand by your decision. There is a lot to love about Taurus signs and I am sure you will find someone else for you.