What's your greatest FEAR—

dying alone??

having no children?

having TOO many children?

Being poor?

Being in large amounts of Debt?

Getting cheated on?

Finding out that you have a gambling problem or drinking problem??



ending up with a man/woman who doesn't appreciate you?

having to lose all your hair??



name lists that SCARE the hell out of you...

dying young? Death by train, car, or helicopter??



going to Africa in the forests and going on a hunt and you get chased by a lion or cheetah??

getting cancer, the disease??



just these give me anxiety..



some of these say....."being forgotten"

"dying a slow torturous death"

"losing who you love"

oh gosh those are greatest fears!!!

Posted by yupvirgoo
getting cheated on

my wife wanting divorce

something bad happening to my sons

for some reason I don't have those fears about being cheated on. I was in the past with my first ex, but I don't know why it never brought any more fears....after the first ex.

something bad happening to my children I would have great fears. When they are out there in the world, I have NO control...

because they could get into car accidents, someone could beat them up, get hurt, I get really scared out there but I have to be courageous to know they are gonna be OK, and that they make good choices and follow their intuition.

because your children are SEPARATE from you, when they are not around you, you don't know if when they go out to college and far away, or travel, you just gotta TRUST in the universe that they are protected you know?

Posted by sagsagsag
losing the ones I love

seeing people I love bleed heavily or scream in pain

omgosh that sounds like a scary movie!!!!



a horror film,



the ones my family HATES, when I put it on,

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Posted by lisabethur8
dying alone??

having no children?

having TOO many children?

Being poor?

Being in large amounts of Debt?

Getting cheated on?

Finding out that you have a gambling problem or drinking problem??



ending up with a man/woman who doesn't appreciate you?

having to lose all your hair??



name lists that SCARE the hell out of you...

dying young? Death by train, car, or helicopter??



going to Africa in the forests and going on a hunt and you get chased by a lion or cheetah??

getting cancer, the disease??



just these give me anxiety..



some of these say....."being forgotten"

"dying a slow torturous death"

"losing who you love"

oh gosh those are greatest fears!!!

Both are equally horrendous.

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can't focus on a few huh? 😛 😆

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Posted by lisabethur8
dying alone??

having no children?

having TOO many children?

Being poor?

Being in large amounts of Debt?

Getting cheated on?

Finding out that you have a gambling problem or drinking problem??



ending up with a man/woman who doesn't appreciate you?

having to lose all your hair??



name lists that SCARE the hell out of you...

dying young? Death by train, car, or helicopter??



going to Africa in the forests and going on a hunt and you get chased by a lion or cheetah??

getting cancer, the disease??



just these give me anxiety..



some of these say....."being forgotten"

"dying a slow torturous death"

"losing who you love"

oh gosh those are greatest fears!!!

Both are equally horrendous.

lmao

On one hand a terrifying, life ruining disease thing that destroys you and on the other side cancer.

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that is terrible. Yeah you don't know if you're gonna get cancer, or a disease that's NOT curable.

in the old days, they had tubercolsis, and now there's a cure if you have medical insurance and get antibiotics/ medicine.

Hmmm... things that worry me concerning my future

-not getting married

-not having at least 3 kids

-not being a housewife... meaning id like the luxury to stay at home and raise my kids only choosing to work for extra money not because I need to... yes I am lazy. I hate work!!!

-losing teeth and having to wear dentures

-getting robbed

Posted by lisabethur8
dying alone??

having no children?

having TOO many children?

Being poor?

Being in large amounts of Debt?

Getting cheated on?

Finding out that you have a gambling problem or drinking problem??



ending up with a man/woman who doesn't appreciate you?

having to lose all your hair??



name lists that SCARE the hell out of you...

dying young? Death by train, car, or helicopter??



going to Africa in the forests and going on a hunt and you get chased by a lion or cheetah??

getting cancer, the disease??



just these give me anxiety..



some of these say....."being forgotten"

"dying a slow torturous death"

"losing who you love"

oh gosh those are greatest fears!!!

Probably getting teased since I'm going to get metal braces at 35 going to be 36. Not looking forward to it.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by yupvirgoo
getting cheated on

my wife wanting divorce

something bad happening to my sons

for some reason I don't have those fears about being cheated on. I was in the past with my first ex, but I don't know why it never brought any more fears....after the first ex.

something bad happening to my children I would have great fears. When they are out there in the world, I have NO control...

because they could get into car accidents, someone could beat them up, get hurt, I get really scared out there but I have to be courageous to know they are gonna be OK, and that they make good choices and follow their intuition.

because your children are SEPARATE from you, when they are not around you, you don't know if when they go out to college and far away, or travel, you just gotta TRUST in the universe that they are protected you know?

I do only get this anxiety about it when I hear horror stories of infidelity that other people like telling you especially when you're married lol.

As for my kids yeah, I just have to trust the universe that they will be fine.

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they are projecting their FEARS on you.

don't worry if you know you're good. and your wife loves you very much.

and she's not prone to sizing up other men, like, "Ohhhhh look at that guy, he has MORE!!!"

that would be so unlikely of your wife, the way she sounds. That type sounds opportunistic.

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Hmmm... things that worry me concerning my future

-not getting married

-not having at least 3 kids

-not being a housewife... meaning id like the luxury to stay at home and raise my kids only choosing to work for extra money not because I need to... yes I am lazy. I hate work!!!

-losing teeth and having to wear dentures

-getting robbed

you sound like me, lol

I love my lazy life. but I also feel like I need to stimulate myself and also do work, so I need BALANCE.

aww.

hope you find a good, single man who will want commitment and take care of you!!!

Well I've already been cheated on so nothing surprises me anymore. I would just keep staying single with my metal braces. Thanks.

Watching fate change my life. Specifically watching those closest to me die, or dying young. Both equally suck. You either die young or watch everything you love die. Like wtf?

Out living my son. Disappointing my son. Living alone.

revealing my greatest fear

For some reason I've a fear of not wanting to die. I don't ever want to not die.Does that make sense? At any given moment in my life, I always want to embrace death. I don't want anything which makes me wish not to die.

the extinction of the human race due to our careless treatment of the environment. and i'm not talking about us destroying earth at all because earth is gonna live on regardless of human activity. i'm more concerned about us warming the planet up to the point where humans will be eradicated from our overuse of natural resources and non-sustainable living habits. ice caps melting, thus leading to rising sea levels, on top of drought and famine which leads to war. look at what's happening in syria as an example. we aren't gonna last long on earth at the rate we're heading towards, and a backwards american govt leading the way and not making any changes by refusing science. i can't even imagine the sort of environment our younger generations are going to be living in from here on out. it makes me NOT wanna have any kids.

Posted by blackphase
Being stabbed..

It's a really irrational fear, but it's one I have had as long as I can remember and it really takes it's toll on my mind. I get paranoid about it and it's really dumb.

wow - sorry that is horrible ... sounds like you may do with a past life regression session to see if that is where this is coming from and hopefully putting some of that behind you ...

wasting my life on dxp

and then I don't want anything to happen to my son and grandsons ...

other than that - I can deal ...

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Hmmm... things that worry me concerning my future

-not getting married

-not having at least 3 kids

-not being a housewife... meaning id like the luxury to stay at home and raise my kids only choosing to work for extra money not because I need to... yes I am lazy. I hate work!!!

-losing teeth and having to wear dentures

-getting robbed

you sound like me, lol

I love my lazy life. but I also feel like I need to stimulate myself and also do work, so I need BALANCE.

aww.

hope you find a good, single man who will want commitment and take care of you!!!

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😄 me too!

I do wish to start my own business and open a yoga studio in the future. But I'd be my own boss then and set my own hours!

Plus my childhood was spent raised by my mom.. not that there's anything wrong with day cares and stuff, just if i have the choice not to that would sweet.

My only fear, that I think is a fear of many parents is if my childs are kidnaped or worse (you get it). But if one of those things happen I will use all my forces to change all world to make things change, to not happen again.

I am not afraid of much, but I have an irrational fear of spiders. They have made me cry when surprised by them. They freak me the fuck out.

I also get anxiety when the people I am closest too are not reachable by phone. My mind goes a little crazy until I know they are safe.

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Being stabbed..

It's a really irrational fear, but it's one I have had as long as I can remember and it really takes it's toll on my mind. I get paranoid about it and it's really dumb.

wow - sorry that is horrible ... sounds like you may do with a past life regression session to see if that is where this is coming from and hopefully putting some of that behind you ...

I often wonder if that is where the fear comes from.. As it doesn't really make sense for me to fear this as much as I do.. but it almost runs my life. I am scared to be home alone or go anywhere alone at night. I can't get in my car without checking the back seats.. it's just dumb. Where could I get a past life regression reading? :/

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I don't know but check into it - @yupvirgo got one - had a nice thread about it ... research and get someone good if you're paying for it ... sounds like that might "help" with your fear - and also do you carry "protection" ? a handgun perhaps or just mace ? something so you allay your fears a bit if you do have a bit of protection ...

death bed regrets

Having children that aren't proud of me.

Dying before I can meet my grandchildren.

Being hungry and homeless.

Mushrooms.

being alive but not being aware that I exist

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Posted by blackphase
Being stabbed..

It's a really irrational fear, but it's one I have had as long as I can remember and it really takes it's toll on my mind. I get paranoid about it and it's really dumb.

wow - sorry that is horrible ... sounds like you may do with a past life regression session to see if that is where this is coming from and hopefully putting some of that behind you ...

I often wonder if that is where the fear comes from.. As it doesn't really make sense for me to fear this as much as I do.. but it almost runs my life. I am scared to be home alone or go anywhere alone at night. I can't get in my car without checking the back seats.. it's just dumb. Where could I get a past life regression reading? :/

I don't know but check into it - @yupvirgo got one - had a nice thread about it ... research and get someone good if you're paying for it ... sounds like that might "help" with your fear - and also do you carry "protection" ? a handgun perhaps or just mace ? something so you allay your fears a bit if you do have a bit of protection ...

@yupvirgo.. where did you get yours at? 😛

And, no I do not carry protection aside from crystals and stones I wear. I have a black belt even but that doesn't help my fear.

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wow interesting that having a black belt doesn't help you feel more comfortable - what is it in ? may I ask ?

And, no I do not carry protection aside from crystals and stones I wear. I have a black belt even but that doesn't help my fear.



wow interesting that having a black belt doesn't help you feel more comfortable - what is it in ? may I ask ?



Uechi-Ryu is the style I did. I think I have more of a fear of my skin being penetrated.. I also have a fear of needles as well.. The thought of any sharp object puncturing my skin sends me over the edge.. I can't even watch it in movies when people are being stabbed or given needles. It turns my insides as I always imagine what it feels like.

I used to struggle a lot when showering. I always thought my boyfriend was going to stab me in the shower.. I felt this way with both of my exes.. so it wasn't just one person. People that I know loved me and that I trusted, I would still have this fear of.



omgoodness - wow - in a past life you could have been violated by a loved one - or tattooed to death lol not funny sorry ... and I'm sure that dark side comes through in your creativity ...

Seeing my family die painfully in front of me, pets included, I wouldn't know how to process it I'd probably pass out and then I'd probably consider killing my self to deal with the pain but I don't have it in me so I end up living my life as a traumatised Homless person who can't get his shit together.

I am actually not afraid of a meteor hitting the earth and killing people, in fact I'd be happy and celebrate because we would all die together.

Oh and developing bacterial meningitis and losing my arms and legs like this chick

Posted by blackphase
Being stabbed..

It's a really irrational fear, but it's one I have had as long as I can remember and it really takes it's toll on my mind. I get paranoid about it and it's really dumb.

that's so weird.

like a past life regression as someone else mentioned here....

I get normal fears like on the list and in the video,

but nothing too much like that.

Posted by Piscis_Hominis
revealing my greatest fear

lol

we'll just assume it's like everyone else's then. j/k

Posted by earlorg16
the extinction of the human race due to our careless treatment of the environment. and i'm not talking about us destroying earth at all because earth is gonna live on regardless of human activity. i'm more concerned about us warming the planet up to the point where humans will be eradicated from our overuse of natural resources and non-sustainable living habits. ice caps melting, thus leading to rising sea levels, on top of drought and famine which leads to war. look at what's happening in syria as an example. we aren't gonna last long on earth at the rate we're heading towards, and a backwards american govt leading the way and not making any changes by refusing science. i can't even imagine the sort of environment our younger generations are going to be living in from here on out. it makes me NOT wanna have any kids.

I don't know why i'm so attracted to apocalypse films or zombie type of stories, maybe because I know how horribly tihngs can go wrong with experiments when humans make experiments for the good of mankind..when it's not really the good of...

not clear on what happned to here...

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Hmmm... things that worry me concerning my future

-not getting married

-not having at least 3 kids

-not being a housewife... meaning id like the luxury to stay at home and raise my kids only choosing to work for extra money not because I need to... yes I am lazy. I hate work!!!

-losing teeth and having to wear dentures

-getting robbed

you sound like me, lol

I love my lazy life. but I also feel like I need to stimulate myself and also do work, so I need BALANCE.

aww.

hope you find a good, single man who will want commitment and take care of you!!!

😄 me too!

I do wish to start my own business and open a yoga studio in the future. But I'd be my own boss then and set my own hours!

Plus my childhood was spent raised by my mom.. not that there's anything wrong with day cares and stuff, just if i have the choice not to that would sweet.

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you're double libra leo mars with scorpio venus right?



I know a double libra with libra venus scorpio mars (our aunty), don't know her rising.... and she is the breadwinner. Her husband also makes good money but more helped brought up the children and responsibility. But her work is more social work which makes really good money. and he also worked in that field with her, so it's like a SHARED working partnership too, with him doing the weight of the children raising and cooking, cleaning. He is Pisces sun/Aqua venus/Aries mars/Taurus moon. He does a lot of physical work, too, and rides motorcyles and has plenty of leisure time too, now that the children are grown.

having to open a yoga store sounds awesome though. you would remind me of this lady. lol

Posted by nikkistar
I am not afraid of much, but I have an irrational fear of spiders. They have made me cry when surprised by them. They freak me the fuck out.

I also get anxiety when the people I am closest too are not reachable by phone. My mind goes a little crazy until I know they are safe.

that is a very very common fear, acrophobia or something.

oh my god i'can't stand that one, where a family member visits somewhere far, and we can't a hold of them when they are normally very vigilent of making contact daily or weekly.

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Posted by earlorg16
the extinction of the human race due to our careless treatment of the environment. and i'm not talking about us destroying earth at all because earth is gonna live on regardless of human activity. i'm more concerned about us warming the planet up to the point where humans will be eradicated from our overuse of natural resources and non-sustainable living habits. ice caps melting, thus leading to rising sea levels, on top of drought and famine which leads to war. look at what's happening in syria as an example. we aren't gonna last long on earth at the rate we're heading towards, and a backwards american govt leading the way and not making any changes by refusing science. i can't even imagine the sort of environment our younger generations are going to be living in from here on out. it makes me NOT wanna have any kids.

I don't know why i'm so attracted to apocalypse films or zombie type of stories, maybe because I know how horribly tihngs can go wrong with experiments when humans make experiments for the good of mankind..when it's not really the good of...

not clear on what happned to here...

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Thanks for sharing this! Will give it a watch.

Posted by Harukka
Being worthless.

I can live with anything, but this.

what are you doing to make you think this? do you feel worthless?

I used to think I had fears but they pale now in comparison to:

Dying before my son, he is intellectually and physically disabled and won't ever be able to care for himself - my death will leave him in the care of others who may not care enough. It haunts me daily.

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I am not afraid of much, but I have an irrational fear of spiders. They have made me cry when surprised by them. They freak me the fuck out.

I also get anxiety when the people I am closest too are not reachable by phone. My mind goes a little crazy until I know they are safe.

that is a very very common fear, acrophobia or something.

oh my god i'can't stand that one, where a family member visits somewhere far, and we can't a hold of them when they are normally very vigilent of making contact daily or weekly.

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Yea, that's exactly what I am talking about. My mom likes to disappear a lot, and it drives me nuts. lol

Posted by celticlioness
I used to think I had fears but they pale now in comparison to:

Dying before my son, he is intellectually and physically disabled and won't ever be able to care for himself - my death will leave him in the care of others who may not care enough. It haunts me daily.

aw. ((hugs)) I hope there is someone who loves him, caring for him when you leave.

thanks for sharing.

nothing wrong with being a waitress.

in Europe, especially in France and Italy, it's very common full time jobs for men, and they get full benefits of insurance too.

in the U.S., everything I hear depends on tips..

but i'd still take it, better than nothing, and just budget well.





I was looking at the topic of dxp house buying....

and I thought that even in UK, it's 9 out of 10 families can't afford to buy homes....

I guess it's dffrent in the middle west of u.s. where housing is super cheap....

or out in north Dakota somewhere. lol brrrrr...

or ghetto places in Los Angeles, can be super cheap.



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I don't know why that came to me. lol

maybe because as a waitress, it's difficult. I remember it well in my teens... we had middle aged women working as a waitress, taking care of children and are single mothers.

Posted by lisabethur8
dying alone??

having no children?

having TOO many children?

Being poor?

Being in large amounts of Debt?

Getting cheated on?

Finding out that you have a gambling problem or drinking problem??



ending up with a man/woman who doesn't appreciate you?

having to lose all your hair??



name lists that SCARE the hell out of you...

dying young? Death by train, car, or helicopter??



going to Africa in the forests and going on a hunt and you get chased by a lion or cheetah??

getting cancer, the disease??



just these give me anxiety..



some of these say....."being forgotten"

"dying a slow torturous death"

"losing who you love"

oh gosh those are greatest fears!!!

I am scared of caterpillars and millipedes. And I have fear of abandonment.

Death doesn't scare me. Nor does anything surrounding it.

I don't want to deal with shit with a million legs.

Not leaving anything to be remembered about as well as dying alone.

Posted by Vageenka
A family member that I love dying and not knowing how they are, were they are or anything. The after life scares the crap out of me. I don't know how I would be able to live knowing that someone I love passed away and don't know if they're OK. I fricking despise how mysterious this stupid world is. I hate the unknown.

that's something i'm not afraid of either, the afterlife.

I don't know why... I kind of understand the "veil" thing, and going to the beyond.

I think of the afterlife as a place where all the beautiful things that happened to you in this world and the people that love you are waiting for you over there!!

its like coming home.

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A family member that I love dying and not knowing how they are, were they are or anything. The after life scares the crap out of me. I don't know how I would be able to live knowing that someone I love passed away and don't know if they're OK. I fricking despise how mysterious this stupid world is. I hate the unknown.

that's something i'm not afraid of either, the afterlife.

I don't know why... I kind of understand the "veil" thing, and going to the beyond.

I think of the afterlife as a place where all the beautiful things that happened to you in this world and the people that love you are waiting for you over there!!

its like coming home.

Ugh, I wish I had that wonderful, beautiful mindset. It would have saved me a lot of stress and depression in my childhood!

Thankfully I'm OK with it now. But when someone I love dies I know I'll be a miserable wreck for years!

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ohh I don't want that!!!

If I leave this world I want to make sure my loved ones are gonna be OK and happy. I don't want them to suffer needlessly, that is financially and health-wise, not being taken care of...

that's why we're already planning who /which houses/properties are going to who. So all of them won't suffer much. And hopefully teach them to make good financial choices, be PRUDENT with money....frugal. Because we've seen some millionaires who inherit and they blow it in a couple of years.

fear of someone dying in family and wasting my life like i do now(wasting it and cant do anything about it)

Posted by Neno
fear of someone dying in family and wasting my life like i do now(wasting it and cant do anything about it)

who is dying? :/

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Posted by Neno
fear of someone dying in family and wasting my life like i do now(wasting it and cant do anything about it)

who is dying? :/

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nobody is dying but i have a fear someone might die in family?

Posted by Seraphlight
Having children and then not wanting them. Not having children and then regretting it.

I SWEAR ...i wish i could know....I took my mates kids for a whole day ..it was lovely but like a day out I took them to the park...not normal getting ready in the morning shit...

What if it didn't suit me? What If i wanted to be crabby??

HAVE YOU SEEN CHILD BIRTH?? WHAT IF I DIED?

What if I was with some lump of a man who kept singing frozen when I was in labour??

On the other hand ..what if I REALLY regretted it after menopause..sometimes I see babies and I am just like OMG you are SO fucking amazing. But you are so amazing I hope your mommy is amazing enough for you.

I would want to teach my kids art ...help them find their spirit animals...

But you can't take a day off....

And it's so hard..really real mom's are human...flawed and have mommy guilt to deal with...and mommy guilt is no fun..

lol he's such a proud daddy. being famous, he knows people are gonna wanna see and embrace the joy with him.

the last news I saw of him...He seems so VIRGO cause he shook hands with his fans, and then used a sanitizer to clean his hands. lmao

I didn't think much of it...so?? he is touching lots of people and germs everywhere.

but people were going OMG.

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Hmmm... things that worry me concerning my future

-not getting married

-not having at least 3 kids

-not being a housewife... meaning id like the luxury to stay at home and raise my kids only choosing to work for extra money not because I need to... yes I am lazy. I hate work!!!

-losing teeth and having to wear dentures

-getting robbed

you sound like me, lol

I love my lazy life. but I also feel like I need to stimulate myself and also do work, so I need BALANCE.

aww.

hope you find a good, single man who will want commitment and take care of you!!!

😄 me too!

I do wish to start my own business and open a yoga studio in the future. But I'd be my own boss then and set my own hours!

Plus my childhood was spent raised by my mom.. not that there's anything wrong with day cares and stuff, just if i have the choice not to that would sweet.

you're double libra leo mars with scorpio venus right?



I know a double libra with libra venus scorpio mars (our aunty), don't know her rising.... and she is the breadwinner. Her husband also makes good money but more helped brought up the children and responsibility. But her work is more social work which makes really good money. and he also worked in that field with her, so it's like a SHARED working partnership too, with him doing the weight of the children raising and cooking, cleaning. He is Pisces sun/Aqua venus/Aries mars/Taurus moon. He does a lot of physical work, too, and rides motorcyles and has plenty of leisure time too, now that the children are grown.

having to open a yoga store sounds awesome though. you would remind me of this lady. lol

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Lol she does have a leo mars ego thing going on