Would you go Back to an Ex Who treated you Poorly? (Page 2)

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

That's very scorpio moon of you lol
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I want to clarify this only towards people who wronged me in some way. I don't go out and do this to random people. As much potential as I have to be a real POS, I actually have a moderate amount of control over it.
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I have seen some scorpio moons sabotage good relationships because they just got paranoid. But they also had scorpio mars so I'm not sure.


I hope you don't do this and can trust people

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I trust people until I can't anymore. My last relationship I knew she was talking to people she said she wouldn't talk to anymore. She thought I was stupid, because I'd pretend like I couldn't remember how to unlock her phone every time, even though I already tracked her pattern while messing around with her phone while she was sleeping. Finger prints on a phone screen are easy to figure out imo. She was sending messages to an ex that were a bit too suggestive imo. So I looked her in the eyes one day during a random conversation about trust, and said "That is why I love you so much. Because I know I can trust you, and know you would never lie to me." She frantically looked me in the eyes and agreed, though I already knew she was lying to me. I seen the texts, and knew she was betraying me right to my face. So then a deep and meaningful relationship simply turned into a game in my eyes. Tbh the world should be thankful I can smother my anger and rage as well as I can. I didn't hurt her in the end. She hurt me. God knows I'll mess with her every single time she tries to contact me though. There is a 0% chance ill go out of my way to contact her though. If she wants to go out of her way to play with me some more however, that's another story.

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Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
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The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon
Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon
Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon
Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned
Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned
Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon
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Oh interesting, you and I have experienced same Sun-Moon combo with Virgo and Taurus 😂
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my virgo ex allegedly has been an incel ever since me 💀 (so for 9+ years) & living in his sisters garage unemployed
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Wow that is so disappointing of a Virgo 😐 he must have some seriously lazy energy...I don't know any Virgos who are like that tbh
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The crazy thing is besides his moon, all his personal planets are in Virgo. The only stereotypically Virgo thing about him is good dental hygiene
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It's so strange that he's like that then 😬 on some people astrology really does fail😅 what is his rising, Mars also Virgo? Maybe his Mars is poorly aspected

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I believe in astrology no matter what and I think in cases like this there's a reason for it, whether its the persona chart of the chart ruler, the draconic chart, or some similar asteroids all clustered on his sun or part of a t-square, etc. this guy is such an unsavory character that I've never had interest in looking at his chart, so I shall now (:



looking at his chart patterns on astro-charts this asshole is blessed to have an earth grand trine (sun/Mars conjunct by 2°- neptune- Jupiter), a kite (sun/mars- neptune- jupiter- Pluto), and a rectangle (jupiter- chiron- neptune- Pluto). on the negative side, he has a t-square from his Virgo rising to his Chiron/MC in Gemini & his Uranus, as well as 2 yods (one from moon to chiron/MC & Jupiter, one from Jupiter to ASC & moon). I'm not surprised Neptune is involved in several aspects (such as square NN) because he's been a major hard drug addict ever since I met him in 2008. his virgo personal planet stellium also falls into the 12th house, checks out. I see Jupiter is pretty prominent in his chart, I kind of see it, he attracted me in the first place due to his sense of humor and intelligence.

but again, this guy is by no means an interesting specimen, he's the textbook definition of neckbeard and even has a neckbeard and fedora.

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

That's very scorpio moon of you lol
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I want to clarify this only towards people who wronged me in some way. I don't go out and do this to random people. As much potential as I have to be a real POS, I actually have a moderate amount of control over it.
click to expand

I have seen some scorpio moons sabotage good relationships because they just got paranoid. But they also had scorpio mars so I'm not sure.

I hope you don't do this and can trust people
more
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I trust people until I can't anymore. My last relationship I knew she was talking to people she said she wouldn't talk to anymore. She thought I was stupid, because I'd pretend like I couldn't remember how to unlock her phone every time, even though I already tracked her pattern while messing around with her phone while she was sleeping. Finger prints on a phone screen are easy to figure out imo. She was sending messages to an ex that were a bit too suggestive imo. So I looked her in the eyes one day during a random conversation about trust, and said "That is why I love you so much. Because I know I can trust you, and know you would never lie to me." She frantically looked me in the eyes and agreed, though I already knew she was lying to me. I seen the texts, and knew she was betraying me right to my face. So then a deep and meaningful relationship simply turned into a game in my eyes. Tbh the world should be thankful I can smother my anger and rage as well as I can. I didn't hurt her in the end. She hurt me. God knows I'll mess with her every single time she tries to contact me though. There is a 0% chance ill go out of my way to contact her though. If she wants to go out of her way to play with me some more however, that's another story.

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Do you think if you just let go of your suspicions and didn't even check her phone, she would definitely cheat on you physically? Or maybe remember how shitty her ex was and understand your worth more ? I feel like relationships are being tested all the time even when we are not aware of it. And it's hard to know when to draw the line when it comes to jealousy or loyalty.

This could be a new thread idea lol

Lol fuck no, he can leave

Posted by Polyannanana
IF they were to treat you well this time ?


And What is your Sun and Moon signs?


A supernatural being guarantees you they won't abuse you in any way and they will be the best version of themselves.

No, because I’m the same person I was when they left.

Something about me made them feel comfortable enough to disrespect then.

If any man who disrespected me wants to come back, they can talk to my Dad first.

Explain the situation to him first and see what he says.

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

That's very scorpio moon of you lol
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I want to clarify this only towards people who wronged me in some way. I don't go out and do this to random people. As much potential as I have to be a real POS, I actually have a moderate amount of control over it.
click to expand

I have seen some scorpio moons sabotage good relationships because they just got paranoid. But they also had scorpio mars so I'm not sure.

I hope you don't do this and can trust people
more
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I trust people until I can't anymore. My last relationship I knew she was talking to people she said she wouldn't talk to anymore. She thought I was stupid, because I'd pretend like I couldn't remember how to unlock her phone every time, even though I already tracked her pattern while messing around with her phone while she was sleeping. Finger prints on a phone screen are easy to figure out imo. She was sending messages to an ex that were a bit too suggestive imo. So I looked her in the eyes one day during a random conversation about trust, and said "That is why I love you so much. Because I know I can trust you, and know you would never lie to me." She frantically looked me in the eyes and agreed, though I already knew she was lying to me. I seen the texts, and knew she was betraying me right to my face. So then a deep and meaningful relationship simply turned into a game in my eyes. Tbh the world should be thankful I can smother my anger and rage as well as I can. I didn't hurt her in the end. She hurt me. God knows I'll mess with her every single time she tries to contact me though. There is a 0% chance ill go out of my way to contact her though. If she wants to go out of her way to play with me some more however, that's another story.
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Do you think if you just let go of your suspicions and didn't even check her phone, she would definitely cheat on you physically? Or maybe remember how shitty her ex was and understand your worth more ? I feel like relationships are being tested all the time even when we are not aware of it. And it's hard to know when to draw the line when it comes to jealousy or loyalty.


This could be a new thread idea lol

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I'm just ignorant. It's easy to describe the end of the relationship, but the reality is I went for a woman who was already in a relationship, and was messing around with me while still with him. If she would do that to him, it's not really a surprise she'd do the same to me. It's somewhat of a self fulfilling prophecy tbh. If I dated a good woman with good morals, I'd likely never be suspicious whatsoever. I don't believe all people are shady. Though if you date someone shady, the fact they did people dirty will forever live rent free in my mind.

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

That's very scorpio moon of you lol
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I want to clarify this only towards people who wronged me in some way. I don't go out and do this to random people. As much potential as I have to be a real POS, I actually have a moderate amount of control over it.
click to expand

I have seen some scorpio moons sabotage good relationships because they just got paranoid. But they also had scorpio mars so I'm not sure.

I hope you don't do this and can trust people
more
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I trust people until I can't anymore. My last relationship I knew she was talking to people she said she wouldn't talk to anymore. She thought I was stupid, because I'd pretend like I couldn't remember how to unlock her phone every time, even though I already tracked her pattern while messing around with her phone while she was sleeping. Finger prints on a phone screen are easy to figure out imo. She was sending messages to an ex that were a bit too suggestive imo. So I looked her in the eyes one day during a random conversation about trust, and said "That is why I love you so much. Because I know I can trust you, and know you would never lie to me." She frantically looked me in the eyes and agreed, though I already knew she was lying to me. I seen the texts, and knew she was betraying me right to my face. So then a deep and meaningful relationship simply turned into a game in my eyes. Tbh the world should be thankful I can smother my anger and rage as well as I can. I didn't hurt her in the end. She hurt me. God knows I'll mess with her every single time she tries to contact me though. There is a 0% chance ill go out of my way to contact her though. If she wants to go out of her way to play with me some more however, that's another story.
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Do you think if you just let go of your suspicions and didn't even check her phone, she would definitely cheat on you physically? Or maybe remember how shitty her ex was and understand your worth more ? I feel like relationships are being tested all the time even when we are not aware of it. And it's hard to know when to draw the line when it comes to jealousy or loyalty.

This could be a new thread idea lol
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I'm just ignorant. It's easy to describe the end of the relationship, but the reality is I went for a woman who was already in a relationship, and was messing around with me while still with him. If she would do that to him, it's not really a surprise she'd do the same to me. It's somewhat of a self fulfilling prophecy tbh. If I dated a good woman with good morals, I'd likely never be suspicious whatsoever. I don't believe all people are shady. Though if you date someone shady, the fact they did people dirty will forever live rent free in my mind.

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Now that I think about it I know of 2 girls who started seeing someone new while they were already in a relationship and they ended up marrying the new guy and have been happily married for more than 10 years both.

I know one of the girls sent nudes to the ex after she left him. Probably for attention and also she felt sorry for him. I would never do that lol. Anyway the new guy found out and he was mad but they got over it and got married.

I'm not implying that you should have stayed with her. I just thought that this was a different perspective to such things.

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon


I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup


anything else I'll forgive

Wtf woman!

You lived a nasty lifetime movie! Go find yourself a masculine gay male friend or another healthy relationship with a stable nurturing masculine male. Consider it rehab. Like rehab, the relationship and treatment will feel foreign to you and afraid of it. Expect feelings of not being good enough(tho you are and more) and thoughts of " they deserve better". Because being treated well will trigger you. Jesus Christ, that dude needs to go on Dexter's to do list.

Yes. Assuming the things about them I loved are still there. Also the problems that caused the breakup are not a issue anymore. I've had very few serious long term relationships. Every single one was lifetime level connection. Nothing less holds my attention in the first place.

Posted by Polyannanana
IF they were to treat you well this time ?


And What is your Sun and Moon signs?


A supernatural being guarantees you they won't abuse you in any way and they will be the best version of themselves.

But what if you wanna be abused by a woman in the bedroom though? I find that hot as long as they don't go berserk and kill me. That would keep me in a relationship with that one woman for life cus any others might want me to be the dominator. That's all I ever want is to be the submissive one to a hot beautiful but ruff kind of woman who don't take no bs from a man.