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Posted by sunkisses26Posted by LadyTatesomething isn't right....I'm sorry I know that you wanna be on his side...BUT you don't know her or her side of the story only his...so my first question is why do you feel like she should be friendly you...have you reached out to her..attempted to build a relationship with her cause I Have bad news for you even if you get married she will still be a big part of your lives..Posted by mzmeeDrama as in trying to keep him away from his kid because he's in a new relationship. Since he and I have made our relationship official, she has been making comments to him about me, such as "oh that's the bitch u with now... Blah, blah, blah." Well of course he handles that and doesn't tolerate her disrespecting. Well the specific incident I'm speaking of is his sons bday party. Every year he has a bday party for his son and always invites and invitation to his baby momma and her family to come. Of course they never do. Well yesterday we had the party and guess who showed up knowing I would be there. Well the bell rings and he's busy so I get the door. I let her in and ignored the stank look and rude comment because I did not want to act up in front of his family. So I let that slide. Anyway... as the party goes on, I see that everything I'm doing such as setting out the food, fixing the decorations as the kids knock them over and whatever else, she has a problem with it. Again... I ignored it and kept it moving. Well at the end of the party, as everyone was leaving, I noticed her in the kitchen with my bf and he has this pissed off look on his face. So I called him over and just gave him something to do to get away from her before they started arguing in front the guest. Well after all was said and done, I asked him what happened in the kitchen and he told me his Baby momma threatened to not let him see his son tomorrow for Father's Day or any day after that unless he starts sleeping with her again. Of course he told her no and her response was either leave that bitch or wait until the judge says u can see ur son!
Drama as far as what? What is said baby mamma doing that's considered drama like? If she dorsnt direct anything to me, I dont deal with it. I'll tell the man how he can better manage his situation if asked tho.
respect is EARNED! and TRUST is earned ...you are trying to step in a play a role you know NOTHING about and nothing turns people off faster than the "girlfriend" playing to "house" with someone else's child....I'm not trying to be harsh just pointing out somethings that you may not have considered...who knows maybe one day another woman..will be making quick judgement about you and your boyfriend's child...click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvFirst child's mother he left because she cheated. They were actually set to marry before she got pregnant. The second child, was not planned. He was being careless. As far as relationships with the mothers, I guess ur comment applies but he has always been there for his kids. Hes not just making babies and leaving them for others to take care of.
Having kids with seperate mother
I'd consider huge red flags !!
He don't stick around what make u think he will with u
Just saying®
Posted by capricornmoonEveryone has their preference and that's fine. I have a friend thats the same way. She refuses to deal with a man who has kids but yet she has kids. I don't mind the kids, it's the drama that sometimes comes with it. My last relationship... he had kids from a previous relationship but she and I got along just fine. We attended the kids functions together no problem. We would call and talk about what was going on with the kids and all that. We were both adults about it. Still to this day, she and I still keep in touch from time to time.Posted by LadyTateI'm smart enough not to date men with kids. Men hardly ever date women with baggage yet women are easily manipulated into doing so by general public views. they're perceived as uppity and too rigid when we aren't flexible in our preferences. Eff that.
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Posted by capricornmoonLol... I knkw what u mean, I feel the same way about himPosted by LadyTateTo each it's own. My max is 1 kid, if you got two kids, I don't know what to tell you. Although. I have a Scorpio crush, I'd make exceptions for him if he wasn't already taken, cause he's fine and sexy.Posted by capricornmoonEveryone has their preference and that's fine. I have a friend thats the same way. She refuses to deal with a man who has kids but yet she has kids. I don't mind the kids, it's the drama that sometimes comes with it. My last relationship... he had kids from a previous relationship but she and I got along just fine. We attended the kids functions together no problem. We would call and talk about what was going on with the kids and all that. We were both adults about it. Still to this day, she and I still keep in touch from time to time.Posted by LadyTateI'm smart enough not to date men with kids. Men hardly ever date women with baggage yet women are easily manipulated into doing so by general public views. they're perceived as uppity and too rigid when we aren't flexible in our preferences. Eff that.
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Posted by sunkisses26She doesn't HAVE to be friendly but treat me with the same curtesy and respect that I treat u with. There was no reason for her to make comments to me or about me. No reason at all. Plus prior to this when he and I weren't dating, and I was dropping things off to her for his child while he was at work she didn't have a problem with me then. We never had much conversation other than her maybe asking me to pass a msg when I spoke to him again. I understand that she will always be a part of his life but once this custody is set, there will be nothing she can hard as him about. He's already placed himself on Childsupport. As far as earning trust and respect I understand that BUT again, treat me with common curtesy. As far as me being a GF playing house, I'm not trying to take her place. I know I can never do that but as a woman, if a child is in my household or is around me, I will treat them as if their mine. Hungry, I'll feed the baby. Needs to shower, I'll clean him. Wants to go play, I'll go play with u. I mean, to me... That's just being a woman in a relationship with a man who has a child. I'm not out making decisions regarding the child. As far as if we were to have a kid then split... I wouldn't hold anything against the other woman. Long as she treats my child with respect and care... I'm fine.
you got cut off...
Always act above it. Do not feed into their drama. Kill them with kindness. And be humble in knowing that you're better than her. Lol and don't tell you're bf you're doing these things. Compliment her when you meet her. It'll drive her crazy if she can't find anything wrong with you.
And be watchful of them rekindling their romance.
Posted by Smilebhappy0715
And be watchful of them rekindling their romance.
Posted by Smilebhappy0715I'm tryinig to... Trying my hardest! Tell him I'm doing what things? Being nice to her. Lol. we shall see how this plays out.
Always act above it. Do not feed into their drama. Kill them with kindness. And be humble in knowing that you're better than her. Lol and don't tell you're bf you're doing these things. Compliment her when you meet her. It'll drive her crazy if she can't find anything wrong with you.
Posted by LadyTateLol I guess it doesn't matter if you tell him.Posted by Smilebhappy0715I'm tryinig to... Trying my hardest! Tell him I'm doing what things? Being nice to her. Lol. we shall see how this plays out.
Always act above it. Do not feed into their drama. Kill them with kindness. And be humble in knowing that you're better than her. Lol and don't tell you're bf you're doing these things. Compliment her when you meet her. It'll drive her crazy if she can't find anything wrong with you.click to expand
I haven't read all the posts on here. I went through something similar lately.
Posted by ImpulsvLol no one! But, it happens!Posted by Smilebhappy0715But who wants to live with that!
And be watchful of them rekindling their romance.click to expand
Single parents need love too! Lol
But you have to keep in mind the ex is someone they created a child with, and will probably always love/care for in some way. You just gotta be weary of it being full blown rekindled though! Lol
You endure things for love. You risk things for love.
Maybe? Haha
Posted by Smilebhappy0715After talking to his mom about his relationship with her, I am not concerned about them rekindling anything. They were never in a relationship. I was just sex and she got pregnant. Careless with his penis and sperm... Yea, IK. He assured me, there was no chance on Gods green earth that he would ever be with her. He didn't want a relationship with her when they were sleeping together and he doesn't want one with her now.Posted by ImpulsvLol no one! But, it happens!Posted by Smilebhappy0715But who wants to live with that!
And be watchful of them rekindling their romance.
Single parents need love too! Lol
But you have to keep in mind the ex is someone they created a child with, and will probably always love/care for in some way. You just gotta be weary of it being full blown rekindled though! Lol
You endure things for love. You risk things for love.
Maybe? Hahaclick to expand
Posted by Smilebhappy0715Posted by LadyTateLol I guess it doesn't matter if you tell him.Posted by Smilebhappy0715I'm tryinig to... Trying my hardest! Tell him I'm doing what things? Being nice to her. Lol. we shall see how this plays out.
Always act above it. Do not feed into their drama. Kill them with kindness. And be humble in knowing that you're better than her. Lol and don't tell you're bf you're doing these things. Compliment her when you meet her. It'll drive her crazy if she can't find anything wrong with you.
I haven't read all the posts on here. I went through something similar lately.click to expand
Posted by LadyTateHow did u deal with it? Did it end? IWas she an ex who just couldn't let go?Posted by Smilebhappy0715Posted by LadyTateLol I guess it doesn't matter if you tell him.Posted by Smilebhappy0715I'm tryinig to... Trying my hardest! Tell him I'm doing what things? Being nice to her. Lol. we shall see how this plays out.
Always act above it. Do not feed into their drama. Kill them with kindness. And be humble in knowing that you're better than her. Lol and don't tell you're bf you're doing these things. Compliment her when you meet her. It'll drive her crazy if she can't find anything wrong with you.
I haven't read all the posts on here. I went through something similar lately.click to expand
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