@MoonOfMyLife
10 YearsScorpio
Do you make the men you just started dating wait for sex?
Should You Make a New Partner Wait Before Sex
Deciding when to have sex depends on your comfort level and relationship progress. It is important to communicate openly and ensure mutual consent. Giving enough time can build emotional connection and trust, but rushing or delaying excessively may affect attraction. Trust your instincts and prioritize your boundaries to determine the right timing.
No. Make him work for it.
It's not about making a man wait, it's about waiting until your ready.
However long you need to qualify him.
I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?
What's his chart look like
And yours?
How old are you— Or should I say how young??
At least 2 months or 3 dates. Or 2 years even better.
I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?
If you want him to wait then why tease? Just be a lady. Teasing is not needed. Doing that there, you are just a typical female.
What is the norm now?
with thinking this is the one I want to befriend and hope to have something meaningful with and That takes time to.
Unless you don't want to and jump right in becoming one night stands or fwb til you meet the right one.
Posted by Geminariescharmer
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lol
Why is why you will eternally remain a fuck boy and miss the train on a quality woman, settling for transient pussy.
That the guy I'm dating is ready to go at a drop of a hat is a given. Sex will happen when I am damn good and ready and if a guy thinks he can hurry the process up, he's just making it more difficult. My scorpie thinks like me. Instead of complaining of blueballs, he decided what was good for the gander, was good for the goose. Let's just say, that hurried it up o my end.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?
What's his chart look like
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I don't know when exactly his birthday is. I just know it's sometime in November. So he's either a Scorpio or a Saggitarius. But I believe he is a a Saggitarius coz he does not have that depressed demeanor that guys Scorpios have.
But here is mine.
I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?
If you want him to wait then why tease? Just be a lady. Teasing is not needed. Doing that there, you are just a typical female.
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But he loves the teasing or he wouldnt encourage it by stuff like "omg you turn me on so much."
Posted by Geminariescharmer
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lol
No one wants to fuck you or your possum looking mug anyway, fuckboy.
Posted by Geminariescharmer
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lol
If that's you in your pic, women would know to just steer clear of you. Nobody likes a tacky dudebro.
Posted by Geminariescharmer
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lolNo one wants to fuck you or your possum looking mug anyway, fuckboy.
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OP, stop asking about how to further be a cock tease.
If you have to come here and ask, YOU aren't ready. It's all on you and what you're comfortable with. If you're worried about him bailing after sex, then you probably shouldn't put out with this dude right now.
I generally "wait" a month because that's usually the time frame in which I'm comfortable enough to go there with the dude. They didn't bail afterward, either. All is good. You shouldn't be asking strangers when you should step outside your comfort zone when it comes to your lady bits. We aren't in charge of them, you are.
I don't make them wait. It's not about that for me, it is about when I am ready, and I can be ready sooner if I feel like there is no pressure and if I am the one making the moves first. I prefer it that way; I tried to be the passive one and let them chase me and make moves on me but it just made me nervous.
i like the wait, make the tension sexual bigger ! and bigger !
but take two or three day off because this wait, will have to be paid
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Honestly I don't put my the control of my vagina in someone else's hands. If you're holding out or thinking if you want to hold out more, just because of him.... idk it's a little confusing to me. If you want to have sex, then do it.
You held out for a nice while. If you feel comfortable, I don't see a problem.
If you give him sex just bc you don't want him to run off, then that's a problem.
You should have sex when YOU want to. If he can't respect it then... deuces.
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.
Does that make me super weird?
Posted by Soul
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.Does that make me super weird?
No, it makes you decent.
Posted by Soul
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.Does that make me super weird?
No, it makes you beautiful!
Posted by Geminariescharmer
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lolNo one wants to fuck you or your possum looking mug anyway, fuckboy.
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OMG you people are so mean LoL
Posted by Soul
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.Does that make me super weird?
Many different phenomenons may explain this: past experiences, age, maturity, Mars-Venus aspects, current goals, or just cautious.
I tend to make them wait if i'm hoping for it to be more serious-can be a guide to how serious he is, as youve read some say 3 dates and their out-thats when id go "phew" (not the type id wanna attract) BUT if I end up in the situation, right place right time and im super into him and it feels right-oh well! The thing is getting me in that situation early on is unlikely...
I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?
Don't tease. That's cruel.
Date as long as you want, as long as it takes to measure his intentions, then give it up when you're ready.
My first husband waited three months. My fiance got it after about 12-15 dates.
Posted by Geminariescharmer
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lol3 dates is time and energy??!?
You are probably horrible in bed. Lazy quickie
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And selfish too
Posted by Geminariescharmer
LOl @ this tactic, good to see what you guys think. If i am investing my time and energy unto you, 3 dates no sex i am out lol3 dates is time and energy??!?
You are probably horrible in bed. Lazy quickie
And selfish too
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The entitlement generation at its finest. Boys his age mimick that of a 1950s entitled male mindset, viewing women as objects and their own personal prostitute... in 2016. It's concerning.
Any time I hear a dipshit guy bitch about how he's spent all this time and money and is OWED sex, I ask if he's dating or looking for a prostitute. He shuts up real fast because that's what that bullshit mentality is basically saying. "I spent money on you to fuck me. I'm entitled to your vagina because I spent money on you."
That IS prostitution, technically, and it's amazing how many guys are basically on board for treating women like this.
Hell no. Making them wait means making ME wait! Why do guys get to be the only ones having meaningless sex. If they want to kiss my ass after that and try to be in a relationship...ok, they can work to keep getting what they'll never forget.
Posted by Soul
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.Does that make me super weird?
ah no, that makes you normal - and thank god ...
Posted by Soul
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.Does that make me super weird?
I love your answer and no not weird
Refreshing and lovely
*Deep soul*
Few and far in between, sadly with this throw away shallow society we have become
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Agreed 😢
How often does a man make a woman wait for sex?
Would the woman have the patience or end up going elsewhere?
Posted by atearth
How often does a man make a woman wait for sex?Would the woman have the patience or end up going elsewhere?
Has that been your personal experience? You have girls trying to get in your pants and having to shoo them away?
Posted by atearth
How often does a man make a woman wait for sex?Would the woman have the patience or end up going elsewhere?
I would be delighted if a man could show me he would take the time to get to know me
Yes, I would wait and enjoy his company before rushing to unzip him
Would be good to see that his brain was in is head and not in his pants
Predictability totally kills it for me
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Yes! The guys who tell a girl they want to wait shows respect
Posted by Finbuff
This thread is so funny - (btw..cool pic Gemoo) 3-4 dates with me and you'd never be able to resist. LOL I'd be at "attention" and you'd be "whooaa -yaaaess".
Riiiigght 🙄
Posted by Soul
Though I'm a male, I normally don't start wanting sex or anything sexual for a few months or so. I kind of want to develop a friendship and trust with the woman first.Does that make me super weird?
I love your answer and no not weird
Refreshing and lovely
*Deep soul*
Few and far in between, sadly with this throw away shallow society we have become
Agreed 😢
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That is super weird. Haha
Posted by atearth
How often does a man make a woman wait for sex?Would the woman have the patience or end up going elsewhere?
I'm Venus in Taurus, I wait to ask questions first about this matter. Whatever comes out your mouth could be the end.
I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?
An aries moon quote: Love is like a fart, if you have to force anything - it's probably shit.
Listen more to feminist advices on here, and your guy will head for the hills right away to find himself somebody who's more in touch with their inner passion, and doesn't follow society cliches when it comes to bedroom.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Starlover B3cause
you don't hear that too often. Much appreciated but weird gasp a guy admitting can be like and sometimes people aren't like that and you want them to change to be that and they're some good guys left it seems.I also think like that is that weird sure. But it's what I am and what I stand by.
Bravo @Soul or anyone else in this mentalitygroup
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I have been seeing someone for a couple of weeks now and the flirtation and sexual tension is super heavy between us. You can say I have been teasing him very cruelly but withholding anything beyond second base. How long do you think I should keep this on before he decides it's not so fun anymore and gets bored. Should I just give up the pussy?