Crush

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by PoloChat on Saturday, July 13, 2019 and has 39 replies.

Will You Approach Someone Who Has a Crush on You?

If you suspect someone has a crush on you and you are interested, you might approach them, especially in a comfortable environment like an office. Your response depends on your feelings and comfort level, but mutual interest can lead to initiating contact or casual conversations.

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@PoloChat
7 Years

If someone has a crush on you and you sort of know it, will you ever approach them? (provided you don't dislike them and it's in an office environment)

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@neves
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Yes. I'll even try to make it clear that i don't like them that way (if that's the case). I don't like to take people for a ride (give them false hope).

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@Weeds
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Capricorn sun virgo moon woman has been stalking for a year.

But without an official green light on her part I could just be paranoid and overthinking it so I just observe.

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@PoloChat
7 Years

Posted by pisceswoman123

If I like him I will make myself available. If not I just keep it friendly but I will give him signals that I am not interested.

Would you completely avoid any form of eye contact when passing each other or anything like that ( just to show that you are not interested)

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@PoloChat
7 Years

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

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@PoloChat
7 Years

Posted by Weeds

Capricorn sun virgo moon woman has been stalking for a year.

But without an official green light on her part I could just be paranoid and overthinking it so I just observe.

Why would you do that? You could atleast talk to her casually to open her up.

Maybe she is thinking that you are not interested?

Uhhh why would you do that??

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@PoloChat
7 Years

Posted by neves

Yes. I'll even try to make it clear that i don't like them that way (if that's the case). I don't like to take people for a ride (give them false hope).

What would you do to make it clear that you don't like them back? Can you please elaborate?

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@pisceswoman123
9 Years10,000+ Posts

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Posted by pisceswoman123

If I like him I will make myself available. If not I just keep it friendly but I will give him signals that I am not interested.

Would you completely avoid any form of eye contact when passing each other or anything like that ( just to show that you are not interested)

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Lol, no. That will mean I cannot look at half of the men I work with ๐Ÿ˜„

I act normal. Friendly, smiling, but I donโ€™t initiate and keep it professional. Never letting them on and making sure that they know that I am in a relationship ( if thatโ€™s the case) and that they donโ€™t have a chance.

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@PoloChat
7 Years

Posted by pisceswoman123

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If I like him I will make myself available. If not I just keep it friendly but I will give him signals that I am not interested.

Would you completely avoid any form of eye contact when passing each other or anything like that ( just to show that you are not interested)

Lol, no. That will mean I cannot look at half of the men I work with ๐Ÿ˜„

I act normal. Friendly, smiling, but I donโ€™t initiate and keep it professional. Never letting them on and making sure that they know that I am in a relationship ( if thatโ€™s the case) and that they donโ€™t have a chance.

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I am going to be single forever ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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@pisceswoman123
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by PoloChat

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If I like him I will make myself available. If not I just keep it friendly but I will give him signals that I am not interested.

Would you completely avoid any form of eye contact when passing each other or anything like that ( just to show that you are not interested)

Lol, no. That will mean I cannot look at half of the men I work with ๐Ÿ˜„

I act normal. Friendly, smiling, but I donโ€™t initiate and keep it professional. Never letting them on and making sure that they know that I am in a relationship ( if thatโ€™s the case) and that they donโ€™t have a chance.

I am going to be single forever ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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What?? Why? How can I help you?

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@Capricorn91
9 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

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Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.

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Yes. I'll even try to make it clear that i don't like them that way (if that's the case). I don't like to take people for a ride (give them false hope).

What would you do to make it clear that you don't like them back? Can you please elaborate?

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Looking back... i approached the subject (romance) - till i got a confirmation that it's actually true - and just freaking said it (i see... i'm really sorry - but i don't feel that type of attraction for you... ๐Ÿ˜ or something like that). This is usually the best way (least painful in the long run... kinda like removing a band aid - fast). And yes, it's gonna be uncomfortable for both of you (more for the one having a crush ofc). But it's for the best (since it promotes the fastest recovery... the healthiest form of rejection - if you will). If you work together - there's no other way around it (since you're bound to see each-other on a daily basis - and both of you will keep on feeling uncomfortable around one another - for opposite reasons). Obviously, even after you clear this part - you'll still feel some level of discomfort in each-other's presence, but this time around... for the right reasons - since it takes some time for things to get back to normal (so to speak). Well, maybe she'll treat you different afterwards - but that's to be expected.

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11 Years1,000+ Posts

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Capricorn sun virgo moon woman has been stalking for a year.

But without an official green light on her part I could just be paranoid and overthinking it so I just observe.

Why would you do that? You could atleast talk to her casually to open her up.

Maybe she is thinking that you are not interested?

Uhhh why would you do that??

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I am not the type to break the ice and she is far to low key for me to step out in the water and hope I don't drown in the awkwardness.

I need a bit more to go on if I'm going to make the first move.

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7 Years

Posted by pisceswoman123

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If I like him I will make myself available. If not I just keep it friendly but I will give him signals that I am not interested.

Would you completely avoid any form of eye contact when passing each other or anything like that ( just to show that you are not interested)

Lol, no. That will mean I cannot look at half of the men I work with ๐Ÿ˜„

I act normal. Friendly, smiling, but I donโ€™t initiate and keep it professional. Never letting them on and making sure that they know that I am in a relationship ( if thatโ€™s the case) and that they donโ€™t have a chance.

I am going to be single forever ๐Ÿ˜ญ

What?? Why? How can I help you?

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Coz my crush is not initiating any conversation, means he is not interested too.

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@PoloChat
7 Years

Posted by Capricorn91

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.

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So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! ๐Ÿ˜ข

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9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by PoloChat

Posted by Capricorn91

Posted by PoloChat

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.

So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! ๐Ÿ˜ข

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Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

You a Sagโ€” I heard all Sag love a good office romance! ๐Ÿ˜† I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore ๐Ÿ˜„

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@PoloChat
7 Years

Posted by Capricorn91

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Posted by PoloChat

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.

So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! ๐Ÿ˜ข

Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?

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I am a cancerian

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7 Years

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Yes. I'll even try to make it clear that i don't like them that way (if that's the case). I don't like to take people for a ride (give them false hope).

What would you do to make it clear that you don't like them back? Can you please elaborate?

Looking back... i approached the subject (romance) - till i got a confirmation that it's actually true - and just freaking said it (i see... i'm really sorry - but i don't feel that type of attraction for you... ๐Ÿ˜ or something like that). This is usually the best way (least painful in the long run... kinda like removing a band aid - fast). And yes, it's gonna be uncomfortable for both of you (more for the one having a crush ofc). But it's for the best (since it promotes the fastest recovery... the healthiest form of rejection - if you will). If you work together - there's no other way around it (since you're bound to see each-other on a daily basis - and both of you will keep on feeling uncomfortable around one another - for opposite reasons). Obviously, even after you clear this part - you'll still feel some level of discomfort in each-other's presence, but this time around... for the right reasons - since it takes some time for things to get back to normal (so to speak). Well, maybe she'll treat you different afterwards - but that's to be expected.

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Subject! *facepalm*

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@PoloChat
7 Years

Posted by Weeds

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Capricorn sun virgo moon woman has been stalking for a year.

But without an official green light on her part I could just be paranoid and overthinking it so I just observe.

Why would you do that? You could atleast talk to her casually to open her up.

Maybe she is thinking that you are not interested?

Uhhh why would you do that??

I am not the type to break the ice and she is far to low key for me to step out in the water and hope I don't drown in the awkwardness.

I need a bit more to go on if I'm going to make the first move.

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But what about just "hi", maybe she's craving that (i am assuming that she is feeling like me)

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7 Years

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

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Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

You have to interact with him to figure out if there is more. As a guy, especially at work, you canโ€™t go assuming a woman is interested from one interaction. He might have though you were just being friendly or are a nice person. Usually we need more to go on before making a move.

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What if you catch that woman staring at you more than usual?!

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@PoloChat
7 Years

Posted by saggurl88

You a Sagโ€” I heard all Sag love a good office romance! ๐Ÿ˜† I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore ๐Ÿ˜„

No i am a cancerian.

Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me

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@PoloChat
7 Years

Posted by Capricorn91

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Posted by PoloChat

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.

So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! ๐Ÿ˜ข

Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?

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Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by PoloChat

Posted by saggurl88

You a Sagโ€” I heard all Sag love a good office romance! ๐Ÿ˜† I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore ๐Ÿ˜„

No i am a cancerian.

Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me

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Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible ๐Ÿ˜† You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol

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7 Years

Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

You a Sagโ€” I heard all Sag love a good office romance! ๐Ÿ˜† I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore ๐Ÿ˜„

No i am a cancerian.

Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me

Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible ๐Ÿ˜† You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol

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And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirt

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9 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.

So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! ๐Ÿ˜ข

Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?

Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!

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We like such people lol. Better than those who boast around.

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Posted by saggurl88

You a Sagโ€” I heard all Sag love a good office romance! ๐Ÿ˜† I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore ๐Ÿ˜„

No i am a cancerian.

Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me

Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible ๐Ÿ˜† You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol

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And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirt

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Use your words instead of your body lol That should do it! ๐Ÿ˜†

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@PoloChat
7 Years

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.

So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! ๐Ÿ˜ข

Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?

Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!

We like such people lol. Better than those who boast around.

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Oooh...

You know i am stuck between moving on and dreaming about him ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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7 Years

Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

You a Sagโ€” I heard all Sag love a good office romance! ๐Ÿ˜† I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore ๐Ÿ˜„

No i am a cancerian.

Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me

Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible ๐Ÿ˜† You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol

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And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirt

Use your words instead of your body lol That should do it! ๐Ÿ˜†

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Words!!! Hahaha

We don't talk and i am stupid enough not to initiate and he is maybe disinterested enough not to initiate

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13 Years25,000+ Posts

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Posted by saggurl88

You a Sagโ€” I heard all Sag love a good office romance! ๐Ÿ˜† I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore ๐Ÿ˜„

No i am a cancerian.

Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me

Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible ๐Ÿ˜† You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol

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And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirt

Use your words instead of your body lol That should do it! ๐Ÿ˜†

Words!!! Hahaha

We don't talk and i am stupid enough not to initiate and he is maybe disinterested enough not to initiate

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Cancer side stepping in it's finest lol I'm so good at subtly flirting, it's ridiculous.

You know if he helps, say stuff like "oh my gosh, you're so good at that." "You're the best, I wouldn't have been able to do it with out you." Wow, You're amazing, I didn't even think of that" Super over the top bull shit, but guys know it's bull shit and still eat it up. ๐Ÿ˜†

There's a Leo at my job that flirts and I say stuff like "Oh really? Where does it go? What hole does it go into?" All super innocent, like I don't know what I'm saying lol I can make a sex joke or statement out of almost anything though, cause my mind is a gutter whoore.

Google subtle flirting lines and see if you can pull something off with out getting shy and embarrassed.

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Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.

So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! ๐Ÿ˜ข

Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?

Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!

We like such people lol. Better than those who boast around.

Oooh...

You know i am stuck between moving on and dreaming about him ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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Okay. See you need to be a bit bold and just initiate. No point in making yourself suffer in anticipation. Just try to just be casual and start things. There is a woman in my office who always says hi to me when she sees me and before that I was always afraid what she would think of me so I never approached her. We can be very very reserved lol.

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7 Years

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.

So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! ๐Ÿ˜ข

Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?

Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!

We like such people lol. Better than those who boast around.

Oooh...

You know i am stuck between moving on and dreaming about him ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Okay. See you need to be a bit bold and just initiate. No point in making yourself suffer in anticipation. Just try to just be casual and start things. There is a woman in my office who always says hi to me when she sees me and before that I was always afraid what she would think of me so I never approached her. We can be very very reserved lol.

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Ohkkhay..

And now you and that woman from your office are ...... โ€”

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You a Sagโ€” I heard all Sag love a good office romance! ๐Ÿ˜† I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore ๐Ÿ˜„

No i am a cancerian.

Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me

Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible ๐Ÿ˜† You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol

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And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirt

Use your words instead of your body lol That should do it! ๐Ÿ˜†

Words!!! Hahaha

We don't talk and i am stupid enough not to initiate and he is maybe disinterested enough not to initiate

Cancer side stepping in it's finest lol I'm so good at subtly flirting, it's ridiculous.

You know if he helps, say stuff like "oh my gosh, you're so good at that." "You're the best, I wouldn't have been able to do it with out you." Wow, You're amazing, I didn't even think of that" Super over the top bull shit, but guys know it's bull shit and still eat it up. ๐Ÿ˜†

There's a Leo at my job that flirts and I say stuff like "Oh really? Where does it go? What hole does it go into?" All super innocent, like I don't know what I'm saying lol I can make a sex joke or statement out of almost anything though, cause my mind is a gutter whoore.

Google subtle flirting lines and see if you can pull something off with out getting shy and embarrassed.

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Hahaha this was crazy!!!

I will definitely try this if and when i get the chance

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Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just donโ€™t go there when itโ€™s in the office too.

We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".

We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!

What do i do ๐Ÿ˜ข

Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.

So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! ๐Ÿ˜ข

Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?

Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!

We like such people lol. Better than those who boast around.

Oooh...

You know i am stuck between moving on and dreaming about him ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Okay. See you need to be a bit bold and just initiate. No point in making yourself suffer in anticipation. Just try to just be casual and start things. There is a woman in my office who always says hi to me when she sees me and before that I was always afraid what she would think of me so I never approached her. We can be very very reserved lol.

Ohkkhay..

And now you and that woman from your office are ...... โ€”

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Nothing. She is just a friend.

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You a Sagโ€” I heard all Sag love a good office romance! ๐Ÿ˜† I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore ๐Ÿ˜„

No i am a cancerian.

Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me

Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible ๐Ÿ˜† You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol

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And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirt

Use your words instead of your body lol That should do it! ๐Ÿ˜†

Words!!! Hahaha

We don't talk and i am stupid enough not to initiate and he is maybe disinterested enough not to initiate

Cancer side stepping in it's finest lol I'm so good at subtly flirting, it's ridiculous.

You know if he helps, say stuff like "oh my gosh, you're so good at that." "You're the best, I wouldn't have been able to do it with out you." Wow, You're amazing, I didn't even think of that" Super over the top bull shit, but guys know it's bull shit and still eat it up. ๐Ÿ˜†

There's a Leo at my job that flirts and I say stuff like "Oh really? Where does it go? What hole does it go into?" All super innocent, like I don't know what I'm saying lol I can make a sex joke or statement out of almost anything though, cause my mind is a gutter whoore.

Google subtle flirting lines and see if you can pull something off with out getting shy and embarrassed.

Hahaha this was crazy!!!

I will definitely try this if and when i get the chance

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I can say something that can mean the most filthiest thing in the world and still pull off an innocent deer-in-headlights look. I love doing it and am really good at it ๐Ÿ˜†

Men almost look confused at first, like I can't possibly mean what I am saying cause their mind goes to sex too ๐Ÿ˜†