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Posted by MaxPowerI meant water signs operate on another plane. More intuitively based and such.Posted by MoonbutterWhat did you mean?Posted by MaxPowerTypical you would assume that is what I meant ??♀️Posted by MoonbutterLOLPosted by ShrewdsharpI find that in every sign.... maybe you just don't understand Cancers and why they think the way they do. We are on a whole other level that most will never fathom because they lack the capacity to.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ShrewdsharpI don't know how to change any vibrations. Maybe I'll make a new rule and stick to it. 3 dates and we're exclusive or it's goodbye. That's my standard and I'm not following there expectations anymore. I don't know though lol
Just like the law of gravity is real the law of attraction is real. If there's something that I want that I haven't gotten yet then I haven't done enough work to get aligned with my new desire.
Just because I say that I want something doesn't mean I'm ready to receive it. Abraham Hicks cause it allowing I remember graduating from college I put this pretty high figure that I wanted to make out of college and it took five years but I aligned myself with that amount of money; I begin to budget as if I had it I begin to act like I already had it I begin to let it and it took five years but I got that salary plus 5000 more.
Abraham Hicks the metaphysical Guru who was really the author of The Secret said that poor people focus more on the lack of money and the Law of Attraction brings that to them or as rich people focus more on the having of money and multiplying that money so the Law of Attraction brings that to them it is a law that is ambivalent androgynous and indifferent just like gravity.
So every time someone sits in the hot seat and as Abraham about attracting things in their life Abraham repeats the same thing if you don't have what it is that you say that you want then that means that there is a stronger vibration of what it is that you do not want that is active in your signals than the vibration of what you DO WANT.
Also belong to the science of mine which is the law of attraction Mega movement church and the pastor is constantly tell us to spend time in our vision regarding the kind of relationship that we won't talk about it focus on it right about it get a vision board get it into your body because right now your vibration is sending out a signal to men who do not want an exclusive relationship with you and if you want something different than you going to have to send out a different vibe.
But in your defense there are a lot of people online that are just looking for something that is casual but every now and again you can find that diamond in the rough. I really don't think that online however is a place to meet somebody who truly wants to be serious and have something a substance because a lot of those men are already taken are already married and it's just too easy to go someone and it's just too easy that has something casual but then where else are you going to meet guys you know?
Cancers are very sweet and very nice but cancers are "know-it-alls!" An attribute that men find really unattractive!!
I doubt very seriously somebody is going to give you an exclusive relationship within three dates but hey you can't tell a cancer NOTHING!!!
The worst attribute in a Libra is their indecisiveness, scorpio their proclivity for revenge and Cancers they are "know-it-alls"
You can't tell a cancer nothing it's like talking to a brick wall. The only thing that you can really do with the cancer is give them sympathy but as far as them taking anything that you say in....it ain't Happening! They're worse than a Taurus.
A real leader doesn't block out everything that people say! Cancers are Cardinals - leaders. And I don't see how that's the case... every major CEO that I've ever recruited mastered the art of listening and they take in what their subjects say. A real leader is teachable !
But cancers.... they know everything!!! You can't tell them anything!! ?☺?
a whole other level, eh? How do things look from that high horse?click to expand
Sex
No commitment
Sounds easy
It sounds to me that you don't like the idea of this and maybe you're right to not agree, shows that you have self respect for yourself and expect more out of relationships ... good for you for knowing what you don't want.
No commitment
Sounds easy
It sounds to me that you don't like the idea of this and maybe you're right to not agree, shows that you have self respect for yourself and expect more out of relationships ... good for you for knowing what you don't want.
Posted by MaxPowerThat's ok... you tried ?Posted by MoonbutterWhat does being intuitive have to do with not being able to take criticism? I guess I don't properly intuit what you're getting at, even though I'm a Pisces.Posted by MaxPowerI meant water signs operate on another plane. More intuitively based and such.Posted by MoonbutterWhat did you mean?Posted by MaxPowerTypical you would assume that is what I meant ??♀️Posted by MoonbutterLOLPosted by ShrewdsharpI find that in every sign.... maybe you just don't understand Cancers and why they think the way they do. We are on a whole other level that most will never fathom because they lack the capacity to.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ShrewdsharpI don't know how to change any vibrations. Maybe I'll make a new rule and stick to it. 3 dates and we're exclusive or it's goodbye. That's my standard and I'm not following there expectations anymore. I don't know though lol
Just like the law of gravity is real the law of attraction is real. If there's something that I want that I haven't gotten yet then I haven't done enough work to get aligned with my new desire.
Just because I say that I want something doesn't mean I'm ready to receive it. Abraham Hicks cause it allowing I remember graduating from college I put this pretty high figure that I wanted to make out of college and it took five years but I aligned myself with that amount of money; I begin to budget as if I had it I begin to act like I already had it I begin to let it and it took five years but I got that salary plus 5000 more.
Abraham Hicks the metaphysical Guru who was really the author of The Secret said that poor people focus more on the lack of money and the Law of Attraction brings that to them or as rich people focus more on the having of money and multiplying that money so the Law of Attraction brings that to them it is a law that is ambivalent androgynous and indifferent just like gravity.
So every time someone sits in the hot seat and as Abraham about attracting things in their life Abraham repeats the same thing if you don't have what it is that you say that you want then that means that there is a stronger vibration of what it is that you do not want that is active in your signals than the vibration of what you DO WANT.
Also belong to the science of mine which is the law of attraction Mega movement church and the pastor is constantly tell us to spend time in our vision regarding the kind of relationship that we won't talk about it focus on it right about it get a vision board get it into your body because right now your vibration is sending out a signal to men who do not want an exclusive relationship with you and if you want something different than you going to have to send out a different vibe.
But in your defense there are a lot of people online that are just looking for something that is casual but every now and again you can find that diamond in the rough. I really don't think that online however is a place to meet somebody who truly wants to be serious and have something a substance because a lot of those men are already taken are already married and it's just too easy to go someone and it's just too easy that has something casual but then where else are you going to meet guys you know?
Cancers are very sweet and very nice but cancers are "know-it-alls!" An attribute that men find really unattractive!!
I doubt very seriously somebody is going to give you an exclusive relationship within three dates but hey you can't tell a cancer NOTHING!!!
The worst attribute in a Libra is their indecisiveness, scorpio their proclivity for revenge and Cancers they are "know-it-alls"
You can't tell a cancer nothing it's like talking to a brick wall. The only thing that you can really do with the cancer is give them sympathy but as far as them taking anything that you say in....it ain't Happening! They're worse than a Taurus.
A real leader doesn't block out everything that people say! Cancers are Cardinals - leaders. And I don't see how that's the case... every major CEO that I've ever recruited mastered the art of listening and they take in what their subjects say. A real leader is teachable !
But cancers.... they know everything!!! You can't tell them anything!! ?☺?
a whole other level, eh? How do things look from that high horse?click to expand
Posted by RCancerHa I've considered this, but right now I'm doing my own thing. Talking to new guys. Maybe I'll go on a date soon. I need to detach myself.
Are u a cancer gal? I think I know what u r talking... If you like him and want to be with him and want to have sex with him, just have sex and then pretend that it doesn't affect you if he doesn't care after that. Maybe you'll get him comming back to you or not. Just play cool after that. Don't get emotionally involved, I would say. Risk it and see what happened.
Posted by Mike79I learn new things with every failed relationship. There's been many! lol I swear it's always them, not me ?
Sex
No commitment
Sounds easy
It sounds to me that you don't like the idea of this and maybe you're right to not agree, shows that you have self respect for yourself and expect more out of relationships ... good for you for knowing what you don't want.
Posted by LushVery true. Just wish I had known before. Oh well
If his life style doesn't match yours then probably best not to date this guy.
Personally, I've always been attracted to guys who were emotionally invested in their intimate partners.
I feel if you understood his behavior or that you could do the same (fwb without any feelings involved) then it could work out between the two of you.
But right now, neither of you have a meeting of the minds because you both seem to view intimacy differently. I think that would make a difficult match.
Posted by MoonbutterThank you. Today was better. Tomorrow might be harder. I deleted his number so I can't text him if I wanted toPosted by pinkbird03I've been there honey, more times then I would like to admit where I just got wrapped up in the romance of it all and hightened emotions. Luckily I realized quick but a couple I stayed too long and looking back I see both perspectives. You will come to the point as well where you understand and will make better dating decisions.Posted by MoonbutterI don't believe I know it all. I'm just trying to understand his perspective and mine.Posted by ShrewdsharpI find that in every sign.... maybe you just don't understand Cancers and why they think the way they do. We are on a whole other level that most will never fathom because they lack the capacity to.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ShrewdsharpI don't know how to change any vibrations. Maybe I'll make a new rule and stick to it. 3 dates and we're exclusive or it's goodbye. That's my standard and I'm not following there expectations anymore. I don't know though lol
Just like the law of gravity is real the law of attraction is real. If there's something that I want that I haven't gotten yet then I haven't done enough work to get aligned with my new desire.
Just because I say that I want something doesn't mean I'm ready to receive it. Abraham Hicks cause it allowing I remember graduating from college I put this pretty high figure that I wanted to make out of college and it took five years but I aligned myself with that amount of money; I begin to budget as if I had it I begin to act like I already had it I begin to let it and it took five years but I got that salary plus 5000 more.
Abraham Hicks the metaphysical Guru who was really the author of The Secret said that poor people focus more on the lack of money and the Law of Attraction brings that to them or as rich people focus more on the having of money and multiplying that money so the Law of Attraction brings that to them it is a law that is ambivalent androgynous and indifferent just like gravity.
So every time someone sits in the hot seat and as Abraham about attracting things in their life Abraham repeats the same thing if you don't have what it is that you say that you want then that means that there is a stronger vibration of what it is that you do not want that is active in your signals than the vibration of what you DO WANT.
Also belong to the science of mine which is the law of attraction Mega movement church and the pastor is constantly tell us to spend time in our vision regarding the kind of relationship that we won't talk about it focus on it right about it get a vision board get it into your body because right now your vibration is sending out a signal to men who do not want an exclusive relationship with you and if you want something different than you going to have to send out a different vibe.
But in your defense there are a lot of people online that are just looking for something that is casual but every now and again you can find that diamond in the rough. I really don't think that online however is a place to meet somebody who truly wants to be serious and have something a substance because a lot of those men are already taken are already married and it's just too easy to go someone and it's just too easy that has something casual but then where else are you going to meet guys you know?
Cancers are very sweet and very nice but cancers are "know-it-alls!" An attribute that men find really unattractive!!
I doubt very seriously somebody is going to give you an exclusive relationship within three dates but hey you can't tell a cancer NOTHING!!!
The worst attribute in a Libra is their indecisiveness, scorpio their proclivity for revenge and Cancers they are "know-it-alls"
You can't tell a cancer nothing it's like talking to a brick wall. The only thing that you can really do with the cancer is give them sympathy but as far as them taking anything that you say in....it ain't Happening! They're worse than a Taurus.
A real leader doesn't block out everything that people say! Cancers are Cardinals - leaders. And I don't see how that's the case... every major CEO that I've ever recruited mastered the art of listening and they take in what their subjects say. A real leader is teachable !
But cancers.... they know everything!!! You can't tell them anything!! ?☺?
Just please heed this advice from others as they are looking at things objectively. Just keep telling yourself he's not the guy for you and each day will be easier. Block him if u must to cut those emotional ties.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Learning is part of the process and the journey to knowing what you don't want out of lifePosted by Mike79I learn new things with every failed relationship. There's been many! lol I swear it's always them, not me ?
Sex
No commitment
Sounds easy
It sounds to me that you don't like the idea of this and maybe you're right to not agree, shows that you have self respect for yourself and expect more out of relationships ... good for you for knowing what you don't want.click to expand
Update.....
So I decided to still keep in touch with him, but I've been very distant. Never initiating conversation and keeping things short. I haven't hung out with him although he's asked. He keeps trying to get me back on his good graces by texting and sending cute pictures of him. We still haven't had sex, and hardly have talked about it recently. He wanted to hang out without it, but I said no. We talked on the phone for an hour last night, not something we do too much. Never that long either. It's hard for me not to like him. He makes me laugh a lot and feel good and he's by far the hottest guy I've dated. Muscular, pretty boy. But you know the story of why things stopped moving. Well he told me tonight that he stopped having sex with his friend because she's now serious with her boyfriend. And he said it's been about a month since they even had sex. He also said he's not attracted to her and doesn't like her. He just liked the sex... he did tell me awhile ago they didn't have sex that much, but I wasn't sure what I believed after hearing that news.
My thoughts are; if they actually liked each other then they'd probably be dating, right? Because there was that window of opportunity. He also has a phobia that relates to sex and won't sleep around with many girls. So he obviously trusted her. But it just doesn't seem like they are more than friends. It also felt like he was trying to prove to me that he's a good guy because somehow it came out of my mouth that I thought he was a player and a jerk... he seem to care what I thought of him. he also told me that he really doesn't have a lot of sex and he had a girlfriend right before us that he never had sex with because they fought the whole last year.
He still wants to have sex with me. He tells me he's so attracted to me. But has never talked about feelings. I told him I'm worried I'll become too attached after if we have sex so that's why I'm unsure if I want to do it. This didn't bother him one bit.
He also talked about cooking me dinner, going shopping with me, and going to an animal sanctuary together. He opened up about his family, marriage, kids, passions, things that really upset him, and work. He even asked me a lot of questions about my life. He surprised me with all of this depth.
In recent history he's told me twice that sometimes he feels like I'm pressuring him. But I've definitely stopped that lately with my distance towards him. Soooo that's about it. Not sure what's happening next...
So I decided to still keep in touch with him, but I've been very distant. Never initiating conversation and keeping things short. I haven't hung out with him although he's asked. He keeps trying to get me back on his good graces by texting and sending cute pictures of him. We still haven't had sex, and hardly have talked about it recently. He wanted to hang out without it, but I said no. We talked on the phone for an hour last night, not something we do too much. Never that long either. It's hard for me not to like him. He makes me laugh a lot and feel good and he's by far the hottest guy I've dated. Muscular, pretty boy. But you know the story of why things stopped moving. Well he told me tonight that he stopped having sex with his friend because she's now serious with her boyfriend. And he said it's been about a month since they even had sex. He also said he's not attracted to her and doesn't like her. He just liked the sex... he did tell me awhile ago they didn't have sex that much, but I wasn't sure what I believed after hearing that news.
My thoughts are; if they actually liked each other then they'd probably be dating, right? Because there was that window of opportunity. He also has a phobia that relates to sex and won't sleep around with many girls. So he obviously trusted her. But it just doesn't seem like they are more than friends. It also felt like he was trying to prove to me that he's a good guy because somehow it came out of my mouth that I thought he was a player and a jerk... he seem to care what I thought of him. he also told me that he really doesn't have a lot of sex and he had a girlfriend right before us that he never had sex with because they fought the whole last year.
He still wants to have sex with me. He tells me he's so attracted to me. But has never talked about feelings. I told him I'm worried I'll become too attached after if we have sex so that's why I'm unsure if I want to do it. This didn't bother him one bit.
He also talked about cooking me dinner, going shopping with me, and going to an animal sanctuary together. He opened up about his family, marriage, kids, passions, things that really upset him, and work. He even asked me a lot of questions about my life. He surprised me with all of this depth.
In recent history he's told me twice that sometimes he feels like I'm pressuring him. But I've definitely stopped that lately with my distance towards him. Soooo that's about it. Not sure what's happening next...
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ShadowcatHe started chasing me in February but I didn't follow up with meeting him until April. So it's been a little over a month of dating. So really not long. But I told him I wanted to be exclusive before sex because I don't like sharing. He said he understood and even agreed with me. That's why we havent yet even though we've done other things. And now he is surprising me with a lot...Posted by pinkbird03How long have you two been talking?
I need to understand this. Because it keeps happening with the guys I date now and I don't get it at all!!
They don't want to be exclusive, but they want to have sex.... with more than 1 person!! The guy I'm dating right now says he's not ready to be exclusive, but he said he cares about me and doesn't want to stop talking! He also wants to have sex with me but apparently he has a friend who is in an open relationship with her bf and over the years when he's single, he hooks up with her.... he says he doesn't have feelings for her. Do you believe that?
Please explain this. Is it just me for thinking this is wrong?? Am I just too traditional for modern dating—
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don't be naïve ...... he states he doesn't want to be exclusive until you tell him that you won't have sex until that happens .. suddenly, his song changes to coincide with what you want so your panties will come off.
There are men out there who will be a right match for you ..... don't become so desperate that you settle for someone who doesn't respect you.
*note, I only read the OP and a few responses on first page
Posted by AznnationWell at least if we have sex right now it will be monogamous.
At least he was honest about wanting sex without an exclusive relationship, no games here
Posted by P-AngelPosted by pinkbird03Posted by ShadowcatHe started chasing me in February but I didn't follow up with meeting him until April. So it's been a little over a month of dating. So really not long. But I told him I wanted to be exclusive before sex because I don't like sharing. He said he understood and even agreed with me. That's why we havent yet even though we've done other things. And now he is surprising me with a lot...Posted by pinkbird03How long have you two been talking?
I need to understand this. Because it keeps happening with the guys I date now and I don't get it at all!!
They don't want to be exclusive, but they want to have sex.... with more than 1 person!! The guy I'm dating right now says he's not ready to be exclusive, but he said he cares about me and doesn't want to stop talking! He also wants to have sex with me but apparently he has a friend who is in an open relationship with her bf and over the years when he's single, he hooks up with her.... he says he doesn't have feelings for her. Do you believe that?
Please explain this. Is it just me for thinking this is wrong?? Am I just too traditional for modern dating—
don't be naïve ...... he states he doesn't want to be exclusive until you tell him that you won't have sex until that happens .. suddenly, his song changes to coincide with what you want so your panties will come off.
There are men out there who will be a right match for you ..... don't become so desperate that you settle for someone who doesn't respect you.
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Well we've been hanging out since April and talking since February. He's never tried to have sex with me.
Posted by pinkbird03He should know by now (3 months) if he wants to be exclusive with you.Posted by P-AngelPosted by pinkbird03Posted by ShadowcatHe started chasing me in February but I didn't follow up with meeting him until April. So it's been a little over a month of dating. So really not long. But I told him I wanted to be exclusive before sex because I don't like sharing. He said he understood and even agreed with me. That's why we havent yet even though we've done other things. And now he is surprising me with a lot...Posted by pinkbird03How long have you two been talking?
I need to understand this. Because it keeps happening with the guys I date now and I don't get it at all!!
They don't want to be exclusive, but they want to have sex.... with more than 1 person!! The guy I'm dating right now says he's not ready to be exclusive, but he said he cares about me and doesn't want to stop talking! He also wants to have sex with me but apparently he has a friend who is in an open relationship with her bf and over the years when he's single, he hooks up with her.... he says he doesn't have feelings for her. Do you believe that?
Please explain this. Is it just me for thinking this is wrong?? Am I just too traditional for modern dating—
don't be naïve ...... he states he doesn't want to be exclusive until you tell him that you won't have sex until that happens .. suddenly, his song changes to coincide with what you want so your panties will come off.
There are men out there who will be a right match for you ..... don't become so desperate that you settle for someone who doesn't respect you.
Well we've been hanging out since April and talking since February. He's never tried to have sex with me.
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Posted by RindarooDon't know! I'm trying to detach myself emotionally and let things unfold naturally if they unfold at all! I like this Leo a lot. We FaceTime a bunch, but he lives an hour and 20 minutes away! In the next state over... Don't really like that one bit. But he's a sweetheart so I'm chatting with him lately.Posted by pinkbird03So what are you looking for with this? You could be friends for now, but I hope you are out there dating other guys.
Update.....
So I decided to still keep in touch with him, but I've been very distant. Never initiating conversation and keeping things short. I haven't hung out with him although he's asked. He keeps trying to get me back on his good graces by texting and sending cute pictures of him. We still haven't had sex, and hardly have talked about it recently. He wanted to hang out without it, but I said no. We talked on the phone for an hour last night, not something we do too much. Never that long either. It's hard for me not to like him. He makes me laugh a lot and feel good and he's by far the hottest guy I've dated. Muscular, pretty boy. But you know the story of why things stopped moving. Well he told me tonight that he stopped having sex with his friend because she's now serious with her boyfriend. And he said it's been about a month since they even had sex. He also said he's not attracted to her and doesn't like her. He just liked the sex... he did tell me awhile ago they didn't have sex that much, but I wasn't sure what I believed after hearing that news.
My thoughts are; if they actually liked each other then they'd probably be dating, right? Because there was that window of opportunity. He also has a phobia that relates to sex and won't sleep around with many girls. So he obviously trusted her. But it just doesn't seem like they are more than friends. It also felt like he was trying to prove to me that he's a good guy because somehow it came out of my mouth that I thought he was a player and a jerk... he seem to care what I thought of him. he also told me that he really doesn't have a lot of sex and he had a girlfriend right before us that he never had sex with because they fought the whole last year.
He still wants to have sex with me. He tells me he's so attracted to me. But has never talked about feelings. I told him I'm worried I'll become too attached after if we have sex so that's why I'm unsure if I want to do it. This didn't bother him one bit.
He also talked about cooking me dinner, going shopping with me, and going to an animal sanctuary together. He opened up about his family, marriage, kids, passions, things that really upset him, and work. He even asked me a lot of questions about my life. He surprised me with all of this depth.
In recent history he's told me twice that sometimes he feels like I'm pressuring him. But I've definitely stopped that lately with my distance towards him. Soooo that's about it. Not sure what's happening next...click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneHe doesn't want to be exclusive with me right now. Not trying to force it either. Don't really care that much anymore. I need to learn to not get so emotionally invested so soon when I actually like a guy!Posted by pinkbird03He should know by now (3 months) if he wants to be exclusive with you.Posted by P-AngelPosted by pinkbird03Posted by ShadowcatHe started chasing me in February but I didn't follow up with meeting him until April. So it's been a little over a month of dating. So really not long. But I told him I wanted to be exclusive before sex because I don't like sharing. He said he understood and even agreed with me. That's why we havent yet even though we've done other things. And now he is surprising me with a lot...Posted by pinkbird03How long have you two been talking?
I need to understand this. Because it keeps happening with the guys I date now and I don't get it at all!!
They don't want to be exclusive, but they want to have sex.... with more than 1 person!! The guy I'm dating right now says he's not ready to be exclusive, but he said he cares about me and doesn't want to stop talking! He also wants to have sex with me but apparently he has a friend who is in an open relationship with her bf and over the years when he's single, he hooks up with her.... he says he doesn't have feelings for her. Do you believe that?
Please explain this. Is it just me for thinking this is wrong?? Am I just too traditional for modern dating—
don't be naïve ...... he states he doesn't want to be exclusive until you tell him that you won't have sex until that happens .. suddenly, his song changes to coincide with what you want so your panties will come off.
There are men out there who will be a right match for you ..... don't become so desperate that you settle for someone who doesn't respect you.
Well we've been hanging out since April and talking since February. He's never tried to have sex with me.
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Posted by RindarooNot getting attached is the hard part. But I'm not low key stalking him or texting him too much. And remembering there's no expectations! Also trying not to have my phone on me so much. Some days it's hard others it's fine.Posted by pinkbird03How's that working? The detaching emotionally part. Oh distance might be an issue too!Posted by RindarooDon't know! I'm trying to detach myself emotionally and let things unfold naturally if they unfold at all! I like this Leo a lot. We FaceTime a bunch, but he lives an hour and 20 minutes away! In the next state over... Don't really like that one bit. But he's a sweetheart so I'm chatting with him lately.Posted by pinkbird03So what are you looking for with this? You could be friends for now, but I hope you are out there dating other guys.
Update.....
So I decided to still keep in touch with him, but I've been very distant. Never initiating conversation and keeping things short. I haven't hung out with him although he's asked. He keeps trying to get me back on his good graces by texting and sending cute pictures of him. We still haven't had sex, and hardly have talked about it recently. He wanted to hang out without it, but I said no. We talked on the phone for an hour last night, not something we do too much. Never that long either. It's hard for me not to like him. He makes me laugh a lot and feel good and he's by far the hottest guy I've dated. Muscular, pretty boy. But you know the story of why things stopped moving. Well he told me tonight that he stopped having sex with his friend because she's now serious with her boyfriend. And he said it's been about a month since they even had sex. He also said he's not attracted to her and doesn't like her. He just liked the sex... he did tell me awhile ago they didn't have sex that much, but I wasn't sure what I believed after hearing that news.
My thoughts are; if they actually liked each other then they'd probably be dating, right? Because there was that window of opportunity. He also has a phobia that relates to sex and won't sleep around with many girls. So he obviously trusted her. But it just doesn't seem like they are more than friends. It also felt like he was trying to prove to me that he's a good guy because somehow it came out of my mouth that I thought he was a player and a jerk... he seem to care what I thought of him. he also told me that he really doesn't have a lot of sex and he had a girlfriend right before us that he never had sex with because they fought the whole last year.
He still wants to have sex with me. He tells me he's so attracted to me. But has never talked about feelings. I told him I'm worried I'll become too attached after if we have sex so that's why I'm unsure if I want to do it. This didn't bother him one bit.
He also talked about cooking me dinner, going shopping with me, and going to an animal sanctuary together. He opened up about his family, marriage, kids, passions, things that really upset him, and work. He even asked me a lot of questions about my life. He surprised me with all of this depth.
In recent history he's told me twice that sometimes he feels like I'm pressuring him. But I've definitely stopped that lately with my distance towards him. Soooo that's about it. Not sure what's happening next...
Idk I don't see in problem with talking as lol as you aren't limiting your options & aren't getting attached.click to expand
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Ok my darlings. All of you who followed me knows where I am coming from...
Those who don't - read up old posts!
Most were telling me 'men never leave their wifes so you have no chance' and I said out of 50% divorces there is no way that's all done by
Can attraction develope over time?
This guy i have met only once, asked for my facebook and messaged me a few times and asked me out for coffee. I am not attracted to him nor do i see him as anything more than a friend. I also though going to get coffee
I'm a Cancer woman that has been in a relationship with a Libra man, the last 5 months. We had been friends for over 3 years, in and out of each other lives. The last time around we had build a very strong foundation and built a relationship from it. Thin
okay so from the talking (casual dating) how long did it take you to get into that relationship? & how long did it last? can you really put a time limit on relationships/marriage?
Not talking about dating, just meeting someone at work place or friend of friend etc. All your friends, colleagues are married, have kids, and then you meet someone new, really like them, and boom they are married too. So unfair that few of us didn't meet
Have you or have you ever known someone who has dyed a cult survivor? What was your experience and how did it effect your relationship?
And I liked it...
When I found out he was 29... something just didn't feel right... so I asked when his last relationship was.. he said like 8-9 months ago. We kissed and it was great. Wasn't long enough. He came to my school during his work break. We
When do some men emotionally withdrawal when falling in love
Virgo man is killing me
Please help me with this guy he is working with me and I like him alot sometimes I can see from his actions that he likes me too even he asked me for my number and he was calling me everyday scary hour and asking about he told m
It just hit me!
When women talking about why men go to men caves and trying to make sense of it...could that be that man has 3 women.
He spends week 1 with one.
Then goes to spend week 2 with second one (thanks pharmaceuticals for condoms)...
Then spe
What the signs crave
Aries: Captivation. Someone who not only captures but holds their flickering flames of interest, someone they can’t look away from if they tried, who melts their hearts with slow burning lava.
Taurus: Fluidity. In the midst of their
No words just this
http://i233.photobucket.com/albums/ee159/lintpicker/WW/bfp-pregnancy-test.jpg
For a partner to hold hands and watch documentaries with. Copious amounts of cheese, cheese based products and alcohol included.
Because that's where I'm at in life.
Any takers?
So, there was the topic the other day about talking to exes. This got me thinking, why would someone not shut that down if they're in a serious relationship?
Is it for the ego boost or just not wanting to hurt them?
Worry about your and following generations!
Women sticking her boobs into your gave, flipping her hair and locking her lips and you are asking what to do?
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Oh guys! This world is doomed! Because of you!
Just please heed this advice from others as they are looking at things objectively. Just keep telling yourself he's not the guy for you and each day will be easier. Block him if u must to cut those emotional ties.