Yeah. I'd want to go home! there is no way I'd stay - I'd be fucking terrified and itching from paranoid induced flea itches - I'd probably stress out so hard I'd self manifest an illness. Develop urticaria.
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Posted by ScorpGhis body and clothes are clean. that's why I was shocked how dirty his bed is. I guess at least the previous girls taught him that grooming is important.
Filthy.
If his body and clothes are clean though, just train him to take care of his bed etc...If he stinks as hell, go away...
no, I can't stand guys who smell.
I guess I will give him a little more time and see if he's trainable.
How much do you like this guy? Is he worth the effort?
If you want to stick around just remember that you catch more flies with honey. If you insult and criticize him about his filth it will backfire.
Just use your sexuality and feminine charms to your advantage.
If you want to stick around just remember that you catch more flies with honey. If you insult and criticize him about his filth it will backfire.
Just use your sexuality and feminine charms to your advantage.
Posted by LunabeeI don't know what to do with him yet. he texted me back and said he cleaned his sheets and he had to put his comforter in the dryer again 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by LunabeeI know his mom left when he was young or something. can't remember. not sure if he was sexually abused or anything.Posted by whatisthisallaboutI don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.Posted by LunabeeI think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?Posted by whatisthisallaboutWell hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.Posted by Deedee86He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
It's pretty nasty.
I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
So.. are you gonna Joan of ark this dude or what?
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Posted by LunabeeThis is true. I am sure something is off.Posted by Deedee86Most people live decently and those who don't nor.ally have some trauma to work through. Not always. But is he lazy enough to lack pride when he brought a women to his room knowing damn well he may get laid? No. He was apathetic about something. That's a cry for help imoPosted by LunabeePosted by whatisthisallaboutI don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.Posted by LunabeeI think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?Posted by whatisthisallaboutWell hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.Posted by Deedee86He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
It's pretty nasty.
I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
Or he could just be a lazy slob.
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Posted by P6X58DEIt is =.=
Sounds disastrous.
Posted by febythat's my thought 😆Posted by LunabeeMaybe a little but i tend to give people the benefit of the doubt in certain situations, like maybe no one taught him etc.Posted by febyBut wouldn't your faith in them diminish a bit? I dunno. I'd be so shocked to help before even realizing what I felt.Posted by LunabeeI would help him clean his sheets and tell him not to let his cats run hell all over his bed.Posted by febyHow does one reapond when they realize the condition of this man's bed consists of; heaping piles of cat shit and heavy piss pebbles?
Kitty litter in the bed is fucking nasty. I would never let my skin touch those sheets
When that didnt work i would suggest sleeping elsewhere but granted that i like him enough i would make upgrading his cleanliness a long term goal.
I wouldnt sleep there though lol
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutQuite the wild card.Posted by LunabeeI don't know what to do with him yet. he texted me back and said he cleaned his sheets and he had to put his comforter in the dryer again 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by LunabeeI know his mom left when he was young or something. can't remember. not sure if he was sexually abused or anything.Posted by whatisthisallaboutI don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.Posted by LunabeeI think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?Posted by whatisthisallaboutWell hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.Posted by Deedee86He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
It's pretty nasty.
I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
So.. are you gonna Joan of ark this dude or what?
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Posted by PlagueDid you kick them out because of that?
Does he roommate or something? Why keep a toilet in the same room where you sleep?
Reminds me of ex roommates that destroyed one of my rooms, they let their 2 large dogs shit and piss right next to the bed where they slept. Well he's basically bathing himself with cat feces and urine every night. He must like it.
Posted by Deedee86I don't want to be the mom that's been absent in his life 😢Posted by LunabeePosted by Deedee86Most people live decently and those who don't nor.ally have some trauma to work through. Not always. But is he lazy enough to lack pride when he brought a women to his room knowing damn well he may get laid? No. He was apathetic about something. That's a cry for help imoPosted by LunabeePosted by whatisthisallaboutI don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.Posted by LunabeeI think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?Posted by whatisthisallaboutWell hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.Posted by Deedee86He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
It's pretty nasty.
I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
Or he could just be a lazy slob.
I have two teenaged sons. Their rooms are disaster areas and I'm on them to clean them daily. Their only excuse is laziness.
Granted, they are not trying to get girls in bed but still. It may be a maturity issue.
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Posted by Deedee86That's good advice.
How much do you like this guy? Is he worth the effort?
If you want to stick around just remember that you catch more flies with honey. If you insult and criticize him about his filth it will backfire.
Just use your sexuality and feminine charms to your advantage.
I am still getting to know him. I think I will give him a couple more weeks and see how he does.
Posted by -elle-haha yea, at least he's trying. let's see how well he can keep up :pPosted by whatisthisallaboutAwe...he is trying 🙂Posted by LunabeeI don't know what to do with him yet. he texted me back and said he cleaned his sheets and he had to put his comforter in the dryer again 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by LunabeeI know his mom left when he was young or something. can't remember. not sure if he was sexually abused or anything.Posted by whatisthisallaboutI don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.Posted by LunabeeI think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?Posted by whatisthisallaboutWell hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.Posted by Deedee86He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
It's pretty nasty.
I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
So.. are you gonna Joan of ark this dude or what?
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Posted by Plaguei feel sorry for the dogs but no the guys 😢Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by PlagueDid you kick them out because of that?
Does he roommate or something? Why keep a toilet in the same room where you sleep?
Reminds me of ex roommates that destroyed one of my rooms, they let their 2 large dogs shit and piss right next to the bed where they slept. Well he's basically bathing himself with cat feces and urine every night. He must like it.
Fuck yeah I did. It was disgusting they never let the dogs out to the bathroom because they were lazy.
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Posted by TheLibraMudraThat is a good idea actually.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYea, I started giving mine baths as a kitten. And we took the door off this little coat closet we never used and put the box and supplies in there. It was perfect bc it was away from all food, clothing, bathing, sleeping things lol. An apartment would be hard for me to keep a kitty.Posted by TheLibraMudraYea, when I had my own cat, I had to wipe her down every other day and I had to put the litter box in some other room.
Cats make my skin go all crazy if they don't take baths... Which is 80% of cats lol... Litter in the bed would be a no. Especially the ammonia from the cat box where I sleep. Even if it's well maintained. Yuck lol
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Tf! Lmao! Thts disgusting! ??
He must love him some nice pussy
I wouldn't necessarily break up with him.. That's a bit drastic. I'd give him a chance to fix the issue unless he's okay with it.. then he gotta go!! That's a personal preference and it's disgusting!
I would assume he hasn't had guests around in a long while.
I would tell him that I would love to be at his house, but that it would be better if he cleaned up and made things romantic because I would feel more comfortable that way.
Also, does he share his space? Why would he keep the litter in his room? Maybe, if possible, I would make suggestions on where to keep the litter box now that I was staying over.
🙂
I would tell him that I would love to be at his house, but that it would be better if he cleaned up and made things romantic because I would feel more comfortable that way.
Also, does he share his space? Why would he keep the litter in his room? Maybe, if possible, I would make suggestions on where to keep the litter box now that I was staying over.
🙂
No, just no.
Dude, I have cats and that's just gross. Like someone else said, yeah, sometimes litter makes its way to the bed, in which you swipe it off and just make sure you keep your ish clean.
But to the extent that you're saying it is? What the hell?
But to the extent that you're saying it is? What the hell?
Posted by poison_ivyIt was =.=
Tf! Lmao! Thts disgusting! ??
Posted by Peemcopun intended? 😆
He must love him some nice pussy
Posted by poison_ivyHe washed his sheets and comforter yesterday. We will see how long it will last... =.=
I wouldn't necessarily break up with him.. That's a bit drastic. I'd give him a chance to fix the issue unless he's okay with it.. then he gotta go!! That's a personal preference and it's disgusting!
I say, I am giving him 2 more weeks.
Posted by ScorpGHahaha, but still, cat hair is not nearly as gross as the cat litter sand.... unless there's enough for you to make huge hair balls, then yea 😄Posted by whatisthisallaboutI got an ex like that. Clean body and great perfume, but cat hair all over the bed. I didnt want to have sex there, even lay on the bed naked..Posted by ScorpGhis body and clothes are clean. that's why I was shocked how dirty his bed is. I guess at least the previous girls taught him that grooming is important.
Filthy.
If his body and clothes are clean though, just train him to take care of his bed etc...If he stinks as hell, go away...
no, I can't stand guys who smell.
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Posted by MagicMonavery much so =.=
that's just nasty.
Posted by DreamyboyI am concenred about that too =.=
That is disgusting. Cat poop is the nastiest smelling poop whenever I walk near it. Might have poop residue in that crap
Posted by ImpulsvWill you? 😄
What are you talking about he's looking for a gf to clean his place! Jk
Posted by LillyPetalYou sound like a very gentle person. I like that.
I would assume he hasn't had guests around in a long while.
I would tell him that I would love to be at his house, but that it would be better if he cleaned up and made things romantic because I would feel more comfortable that way.
Also, does he share his space? Why would he keep the litter in his room? Maybe, if possible, I would make suggestions on where to keep the litter box now that I was staying over.
🙂
He has a roommate. I think that's why he has to keep the litter box in his room.
I actully moved his litter box to make it not face his bed at least 😆
Posted by rockyroadicecreambeats me. maybe he was hoping to make sand castles together in his bed? =.=
Dude, I have cats and that's just gross. Like someone else said, yeah, sometimes litter makes its way to the bed, in which you swipe it off and just make sure you keep your ish clean.
But to the extent that you're saying it is? What the hell?
Posted by Fun4LifeI can't sleep in that, thus this thread =.=
Totally gross - you women must be REALLY hard up for a "little lovin" to sleep in that. I wouldn't, and I ain't a girl.
Posted by Infinite8haha, maybe it really is a Pisces/Aries Cusp issue!Posted by whatisthisallaboutInteresting. I once went out with a Pisces/Aries Cusper and he too had a super messy bedroom. I just walked in while he finished getting ready and after seeing his bedroom, I friend-zoned him instantly.Posted by -elle-Pisces/Aries cusp 😄
Can you please tell us his sun sign?
I am so curious....lol
No way would I tolerate cat liter - that's disgusting... sorry.
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutYAY! Okay,Posted by poison_ivyHe washed his sheets and comforter yesterday. We will see how long it will last... =.=
I wouldn't necessarily break up with him.. That's a bit drastic. I'd give him a chance to fix the issue unless he's okay with it.. then he gotta go!! That's a personal preference and it's disgusting!
I say, I am giving him 2 more weeks.click to expand
Hopefully he sticks to it for the sake of your relationship! 🙂
I'm allergic to cats so fuck no.
tell him it's not healthy way to live O_O
That's fucking disgusting. I am like princess and the pea. I cant have any dirt or fluff on my sheets or I cant sleep comfortable. I will get out of bed and shake the sheet if I feel anything in them.
And for it to be cat infested pee and poop litter. I would of walked out that door that same night.
And for it to be cat infested pee and poop litter. I would of walked out that door that same night.
No. The end.
I don't understand. I have 2 cats. I've never had litter in my bed. Although the cats don't get under the blankets. They always sleep at the foot of the bed. My litterbox is between the laundry room and bathroom and gets cleaned every other day.
If there is that much cat litter IN his bed, I can only imagine how much litter is all over the bedroom floor. Gross.
I think if I wanted to continue seeing the guy, it would not be at his place. How old is he?
If there is that much cat litter IN his bed, I can only imagine how much litter is all over the bedroom floor. Gross.
I think if I wanted to continue seeing the guy, it would not be at his place. How old is he?
holy cow, that shit hit me right in the feels, not in a good way.
I couldnt..would probably start to clean it myself -_-
I couldnt..would probably start to clean it myself -_-
Posted by poison_ivyI was thinking 2 more weeks but I just ended it today. Just can't =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutYAY! Okay,Posted by poison_ivyHe washed his sheets and comforter yesterday. We will see how long it will last... =.=
I wouldn't necessarily break up with him.. That's a bit drastic. I'd give him a chance to fix the issue unless he's okay with it.. then he gotta go!! That's a personal preference and it's disgusting!
I say, I am giving him 2 more weeks.
Hopefully he sticks to it for the sake of your relationship! 🙂click to expand
Posted by RumiLI told him it's bad hygiene... anyways, I just called it quits. Can't do it anymore =.=
tell him it's not healthy way to live O_O
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI am actually very much the same way. I can only fall asleep in my own bed.
That's fucking disgusting. I am like princess and the pea. I cant have any dirt or fluff on my sheets or I cant sleep comfortable. I will get out of bed and shake the sheet if I feel anything in them.
And for it to be cat infested pee and poop litter. I would of walked out that door that same night.
Posted by WalkergrlHe's 28, turning 29 next month. anyways, I decided that it just can't work.
I don't understand. I have 2 cats. I've never had litter in my bed. Although the cats don't get under the blankets. They always sleep at the foot of the bed. My litterbox is between the laundry room and bathroom and gets cleaned every other day.
If there is that much cat litter IN his bed, I can only imagine how much litter is all over the bedroom floor. Gross.
I think if I wanted to continue seeing the guy, it would not be at his place. How old is he?
Yes, the floor. There's chucks of litter on the floor =.=
Posted by SMCI totally freaked out on him =.=
holy cow, that shit hit me right in the feels, not in a good way.
I couldnt..would probably start to clean it myself -_-
Anyways, I decided that it just can't work.
Now it's a dirty bed, tomorrow his socks will smell and in a week there will be gunk under his nails
Come on, boys! You had one TASK in terms of appearance 😄 ...Hygiene ?
Come on, boys! You had one TASK in terms of appearance 😄 ...Hygiene ?
Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe didn't stick to it!?!! ?Posted by poison_ivyI was thinking 2 more weeks but I just ended it today. Just can't =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutYAY! Okay,Posted by poison_ivyHe washed his sheets and comforter yesterday. We will see how long it will last... =.=
I wouldn't necessarily break up with him.. That's a bit drastic. I'd give him a chance to fix the issue unless he's okay with it.. then he gotta go!! That's a personal preference and it's disgusting!
I say, I am giving him 2 more weeks.
Hopefully he sticks to it for the sake of your relationship! 🙂click to expand
Posted by whatisthisallaboutYuck. Deal breaker.Posted by WalkergrlHe's 28, turning 29 next month. anyways, I decided that it just can't work.
I don't understand. I have 2 cats. I've never had litter in my bed. Although the cats don't get under the blankets. They always sleep at the foot of the bed. My litterbox is between the laundry room and bathroom and gets cleaned every other day.
If there is that much cat litter IN his bed, I can only imagine how much litter is all over the bedroom floor. Gross.
I think if I wanted to continue seeing the guy, it would not be at his place. How old is he?
Yes, the floor. There's chucks of litter on the floor =.=click to expand
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