Do men enjoy sex more than women do?

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Do men enjoy sex more than women do? What are your thoughts on this?

Considering the fact that men orgasm every time they have sex, it just makes sense that they would crave sex more than women for whom orgasm is a hit or miss proposition. If a woman has a selfish, inconsiderate or unskilled lover she may never experience an orgasm with him unless he really works to make her satisfied. Just IMHO.

What do you think?
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Thing is if she is not enjoying it.. i'm not enjoying it so... it 's going to be good either way as i will always change it to make it suit you.

If you are not genuinely moaning and orgasming then it's bad sex to me. And you are also maybe hiding yourself from me, this is a mental thing that can stop you from orgasm.

Because i had no protection with my first lady i never came once yet she was orgasming the whole time... if you know how to control your body then that works well too.


What indicates 'genuine' to you?
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The majority of women, myself included, need significant clitoral stimulation in order to come. The act of being fucked, while it feels phenomenal, isnt enough to reach the O.

So it's not that 'men enjoy sex more then women'. But rather the small differences between good sex vs great sex that vary between men and women.


Underestimating male ability is not a good thing.

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Never said anything about male ability. Your projecting.

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The majority of women, myself included, need significant clitoral stimulation in order to come. The act of being fucked, while it feels phenomenal, isnt enough to reach the O.

So it's not that 'men enjoy sex more then women'. But rather the small differences between good sex vs great sex that vary between men and women.


Underestimating male ability is not a good thing.


Never said anything about male ability. Your projecting.


Nice retort, however your statement is very general, some of us know how to get a lady off.

I don't have good sex until then anyway, just as you women seem to think a man has the best sex every time even if you don't cum...

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Again. Massive projection by you.

Re-read my initial statement. I was not criticizing men's 'ability' to get a woman off. I was remarking on the different variables that men vs women need during sex to orgasm.

For someone whose so confident in their sexual ability you sure do like to jump on everyone's dick to prove yourself. Calm down.

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Mars in TAURUS has durability, stamina, but they must be relaxed with the person who's with them. It is most important that I trust you to make a decision to even bed you.
This and it's why i don't have many sexual partners.

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Me either and the STI are real deals. There out there and some don't even know. So I think it's important to get tested yearly and with a new partner. If they dont then it could be a deal breaker. I will always know who I bed and what type of person I am dealing with.
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Thing is if she is not enjoying it.. i'm not enjoying it so... it 's going to be good either way as i will always change it to make it suit you.

If you are not genuinely moaning and orgasming then it's bad sex to me. And you are also maybe hiding yourself from me, this is a mental thing that can stop you from orgasm.

Because i had no protection with my first lady i never came once yet she was orgasming the whole time... if you know how to control your body then that works well too.


Women are a whole other animal. As much as I love sex, in a relationship or out, I can count on one hand how many times I've reached orgasm outside of a loving, monogamous relationship.
Yeah well a lot of women won't allow them self to enjoy it also, social pressure, social norms etc can have a huge effect.

I have an amazing way of opening people up one on one so i mostly don't struggle, but some are hard to it and will run a mile as they notice i can see within them.




Not to burst your bubble, but I have a hard time believing that. I have no moral code. I don't have a negative attitude towards quote/unquote random sex. Makes no difference.

On behalf of my kind, I thank you for your effort tho.


Perhaps it's due to your nature, you don't get close enough and just have random sex, you won't experience it.


I'm very stereotypically Taurus in this sense. If I'm not dating with intent, I'm either licking my wounds or entertaining my harem, so to speak. My boyfriend or girlfriend equivalents. I like them, I care for them, I've even loved a couple of them, and yet my brain and body know I'm full of shit and not completely, emotionally invested.

It's sad really. My placements are made for sex.
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Not sad... It keeps you real . I am the same.wiith my FWB it was like that near the end, I knew I wasnt going anywhere with jim(I had decided no more visits) and never got off once even though we fuxked like rabbits. It just wasn't there. *shrug*
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I have mulitple orgasm, cum on entry, squirt, wet the bed, stay moist, spontaneous orgasms.... sex is fun, a vacay, a treat, desert, ultimate thing to look forward to everyday.

Single or married (no guilt or psych tripping with marriage; so, more wide open and free!) I will say my hubby was the first man to make me have an orgasm from intercourse. We weren't married yet.

I don't know how it happened but, clit was overly exposed the other night and my hubby's stomach was rubbing against it and I like to lose my mind! I had to talk myself down from utter hysteria.

So, I agree with Tiziani... got clit, vagina, breast....

But, men have penis, balls, nipples too though....

I don’t know.

I guess I just speak for myself.