He keeps liking his ex’s pictures. Should I be worried?

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I met this guy about a month ago. We seem to be hitting it off. The issue is he likes about every other picture his ex has posted. They broke up in early October.

I’m trying to tell myself it’s just him liking the content. He’ll like his other ex’s pictures too, but she’s from years ago. He’ll even like pictures of old flings that didn’t work out, so maybe he’s just weird?

Either way should I be worried?
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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


So why should I be worried?
You're not dating.. Don't worry about it.



The guy just broke it off with his ex and he's liking her every picture? Doesn't sound like he's moved on. And if he is... I still find it very odd.
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It’s not every picture, but he’s liked the last 4 of the 7 pictures she’s posted in about a month.
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Posted by missmissy
I met this guy about a month ago. We seem to be hitting it off. The issue is he likes about every other picture his ex has posted. They broke up in early October.

I’m trying to tell myself it’s just him liking the content. He’ll like his other ex’s pictures too, but she’s from years ago. He’ll even like pictures of old flings that didn’t work out, so maybe he’s just weird?

Either way should I be worried?
Why would you need to be worried about an acquaintance? Be worried about how your tracking all his likes so closely. Chill.
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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


No, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.

So why should I be worried?
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I'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.

Also you're not dating the guy and have only known him for a month. You barely know him, so exclusivity should be a discussion for much later.
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At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?

So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
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Posted by HippieGem
At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?

So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
I just figured it was too soon to ask. I know with this ex he wanted to marry her so I don’t know.
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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


No, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.

So why should I be worried?
How do you know you want to be exclusive with someone you haven’t dated?? Seems desperate.
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How is that desperate? I didn’t say be his girlfriend. I like him enough for it just be us two so that we can get to know each other better. That’s not desperate.
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Posted by HippieGem
At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?

So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
I would agree, BUT it’s one thing to like pictures of an ex from years ago and flings who didn’t amount to anything versus an ex from only a little over a month ago.
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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


No, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.

So why should I be worried?
How do you know you want to be exclusive with someone you haven’t dated?? Seems desperate.
How is that desperate? I didn’t say be his girlfriend. I like him enough for it just be us two so that we can get to know each other better. That’s not desperate.

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But your not even dating 🤦‍♀️

How are you gonna ‘get to know each other better’.

Your looking a few too many steps ahead. Focus on now. The you not dating him now.
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Posted by missmissy
I met this guy about a month ago. We seem to be hitting it off. The issue is he likes about every other picture his ex has posted. They broke up in early October.

I’m trying to tell myself it’s just him liking the content. He’ll like his other ex’s pictures too, but she’s from years ago. He’ll even like pictures of old flings that didn’t work out, so maybe he’s just weird?

Either way should I be worried?
How'd you get all that info in a month? If he's piquing your jealousy, maybe this doesn't look good in the long term. But shit, it's only been a month.
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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


No, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.

So why should I be worried?

You’re getting too caught up with words. I consider dating as in being together. Going on dates over after meeting a month ago doesn’t automatically equate to dating.

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You can’t keep your story straight. What are you hiding?
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At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?

So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
I just figured it was too soon to ask. I know with this ex he wanted to marry her so I don’t know.
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Are you two in an exclusive relationship? I didn’t read the whole thread, sorry. If you are, then you have every right to ask.
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At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?

So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
I just figured it was too soon to ask. I know with this ex he wanted to marry her so I don’t know.
Are you two in an exclusive relationship? I didn’t read the whole thread, sorry. If you are, then you have every right to ask.

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No we’re not. I just don’t want to put myself out there if there may be a red flag such as this.
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At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?

So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
I would agree, BUT it’s one thing to like pictures of an ex from years ago and flings who didn’t amount to anything versus an ex from only a little over a month ago.
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Yeah, a recent ex and paying a lot of attention to them online would really bother me too. I’m just wondering if this is just how he is, doing it just to be nice, or doing it to let the ex know he’s still paying attention and interested.
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At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?

So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
I would agree, BUT it’s one thing to like pictures of an ex from years ago and flings who didn’t amount to anything versus an ex from only a little over a month ago.
Yeah, a recent ex and paying a lot of attention to them online would really bother me too. I’m just wondering if this is just how he is, doing it just to be nice, or doing it to let the ex know he’s still paying attention and interested.
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That’s what I’m trying to figure out as well. Our mutual friend’s boyfriend knows a lot about their breakup so that’s how I know the details.

I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid October ( I think that’s what I was told). Maybe it’s just me, but that doesn’t sound like someone who is liking the pictures to just be nice...
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I'd just make a mental note of it and look out for other behavior. Social media is so weird that you really can't be disconnected from much anymore. Maybe they have remained friendly and posting a like is just trying to maintain the friendship.

If other things occur that are red flags though, then I'd bring all of this up to him.
Thanks. I’ll just repost what I said above.

Our mutual friend’s boyfriend knows a lot about their breakup so that’s how I know the details.

I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid October ( I think that’s what I was told). Maybe it’s just me, but that doesn’t sound like someone who is liking the pictures to just be nice...
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At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?

So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
I would agree, BUT it’s one thing to like pictures of an ex from years ago and flings who didn’t amount to anything versus an ex from only a little over a month ago.
Yeah, a recent ex and paying a lot of attention to them online would really bother me too. I’m just wondering if this is just how he is, doing it just to be nice, or doing it to let the ex know he’s still paying attention and interested.
That’s what I’m trying to figure out as well. Our mutual friend’s boyfriend knows a lot about their breakup so that’s how I know the details.

I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid October ( I think that’s what I was told). Maybe it’s just me, but that doesn’t sound like someone who is liking the pictures to just be nice...
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No, I think you should trust your intuition on this. That wouldn’t sit well with me either. Ask him. Think about it. If he still holds a torch, you’re just a rebound to him :/

Finding out the truth hurts sometimes but I’d take that over being lied to any day.

Or maybe he has a different view on it. You really need to just ask him about it. Don’t feel bad that you were told info. This is your life. Don’t lessen it to make someone else happy who wouldn’t do the same for you.
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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


No, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.

So why should I be worried?
I'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.

Also you're not dating the guy and have only known him for a month. You barely know him, so exclusivity should be a discussion for much later.
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Yea I know it's recent. He wanted to marry her/talked about marriage.

So even though he likes previous exes and flings pictures I should still be wary? I just thought it was kind of all the same across the board with his liking her pictures, so I didn't think she'd be different when he liked her things.
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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


No, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.

So why should I be worried?
I'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.

Also you're not dating the guy and have only known him for a month. You barely know him, so exclusivity should be a discussion for much later.
Yea I know it's recent. He wanted to marry her/talked about marriage.

So even though he likes previous exes and flings pictures I should still be wary? I just thought it was kind of all the same across the board with his liking her pictures, so I didn't think she'd be different when he liked her things.
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They talked about marriage? Yea, he still wants his ex.
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Yes. Also because they broke up only a little while ago.
But he’ll like his other ex’s and flings things too. I met him through a mutual friend. I knew he had gone on a few dates with this woman I know right before we met. He still likes pictures too, so why would him liking the most recent ex’s pictures be different?
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Well then why are you asking? If you know it's fine ..it's fine 🙂
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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


So why should I be worried?
You're not dating.. Don't worry about it.



The guy just broke it off with his ex and he's liking her every picture? Doesn't sound like he's moved on. And if he is... I still find it very odd.
It’s not every picture, but he’s liked the last 4 of the 7 pictures she’s posted in about a month.
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To me the fact that you are watching her social media activity so much is creepy.

Also chill you have known this guy a month and aren't even dating lol Jesus
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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


So why should I be worried?
You're not dating.. Don't worry about it.



The guy just broke it off with his ex and he's liking her every picture? Doesn't sound like he's moved on. And if he is... I still find it very odd.
It’s not every picture, but he’s liked the last 4 of the 7 pictures she’s posted in about a month.
To me the fact that you are watching her social media activity so much is creepy.

Also chill you have known this guy a month and aren't even dating lol Jesus
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I'm not watching it. I said in the thread our mutual friend set us up and she was giving me the details. She's seeing all this stuff, not me.

I just don't want to potentially set myself up. There's nothing wrong with being wary about these things.
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Did he tell you how or why they broke up? Nah they are just pictures and its only been a month for him.


I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid October
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If it's making you feel insecure tell him about it. Not as in he has done something wrong. But just your feelings. See what he says.

I have a feeling he will say ;she was an important part of my life.

Often when you break up....you don't want the same relationship ..or miss the relationship ..you miss the person though....the feelings..

He is attached to the past ..of them.

Of her.

And it would be better if he was eager for the future with you ....and that was what filled his thoughts.
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Did he tell you how or why they broke up? Nah they are just pictures and its only been a month for him.


I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid October
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You are overly invested for barely knowing this guy and the small amount of time it's been.

He needs to run.
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Did he tell you how or why they broke up? Nah they are just pictures and its only been a month for him.


I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid October
You are overly invested for barely knowing this guy and the small amount of time it's been.

He needs to run.
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For the 5th time now, it's just because I don't want to set myself up. I turned out to be a rebound not that long ago and I don't want the same thing to happen. Do I like him? Yes, but it's more about looking out for myself and not repeating the past.
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I met this guy about a month ago. We seem to be hitting it off. The issue is he likes about every other picture his ex has posted. They broke up in early October.

I’m trying to tell myself it’s just him liking the content. He’ll like his other ex’s pictures too, but she’s from years ago. He’ll even like pictures of old flings that didn’t work out, so maybe he’s just weird?

Either way should I be worried?
The "liking" issue: if liking pictures is his modus operandi, then its nothing to worry about.... I mean, he likely likes the pictures of everybody, not just exes.... some people just like nearly everything, what shows up on their timeline.... obviously, you (or your friend) would pay more attention to him liking the pictures of exes and dismiss, that he likes everything else as well.... so, this is not a problem

but, the problem and red flag is, what you wrote later, that they are both struggling with the break-up...... if she ended it with him and then wanted to reconcile, he might said no because of hurt ego...

unfortunately, it seems they are not really finished, in emotional sense.... even if they never get back together..... for now, just try to not get attached to him.... its too much stress for a beginning of dating... not fair on you

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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


No, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.

So why should I be worried?
I'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.

Also you're not dating the guy and have only known him for a month. You barely know him, so exclusivity should be a discussion for much later.
Yea I know it's recent. He wanted to marry her/talked about marriage.

So even though he likes previous exes and flings pictures I should still be wary? I just thought it was kind of all the same across the board with his liking her pictures, so I didn't think she'd be different when he liked her things.
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I would say regardless of how he acts with his other exes, he's probably not over this particular ex. Even though he chooses to remain friendly with his exes, that doesn't mean he feels the same about all of them. Feelings and emotions don't just shut off. If he was planning on marrying this other woman, it's safe to say that he has a strong bond with her. If he's still actively following her on socal media, there's a good chance there is still an emotional connection.

Also since he's recently single, the last thing on your mind should be exclusivity with him. There's a good chance that if you would be a rebound. First you need to make sure he's open to dating and not hung up on his ex.
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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


No, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.

So why should I be worried?
I'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.

Also you're not dating the guy and have only known him for a month. You barely know him, so exclusivity should be a discussion for much later.
Yea I know it's recent. He wanted to marry her/talked about marriage.

So even though he likes previous exes and flings pictures I should still be wary? I just thought it was kind of all the same across the board with his liking her pictures, so I didn't think she'd be different when he liked her things.
I would say regardless of how he acts with his other exes, he's probably not over this particular ex. Even though he chooses to remain friendly with his exes, that doesn't mean he feels the same about all of them. Feelings and emotions don't just shut off. If he was planning on marrying this other woman, it's safe to say that he has a strong bond with her. If he's still actively following her on socal media, there's a good chance there is still an emotional connection.

Also since he's recently single, the last thing on your mind should be exclusivity with him. There's a good chance that if you would be a rebound. First you need to make sure he's open to dating and not hung up on his ex.
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Plus, and I could be wrong here, but if he’s still liking her stuff he’s not trying to actively move on. That’s because he doesn’t want to move on.
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Depends are you dating?

If so, yes.


No, but he’s someone that I would like to be exclusive with.

So why should I be worried?
I'd be careful if I were you. That's a pretty recent breakup. I highly doubt he's completely over that ex and there are probably residual feelings still floating around. Unless they only dated for a month or so, he'll need more time to be out of that relationship.

Also you're not dating the guy and have only known him for a month. You barely know him, so exclusivity should be a discussion for much later.
Yea I know it's recent. He wanted to marry her/talked about marriage.

So even though he likes previous exes and flings pictures I should still be wary? I just thought it was kind of all the same across the board with his liking her pictures, so I didn't think she'd be different when he liked her things.
I would say regardless of how he acts with his other exes, he's probably not over this particular ex. Even though he chooses to remain friendly with his exes, that doesn't mean he feels the same about all of them. Feelings and emotions don't just shut off. If he was planning on marrying this other woman, it's safe to say that he has a strong bond with her. If he's still actively following her on socal media, there's a good chance there is still an emotional connection.

Also since he's recently single, the last thing on your mind should be exclusivity with him. There's a good chance that if you would be a rebound. First you need to make sure he's open to dating and not hung up on his ex.
Plus, and I could be wrong here, but if he’s still liking her stuff he’s not trying to actively move on. That’s because he doesn’t want to move on.

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Hmm so you think he still wants to be with her?
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If you guys arent dating then you can’t really call him out on it because he’ll just think you’re obsessive and crazy and will just say they’re still friends, I do say tho that he must still feel something for her to still be liking her photos because it wasn’t that long ago breaking up..I would ignore it, how hard it is because it’s bugging you I just would and see where yous two go, you might not go out since he’s just out of a relationship but it could still happen if he isn’t too hung up over her. Hope this helps
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At first I felt like you should maybe be worried. But if he does the same with another ex from a longer time ago, maybe that’s just his way of staying on friendly terms and it means nothing. Why not just ask him?

So glad I seem to attract men that hate social media and I never have to think about these things. Good luck 🙏 Talk to him. That’s the only way you’ll know.
I would agree, BUT it’s one thing to like pictures of an ex from years ago and flings who didn’t amount to anything versus an ex from only a little over a month ago.
Yeah, a recent ex and paying a lot of attention to them online would really bother me too. I’m just wondering if this is just how he is, doing it just to be nice, or doing it to let the ex know he’s still paying attention and interested.
That’s what I’m trying to figure out as well. Our mutual friend’s boyfriend knows a lot about their breakup so that’s how I know the details.

I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid October ( I think that’s what I was told). Maybe it’s just me, but that doesn’t sound like someone who is liking the pictures to just be nice...
This all screams of red flags. Why are you going to stick around with a guy whose just using you as a rebound. He wanted to MARRY her. That’s big for a man. There’s no way he’s over her and it’s clear she’s not over him. I wouldn’t doubt that he’s trying to fix things up with her behind the scenes while you sit here pinning and dreaming about your futures, when the probability is, you two don’t have a future.

Rule of thumb: don’t date someone who has just broken up. Chances are they’re not over their partner and you’re just a rebound. Good luck!
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1. Since when has liking a picture of an ex, especially when he likes his other exes posts mean he still wants to be with her?

2. Talking about marriage doesn't mean you actually wanted to marry the person

3. This guy is moving on if he's dating others so why does this mean he's not over her? Sounds like he is to me if he's dating around.
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