lisabeth
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How insecure are you?
I think that the person your with can contribute immensely to the level of insecurity/security you feel.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI think so too.
I think that the person your with can contribute immensely to the level of insecurity/security you feel.
my husband does make me feel confident.
he's a very confident man, to me.
he has a strong ego, which really helps me because I lack ego with having a 12th house moon.
when i'm not with him, I feel really depressed and sad.
he's with me everyday, even when i'm on here on the computer, reading, he's next to me.
Posted by -Flo-
Now that I'm single and have removed myself from toxic relationships. I'm more secure than ever, I'm going through an emotional healing process and I like where it's heading because I'm opening my heart towards new friends, opportunities, and life changes.
I just created a thread explaining how I'm happy with my body; flaws and all regardless of becoming older. I don't care to feed into negativity, I'm a lot more forgiving, I'm seeking peace within myself, and accepting what makes me feel good. So far this new year has been amazing. I'm definitely growing emotionally and mentally, this is exactly where I needed to be. It's only getting better and I'm excited..
I'm no longer searching for someone, I'm will wait til he's placed in my life because when that happens it will be the right time and when I least expect it.
I have surrounded myself with beautiful new hobbies and loving people who genuinely care about me. That's a lot to say for such an introverted person but I had to open up and let people love me. It was the only way I could learn to trust and finally let go. Focusing on my Education has also been a huge step for me to accomplish, so I'm heading in the right direction.
that sounds really sweet.
Posted by ILikeYourComment??
some times I got my doutbs. but i see the chix who talk trash about me gotta do their selfies from high angel to hide the 3 chins and goodyear tire rolls on their stomachs
Posted by cvurkois that why you have difficulty in relationships?
In general im pretty laid back, but if i sense the person is lying to me about important (for me) stuff i get worried. Honesty is pretty important to me. Im quite tolerant to not opening up entirely, i understand how some people find it difficult. But lies, i just dont understand why would you lie to your partner.
Probably that shows i have insecurities in that aspect.
I don't understand...are you with someone right now?
I was posing this question due to relationships with people, and deeper relationships.
Posted by VageenkaI don't mind looking like trash in the home, though. lol with sweat pants and big overalls or comfy stuff...
Very, very insecure in relationships.
Always woke up before to get ready. Always was super strict about my bod and how it had to look perfect naked. But I wasn't fake like "umgz I have to buy diz or wear diz" it was more of a I can't let the person I'm into seeing me look unpresentable. lol.
I never understood those couples that both go out looking like trash in sweats and pajama pants and shit. I could never get that comfortable with someone.
but not outside. lol
my man is too proud to look like crap (his Leo placements most likely) lol and won't allow me to look like crap either outside. But inside the home, we can be what we can be.
Posted by Seraphlightinsecure then?
I am quite fragile.
how so? you seem more secure though, in your actions. You showing your photos everywhere, in every angle, that's a very very secure person. Even if you show your photos to the public in not a very good light.
Posted by P6X58DEyour Gemini venus needs a talker. 😛
Oh in a relationship... when someone won't open up to me or share what is on their mind, makes me crazy.
Posted by starwarslol
0 cuz I'm a 1st tire
you can be one too
join us by sending the following link to @Afternoondelights22
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have you asked everyone on this topic too? 😆
what is going on here? with all the sending to afternoondelights.
I don't like humans so it's so easy to not care about pleasing anyone (no leeb placements thank goodness). I do what I want. Plus I think everything I do is already cool so any arguments against it are auto invalid ?
Posted by starwarslol ok I did it.Posted by lisabethur8its for a dxp game that I need to winPosted by starwarslol
0 cuz I'm a 1st tire
you can be one too
join us by sending the following link to @Afternoondelights22
http://imgur.com/a/Oeukg
thx
😏
have you asked everyone on this topic too? 😆
what is going on here? with all the sending to afternoondelights.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by LadyNeptuneI think so too.
I think that the person your with can contribute immensely to the level of insecurity/security you feel.
my husband does make me feel confident.
he's a very confident man, to me.
he has a strong ego, which really helps me because I lack ego with having a 12th house moon.
when i'm not with him, I feel really depressed and sad.
he's with me everyday, even when i'm on here on the computer, reading, he's next to me.click to expand
I love guys with big egos. I'm literally like you. I like clinging to people I adore and get so ridiculously sad when they're not near.
Posted by SassyKiwi
I don't like humans so it's so easy to not care about pleasing anyone (no leeb placements thank goodness). I do what I want. Plus I think everything I do is already cool so any arguments against it are auto invalid ?
is that your aqua placements talking? without leeb placements? cancer/aqua I mean.
i understand where you are coming from in a way. lol
Posted by SeraphlightlolPosted by lisabethur8Oh I am so sorry 😢Posted by SeraphlightEven if you show your photos to the public in not a very good light.
I am quite fragile.
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that came out bad. 😛 😆
no you've shown your photos in every angle, so you're a very very SECURE person...
that might be your Leo venus. because it shows.
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by LadyNeptuneI think so too.
I think that the person your with can contribute immensely to the level of insecurity/security you feel.
my husband does make me feel confident.
he's a very confident man, to me.
he has a strong ego, which really helps me because I lack ego with having a 12th house moon.
when i'm not with him, I feel really depressed and sad.
he's with me everyday, even when i'm on here on the computer, reading, he's next to me.
I love guys with big egos. I'm literally like you. I like clinging to people I adore and get so ridiculously sad when they're not near.
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omg you are my twin. lol
me too. I eat up that EGO. nom nom...nom...
Exalted suns, Dignifed suns are the best. I think Scorpio sun is dignified.
my ego isn't very strong, and it's worse with pisces and moon 12th house. smh.
Posted by P6X58DEi agree. i get anxiety and insecure in a lot of cases but in many cases i'm not.Posted by SeraphlightEveryone has anxiety and insecurity, no one is truly free of that because they would not be human if it were true.
I have ferocious anxiety.
I am not a very strong person ..and I think secure people are strong generally.
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so it's weird. it's hard to explain.
Posted by Seraphlightlol oh no you don't look bad at all, but we have photos of ourselves in bad and good lighting. 😄Posted by lisabethur8I didn't really think about that.Posted by SeraphlightlolPosted by lisabethur8Oh I am so sorry 😢Posted by SeraphlightEven if you show your photos to the public in not a very good light.
I am quite fragile.
that came out bad. 😛 😆
no you've shown your photos in every angle, so you're a very very SECURE person...
that might be your Leo venus. because it shows.
Perhaps ..but if someone is to say a bad thing ..i feel it deeply..
It makes me retreat.
Maybe you are correct about leo venus though 😛click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Jupiter Gemini in the house!!! 😛
I'm generally a very secure confident person and I am certainly comfortable within myself. I am my own best friend and my Taurus is my next best friend hehe!
Posted by lisabethur8by reading those bold statements Lisa, I'd have to say I'm very secure. and they all fit me too a tee. I don't give two f**ks about nothing and nobody but myself when its all said and done.
be honest with yourself,
do you feel you are insecure in relationships??
http://geniustypes.com/signs_of_insecurity/#.WKhjkekU9Yd
Signs of Insecurity
One of the greatest challenges we face in our lifetimes is becoming comfortable in our own skin. A person who is secure with himself is much more likely to achieve success, have meaningful relationships, and be respected by others.
A person who is insecure finds difficulty in many aspects of life. Since most people are insecure, a person who is secure has power and influence over others; even if they are not otherwise powerful.
Coming to terms with who you are is the first step in obtaining happiness in life. The sooner you realize that happiness is something that you decide internally, and not something that you get from people or posessions; the sooner you will be able to create your own destiny.
A Lifelong Process
Everyone has some form of insecurity. It’s almost impossible to be 100% free of doubt. There have only been a handful of people throughout history who have obtained this level of confidence, and most of them have gone on to be great spiritual leaders. Now, we look up to them as role-models.
Confidence is usually a gradual process. It often comes with age and wisdom (although some people never find it). Those who work on themselves and gain confidence early on will have a much easier time navigating the challenges of life.
Insecurity is Destructive
Even though none of us are perfect; it’s easy to spot those of us who are overly insecure. Extreme insecurity is usually marked by an obsession with gaining the approval of other people. This level of self-doubt is extremely destructive to a person’s life and is often the root of almost all their problems.
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/insecure-people-vs-secure-people.121680/
An insecure person buys things to send out a particular image to other people.
A secure person buys something because he wants it and he doesn’t care what people think about him.
An insecure person cares about what other people say about him and tries so hard to display a certain image.
A secure person believes in himself and he doesn’t need the affirmation of others to make him feel happy.
An insecure person wants a beautiful woman so that he can show her off to other people, because he feels he needs to prove something to others.
A secure person could care less what people think of his woman. He doesn’t care about proving anything to anyone. He goes for the woman because he wants to.
An insecure person tries to act like something he isn’t because he wants to act a certain way to other people. An insecure person works hard to show that he is this certain person in order to get the approval of friends and other people.
A secure person doesn’t act like anybody. He is just himself. He doesn’t care about trying to act like something to impress someone. He is happy with himself and he doesn’t feel the need to prove something to anyone. He is content and confident with himself.
An insecure person feels that he needs to show off or brag to other people to make people like him.
A secure person really could care less about bragging. He lets others do it for him.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100love this
I'm generally a very secure confident person and I am certainly comfortable within myself. I am my own best friend and my Taurus is my next best friend hehe!
I am not old enough... to look like I have money. Lol woman want 50 year old beer belly types with cash.
Or
They want surfer artist types with drug problems or are dealers themselves. This happens every time easy credit and the stock market rallied to the point it has...
As soon as France leaves the Euro it will be all all over... the guys that had no jobs will have to get jobs and not spend all day on the beach or gym... and chasing girls. Also the older men which is where the wealth of the world is stagnant if due to retirement funds will be lost...
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Or
They want surfer artist types with drug problems or are dealers themselves. This happens every time easy credit and the stock market rallied to the point it has...
As soon as France leaves the Euro it will be all all over... the guys that had no jobs will have to get jobs and not spend all day on the beach or gym... and chasing girls. Also the older men which is where the wealth of the world is stagnant if due to retirement funds will be lost...
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Posted by lisabethur8Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by LadyNeptuneI think so too.
I think that the person your with can contribute immensely to the level of insecurity/security you feel.
my husband does make me feel confident.
he's a very confident man, to me.
he has a strong ego, which really helps me because I lack ego with having a 12th house moon.
when i'm not with him, I feel really depressed and sad.
he's with me everyday, even when i'm on here on the computer, reading, he's next to me.
I love guys with big egos. I'm literally like you. I like clinging to people I adore and get so ridiculously sad when they're not near.
omg you are my twin. lol
me too. I eat up that EGO. nom nom...nom...
Exalted suns, Dignifed suns are the best. I think Scorpio sun is dignified.
my ego isn't very strong, and it's worse with pisces and moon 12th house. smh.
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Mmm yes. Lol I love fixed sign guys for that very reason.
I have some Leo in me which helps my ego but I also have lots of hard aspects to it that can make me equally shy and quiet. I have a 12th house north node which basically calls me a life long loner 😭
Posted by SassyKiwiwhat you crying for? that's a good thing the way I see it. the right ones comes to us when the time is right.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by LadyNeptuneI think so too.
I think that the person your with can contribute immensely to the level of insecurity/security you feel.
my husband does make me feel confident.
he's a very confident man, to me.
he has a strong ego, which really helps me because I lack ego with having a 12th house moon.
when i'm not with him, I feel really depressed and sad.
he's with me everyday, even when i'm on here on the computer, reading, he's next to me.
I love guys with big egos. I'm literally like you. I like clinging to people I adore and get so ridiculously sad when they're not near.
omg you are my twin. lol
me too. I eat up that EGO. nom nom...nom...
Exalted suns, Dignifed suns are the best. I think Scorpio sun is dignified.
my ego isn't very strong, and it's worse with pisces and moon 12th house. smh.
Mmm yes. Lol I love fixed sign guys for that very reason.
I have some Leo in me which helps my ego but I also have lots of hard aspects to it that can make me equally shy and quiet. I have a 12th house north node which basically calls me a life long loner 😭
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Posted by PanelaPosted by SassyKiwiwhat you crying for? that's a good thing the way I see it. the right ones comes to us when the time is right.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by lisabethur8Posted by LadyNeptuneI think so too.
I think that the person your with can contribute immensely to the level of insecurity/security you feel.
my husband does make me feel confident.
he's a very confident man, to me.
he has a strong ego, which really helps me because I lack ego with having a 12th house moon.
when i'm not with him, I feel really depressed and sad.
he's with me everyday, even when i'm on here on the computer, reading, he's next to me.
I love guys with big egos. I'm literally like you. I like clinging to people I adore and get so ridiculously sad when they're not near.
omg you are my twin. lol
me too. I eat up that EGO. nom nom...nom...
Exalted suns, Dignifed suns are the best. I think Scorpio sun is dignified.
my ego isn't very strong, and it's worse with pisces and moon 12th house. smh.
Mmm yes. Lol I love fixed sign guys for that very reason.
I have some Leo in me which helps my ego but I also have lots of hard aspects to it that can make me equally shy and quiet. I have a 12th house north node which basically calls me a life long loner 😭
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I completely agree. I cry because it's all frustrating. Feelings are frustrating. My loner nature thinks feelings are some form of infection and tries to fight them off white blood cell style
Posted by LadyNeptune
I think that the person your with can contribute immensely to the level of insecurity/security you feel.
100%
Posted by -Flo-A word of advice (as far as the bolded part goes): don't expect things to be any different with this approach... Whether you search for someone or they're placed in your life (when you least expect) - the results can be the same. That, doesn't change anything (i'm saying this - as someone who's familiar only with this approach / i never searched for someone, like... never / the right peps were always placed in my path). It's still up to you (what people you attract and how things will workout). I mean, it's not enough to be capable at running your own boat (enjoying life while being single), even with a compatible partner - you'll still have to learn how to do things efficiently as a team (so called teamwork : ). You'll still have to pick up from where you left off (the last time...). Basically, how things will go - it depends on what you've learned so far (how much you've matured in terms of relationships).
Now that I'm single and have removed myself from toxic relationships. I'm more secure than ever, I'm going through an emotional healing process and I like where it's heading because I'm opening my heart towards new friends, opportunities, and life changes.
I just created a thread explaining how I'm happy with my body; flaws and all regardless of becoming older. I don't care to feed into negativity, I'm a lot more forgiving, I'm seeking peace within myself, and accepting what makes me feel good. So far this new year has been amazing. I'm definitely growing emotionally and mentally, this is exactly where I needed to be. It's only getting better and I'm excited..
I'm no longer searching for someone, I'm will wait til he's placed in my life because when that happens it will be the right time and when I least expect it.
I have surrounded myself with beautiful new hobbies and loving people who genuinely care about me. That's a lot to say for such an introverted person but I had to open up and let people love me. It was the only way I could learn to trust and finally let go. Focusing on my Education has also been a huge step for me to accomplish, so I'm heading in the right direction.
There's no way around this (for anyone). Those who didn't learn much - end-up repeating the same mistakes - until they get to learn their lesson (some never do and struggle all their lives - feeling miserable in their relationships / feeling cursed or something like that). The thing is... there's no perfect partner. We're all flawed by design (we're all different and lacking in one way or the other), thus, beyond love... it still takes a lot of work, dedication and last but not least - compromises (same as with anything else : ).
Just... my two cents.
Posted by Seraphlightwell we all knows he's insecure. it shows all over these boards.
Guys i don't think there is anyone on here who SHOULD be insecure ...except DonJon..who is a troll account anyways.
Posted by -Flo-I've done this and in the last 8mths I've come a long way.
Now that I'm single and have removed myself from toxic relationships. I'm more secure than ever, I'm going through an emotional healing process and I like where it's heading because I'm opening my heart towards new friends, opportunities, and life changes.
I just created a thread explaining how I'm happy with my body; flaws and all regardless of becoming older. I don't care to feed into negativity, I'm a lot more forgiving, I'm seeking peace within myself, and accepting what makes me feel good. So far this new year has been amazing. I'm definitely growing emotionally and mentally, this is exactly where I needed to be. It's only getting better and I'm excited..
I'm no longer searching for someone, I'm will wait til he's placed in my life because when that happens it will be the right time and when I least expect it.
I have surrounded myself with beautiful new hobbies and loving people who genuinely care about me. That's a lot to say for such an introverted person but I had to open up and let people love me. It was the only way I could learn to trust and finally let go. Focusing on my Education has also been a huge step for me to accomplish, so I'm heading in the right direction.
It makes a huge difference to the way you are around other negative people, when you've got your own shit together.
I've now got the "not my circus, not my monkeys" attitude and stay away from emotional leeches.
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXWHY?!? ?
Thuper duper inthecure.
You're a beautiful young woman, with some strong opinions and what seems like good morals and a strong personality!
Stay strong and beautiful and don't let anyone bring you down!
Very insecure but I don't do a lot of things on that list as many of them are more extroverted exhibitions of insecurity. My insecurity manifests in different ways.
Eh, 99% of the time I am secure. But the other 1% of the time is because my bestfriend is in the most toxic relationship. This causes her to question everything, since he cheated. In turn, she will start saying stuff when I say something about my current relationship that gets me all nuts cause she has been drilling whatever negative thing it is, down my throat for days.
Drives me nuts.
Drives me nuts.
Posted by piscesmoon2you sound jealous of these guys who laze around all day at the beach. lol
I am not old enough... to look like I have money. Lol woman want 50 year old beer belly types with cash.
Or
They want surfer artist types with drug problems or are dealers themselves. This happens every time easy credit and the stock market rallied to the point it has...
As soon as France leaves the Euro it will be all all over... the guys that had no jobs will have to get jobs and not spend all day on the beach or gym... and chasing girls. Also the older men which is where the wealth of the world is stagnant if due to retirement funds will be lost...
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Posted by cvurkono you weren't off topic, that's right, I meant romantic. and I agree.Posted by lisabethur8I thiught you were asking abiut romantic relationships obly and i was wondering where my insecurities lie. Im not into a relationship atm, i just know dishonrsty bugs me when im with smb. Sorry if i was off-topicPosted by cvurkois that why you have difficulty in relationships?
In general im pretty laid back, but if i sense the person is lying to me about important (for me) stuff i get worried. Honesty is pretty important to me. Im quite tolerant to not opening up entirely, i understand how some people find it difficult. But lies, i just dont understand why would you lie to your partner.
Probably that shows i have insecurities in that aspect.
I don't understand...are you with someone right now?
I was posing this question due to relationships with people, and deeper relationships.click to expand
Posted by Seraphlightohh I see. you want them to see you a certain way then.
It manifests in the way I see myself. And the way I think others feel or should feel about me. It manifests in the way I think they should think of me.
My opinion of me.
I am working on this though. I have come a long way.
Posted by -elle-good you got rid of toxicity.
99% of the time I am not....
However, I have had some toxic people in my life that go out of their way to project their insecurities on me and I have been not paying close enough attention and end up carrying them around for them.
#12thHouseLyfeWithA6thHouseMoon
I am much more careful these days. If I start feeling it.....then I stop, drop and roll to see who might be new in my environment.
Posted by nikkistarit seems, right now that's the focus of your help, helping your best friend so it encompasses your well-being.
Eh, 99% of the time I am secure. But the other 1% of the time is because my bestfriend is in the most toxic relationship. This causes her to question everything, since he cheated. In turn, she will start saying stuff when I say something about my current relationship that gets me all nuts cause she has been drilling whatever negative thing it is, down my throat for days.
Drives me nuts.
to keep her safe, so you're kind of mothering her.
and she always goes to you for help right?
you're a very good friend to her.
Posted by lisabethur8Yea, I mother her. I admit it. If I am not there to let her view things more logically and reasonably, she will make these rash decisions without looking at it logically. She's also really needy right now, because of everything, and although I hate it, it's what she needs so I will do it.Posted by nikkistarit seems, right now that's the focus of your help, helping your best friend so it encompasses your well-being.
Eh, 99% of the time I am secure. But the other 1% of the time is because my bestfriend is in the most toxic relationship. This causes her to question everything, since he cheated. In turn, she will start saying stuff when I say something about my current relationship that gets me all nuts cause she has been drilling whatever negative thing it is, down my throat for days.
Drives me nuts.
to keep her safe, so you're kind of mothering her.
and she always goes to you for help right?
you're a very good friend to her.click to expand
I love that girl, and I tell her it. One of the VERY few people I have ever said that to.
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXYou're welcome ?Posted by MadMarchRamlol I was joking around, but thank you very much for your kind words. 🙂Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXWHY?!? ?
Thuper duper inthecure.
You're a beautiful young woman, with some strong opinions and what seems like good morals and a strong personality!
Stay strong and beautiful and don't let anyone bring you down!
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do you feel you are insecure in relationships??
http://geniustypes.com/signs_of_insecurity/#.WKhjkekU9Yd
Signs of Insecurity
One of the greatest challenges we face in our lifetimes is becoming comfortable in our own skin. A person who is secure with himself is much more likely to achieve success, have meaningful relationships, and be respected by others.
A person who is insecure finds difficulty in many aspects of life. Since most people are insecure, a person who is secure has power and influence over others; even if they are not otherwise powerful.
Coming to terms with who you are is the first step in obtaining happiness in life. The sooner you realize that happiness is something that you decide internally, and not something that you get from people or posessions; the sooner you will be able to create your own destiny.
A Lifelong Process
Everyone has some form of insecurity. It’s almost impossible to be 100% free of doubt. There have only been a handful of people throughout history who have obtained this level of confidence, and most of them have gone on to be great spiritual leaders. Now, we look up to them as role-models.
Confidence is usually a gradual process. It often comes with age and wisdom (although some people never find it). Those who work on themselves and gain confidence early on will have a much easier time navigating the challenges of life.
Insecurity is Destructive
Even though none of us are perfect; it’s easy to spot those of us who are overly insecure. Extreme insecurity is usually marked by an obsession with gaining the approval of other people. This level of self-doubt is extremely destructive to a person’s life and is often the root of almost all their problems.
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An insecure person buys things to send out a particular image to other people.
A secure person buys something because he wants it and he doesn’t care what people think about him.
An insecure person cares about what other people say about him and tries so hard to display a certain image.
A secure person believes in himself and he doesn’t need the affirmation of others to make him feel happy.
An insecure person wants a beautiful woman so that he can show her off to other people, because he feels he needs to prove something to others.
A secure person could care less what people think of his woman. He doesn’t care about proving anything to anyone. He goes for the woman because he wants to.
An insecure person tries to act like something he isn’t because he wants to act a certain way to other people. An insecure person works hard to show that he is this certain person in order to get the approval of friends and other people.
A secure person doesn’t act like anybody. He is just himself. He doesn’t care about trying to act like something to impress someone. He is happy with himself and he doesn’t feel the need to prove something to anyone. He is content and confident with himself.
An insecure person feels that he needs to show off or brag to other people to make people like him.
A secure person really could care less about bragging. He lets others do it for him.