My boyfriend expects me to cook even when we fight (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Rainbow87 on Thursday, July 11, 2019 and has 68 replies.

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@aquarius09
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Posted by Silverado

I cook regardless of arguing or not. My love extends beyond my temporary pettiness.

Oh really now? Have you ever been told rude and downright mean things when you argue with your S/o? It may be temporary pettiness but words of people kill and hold the capacity to destroy a relationship.

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Date a Scorpio, they expect you to fight and then fuck them.

Unless they have a Taurus moon, then

Food, fight, fuck.....

Or as I call it a good night in.

Depends on who with and how tasty the food is.

It won't just be the food I'm eating.

.....your words if you're not careful

When has an Aires ever backed down?

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I've witnessed two doing so.....

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Posted by alexscaries

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by alexscaries

Date a Scorpio, they expect you to fight and then fuck them.

Unless they have a Taurus moon, then

Food, fight, fuck.....

Or as I call it a good night in.

Depends on who with and how tasty the food is.

It won't just be the food I'm eating.

.....your words if you're not careful

When has an Aires ever backed down?

I've witnessed two doing so.....

I also misspelt Aries all credibility is shattered.

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.....welll I didn't want to say, but i smiled when I saw that 🙂

I love irony, do you? 😛

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Posted by alexscaries

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Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by alexscaries

Date a Scorpio, they expect you to fight and then fuck them.

Unless they have a Taurus moon, then

Food, fight, fuck.....

Or as I call it a good night in.

Depends on who with and how tasty the food is.

It won't just be the food I'm eating.

.....your words if you're not careful

When has an Aires ever backed down?

I've witnessed two doing so.....

I also misspelt Aries all credibility is shattered.

.....welll I didn't want to say, but i smiled when I saw that 🙂

I love irony, do you? 😛

I also love witty banter masquerading as a heated debate.

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Me too........I had to learn this quickly with an Aries father ... it used to piss him off that i often got the last word lol..

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@aquarius09
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Posted by Silverado

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Posted by Silverado

I cook regardless of arguing or not. My love extends beyond my temporary pettiness.

Oh really now? Have you ever been told rude and downright mean things when you argue with your S/o? It may be temporary pettiness but words of people kill and hold the capacity to destroy a relationship.

Yes, when I was with the Cancer woman we fought like cats and dogs. No matter how ugly we got with each other, life moved on regardless. If it was my turn to cook I cooked and I still did it with love.

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That’s admirable when you take your responsibilities seriously. What are your placements?

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i dunno if it was me... if my SO is generally amazing and didn't screw up big time i'd still cook and be like "food is on the stove but jut so you know it wasn't made with love!" haha

To me food and eating is....sacred...is that weird?? Like i think it's the most mean thing to eat and not offer food to someone else too.

If the argumetns turned me off so much and I'm the one who nromaly cooks and i no longer feel like tid, I'd say hey im not in the mood to cook so I'll be ordering food, do you want anything?

ahhhh like i know that sounds bit doormat but i just can't imagine getting myself something to eat without inviting someone else to eat too. Something about knowing poverty or some deep psychological thing.

I mainly agree with LF, what is your dynamic like... because to me a strong relationship and love is to look out after each other despite arguments. But it sounds like you're kind of unhappy overall...not sure.

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Posted by stillstillwater

i dunno if it was me... if my SO is generally amazing and didn't screw up big time i'd still cook and be like "food is on the stove but jut so you know it wasn't made with love!" haha

To me food and eating is....sacred...is that weird?? Like i think it's the most mean thing to eat and not offer food to someone else too.

If the argumetns turned me off so much and I'm the one who nromaly cooks and i no longer feel like tid, I'd say hey im not in the mood to cook so I'll be ordering food, do you want anything?

ahhhh like i know that sounds bit doormat but i just can't imagine getting myself something to eat without inviting someone else to eat too. Something about knowing poverty or some deep psychological thing.

I mainly agree with LF, what is your dynamic like... because to me a strong relationship and love is to look out after each other despite arguments. But it sounds like you're kind of unhappy overall...not sure.

food is on the stove but jut so you know it wasn't made with love!" Lol it's okay I'll add the love to it later 😁

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Posted by Rainbow87

Well he got more mad and told me that I'm expected to cook as soon as we get home from work because he's hungry as hell.

So it doesn't matter if he starts a fight, I still have to feed him.

"Expect" ..

"Feed him" ..

Ick. 😳

He's not your child, he's an independent grown ass man.

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@Soul
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Thats fucked up imo. I would never expect a woman to cook. If she didn't want to cook I would do it for her. I feel people should equally share the responsibility of cooking, claning, and making the home life as stable and functioning as possible. Or better yet, just do the cooking and cleaning together. Even if its simply washing the dishes after the other cooks.

Even being a stubborn man, he should at least be self-sufficient enough to make himself something to eat if he's that hardheaded to act that way in a fight. Who tf sits there hungry because their lover wouldn't make them food? Get up and get your own damn food. I find it hard to consider someone a man who can't even cook a meal, and expect a lover to do that type of stuff for them. It should be a group effort if anything.

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a much better spin-off by Nikki 🙂

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/my-bestfriend-scorpio-expects-me-to-videotape-his-cat-even-when-we-fight-12819310/?p=2

hilarious

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Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by stillstillwater

i dunno if it was me... if my SO is generally amazing and didn't screw up big time i'd still cook and be like "food is on the stove but jut so you know it wasn't made with love!" haha

To me food and eating is....sacred...is that weird?? Like i think it's the most mean thing to eat and not offer food to someone else too.

If the argumetns turned me off so much and I'm the one who nromaly cooks and i no longer feel like tid, I'd say hey im not in the mood to cook so I'll be ordering food, do you want anything?

ahhhh like i know that sounds bit doormat but i just can't imagine getting myself something to eat without inviting someone else to eat too. Something about knowing poverty or some deep psychological thing.

I mainly agree with LF, what is your dynamic like... because to me a strong relationship and love is to look out after each other despite arguments. But it sounds like you're kind of unhappy overall...not sure.

food is on the stove but jut so you know it wasn't made with love!" Lol it's okay I'll add the love to it later 😁

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smartass 😛

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Posted by stillstillwater

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i dunno if it was me... if my SO is generally amazing and didn't screw up big time i'd still cook and be like "food is on the stove but jut so you know it wasn't made with love!" haha

To me food and eating is....sacred...is that weird?? Like i think it's the most mean thing to eat and not offer food to someone else too.

If the argumetns turned me off so much and I'm the one who nromaly cooks and i no longer feel like tid, I'd say hey im not in the mood to cook so I'll be ordering food, do you want anything?

ahhhh like i know that sounds bit doormat but i just can't imagine getting myself something to eat without inviting someone else to eat too. Something about knowing poverty or some deep psychological thing.

I mainly agree with LF, what is your dynamic like... because to me a strong relationship and love is to look out after each other despite arguments. But it sounds like you're kind of unhappy overall...not sure.

food is on the stove but jut so you know it wasn't made with love!" Lol it's okay I'll add the love to it later 😁

smartass 😛

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