He’s an ex so who cares right? That’s what I tell myself. Except this was going on even before we broke up. Before my ex and I were officially dating we knew each other for years. One day my sister mentioned that she saw this guy that she found really attractive. The way she was describing him was as if she wanted to sleep with him. She said his name and I didn’t really think to say anything because at that time he and I would flirt heavily but we never really created anything solid. Fast forward to the year we become official and she meets him for the first time at a museum exhibit. He’s also there with his friends. Instead of walking with me, she decides to follow him around. He mentions how awkward it is and I tell him that she has a crush on him. It’s obvious. Well last week he called to talk to me about some money he owed me (we had a business together) and she literally snatched the phone from me and proceeds to try to engage in playful banter. My ex becomes noticeably annoyed and asks her to stop and give me the phone. She catches an attitude with me saying “ well I won’t disrupt your little relationship anymore. I hate him anyway” she storms out of the house and we haven’t spoke since. I don’t ever think I really need advice. Overall I’ve just noticed that she tends to seek out attention from men im dating. This is the worst I’ve ever seen. My ex is a Scorpio ( he radiates sexual energy), he’s extremely well off (she’s a bit of a gold digger), and he’s extremely attractive. If he wasn’t a cheater I’d still be with his hoe ass. I also noticed that it’s not just specific to her. A lot of my female friends try to flirt with guys I have been involved with. Do I have to say “bitch calm the fuck down b4 I beat ya ass”? Do the men need to be more clear that they’re not interested? I mean wtf do u do
