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Posted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.click to expand
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't I good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by Centaur12Posted by Clumsy_Wumsy
Wait a second. I think I remember you from years ago. Aren't you with the Gem since back then? Is this the same Gem you talking about right now?
I don't know man. It's hard to believe that this came from a Sag 🤭🤭...or perhaps, you enjoyed the chase which is why you allowed whatever she's doing to you, no?
If it's for real, please leave the Gem and block her for good. Stop letting her in (problem with Sags, lol) and be gone totally. As for the Aries, move slow and don't use her as a replacement. I did that mistake before and it didn't help me heal at all. It was until I value me and learn how to survive alone that I met my wonderful husband who taught me what real love is all about. I thank his Sag mom for making him who he is.
Come on Saggie, you can do better. I'm a Gem, myself. I thought I would ask. What's your Gem's placement look like by the way? 😈😈
This is for real and I am a Sag I know it's hard believe hence why I said I have lost myself.
Gems placements are :
Sun - Gem
Moon - Virgo
Mercury - Gem
Venus - Gem
Mars - Aries
I am starting to also, question myself was I part of the problem as well and maybe some of this the way she treated me is what I deserved because my head was up in the clouds.
👀👀
Is it just me or that I feel it is bad to have mutable sun and moon? It's as if they cant really make up their mind but I don't really know astrology that much so..haha!
Another question, is this the same Gem from many years ago when you first came on dxp to ask questions on Gemini's board?click to expand
Same Gem
Same Problems
Same Cycle
I said to myself, that I would not comment on anymore of your posts, but this is obviously a cry for help. You are losing yourself and your confidence, because you are dealing with an energy vampire.(gem). When you are in a functional relationship, your confidence soars. You go through life ready to defeat the world. When you are in a dysfunctional relationship, key elements to your wellbeing becomes missing such as your peace of mind, confidence, happiness, and overall self worth. This gem<-Notice I put a lower case "G" instead of a capital, which shows that she is insignificant to me. Once you regain your power back, she will be as insignificant to you, as she is to me. She is sucking the life out of you which you are handing to her on a silver platter. She doesn't know what to do with you or your love, which you are giving to her abundantly, therefore, she is taking it for granted, because she knows that it is plenty to use at her disposal. You will continue to lose yourself, by keeping this gemini girl in your life.
Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by Centaur12Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by Centaur12Posted by Clumsy_Wumsy
Wait a second. I think I remember you from years ago. Aren't you with the Gem since back then? Is this the same Gem you talking about right now?
I don't know man. It's hard to believe that this came from a Sag 🤭🤭...or perhaps, you enjoyed the chase which is why you allowed whatever she's doing to you, no?
If it's for real, please leave the Gem and block her for good. Stop letting her in (problem with Sags, lol) and be gone totally. As for the Aries, move slow and don't use her as a replacement. I did that mistake before and it didn't help me heal at all. It was until I value me and learn how to survive alone that I met my wonderful husband who taught me what real love is all about. I thank his Sag mom for making him who he is.
Come on Saggie, you can do better. I'm a Gem, myself. I thought I would ask. What's your Gem's placement look like by the way? 😈😈
This is for real and I am a Sag I know it's hard believe hence why I said I have lost myself.
Gems placements are :
Sun - Gem
Moon - Virgo
Mercury - Gem
Venus - Gem
Mars - Aries
I am starting to also, question myself was I part of the problem as well and maybe some of this the way she treated me is what I deserved because my head was up in the clouds.
👀👀
Is it just me or that I feel it is bad to have mutable sun and moon? It's as if they cant really make up their mind but I don't really know astrology that much so..haha!
Another question, is this the same Gem from many years ago when you first came on dxp to ask questions on Gemini's board?
Same Gem
Same Problems
Same Cycle
Mind blowing! That's a VERY long time. I've had the same shit with my ex Sag. They both should meet. LOL!
Just do yourself a favour. Please walk away and block her ass totally!click to expand
It would be 2 years this December to be exact.
Yes, along time lol maybe they should be interesting to see who comes out on top.
Posted by Easha23000us
I said to myself, that I would not comment on anymore of your posts, but this is obviously a cry for help. You are losing yourself and your confidence, because you are dealing with an energy vampire.(gem). When you are in a functional relationship, your confidence soars. You go through life ready to defeat the world. When you are in a dysfunctional relationship, key elements to your wellbeing becomes missing such as your peace of mind, confidence, happiness, and overall self worth. This gem<-Notice I put a lower case "G" instead of a capital, which shows that she is insignificant to me. Once you regain your power back, she will be as insignificant to you, as she is to me. She is sucking the life out of you which you are handing to her on a silver platter. She doesn't know what to do with you or your love, which you are giving to her abundantly, therefore, she is taking it for granted, because she knows that it is plenty to use at her disposal. You will continue to lose yourself, by keeping this gemini girl in your life.
Yes, I do agree but I can't help feeling like I could of handled things better and maybe I deserve some of this
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with youclick to expand
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
The way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset me outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless and things become easier to deal with as time goes on.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
I shouldn't be questioning all the time if she is coming or going no one should have to feel that way about there partner.
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with you
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
They way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
Geminis say one thing one day and they believe it and they say the opposite the next day and they believe that too
Only way to pin a Gem down is to be firm and stable and live your own life enough to where the Gem realises that you're worth giving up her "freedom" for. If you let her run you around then she will and you'll never get commitment from her
I don't think you're capable of it, honestly, you're too weak with herclick to expand
I am capable now I have realised there are other people out there and the sun doesn't shine out of her ass and that I do have worth!! So I guess the first step to showing that is to leave her the hell alone and tell her ass No if she tries to contact me !!
Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by Centaur12Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by Centaur12Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by Centaur12Posted by Clumsy_Wumsy
Wait a second. I think I remember you from years ago. Aren't you with the Gem since back then? Is this the same Gem you talking about right now?
I don't know man. It's hard to believe that this came from a Sag 🤭🤭...or perhaps, you enjoyed the chase which is why you allowed whatever she's doing to you, no?
If it's for real, please leave the Gem and block her for good. Stop letting her in (problem with Sags, lol) and be gone totally. As for the Aries, move slow and don't use her as a replacement. I did that mistake before and it didn't help me heal at all. It was until I value me and learn how to survive alone that I met my wonderful husband who taught me what real love is all about. I thank his Sag mom for making him who he is.
Come on Saggie, you can do better. I'm a Gem, myself. I thought I would ask. What's your Gem's placement look like by the way? 😈😈
This is for real and I am a Sag I know it's hard believe hence why I said I have lost myself.
Gems placements are :
Sun - Gem
Moon - Virgo
Mercury - Gem
Venus - Gem
Mars - Aries
I am starting to also, question myself was I part of the problem as well and maybe some of this the way she treated me is what I deserved because my head was up in the clouds.
👀👀
Is it just me or that I feel it is bad to have mutable sun and moon? It's as if they cant really make up their mind but I don't really know astrology that much so..haha!
Another question, is this the same Gem from many years ago when you first came on dxp to ask questions on Gemini's board?
Same Gem
Same Problems
Same Cycle
Mind blowing! That's a VERY long time. I've had the same shit with my ex Sag. They both should meet. LOL!
Just do yourself a favour. Please walk away and block her ass totally!
It would be 2 years this December to be exact.
Yes, along time lol maybe they should be interesting to see who comes out on top.
LMAO! I bet both wants to be the winner. I think they both be proud of their own actions.click to expand
Yep disgusting really 😑
Posted by Centaur12Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Centaur12
The Aries Chart is
Sun - Aries
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Aries RX
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
My Chart is
Sun - Sag
Moon - Aqua
Mercury - Sag RX
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn - Aqua
Go for the Aries!! Stop being friends with the Gemini.. she only cares about herself.
Omg you are Sag aqua like me. Maybe you should go read my thread I hate my aqua moon 😂😂😂😂 I’m also aqua Saturn but none of the other placements you have.
It’s very difficult for us to let go once in love but very important. It is also extremely important you love yourself first. When you always put others first, you get walked on. I was with an Aries sun/Gemini venus ( but cap moon) for 20 years. Believe me it’s a great match. Please walk that way.
Her Saturn is also, Aquarius
Her Jupiter is Leo
But yes, you are correct it is very hard for us to let go once we are in love properly.
The reason I say properly is because I have to be really invested but once I am I will give my heart and soul to that person everything and let myself be treated like dirt and What I find with myself in the past is I have been in relationships where I thought I was in love with someone but really I was not.
I have to feel alive and excited like there's something to catch or chase or going on in order to fuel my interest it sounds bad but I mean it in a good way or maybe I look to much for happiness in someone else rather than within.
Like if the Gem cut out the bullshit then we could live a really good life together as she tells me what she wants is a family unit and to be married etc we have the same goals.
No idea what's the matter with me sometimes but I really fell in love with the Gem.click to expand
You have to love yourself enough not to put up with being treated like that. The thing is the Gem is like she is, there is no point hoping it changes. It is what it is, and you need to accept that. I know it’s hard. I think with Saggies sometimes we get excited and it’s easy to follow the excitement but that’s not love. Love is what happens long term. It just sounds like Aries is more thinking about you & reasonable. It’s a good start, but who knows about the rest of it. For me the combo was good, but I guess cap venus/cap mars & my ex was Aries mars too. I like the fire 🙂 The Air suns not nearly as much.
Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with you
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
They way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
Geminis say one thing one day and they believe it and they say the opposite the next day and they believe that too
Only way to pin a Gem down is to be firm and stable and live your own life enough to where the Gem realises that you're worth giving up her "freedom" for. If you let her run you around then she will and you'll never get commitment from her
I don't think you're capable of it, honestly, you're too weak with her
I am capable now I have realised there are other people out there and the sun doesn't shine out of her ass and that I do have worth!! So I guess the first step to showing that is to leave her the hell alone and tell her ass No if she tries to contact me !!
I would have block her ass, delete her number and focus on something else, if I were you. You may say you will tell her no, right now but once she comes back and talk you out of it, you probably be back kissing her ass again.
Value yourself and JUST BLOCK HER.click to expand
Here is how I know I am starting to wise up to it all.
She messaged me on Saturday two weeks ago when we was both kid free at 2 am in the morning and we haven't talked for a week before that saying why do I always think of you when I have had a drink and then asked me to meet her at her house and have food and told her no I am not going to bother and then I get a phone call from her again at 7am laughing saying can you bring me some water in bed please just wondered 😊 smiling on the phone and I said no I can't sorry and then she said we are going out for food today do yoy fancy dinner together and kept putting it on me and I gave in and went with her but to now realise that it was a mistake ad again we aren't speaking and haven't been since Friday last week.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with you
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
They way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
Geminis say one thing one day and they believe it and they say the opposite the next day and they believe that too
Only way to pin a Gem down is to be firm and stable and live your own life enough to where the Gem realises that you're worth giving up her "freedom" for. If you let her run you around then she will and you'll never get commitment from her
I don't think you're capable of it, honestly, you're too weak with her
I am capable now I have realised there are other people out there and the sun doesn't shine out of her ass and that I do have worth!! So I guess the first step to showing that is to leave her the hell alone and tell her ass No if she tries to contact me !!
I would have block her ass, delete her number and focus on something else, if I were you. You may say you will tell her no, right now but once she comes back and talk you out of it, you probably be back kissing her ass again.
Value yourself and JUST BLOCK HER.
Here is how I know I am starting to wise up to it all.
She messaged me on Saturday two weeks ago when we was both kid free at 2 am in the morning and we haven't talked for a week before that saying why do I always think of you when I have had a drink and then asked me to meet her at her house and have food and told her no I am not going to bother and then I get a phone call from her again at 7am laughing saying can you bring me some water in bed please just wondered 😊 smiling on the phone and I said no I can't sorry and then she said we are going out for food today do yoy fancy dinner together and kept putting it on me and I gave in and went with her but to now realise that it was a mistake ad again we aren't speaking and haven't been since Friday last week.click to expand
What is your goal? From what I see here you do not want to get over her, you want to tame her.
Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with you
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
They way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
Geminis say one thing one day and they believe it and they say the opposite the next day and they believe that too
Only way to pin a Gem down is to be firm and stable and live your own life enough to where the Gem realises that you're worth giving up her "freedom" for. If you let her run you around then she will and you'll never get commitment from her
I don't think you're capable of it, honestly, you're too weak with her
I am capable now I have realised there are other people out there and the sun doesn't shine out of her ass and that I do have worth!! So I guess the first step to showing that is to leave her the hell alone and tell her ass No if she tries to contact me !!
I would have block her ass, delete her number and focus on something else, if I were you. You may say you will tell her no, right now but once she comes back and talk you out of it, you probably be back kissing her ass again.
Value yourself and JUST BLOCK HER.
Here is how I know I am starting to wise up to it all.
She messaged me on Saturday two weeks ago when we was both kid free at 2 am in the morning and we haven't talked for a week before that saying why do I always think of you when I have had a drink and then asked me to meet her at her house and have food and told her no I am not going to bother and then I get a phone call from her again at 7am laughing saying can you bring me some water in bed please just wondered 😊 smiling on the phone and I said no I can't sorry and then she said we are going out for food today do yoy fancy dinner together and kept putting it on me and I gave in and went with her but to now realise that it was a mistake ad again we aren't speaking and haven't been since Friday last week.
What is your goal? From what I see here you do not want to get over her, you want to tame her.click to expand
I wouldn't say tame but more comitte to me she keeps me around like we are in a relationship and then when something goes wrong drops me.
She has been saying for months that we are just friends nothing else but still sleeps with me and cuddles into me etc.
I don't want her to give up her independence I just want her to be my partner properly.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with you
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
They way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
Geminis say one thing one day and they believe it and they say the opposite the next day and they believe that too
Only way to pin a Gem down is to be firm and stable and live your own life enough to where the Gem realises that you're worth giving up her "freedom" for. If you let her run you around then she will and you'll never get commitment from her
I don't think you're capable of it, honestly, you're too weak with her
I am capable now I have realised there are other people out there and the sun doesn't shine out of her ass and that I do have worth!! So I guess the first step to showing that is to leave her the hell alone and tell her ass No if she tries to contact me !!
I would have block her ass, delete her number and focus on something else, if I were you. You may say you will tell her no, right now but once she comes back and talk you out of it, you probably be back kissing her ass again.
Value yourself and JUST BLOCK HER.
Here is how I know I am starting to wise up to it all.
She messaged me on Saturday two weeks ago when we was both kid free at 2 am in the morning and we haven't talked for a week before that saying why do I always think of you when I have had a drink and then asked me to meet her at her house and have food and told her no I am not going to bother and then I get a phone call from her again at 7am laughing saying can you bring me some water in bed please just wondered 😊 smiling on the phone and I said no I can't sorry and then she said we are going out for food today do yoy fancy dinner together and kept putting it on me and I gave in and went with her but to now realise that it was a mistake ad again we aren't speaking and haven't been since Friday last week.
What is your goal? From what I see here you do not want to get over her, you want to tame her.
I wouldn't say tame but more comitte to me she keeps me around like we are in a relationship and then when something goes wrong drops me.
She has been saying for months that we are just friends nothing else but still sleeps with me and cuddles into me etc.
I don't want her to give up her independence I just want her to be my partner properly.click to expand
Well, I have been reading your threads, but not sure if I commented. As a fellow air sign: kudos for determination, really.
Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12Posted by UndinePosted by cakePosted by UndinePosted by cake
You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with you
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
They way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
Geminis say one thing one day and they believe it and they say the opposite the next day and they believe that too
Only way to pin a Gem down is to be firm and stable and live your own life enough to where the Gem realises that you're worth giving up her "freedom" for. If you let her run you around then she will and you'll never get commitment from her
I don't think you're capable of it, honestly, you're too weak with her
I am capable now I have realised there are other people out there and the sun doesn't shine out of her ass and that I do have worth!! So I guess the first step to showing that is to leave her the hell alone and tell her ass No if she tries to contact me !!
I would have block her ass, delete her number and focus on something else, if I were you. You may say you will tell her no, right now but once she comes back and talk you out of it, you probably be back kissing her ass again.
Value yourself and JUST BLOCK HER.
Here is how I know I am starting to wise up to it all.
She messaged me on Saturday two weeks ago when we was both kid free at 2 am in the morning and we haven't talked for a week before that saying why do I always think of you when I have had a drink and then asked me to meet her at her house and have food and told her no I am not going to bother and then I get a phone call from her again at 7am laughing saying can you bring me some water in bed please just wondered 😊 smiling on the phone and I said no I can't sorry and then she said we are going out for food today do yoy fancy dinner together and kept putting it on me and I gave in and went with her but to now realise that it was a mistake ad again we aren't speaking and haven't been since Friday last week.
What is your goal? From what I see here you do not want to get over her, you want to tame her.
I wouldn't say tame but more comitte to me she keeps me around like we are in a relationship and then when something goes wrong drops me.
She has been saying for months that we are just friends nothing else but still sleeps with me and cuddles into me etc.
I don't want her to give up her independence I just want her to be my partner properly.
Well, I have been reading your threads, but not sure if I commented. As a fellow air sign: kudos for determination, really.click to expand
Thanks I truly gave my all always do when I really love someone but still in the same cycle.
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You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with you
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
They way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
Geminis say one thing one day and they believe it and they say the opposite the next day and they believe that too
Only way to pin a Gem down is to be firm and stable and live your own life enough to where the Gem realises that you're worth giving up her "freedom" for. If you let her run you around then she will and you'll never get commitment from her
I don't think you're capable of it, honestly, you're too weak with her
I am capable now I have realised there are other people out there and the sun doesn't shine out of her ass and that I do have worth!! So I guess the first step to showing that is to leave her the hell alone and tell her ass No if she tries to contact me !!
I would have block her ass, delete her number and focus on something else, if I were you. You may say you will tell her no, right now but once she comes back and talk you out of it, you probably be back kissing her ass again.
Value yourself and JUST BLOCK HER.
Here is how I know I am starting to wise up to it all.
She messaged me on Saturday two weeks ago when we was both kid free at 2 am in the morning and we haven't talked for a week before that saying why do I always think of you when I have had a drink and then asked me to meet her at her house and have food and told her no I am not going to bother and then I get a phone call from her again at 7am laughing saying can you bring me some water in bed please just wondered 😊 smiling on the phone and I said no I can't sorry and then she said we are going out for food today do yoy fancy dinner together and kept putting it on me and I gave in and went with her but to now realise that it was a mistake ad again we aren't speaking and haven't been since Friday last week.
What is your goal? From what I see here you do not want to get over her, you want to tame her.
I wouldn't say tame but more comitte to me she keeps me around like we are in a relationship and then when something goes wrong drops me.
She has been saying for months that we are just friends nothing else but still sleeps with me and cuddles into me etc.
I don't want her to give up her independence I just want her to be my partner properly.
Well, I have been reading your threads, but not sure if I commented. As a fellow air sign: kudos for determination, really.
Thanks I truly gave my all always do when I really love someone but still in the same cycle.click to expand
And what do you think, you will be successful in your goal to make Gem a proper partner? How much time do you have in mind to accomplish the task?
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You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with you
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
They way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
Geminis say one thing one day and they believe it and they say the opposite the next day and they believe that too
Only way to pin a Gem down is to be firm and stable and live your own life enough to where the Gem realises that you're worth giving up her "freedom" for. If you let her run you around then she will and you'll never get commitment from her
I don't think you're capable of it, honestly, you're too weak with her
I am capable now I have realised there are other people out there and the sun doesn't shine out of her ass and that I do have worth!! So I guess the first step to showing that is to leave her the hell alone and tell her ass No if she tries to contact me !!
I would have block her ass, delete her number and focus on something else, if I were you. You may say you will tell her no, right now but once she comes back and talk you out of it, you probably be back kissing her ass again.
Value yourself and JUST BLOCK HER.
Here is how I know I am starting to wise up to it all.
She messaged me on Saturday two weeks ago when we was both kid free at 2 am in the morning and we haven't talked for a week before that saying why do I always think of you when I have had a drink and then asked me to meet her at her house and have food and told her no I am not going to bother and then I get a phone call from her again at 7am laughing saying can you bring me some water in bed please just wondered 😊 smiling on the phone and I said no I can't sorry and then she said we are going out for food today do yoy fancy dinner together and kept putting it on me and I gave in and went with her but to now realise that it was a mistake ad again we aren't speaking and haven't been since Friday last week.
What is your goal? From what I see here you do not want to get over her, you want to tame her.
I wouldn't say tame but more comitte to me she keeps me around like we are in a relationship and then when something goes wrong drops me.
She has been saying for months that we are just friends nothing else but still sleeps with me and cuddles into me etc.
I don't want her to give up her independence I just want her to be my partner properly.
Well, I have been reading your threads, but not sure if I commented. As a fellow air sign: kudos for determination, really.
Thanks I truly gave my all always do when I really love someone but still in the same cycle.
And what do you think, you will be successful in your goal to make Gem a proper partner? How much time do you have in mind to accomplish the task?click to expand
No idea, I am exhausted.
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You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with you
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
They way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
Geminis say one thing one day and they believe it and they say the opposite the next day and they believe that too
Only way to pin a Gem down is to be firm and stable and live your own life enough to where the Gem realises that you're worth giving up her "freedom" for. If you let her run you around then she will and you'll never get commitment from her
I don't think you're capable of it, honestly, you're too weak with her
I am capable now I have realised there are other people out there and the sun doesn't shine out of her ass and that I do have worth!! So I guess the first step to showing that is to leave her the hell alone and tell her ass No if she tries to contact me !!
I would have block her ass, delete her number and focus on something else, if I were you. You may say you will tell her no, right now but once she comes back and talk you out of it, you probably be back kissing her ass again.
Value yourself and JUST BLOCK HER.
Here is how I know I am starting to wise up to it all.
She messaged me on Saturday two weeks ago when we was both kid free at 2 am in the morning and we haven't talked for a week before that saying why do I always think of you when I have had a drink and then asked me to meet her at her house and have food and told her no I am not going to bother and then I get a phone call from her again at 7am laughing saying can you bring me some water in bed please just wondered 😊 smiling on the phone and I said no I can't sorry and then she said we are going out for food today do yoy fancy dinner together and kept putting it on me and I gave in and went with her but to now realise that it was a mistake ad again we aren't speaking and haven't been since Friday last week.
What is your goal? From what I see here you do not want to get over her, you want to tame her.
I wouldn't say tame but more comitte to me she keeps me around like we are in a relationship and then when something goes wrong drops me.
She has been saying for months that we are just friends nothing else but still sleeps with me and cuddles into me etc.
I don't want her to give up her independence I just want her to be my partner properly.
Well, I have been reading your threads, but not sure if I commented. As a fellow air sign: kudos for determination, really.
Thanks I truly gave my all always do when I really love someone but still in the same cycle.
And what do you think, you will be successful in your goal to make Gem a proper partner? How much time do you have in mind to accomplish the task?
No idea, I am exhausted.click to expand
I want to choke you...Better yet, slap some sense into you. You are extending all of this energy in to some one, and is getting nothing in return. Think of going to work daily, and not being paid for the work that you do...Pointless...👈
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You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur 😄
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with you
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
They way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
Geminis say one thing one day and they believe it and they say the opposite the next day and they believe that too
Only way to pin a Gem down is to be firm and stable and live your own life enough to where the Gem realises that you're worth giving up her "freedom" for. If you let her run you around then she will and you'll never get commitment from her
I don't think you're capable of it, honestly, you're too weak with her
I am capable now I have realised there are other people out there and the sun doesn't shine out of her ass and that I do have worth!! So I guess the first step to showing that is to leave her the hell alone and tell her ass No if she tries to contact me !!click to expand
I told you this before, give her the air treatment! That is the only thing that she will understand. Ghost her.
Posted by MaxianPosted by poppyflower
Cycle:
1. I’ve moved on. I haven’t talked to her since ______.
2. She calls or asks to meet up
3. I’ve made a mistake! (Goes back to step 1)
He's stuck in a time loop. It's a lost cause...
Groundhog Day - Special Editionclick to expand
This actually made me laugh. 😆
Gem came back she was like well you wasn't going to call me was you and I said well I told you what I want so have you made a decision?? She said its the same I said what friends and she said yeah so I said I told you I want a relationship with you nothing else she tried being manipulating but I said I want a relationship with you or nothing and hung up the phone. After she's text saying I have to delete your number because its going to be to tempting to text or call you I guess this time it really is good bye.
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12
Gem came back she was like well you wasn't going to call me was you and I said well I told you what I want so have you made a decision?? She said its the same I said what friends and she said yeah so I said I told you I want a relationship with you nothing else she tried being manipulating but I said I want a relationship with you or nothing and hung up the phone. After she's text saying I have to delete your number because its going to be to tempting to text or call you I guess this time it really is good bye.
She will contact you a hundred more times before it is goodbye lol be ready for itclick to expand
Yeah but I told her I want a relationship with her she told me it's harder for her and I asked her why is it so hard and she ignored the questions a few times there isn't anything hard or stopping us just the fact she loves to have the upper hand and play this stupid game. However, I have had enough of it and have told her to not contact me because I do not want a friendship anymore I believe we have been getting along very well and I want a relationship as this has gone on for way to long now its taking the piss enough is enough.
So I told her straight out and hung up my phone.
It's now in her hands she knows where I'm at if she wants to take me seriously because I won't be contacting her.
Posted by Wizardz_Posted by Centaur12
Gem came back she was like well you wasn't going to call me was you and I said well I told you what I want so have you made a decision?? She said its the same I said what friends and she said yeah so I said I told you I want a relationship with you nothing else she tried being manipulating but I said I want a relationship with you or nothing and hung up the phone. After she's text saying I have to delete your number because its going to be to tempting to text or call you I guess this time it really is good bye.
She will contact you a hundred more times before it is goodbye lol be ready for it
Why would she text you to tell you she's deleting your number and not just delete it. She's hoping you relentclick to expand
Exactly and I know for a fact she's gonna wait it out hoping I will crawl back but because I used to I'm not going to.
Do I love her yes with all my heart
Will I miss her fuck yes like a peace of me is missing
But I cannot let her take the piss anymore this is the only way to break the cycle I should of done it along time ago.
I know her game the deal is up now I want her to be my partner and commit thats all I want.
The Aries told me she's in love with me.
I had her moon wrong it was a Taurus moon Aries sun.
The Aries has still continued to put in big efforts for me she text me saying Hay if you get a package at your place its from me I got you a present.
I was like what? Not expecting that.
She's been traveling to my place and I have also, been traveling to hers she goes 50/50 with me on most things unless I insist but even then she still tries to pay or be fair.
We have been climbing mountains going for food and I have been taking her into the gym with me.
I haven't spoken to the Gem since I told her relationship or nothing at all and as I'm single I have been hanging with the Aries like I said I would.
I am still struggling inside but it's getting easier so just wanted to say thanks to you guys even for the negative advice I have needed it all.
I had her moon wrong it was a Taurus moon Aries sun.
The Aries has still continued to put in big efforts for me she text me saying Hay if you get a package at your place its from me I got you a present.
I was like what? Not expecting that.
She's been traveling to my place and I have also, been traveling to hers she goes 50/50 with me on most things unless I insist but even then she still tries to pay or be fair.
We have been climbing mountains going for food and I have been taking her into the gym with me.
I haven't spoken to the Gem since I told her relationship or nothing at all and as I'm single I have been hanging with the Aries like I said I would.
I am still struggling inside but it's getting easier so just wanted to say thanks to you guys even for the negative advice I have needed it all.
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