Is there a certain amount of time spent in a relationship you feel is appropriate to tell your S/O you love him/her?
The L-word
Yes, after being married for 25 years. At the silver wedding anniversary. Then you know it's real. ?
...some, might wait 50 years (for the golden wedding anniversary). Just to be sure... ?
...some, might wait 50 years (for the golden wedding anniversary). Just to be sure... ?
Oh wait - this is DXP... maybe the L-word stands for "Lubrication/Lube". ?
Posted by tizianiWhich is? 😕Posted by nevesThen I'd have to stick with my original answer.
Oh wait - this is DXP... maybe the L-word stands for "lubrication". ?click to expand
Posted by Keres
Is there a certain amount of time spent in a relationship you feel is appropriate to tell your S/O you love him/her?
Say it when you feel it without expectation that it should be said in return.
When you mean it!
Maybe it's just me, but i don't get it... I don't see the point of this question. 😕
How did you end-up in a relationship? Is this one of those arranged marriages - where you didn't get to chose (your partner was chosen for you)? Did you, just, fall into one (a relationship)? Out of the blue (is this Neptune's doing)?
What's going on here... this just doesn't make any sense. Or, did i end-up in another parallel universe - where relationships happen in reverse (compared to what i'm used to)!? I mean, in the place where i come from - this question would be pointless... if you'e already in a relationship (you can say that word any time you mean it / feel it).
Sorry, i'm just a bit baffled right now... ?
How did you end-up in a relationship? Is this one of those arranged marriages - where you didn't get to chose (your partner was chosen for you)? Did you, just, fall into one (a relationship)? Out of the blue (is this Neptune's doing)?
What's going on here... this just doesn't make any sense. Or, did i end-up in another parallel universe - where relationships happen in reverse (compared to what i'm used to)!? I mean, in the place where i come from - this question would be pointless... if you'e already in a relationship (you can say that word any time you mean it / feel it).
Sorry, i'm just a bit baffled right now... ?
When it feels real, only you will know that. If you have to question yourself or doubt it, then obviously it isn't real
Whether or not it feels real isn't what I question, but the readiness of the S/O to hear it.
If said too early (in one's opinion), one may question the sincerity of the declaration of love.
Even when actions match words, I think it may be unwise to say something with so much meaning too soon, even when it is indeed felt.
If said too early (in one's opinion), one may question the sincerity of the declaration of love.
Even when actions match words, I think it may be unwise to say something with so much meaning too soon, even when it is indeed felt.
Posted by Kereslol!
Is there a certain amount of time spent in a relationship you feel is appropriate to tell your S/O you love him/her?
It is THE stupidest
EVER
POst ever made!
Thanks.
We have achieved perfect stupidity!
Wow dxpnet!!!
Give op some...thing....
Maybe a few months. Depends heavily on how we feel
Posted by GemitatiWhile you're certainly entitled to your opinion, I have to disagree. I have seen numerous topics far, FAR less intelligent than mine. This is also not an uncommon question to be asked, based on the research I've done. While professionals offer great information on the subject, I was interested to find what everyday people's opinions on the subject are. I appreciate the feedback from those who've tried to be helpful, but I see you're more interested in simply being rude to a complete stranger. I'll show you the respect you didn't show me, though, and wish you a good day.Posted by Kereslol!
Is there a certain amount of time spent in a relationship you feel is appropriate to tell your S/O you love him/her?
It is THE stupidest
EVER
POst ever made!
Thanks.
We have achieved perfect stupidity!
Wow dxpnet!!!
Give op some...thing....click to expand
Posted by LilianniI believe you're the only one to give me an opinion with an actual time frame. Thank you very much for your input.
Maybe a few months. Depends heavily on how we feel
🙂
it takes me a very long time to figure out how I feel about a person. sometimes I don't know I love the person until months after I broke up with him. shrugs.
I think I never said I love you to at least half of my exes.
Posted by KeresSo you think I M as rude to my relatives?Posted by GemitatiWhile you're certainly entitled to your opinion, I have to disagree. I have seen numerous topics far, FAR less intelligent than mine. This is also not an uncommon question to be asked, based on the research I've done. While professionals offer great information on the subject, I was interested to find what everyday people's opinions on the subject are. I appreciate the feedback from those who've tried to be helpful, but I see you're more interested in simply being rude to a complete stranger. I'll show you the respect you didn't show me, though, and wish you a good day.Posted by Kereslol!
Is there a certain amount of time spent in a relationship you feel is appropriate to tell your S/O you love him/her?
It is THE stupidest
EVER
POst ever made!
Thanks.
We have achieved perfect stupidity!
Wow dxpnet!!!
Give op some...thing....
click to expand
Omg! I would be dead! I am Mafia child!
If I say bad word to parents - there goes my meatballs!!!
Are you kidding me?
...
Posted by KeresSo you think I M as rude to my relatives?Posted by GemitatiWhile you're certainly entitled to your opinion, I have to disagree. I have seen numerous topics far, FAR less intelligent than mine. This is also not an uncommon question to be asked, based on the research I've done. While professionals offer great information on the subject, I was interested to find what everyday people's opinions on the subject are. I appreciate the feedback from those who've tried to be helpful, but I see you're more interested in simply being rude to a complete stranger. I'll show you the respect you didn't show me, though, and wish you a good day.Posted by Kereslol!
Is there a certain amount of time spent in a relationship you feel is appropriate to tell your S/O you love him/her?
It is THE stupidest
EVER
POst ever made!
Thanks.
We have achieved perfect stupidity!
Wow dxpnet!!!
Give op some...thing....
click to expand
Omg! I would be dead! I am Mafia child!
If I say bad word to parents - there goes my meatballs!!!
Are you kidding me?
...
Posted by GemitatiI never said anything about your relatives. It's interesting how someone that found my topic to be so stupid has not only missed my point entirely, but also "put words in my mouth," so-to-speak. I was merely taken aback at your attack on someone you don't know, and who also had never said a cross word to you.Posted by KeresSo you think I M as rude to my relatives?Posted by GemitatiWhile you're certainly entitled to your opinion, I have to disagree. I have seen numerous topics far, FAR less intelligent than mine. This is also not an uncommon question to be asked, based on the research I've done. While professionals offer great information on the subject, I was interested to find what everyday people's opinions on the subject are. I appreciate the feedback from those who've tried to be helpful, but I see you're more interested in simply being rude to a complete stranger. I'll show you the respect you didn't show me, though, and wish you a good day.Posted by Kereslol!
Is there a certain amount of time spent in a relationship you feel is appropriate to tell your S/O you love him/her?
It is THE stupidest
EVER
POst ever made!
Thanks.
We have achieved perfect stupidity!
Wow dxpnet!!!
Give op some...thing....
Omg! I would be dead! I am Mafia child!
If I say bad word to parents - there goes my meatballs!!!
Are you kidding me?
...click to expand
It would be nice if everyone could try to be more respectful to each other.
Posted by Gob_ShiteI'm actually opitomistic when it comes to the marriage statistic. That still is a fu caking (autocorrect and I like it) high number of people making it happen.
Americans and their anally-retentive timescales and status labels, when dating (not that any of it does much good, based on the high divorce rates). LOL!
*smh*
As for my answer to the OP - I say it when I can utter the words and they are truthful. It was short of a month in, I think.
Posted by KeresWHY would I attack people I know—Posted by GemitatiI never said anything about your relatives. It's interesting how someone that found my topic to be so stupid has not only missed my point entirely, but also "put words in my mouth," so-to-speak. I was merely taken aback at your attack on someone you don't know, and who also had never said a cross word to you.Posted by KeresSo you think I M as rude to my relatives?Posted by GemitatiWhile you're certainly entitled to your opinion, I have to disagree. I have seen numerous topics far, FAR less intelligent than mine. This is also not an uncommon question to be asked, based on the research I've done. While professionals offer great information on the subject, I was interested to find what everyday people's opinions on the subject are. I appreciate the feedback from those who've tried to be helpful, but I see you're more interested in simply being rude to a complete stranger. I'll show you the respect you didn't show me, though, and wish you a good day.Posted by Kereslol!
Is there a certain amount of time spent in a relationship you feel is appropriate to tell your S/O you love him/her?
It is THE stupidest
EVER
POst ever made!
Thanks.
We have achieved perfect stupidity!
Wow dxpnet!!!
Give op some...thing....
Omg! I would be dead! I am Mafia child!
If I say bad word to parents - there goes my meatballs!!!
Are you kidding me?
...
It would be nice if everyone could try to be more respectful to each other.click to expand
I would be scared shitkess because they have guns and they know where I live!
Have brains?
Posted by KeresWHY would I attack people I know—Posted by GemitatiI never said anything about your relatives. It's interesting how someone that found my topic to be so stupid has not only missed my point entirely, but also "put words in my mouth," so-to-speak. I was merely taken aback at your attack on someone you don't know, and who also had never said a cross word to you.Posted by KeresSo you think I M as rude to my relatives?Posted by GemitatiWhile you're certainly entitled to your opinion, I have to disagree. I have seen numerous topics far, FAR less intelligent than mine. This is also not an uncommon question to be asked, based on the research I've done. While professionals offer great information on the subject, I was interested to find what everyday people's opinions on the subject are. I appreciate the feedback from those who've tried to be helpful, but I see you're more interested in simply being rude to a complete stranger. I'll show you the respect you didn't show me, though, and wish you a good day.Posted by Kereslol!
Is there a certain amount of time spent in a relationship you feel is appropriate to tell your S/O you love him/her?
It is THE stupidest
EVER
POst ever made!
Thanks.
We have achieved perfect stupidity!
Wow dxpnet!!!
Give op some...thing....
Omg! I would be dead! I am Mafia child!
If I say bad word to parents - there goes my meatballs!!!
Are you kidding me?
...
It would be nice if everyone could try to be more respectful to each other.click to expand
I would be scared shitkess because they have guns and they know where I live!
Have brains?
Posted by KeresHaha, my Virgo can't help itself ?Posted by LilianniI believe you're the only one to give me an opinion with an actual time frame. Thank you very much for your input.
Maybe a few months. Depends heavily on how we feel
🙂click to expand
Posted by Liliannianother stupid post!
Maybe a few months. Depends heavily on how we feel
Is tonight full moon?
You guys like bunch of unemployment freaks who are joining to tell 'L' word to someone so you can still collect welfare but will be able to buy beer...
Wrf?
Posted by TerramineLightvoidSo you just play right ass just bun case?
I'll wait till the other person says it first. But I probably felt that way a long time before.
Cool!
Stupid!!!
Posted by GemitatiWtf you don't make any sense what so ever. You're assumptions don't correlate with the topic whatsoever. Nowhere did I mention having a kid or employment. This bitch can't think straight. No wonder so many people blocked you.Posted by Liliannianother stupid post!
Maybe a few months. Depends heavily on how we feel
Is tonight full moon?
You guys like bunch of unemployment freaks who are joining to tell 'L' word to someone so you can still collect welfare but will be able to buy beer...
Wrf?
click to expand
Posted by KeresLol you're welcome! I'm surprised I was the only one ?lolPosted by LilianniI believe you're the only one to give me an opinion with an actual time frame. Thank you very much for your input.
Maybe a few months. Depends heavily on how we feel
🙂click to expand
Posted by LilianniHow come you aren't the one?Posted by GemitatiWtf you don't make any sense what so ever. You're assumptions don't correlate with the topic whatsoever. Nowhere did I mention having a kid or employment. This bitch can't think straight. No wonder so many people blocked you.Posted by Liliannianother stupid post!
Maybe a few months. Depends heavily on how we feel
Is tonight full moon?
You guys like bunch of unemployment freaks who are joining to tell 'L' word to someone so you can still collect welfare but will be able to buy beer...
Wrf?
click to expand
Posted by TerramineLightvoidIt was a test for you! LolPosted by GemitatiPosted by TerramineLightvoid
I'll wait till the other person says it first. But I probably felt that way a long time before.
So you just play right ass just bun case?
Cool!
Stupid!!!
I did not understand a single word you just said.
click to expand
Posted by GemitatiAsk yourself ?Posted by LilianniHow come you aren't the one?Posted by GemitatiWtf you don't make any sense what so ever. You're assumptions don't correlate with the topic whatsoever. Nowhere did I mention having a kid or employment. This bitch can't think straight. No wonder so many people blocked you.Posted by Liliannianother stupid post!
Maybe a few months. Depends heavily on how we feel
Is tonight full moon?
You guys like bunch of unemployment freaks who are joining to tell 'L' word to someone so you can still collect welfare but will be able to buy beer...
Wrf?
click to expand
Posted by LilianniYou must don't know how to block.Posted by GemitatiAsk yourself ?Posted by LilianniHow come you aren't the one?Posted by GemitatiWtf you don't make any sense what so ever. You're assumptions don't correlate with the topic whatsoever. Nowhere did I mention having a kid or employment. This bitch can't think straight. No wonder so many people blocked you.Posted by Liliannianother stupid post!
Maybe a few months. Depends heavily on how we feel
Is tonight full moon?
You guys like bunch of unemployment freaks who are joining to tell 'L' word to someone so you can still collect welfare but will be able to buy beer...
Wrf?
click to expand
Is it a right answer?
Posted by GemitatiAsk yourself ?Posted by LilianniYou must don't know how to block.Posted by GemitatiAsk yourself ?Posted by LilianniHow come you aren't the one?Posted by GemitatiWtf you don't make any sense what so ever. You're assumptions don't correlate with the topic whatsoever. Nowhere did I mention having a kid or employment. This bitch can't think straight. No wonder so many people blocked you.Posted by Liliannianother stupid post!
Maybe a few months. Depends heavily on how we feel
Is tonight full moon?
You guys like bunch of unemployment freaks who are joining to tell 'L' word to someone so you can still collect welfare but will be able to buy beer...
Wrf?
Is it a right answer?click to expand
Lol. I don't think I'll ever say...
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