Thin Line Between Love & Hate?

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The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. The total lack of feelings. You hate because you love.

Unless a total stranger ran over your cat.
This^. Love is a positive expression of one's infatuation (for lack of a better term). Hate is the negative expression of that infatuation (or obsession). It's just the inverse of the same emotion.
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The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. The total lack of feelings. You hate because you love.

Unless a total stranger ran over your cat.
This^. Love is a positive expression of one's infatuation (for lack of a better term). Hate is the negative expression of that infatuation (or obsession). It's just the inverse of the same emotion.
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I'll tell you what... I know for a fact that I'm probably the only one up in the middle of the night like this worried or hurting I knew that that person didn't feel for me what I felt but I chose to be stupid I chose to be stupid because I relocated to a new state - kind of lonely and I let in somebody that I probably wouldn't have let in if I was still in my hometown so it's been just a week I'm sure that as the weeks passed it will get easier and easier.

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I guess the hatred is coming from feeling so f****** powerless and not being able to do anything to change the situation and just feeling angry about it I guess the anger will pass I just want the anger to pass I don't want to get stuck. I don't want to get stuck with hating somebody for 20 years.

How to stop being stupid for somebody? Change my number? I feel so helpless, the only the I can do is move on....
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The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. The total lack of feelings. You hate because you love.

Unless a total stranger ran over your cat.
This^. Love is a positive expression of one's infatuation (for lack of a better term). Hate is the negative expression of that infatuation (or obsession). It's just the inverse of the same emotion.

I'll tell you what... I know for a fact that I'm probably the only one up in the middle of the night like this worried or hurting I knew that that person didn't feel for me what I felt but I chose to be stupid I chose to be stupid because I relocated to a new state - kind of lonely and I let in somebody that I probably wouldn't have let in if I was still in my hometown so it's been just a week I'm sure that as the weeks passed it will get easier and easier.

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Why did you move?
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The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. The total lack of feelings. You hate because you love.

Unless a total stranger ran over your cat.
Yep, this right here ☝️

And even if you do hate the best revenge is to ignore and act like you don't care. Because at least hate is an emotion and shows some passion. Indifference is cold and hurts much more.