Why would a guy not like ANY pics of a female he’s dating

I’ve been dating this guy and we have been involved for a while... I know this seems trivial but he never likes any of my pics... he’s liked 3 or 4 in all the time we have been involved since december... it really wouldn’t bother me at all but i’ve noticed he likes other girls pics even the same girls over and over... a few times he’s likes my pic then unlikes it soon after.... he is a virgo and they’re definitely a trip. I know he likes me as he’s told me so and i know that’s all that should matter but it’s almost as if he refuses to like my pics. funny thing is a mutual friend posted a meme on fb that said always be your girls biggest fan, and had an image of a guy taking pics of his gf and the guy i’m dating liked the pic.... so if he thinks that’s the way to be then why does he not do this for me at alllllll but likes all kinds of other females pics?

if i am interested in a girl i dont "like" her pics so she doesnt think i'm too into her and get weirded out.

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

I have contr-question to you.

Why are you posting pics when you are dating man? Are you getting off of people liking your pics?

And to your question...him liking others pics and not liking yours could be ton of reasons...

And none of them is going to be pleasant for you to hear.

who doesn’t post new profile pics or the occasional selfie ? it’s not like it’s nude pics or anything close and he posts pics too

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Posted by trina__louise

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

I have contr-question to you.

Why are you posting pics when you are dating man? Are you getting off of people liking your pics?

And to your question...him liking others pics and not liking yours could be ton of reasons...

And none of them is going to be pleasant for you to hear.

who doesn’t post new profile pics or the occasional selfie ? it’s not like it’s nude pics or anything close and he posts pics too

You don’t sound like you talking about nothing ‘occasionally’.

You sound like you have a gallery of 400 of your pics that you are updating hourly.

Because if you had your pic for a week at least - you wouldn’t have this question!

Only pic junkies made posts like yours.

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😂😂😂😂 ohhh my troll elsewhere and seek help

Maybe other guys are liking your pics and he figures he doesn't want to be "just another one of them"?

I rarely like my gfs pics, that's for the bloodhounds. I'm the one fucking her.

Treat em mean, keep em keen.

smh. I cant hide how I feel about these here posts.

As long as you "like" your own pics (as in have pride over them, not physically pushing the like button), who cares who gives you the approval or not. If he tells you, you are pretty to your face, that's what counts.

millennials.

He probably doesn't think you're very photogenic.

Post a revealing, seductive picture that he wouldn’t approve of next time because fuck what he thinks but humor yourself with his reaction

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II

Maybe other guys are liking your pics and he figures he doesn't want to be "just another one of them"?

I rarely like my gfs pics, that's for the bloodhounds. I'm the one fucking her.

Best answer!!

Your Virgo is reading the comment sections under your photos!

Dont worry if he doesnt click the like button on yours but likes tons of others. Its easy to click like on trivial pictures of people he cant reach. But clicking yours, would be a different ballgame. Cause that would mean, exposure for being with you. He's playing it cool, calm, collected. But do know, HE'LL BE READING ALL THE COMMENTS! 😂😂 They are low key possesive and very curious, seeing if there are other possible predators hunting you. And your way of commenting on those comments, can change things around fast. So be aware of that.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Treat em mean, keep em keen.

I bet you got your bf whipped to like ALL your pictures 🙄

Don't be your gfs fanboy! I always find it weird when couples like and comment on eachother on social media, 100% compensating for something missing in their relatiinship. It just looks sad and desperate and insecure af

Posted by PiscesGal76

Your Virgo is reading the comment sections under your photos!

Dont worry if he doesnt click the like button on yours but likes tons of others. Its easy to click like on trivial pictures of people he cant reach. But clicking yours, would be a different ballgame. Cause that would mean, exposure for being with you. He's playing it cool, calm, collected. But do know, HE'LL BE READING ALL THE COMMENTS! 😂😂 They are low key possesive and very curious, seeing if there are other possible predators hunting you. And your way of commenting on those comments, can change things around fast. So be aware of that.

thank you for being so nice with your answer everyone else is mostly being so rude 😢 I do hope you’re right! his last relationship he reacted to most of her pics, and she ended up cheating on him with his best friend.... i feel he has some issues with diving all in too fast with me because of his past and is playing it cool, we haven’t made it official yet but we’ve talked about things... I wish i could express to him that it makes me feel kind of unimportant or like he is being dismissive somehow but at the same time if he is still involved with me and only me at this time then that counts for something... i wouldn’t want him to see me as making a big deal over something so trivial but it really does bother me lol

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Treat em mean, keep em keen.

I bet you got your bf whipped to like ALL your pictures 🙄

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My bf doesn’t have sm. Pay up

If he’s liking other chicks’ pics, but not yours, you’re a placeholder. People reveal themselves through their actions. I know this behaviour because my former friends who were players or serial monogamists with series of placeholder r/l did this shit.

If you’re exclusively dating, he shouldn’t be pressing like on selfies of thirsties. Gotta have self-restraint unless it’s mutually agreed between the two of you that it’s acceptable behaviour. I swear people are just ridiculous with their social media usage. No tact.

a man who likes all ur photos has no life. it's not what u want

but liking then unliking probably means he's trying to mindfuck u

do you really want that stress in your life? look at you, all stressed

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Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II

Posted by LadyNeptune

Treat em mean, keep em keen.

I bet you got your bf whipped to like ALL your pictures 🙄

My bf doesn’t have sm. Pay up

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I bet that's his way of dealing with that 😆

Posted by trina__louise

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

I have contr-question to you.

Why are you posting pics when you are dating man? Are you getting off of people liking your pics?

And to your question...him liking others pics and not liking yours could be ton of reasons...

And none of them is going to be pleasant for you to hear.

who doesn’t post new profile pics or the occasional selfie ? it’s not like it’s nude pics or anything close and he posts pics too

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Hmm, let's see when's the last time i did that... 🤔

"Saturday, May 25, 2013"

Facts speak for themselves (: people like me... that's who).

Because he already has you. It sucks but seems like guys only like the chase.

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II

Don't be your gfs fanboy! I always find it weird when couples like and comment on eachother on social media, 100% compensating for something missing in their relatiinship. It just looks sad and desperate and insecure af

I think the main issue is her partner liking other girls pics over and over. I am sure it will bother a guy too if his gf did that?

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Because he already has you. It sucks but seems like guys only like the chase.

They’re both single

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But they are dating, so it is normal for her to feel jealous if he ignores her pics and likes other girls pics I think.

Posted by SaintAmour

Two words, who cares? Maybe he doesn't want to seem creepy or like he's stalking your accs.

he likes his ex’s pics, girls he’s dated, girls who dawn over him, etc etc.... it’s just hurtful tbh... not enough to throw away what we have but still...

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Posted by PeakSoy

Posted by puhleeze

Because he already has you. It sucks but seems like guys only like the chase.

They’re both single

But they are dating, so it is normal for her to feel jealous if he ignores her pics and likes other girls pics I think.

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yes you’re absolutely right it is hurtful too because he likes his ex’s pics, ppl he’s dated, girls he barely knows...EVERYBODYS.... except mine 😕 it doesn’t hurt my feelings and i’m so confused as to why people in this thread think it shouldn’t

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Posted by trina__louise

Posted by SaintAmour

Two words, who cares? Maybe he doesn't want to seem creepy or like he's stalking your accs.

he likes his ex’s pics, girls he’s dated, girls who dawn over him, etc etc.... it’s just hurtful tbh... not enough to throw away what we have but still...

He likes his ex's pics? And you STILL care about him? GIRL! 😂

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I’m a pisces and have a tendency to be over sensitive and read into things too much so i’m really trying not to but yeah it’s really hurtful...

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Posted by puhleeze

Because he already has you. It sucks but seems like guys only like the chase.

They’re both single

But they are dating, so it is normal for her to feel jealous if he ignores her pics and likes other girls pics I think.

yes you’re absolutely right it is hurtful too because he likes his ex’s pics, ppl he’s dated, girls he barely knows...EVERYBODYS.... except mine 😕 it doesn’t hurt my feelings and i’m so confused as to why people in this thread think it shouldn’t

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I get it. Maybe you should start ignoring him online, if you are not doing so already. But more importantly, do you think he is serious about you? Do you trust him otherwise? You need to think about that and move forward.

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Posted by trina__louise a few times he’s likes my pic then unlikes it soon after....

Wtf LOL

Come to think of it, this is actually petty and spiteful. Are you 'liking' other men's photos?

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Nope... when my attention is on someone it’s on that person only

Posted by trina__louise

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Posted by puhleeze

Because he already has you. It sucks but seems like guys only like the chase.

They’re both single

But they are dating, so it is normal for her to feel jealous if he ignores her pics and likes other girls pics I think.

yes you’re absolutely right it is hurtful too because he likes his ex’s pics, ppl he’s dated, girls he barely knows...EVERYBODYS.... except mine 😕 it doesn’t hurt my feelings and i’m so confused as to why people in this thread think it shouldn’t

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Don't be confused...many people don't have the patience to actually think before they write...

The fact that he IS active on social media and likes pics of anyone BUT YOU it is hurtful. It means that he doesn't want to be associated with you on that media, for whatever reasons. Do you go out on dates, hold hands in public? If yes, maybe there is someone on that social media that he tries to hide you from. Do you know that exes can actually figure out who the new girl is, based on something as inconspicuous as novelty and 'likes"?

Why don't you ask him face to face (but without answering your own question for him)?

Are you available to him? Maybe he thinks he's already got you so there's no need to "like" your pictures. Unless hes trying to make friends through social media purely with "likes". You could be shady Af and create an account with a sexy picture and see if he catches the bait. I don't condone lying....for myself 😅 it sounds like he doesn't validate you in other ways.

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Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II

Don't be your gfs fanboy! I always find it weird when couples like and comment on eachother on social media, 100% compensating for something missing in their relatiinship. It just looks sad and desperate and insecure af

I think the main issue is her partner liking other girls pics over and over. I am sure it will bother a guy too if his gf did that?

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I like other girl's pictures too, girls I know IRL. They like my stuff too, it's nothing romantic or sexual altough one can acknowledge someone of the opposite sex looks good or is having a smexy pic despite being in a relationship.. as one does with dudebro's when they post killer stuff. It's more like acknowledgement , you acknowledge ppl you like and interact with IRL, it's not like flirting or having any other purpose with it.

Maybe it's just that Europeans are less dramatic I dunno lol

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Posted by SaintAmour

Two words, who cares? Maybe he doesn't want to seem creepy or like he's stalking your accs.

he likes his ex’s pics, girls he’s dated, girls who dawn over him, etc etc.... it’s just hurtful tbh... not enough to throw away what we have but still...

He likes his ex's pics? And you STILL care about him? GIRL! 😂

I’m a pisces and have a tendency to be over sensitive and read into things too much so i’m really trying not to but yeah it’s really hurtful...

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why are you gaslighting yourself

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Posted by PiscesGal76

Your Virgo is reading the comment sections under your photos!

Dont worry if he doesnt click the like button on yours but likes tons of others. Its easy to click like on trivial pictures of people he cant reach. But clicking yours, would be a different ballgame. Cause that would mean, exposure for being with you. He's playing it cool, calm, collected. But do know, HE'LL BE READING ALL THE COMMENTS! 😂😂 They are low key possesive and very curious, seeing if there are other possible predators hunting you. And your way of commenting on those comments, can change things around fast. So be aware of that.

thank you for being so nice with your answer everyone else is mostly being so rude 😢 I do hope you’re right! his last relationship he reacted to most of her pics, and she ended up cheating on him with his best friend.... i feel he has some issues with diving all in too fast with me because of his past and is playing it cool, we haven’t made it official yet but we’ve talked about things... I wish i could express to him that it makes me feel kind of unimportant or like he is being dismissive somehow but at the same time if he is still involved with me and only me at this time then that counts for something... i wouldn’t want him to see me as making a big deal over something so trivial but it really does bother me lol

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I fully get that. But in the end, it matters how he is when he is around you in person. The relationship shouldnt be based on how often he likes your online content. We all know and do, click likes when we're scrolling. Often we click without even thinking about it.

Do keep in mind that Earth signs, also they can appear very down to earth, his past experience will have had its affect on him and they cant easily let go of the emotions that came with it. On the outside they wont show that much but inside it can fester. Doesnt mean they'll judge next relationships for it but it will daunt them from time to time. Sometimes they can he harsh towards their new partner due to old experiences. Thats when you let them know, in a non judging way... listen, I aknowledge your past experiences but do keep in mind, I'm not that person and its not fair to lay that on me. They rather have you straight to the point and honest, than not saying or tip toeing...

This hurts your feelings? 😑

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Posted by SaintAmour

Two words, who cares? Maybe he doesn't want to seem creepy or like he's stalking your accs.

he likes his ex’s pics, girls he’s dated, girls who dawn over him, etc etc.... it’s just hurtful tbh... not enough to throw away what we have but still...

He likes his ex's pics? And you STILL care about him? GIRL! 😂

I’m a pisces and have a tendency to be over sensitive and read into things too much so i’m really trying not to but yeah it’s really hurtful...

why are you gaslighting yourself

1. Teenager

2. Needy

3. Narcissistic

4. Self esteem low etc.

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