Worst experience of being cheated on

What were your star signs? How long were you together? How did you find out? Did you get over it ok? Were you shocked how sneaky they were?

Posted by ClairDeLune

Mine cancer, his Gemini

Give or take 9 years

He had the guts to tell me

No, because we were talking about marriage at that time.

I'm fortunate he was honest enough to tell me

Isn't it crazy how people can say one thing and be doing completely the opposite. Because of this I just take things by the actions not the words x

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Posted by ClairDeLune

Mine cancer, his Gemini

Give or take 9 years

He had the guts to tell me

No, because we were talking about marriage at that time.

I'm fortunate he was honest enough to tell me

Isn't it crazy how people can say one thing and be doing completely the opposite. Because of this I just take things by the actions not the words x

Sadly true, just hurt the most because I gave him numerous times to take a break from our relationship if he wanted to go see other women. All the time saying he wanted only me and while I was starting to drop my guard and be ready for the idea of a commitment, that happened. My scorpio moon and aries rising was ready to dish him revenge or put him down in the worst way possible. All the while my cancer sun just felt ripped apart.....

So in the end it sucked....

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That's horrible hun. What ever ended up happening to him?

Have you moved on in the end?

I'm sure you find it hard to trust now x

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What were your star signs? How long were you together? How did you find out? Did you get over it ok? Were you shocked how sneaky they were?

Are you having issues with Aries? 🤷‍♀️

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What were your star signs? How long were you together? How did you find out? Did you get over it ok? Were you shocked how sneaky they were?

Are you having issues with Aries? 🤷‍♀️

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What were your star signs? How long were you together? How did you find out? Did you get over it ok? Were you shocked how sneaky they were?

Are you having issues with Aries? 🤷‍♀️

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No not now. I have a fantastic guy also Aries but someone in my past. I guess unanswered questions that sometimes surface. I'm over it really but this site I guess made me overthink lol

Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

I'm a cancer.

He was an aries.

We were together for two years.

I found out by going through his emails. I let him use my computer when I was out of town. He never logged out of his email and when I was about to log out for him, I saw craigslist and dating site messages.

Uhm, yeah! I think I did. I still have trust issues to this day, but, I'm working on it

Yes- he was sneaky. I would have not known unless I saw his emails. His behavior never changed or anything

What was his moon sign if you know?

Crazy how they can be like that.

Did he admit it or still deny?

How do men think they’ll get away with it as women’s intuition being as sharp as it is?

Lol

Posted by MyStarsShine

How do men think they’ll get away with it as women’s intuition being as sharp as it is?

Lol

I know but if they want it badly enough they will go for it no matter the risk I guess. Maybe they think they are smart enough to outwit us. Who knows.

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How do men think they’ll get away with it as women’s intuition being as sharp as it is?

Lol

I know but if they want it badly enough they will go for it no matter the risk I guess. Maybe they think they are smart enough to outwit us. Who knows.

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I find it hilarious that anyone can think they're invincible

Few are strong enough to be courageous...

Posted by Sunmoonrising

What were your star signs? How long were you together? How did you find out? Did you get over it ok? Were you shocked how sneaky they were?

Mine Gemini, his Libra

15yrs total.. I started having dreams and then I found a text message. It took years to really get over it, but it took a huge toll initially on my self esteem and now I'm working on trusting men, again.

Yes, it is shocking to see how someone could come off so sweet could be lying to my face for years. I will never know if anything he said was true bc of it.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

How do men think they’ll get away with it as women’s intuition being as sharp as it is?

Lol

I know but if they want it badly enough they will go for it no matter the risk I guess. Maybe they think they are smart enough to outwit us. Who knows.

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We know we got the tools to unlock even the most difficult hearts. Just being honest

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What were your star signs? How long were you together? How did you find out? Did you get over it ok? Were you shocked how sneaky they were?

Mine Gemini, his Libra

15yrs total.. I started having dreams and then I found a text message. It took years to really get over it, but it took a huge toll initially on my self esteem and now I'm working on trusting men, again.

Yes, it is shocking to see how someone could come off so sweet could be lying to my face for years. I will never know if anything he said was true bc of it.

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I'm sorry you had that horrible experience. Looking back could you see any signs xx

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Posted by Sunmoonrising

What were your star signs? How long were you together? How did you find out? Did you get over it ok? Were you shocked how sneaky they were?

Mine Gemini, his Libra

15yrs total.. I started having dreams and then I found a text message. It took years to really get over it, but it took a huge toll initially on my self esteem and now I'm working on trusting men, again.

Yes, it is shocking to see how someone could come off so sweet could be lying to my face for years. I will never know if anything he said was true bc of it.

I'm sorry you had that horrible experience. Looking back could you see any signs xx

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Yes, I just was too naive and believed that our marriage and family was sacred to him. I saw a lot of good in him bc of my own heart. I struggle still with this with people who have really screwed me over. I have a feeling it's something to do with my Neptune in opposition to my mercury. Idk..

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Posted by Sunmoonrising

What were your star signs? How long were you together? How did you find out? Did you get over it ok? Were you shocked how sneaky they were?

Mine Gemini, his Libra

15yrs total.. I started having dreams and then I found a text message. It took years to really get over it, but it took a huge toll initially on my self esteem and now I'm working on trusting men, again.

Yes, it is shocking to see how someone could come off so sweet could be lying to my face for years. I will never know if anything he said was true bc of it.

I'm sorry you had that horrible experience. Looking back could you see any signs xx

Yes, I just was too naive and believed that our marriage and family was sacred to him. I saw a lot of good in him bc of my own heart. I struggle still with this with people who have really screwed me over. I have a feeling it's something to do with my Neptune in opposition to my mercury. Idk..

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Also your venus in cancer is a very family orientated card too.

Did he end up with the marriage wrecker or was he lying to her too xx

What signs did you see?

I've known alot of sneaky picses too mainly sun sign but I guess it could work for moon sign too. Horrible and huge manipulators. I actually won't date a picses because of it as swallow as it sounds x

Posted by misslibrascorpio

Me Libra/ Him Cancer

Together for 1 year and 2 months

He became sloppy with his secrets and lies. When we had a bad fall out back in March he took this girl from his past out to a basketball game and how I found out was because in a previous fight I threw my phone in some bushes by a freeway off ramp and so I needed a replacement phone and he gave me his old iPhone. All his apps where still logged into his accounts. I got an Uber notification that he got an Uber from this address to the staple center. Come to find out it was the address of this girl who he had sex with in the past. He denied being with her while at the game and he never made it home. I showed up at his house the next morning waiting for him to come home and he didn't want to get confronted. After that he said he never slept with her and she also claimed she never slept with him while we where together. I never got a clear answer. After that I found girls he would send flirty emojis to on social media. A girl even sent him a booty pic for his birthday, this was just a couple of weeks ago. I found him texting a girl he met at a bar, he said he was in bed that night but completely lied and was out meeting girls.

When I first me him I was fresh out of my long term relationship of 14 years and 1 baby. I was not ready to jump into something new but I wanted this cancer guy so bad. Two months into my new relationship I made the mistake of letting my emotions get the best of me and I slept with my kids dad. See my kids dad would still come around and it was hard when I left and broke my family. I knew I was not in love with my kids dad, it was more like nostalgia and not emotionally detached all the way, I was with him for 14 years. When my kids dad found out about my new relationship he went and contacted him and told him what happened. My ex cancer guy was hurt but we came together and I remember the night he looked at me and said he forgave me. Never did I think after that things would get worse. He would accuse me of cheating, talking to other men. He didn't like me posting certain photos and then I just got rid of social media all together. The accusations got worse, he became verbally abusive and then physically when he was drunk. All while he would act like nothing happened and he brushed it off.

I have been in a depression but I am trying to find ways to heal and move forward.

Listen hun..the bloke is awful and the second he hurt you it was time to go.

He was accusing you all the time because it was him doing it all along. It's a technique cheaters use.

Look after your baby, keep your life on track and be grateful you got out from that awful man. You'll be ok. Just takes time. X

gemini but i also cheated emotionally and it ruined the relationship so much that it killed off most of the feeling i had with him. i would never be myself around him, always irritable and moody. we did try to make it work but it was the same reoccuring issue . i think i read somewhere doing something you know doesn't work twice is foolish but multiple times and expecting different results is insanity. now i feel nothing, just numb to the pain.. which i've felt before the first and second break up) but now its gone

Lol I always get cheated on 😅

But my worst was my most recent ex

I’m a Taurus and so was he

We were together on and off for 4 years.

I met him thru his brother (his bro was my best friend)

Fast forward to 2017 his bro died suddenly

His bro was his best friend

I was there for him and his whole fam the whole time. Took off work for a week and a half to be by their side, took them wherever they needed to go, bought them food everyday, put money into the funeral, helped out as much as I could for the funeral.

Little did I know he was cheating on me with his Virgo ex the entire time. Even had the nerve to bring her around during that time without my knowledge. I caught them together and I slapped the shit out of him and went straight to his house to grab all my shit. I confronted his mom too and asked how she could do that to me after all I did for them.

Oh well, lesson learned 🤷🏻‍♀️ Him and his fam are dead to me now.

I was actually on DXP when this all went down hahha

Funny cuz my Scorpio guy who I’m currently with always warned me about him lol

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What were your star signs? How long were you together? How did you find out? Did you get over it ok? Were you shocked how sneaky they were?

Mine Gemini, his Libra

15yrs total.. I started having dreams and then I found a text message. It took years to really get over it, but it took a huge toll initially on my self esteem and now I'm working on trusting men, again.

Yes, it is shocking to see how someone could come off so sweet could be lying to my face for years. I will never know if anything he said was true bc of it.

I'm sorry you had that horrible experience. Looking back could you see any signs xx

Yes, I just was too naive and believed that our marriage and family was sacred to him. I saw a lot of good in him bc of my own heart. I struggle still with this with people who have really screwed me over. I have a feeling it's something to do with my Neptune in opposition to my mercury. Idk..

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Neptune in 7th house can do that too.

Libra sun/Virgo moon

But years later I realised it was a karmic relationship.

I've never been cheated on, at least not to my knowledge. I also don't cheat, I just leave. I've been lied to though, and from there its only a short matter of time till I leave. Truth be told I've never dated a person long enough to really get cheated on. I see that type of shit in people from a mile away, and unfortunately I still see it in people that probably aren't cheaters in the first place. I find it hard to trust anyone.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

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What were your star signs? How long were you together? How did you find out? Did you get over it ok? Were you shocked how sneaky they were?

I’m a Scorpio, he’s a Capricorn.

we were together roughly 9 years when I first found out he cheated (found out in 2016) I left then came back and tried to work it out for a couple more years so we were together about 11 years in total.

No, I never got over it and don’t know that I ever will be. I’ve been cheated on before, but I have a son with this man so it was a little different this time. Feels like he cheated on/betrayed our whole family and it kills me everyday.

I don’t know that I was shocked at how sneaky he was but I do remember feeling the shock of feeling like I had been living a lie, and the confusion of not being able to tell the truth from a lie anymore.

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Also when you have a child with that person it is a horrendous deception.

Did you ever have any clues looking back?

You will be ok just takes time x

Some of the heart ache people have to gontjroygh is awful..I've read every post and it still amazes me how 2 faced and sneaky people can be. X

Posted by Sunmoonrising

What were your star signs? How long were you together? How did you find out? Did you get over it ok? Were you shocked how sneaky they were?

Me - Taurus. Him Virgo Sun & Moon. Together a year. He and I and his friend were going to a sports event one night. His friend was driving and suddenly pulled up in front of some house. A girl came out and got in the car. I thought it was his friend's date. She got in the back seat. My bf left me in the front seat with his friend and got in the back seat with this girl. Then they started kissing and giggling. His friend kept driving but I got the picture fast and told his friend to pull over and let me out, which he did. Men are shameless, but some Virgo men are the worst. So this guy's cheating was pretty obvious. I left and was not sorry.

Posted by ClairDeLune

Mine cancer, his Gemini

Give or take 9 years

He had the guts to tell me

No, because we were talking about marriage at that time.

I'm fortunate he was honest enough to tell me

Claire, I am sorry

I am thinking tho: is it really "he had the guts to tell me" and "was honest enough" a good thing?

I mean, if you want someone and you made a serious mistake like this, why to burden the other person with your weakness? to shift the responsibility to the other person to decide if they forgive? or to get out of a situation they dont really want?

i am always confused when some people think its brave to confess to infidelity if they want to continue with their relationships...

would I want to know the truth? of course

I question the motiovation of the so-called "gut and honest" person as to why they tell? I think its weakness to tell

just imho