@Capri___unicorn
7 Years
My sister likes my ex boyfriend
Understanding Sister and Friend Flirting with Your Ex
It is common for family and friends to seek attention from your partners, especially if they find them attractive. Setting clear boundaries and communicating openly about your feelings can help prevent conflicts. Men should also be more explicit about their disinterest to avoid misunderstandings. Respect and honesty are key to maintaining healthy relationships and boundaries.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Hasn’t heard of the girl code, clearly.
Not even girl code, family code ffs.
*A lot of my female friends try to flirt with guys I have been involved with*
well maybe you have good tastes and the looks to get away with it, your ugly hoes friends probably don't get approached by hot guys so they get all warn up when your mens get close.
*Do the men need to be more clear that they’re not interested?*
yes, but most wont do it because they like the free attention, an a possible hook up material.
Well this is gross. Why not have a talk with your sister and let her know that incest is a real thing and she shouldn’t be talking to him or wondering what your pussssey taste like coming from his mouth.
I would put it in words as disgustingly possible just to let her know that it’s NOT cool.
He’s an ex so who cares right? That’s what I tell myself. Except this was going on even before we broke up. Before my ex and I were officially dating we knew each other for years. One day my sister mentioned that she saw this guy that she found really attractive. The way she was describing him was as if she wanted to sleep with him. She said his name and I didn’t really think to say anything because at that time he and I would flirt heavily but we never really created anything solid. Fast forward to the year we become official and she meets him for the first time at a museum exhibit. He’s also there with his friends. Instead of walking with me, she decides to follow him around. He mentions how awkward it is and I tell him that she has a crush on him. It’s obvious. Well last week he called to talk to me about some money he owed me (we had a business together) and she literally snatched the phone from me and proceeds to try to engage in playful banter. My ex becomes noticeably annoyed and asks her to stop and give me the phone. She catches an attitude with me saying “ well I won’t disrupt your little relationship anymore. I hate him anyway” she storms out of the house and we haven’t spoke since. I don’t ever think I really need advice. Overall I’ve just noticed that she tends to seek out attention from men im dating. This is the worst I’ve ever seen. My ex is a Scorpio ( he radiates sexual energy), he’s extremely well off (she’s a bit of a gold digger), and he’s extremely attractive. If he wasn’t a cheater I’d still be with his hoe ass. I also noticed that it’s not just specific to her. A lot of my female friends try to flirt with guys I have been involved with. Do I have to say “bitch calm the fuck down b4 I beat ya ass”? Do the men need to be more clear that they’re not interested? I mean wtf do u do
Yes, I never get why some girls have this mentality of even though I am with someone I can't see my single girl friend with some nice guy x(
You have good taste in men. It happens to dude's too. Don't react. Just observe.
That’s true. My ex had to check one of his boys publicly for flirting with me. I try my best to not be bothered since I have experienced it on the opposite end.
The only solution I see here is pushing her off a cliff
Well this is gross. Why not have a talk with your sister and let her know that incest is a real thing and she shouldn’t be talking to him or wondering what your pussssey taste like coming from his mouth.
I would put it in words as disgustingly possible just to let her know that it’s NOT cool.
😂😂😂
Umm, your sister is an f***tard 🤦 Following boys around due to a crush? Lame. It's apparent she's been guilty of crushing on more than one of your boyfriend's. Why have you continued to have your bfs around your sister or your girlfriend's? I think you're being quite naive. SMH. This issue could've easily been resolved: STOP bring the men your banging around HUNGRY BIRDS.
Is it just me, or would it feel totally incestious to fuck someone, that was also i side your sister—??
Even friends I'm like nah thanks man.
Jelus manlets
Look who’s looking quite sexy in his new profile pic!! 😍😍😍😍 Very Nice!
My ex is a Scorpio ( he radiates sexual energy), he’s extremely well off (she’s a bit of a gold digger), and he’s extremely attractive.
Not meaning to be an asshole but Cap women usually go after accomplished men. So, the above would be a case of pot, kettle, black...
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Are Cap men the same? Do Caps date each other?
You have good taste in men. It happens to dude's too. Don't react. Just observe.
That’s true. My ex had to check one of his boys publicly for flirting with me. I try my best to not be bothered since I have experienced it on the opposite end.
His boy was probably not even flirting. Scorpio dude's get dumb jealous! I don't like being around them and their women or even close friends.
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This is lies. If you knew caps you’d know we like a challenge. SOME, not all, like a bit of a challenge. If he’s already stable what’s the point. I like my men a little hard to wrangle. And we have our own money, I don’t need my man to have it too but it’s appreciated if he does
My ex is a Scorpio ( he radiates sexual energy), he’s extremely well off (she’s a bit of a gold digger), and he’s extremely attractive.
Not meaning to be an asshole but Cap women usually go after accomplished men. So, the above would be a case of pot, kettle, black...
Are Cap men the same? Do Caps date each other?
I think the men are more flexible because of traditional gender roles, but some will still prefer to remain the providers.
I'd never date a Cap woman again. They're all shameless users, even those who don't realise it...
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Oh wow.
My lesbian boss is with a Capricorn women but they are in traditional roles. She (Pisces) works and the Capricorn cooks and cleans and is super frugal with the money. But she makes my bosses lunches and dinners and my boss will actually call her and ask her if she did her chores today. (Leo Moon)
Smh. I could never be a kept women 🤣🤣🤣
But the Capricorn knows how nosy my boss is and clears her browser history on a daily basis as well. They go pretty well together lol.
My ex is a Scorpio ( he radiates sexual energy), he’s extremely well off (she’s a bit of a gold digger), and he’s extremely attractive.
Not meaning to be an asshole but Cap women usually go after accomplished men. So, the above would be a case of pot, kettle, black...
Are Cap men the same? Do Caps date each other?
I think the men are more flexible because of traditional gender roles, but some will still prefer to remain the providers.
I'd never date a Cap woman again. They're all shameless users, even those who don't realise it...
Oh wow.
My lesbian boss is with a Capricorn women but they are in traditional roles. She (Pisces) works and the Capricorn cooks and cleans and is super frugal with the money. But she makes my bosses lunches and dinners and my boss will actually call her and ask her if she did her chores today. (Leo Moon)
Smh. I could never be a kept women 🤣🤣🤣
But the Capricorn knows how nosy my boss is and clears her browser history on a daily basis as well. They go pretty well together lol.
What’s caps moon
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I have to ask. I only know my boss’s placements because I work with her. I’ll ask her wife’s date of birth on Monday and try and see what Moon it comes up with
karma will work its way with those nosey girls
karma will work its way with those nosey girls
I’m thinking maybe op was this in a past life
Odd it keeps happening with sister n friends
Dig deep what is the cycle that needs to be broken or lesson
Maybe you need to stop
Being non chalant n say it’s not acceptable!
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Idk about the past life business and idk how much I believe in that considering it implies that I have to suffer for some shit I don’t even remember doing from way back when I died b4 lol but I can agree with the nonchalant thing
The only solution I see here is pushing her off a cliff
Cliff is funny name...
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He’s an ex so who cares right? That’s what I tell myself. Except this was going on even before we broke up. Before my ex and I were officially dating we knew each other for years. One day my sister mentioned that she saw this guy that she found really attractive. The way she was describing him was as if she wanted to sleep with him. She said his name and I didn’t really think to say anything because at that time he and I would flirt heavily but we never really created anything solid. Fast forward to the year we become official and she meets him for the first time at a museum exhibit. He’s also there with his friends. Instead of walking with me, she decides to follow him around. He mentions how awkward it is and I tell him that she has a crush on him. It’s obvious. Well last week he called to talk to me about some money he owed me (we had a business together) and she literally snatched the phone from me and proceeds to try to engage in playful banter. My ex becomes noticeably annoyed and asks her to stop and give me the phone. She catches an attitude with me saying “ well I won’t disrupt your little relationship anymore. I hate him anyway” she storms out of the house and we haven’t spoke since. I don’t ever think I really need advice. Overall I’ve just noticed that she tends to seek out attention from men im dating. This is the worst I’ve ever seen. My ex is a Scorpio ( he radiates sexual energy), he’s extremely well off (she’s a bit of a gold digger), and he’s extremely attractive. If he wasn’t a cheater I’d still be with his hoe ass. I also noticed that it’s not just specific to her. A lot of my female friends try to flirt with guys I have been involved with. Do I have to say “bitch calm the fuck down b4 I beat ya ass”? Do the men need to be more clear that they’re not interested? I mean wtf do u do